Bernard Festenstein Obituary

Caryl--I just heard about Bernie's passing away and wanted to express my deepest sympathy to you. Much love from your cousin Arthur

Bernie – our dear volunteer, we are deeply saddened by your unexpected departure. You have touched the lives of many patients, fellow volunteers and staff at Lutheran General Hospital. We will miss your smile, your kindness, your helping hand… We will miss hearing about your grandchildren – you were such a proud grandpa always carrying the most up to date pictures of your little ones… Rest in peace our friend.

Our deepest sympathies to Bernie’s family.

Dear Caryl and family David and I were sad to hear about Bernie. We remember our Saugatauk days with your family fondly Our thoughts are with all of you. Barbara and David Sacks

We were sorry to hear of Bernie's passing. We hope that your memories will help to comfort all of you now. Our thoughts, and sympathies are with all of you. Fondly, Abe & Sue Drayer

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Caryl,Rob and Allie,
I cannot express how deeply this has
impacted my heart..not only can I feel the pain for you Caryl (having lost Perry), but, Rob and Allie, I too, lost my Dad .
Bernie was so very special....my husband and I were at LGH not too long ago and had the chance to talk briefly;he so proudly shared the pics of his "pride and joy" as he put it.
Rob, the boys look just like you when you were their age..what a
legacy!
My memories of Bernie are special
and will always remember his kindness, great disposition and
wonderful sense of humor. He
will be missed.
All our love and condolences..
Judy (Barkin) and Len Dettmer

Dear Caryl, Rob, Al, and Sue,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Phyllis and Harvey Shapps

To Bernie's family,

I volunteered with Bernie at Lutheran General Hospital . He will be missed . He always talked about how he loved his family. Sorry, I can't make the services. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Sue Mangino

The heartbreaking news that my friend Bernie will no longer be with us is a reality that I cannot even begin to process. He was a one of a kind guy who gave his time volunteering, making wonderful wooden items, and usually seen working on his newest crossword puzzle.
His true love for Caryl and his family was undeniable. His true treasures were his grandsons and glowed as he reached for his wallet whenever he had a new picture; not to mention the pride he exuded while wearing his “World Greatest Grandpa” sweatshirt.
I love Bernie not only for the kindness he showed me but more so for the man he was.
My heart and prayers go out to his family and many friends who will miss him with such sorrow. I know there are no words that can comfort you at this time but knowing that he had such love and affection for those he was close to, and the fondness for him by so many, might help you through this painfully, difficult time. My love to you, Caryl.
I love ya, Bernie. I miss you. xo

Dear Caryl,
Bernie was a kind & gently soul who will be missed by all. Our condolences to you and your family. We wish we could be with you at this time but please know that our thoughts & prayers are with you always.
Love, Marcy & Marty

Dear Caryl,

Despite never meeting Bernie, I knew through your conversation and mannerisms just how much you truly loved him.

My heartfelt prayers are with you and your family.

Chris Daniels

Dear Caryl, Robert and Allen; Sue and Family,
Our sincerest sympathy to you in the passing and loss of your dear
Bernard. May your wonderful memories of him bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Sue and Ron Halick

Dear Caryl[My Second Mother]Allen and Rob: I am really going to miss Bernie. He was such a kind, loving and sweet Man who always brought Joy, and Laughter to everyone. It was always a great time on Monday nights having dinner with you. You always made me laugh and smile. I will truly miss that. Allen, you are just like your Father and he lives on in you. You are the kindest Man ever with a heart of gold and so much love to give. I hope that your pain and sadness will ease soon. Your whole Family is in my prayers and thoughts. I am always here for you. I love everyone very, very much. Love, Jennifer

Dear Caryl, Allen and Family:

I only had the privilege of knowing Bernie for a short time, but he was a kind and gentle man. He was certainly proud of his boys and his grandchildren. Allen is such an example of how loving and funny is father was. I am so sorry for your loss. May all the wonderful memories you carry in your heart of Bernie help you through this difficult time. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Peace and love to you.

Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. May you find comfort and strength in your memories.

Bernie, you were a great man & will truly be missed by so many, especially us. You were always a source of humor for us, especially when it came to Al. Since I have been friends with Al for over 25 years, I have come to think of his family as an extended part of my family, which includes you. I hope that your family can take comfort in knowing that you touched so many people. Our condolences are with them.

Dear Caryl and Family,
My deepest sympathy for your tragic loss. If there is anything I can do for you please call. God bless you in your time of sorrow.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We've lost a great friend and neighbor from Washington Street

dad i am going to really miss you . Now i don't have anyone to watch movies with

Our deepest condolence in the passing, is extended to the family of Bernard Festenstein.
former Chicagoans
Rick Goldman of Phoenix AZ
Nara & James Dedrick Phoenix, AZ
Rachel & Guillermo Castillo Atlanta. GA
Ronald & June Goldman Scottsdale, AZ.

bernie, how can it be? I miss you so.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.