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Jimmy Z Zawiski
May 28, 2012
Dear Jim and Judy,
Words can't express our sorrow for your loss.
We've kept you and your family in our prayers, and entered you in our Church's Prayer circle of more than 500 people who have been praying for you daily at Willow Creek, and they will continue for a whole month.
I got some coaching from their pastoral care, and am happy to support you and offer their resources whenever you are ready.
This is going to take some time.
We Love You Very Much,
Jimmy Z & Maureen
Danny Young
May 12, 2012
Dear Jim, Judy, Chris, and Allie,
I'm sorry for your loss...tom was an awesome person to be around...he will be missed dearly,
May 11, 2012
To the Sarwark Family,
We were so sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your wonderful son and brother Tom. Words cannot adequately convey our sympathy at such a sad, difficult time. We will keep Tom and all of your family in our thoughts and prayers. We also appreciate Tom's service to our country.
Thomas & Rosemary Bellaire, Rob & John
Ruth Novak
May 10, 2012
Dear Judy, Allie, and family, - I was so sorry to hear of your families tragic loss. My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.
May 10, 2012
Dear Jim and Judy, We can take solace in the fact he is with God. My prayers and thoughts are with you. I have many fond memories of my time with your family. Sincerely, Gloria Schabb
May 10, 2012
Dear Jim and wife, We can have solace that he is with God. My prayers are with you. I have fine memories of my childhood with your family. Love to all and all my prayers. Sincerely, Gloria Schabb
Barry Walsh
May 10, 2012
Dear Jim and Judy,
My heart is heavy for you both. You and your son are in my thoughts and prayers.
Herb and Pat Goetschius
May 9, 2012
Jim and Judy ,
Please accept our heartfelt sympathies and condolences on your loss. We wish we could be there to put our arms around you both . We will be praying for you and your family
Janet Mutter
May 9, 2012
Dear Judy & Family: I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Although it has been many years since our days at U of I and KAT, you have been on my mind since I heard this news yesterday. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ernie Perez
May 9, 2012
Jim, and family, No words can express the loss of a child. Rita and I are with heavy hearts. Stay strong my friend.
Ernie & Rita Perez.
Salle Huber
May 9, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about Tommie. I can still remember the snowy day that he and matt played on the snowhill behind your house. How proud you must be of his service to our country. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Salle Huber and family
Dave & Rosemarie Brenneman
May 8, 2012
Dear Jim, Judy, Chris and Ali,
We are so sorry and hurt for and with you. In your terrible grief we are praying for you all with love...
Dave and Rosemarie
Nicole Burr
May 8, 2012
Judy we are all so shocked and sorry to hear about your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Sauerberg
May 8, 2012
With deepest sympathy from our family.
Rose Manfredini
May 8, 2012
It is with a heavy heart that I send you my deepest sympathies. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Brian Harris
May 8, 2012
Judy, Jim, ChrIs and Allie,
We are so very sad about Tommy, it is impossible to imagine what you are going through. Our prayers are with you and Tommy was such a great playmate of our boys.
Brian, Carla, Ashley, Heather, Brian, Danny & Kevin Harris
Marlene Salata DeJovine
May 8, 2012
To the Sarwark Family,
My prayers and condolences to all of you. Just know that Tom hasn't left you - he's just with you in a different way. I will be thinking of you during this time.
Shelby Pixley
May 8, 2012
Jim and Judy
I was taken back by the loss of your son. My oldest son has just started to drive and I shared this tragic accident with him in hopes that he can learn how fragile life is. God bless and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Shelby and Amy Pixley
Jane Rinkenberger Kolar
May 8, 2012
I'm saddened to hear of your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.
May 8, 2012
Judy, Jim, Chris and Allie,
Our very deepest symapathy to all of you. We are so saddened to hear about Tommy. He is greatly missed.
Sent with love from Emily and Natalie Cain
Heather Harris
May 7, 2012
Sarwark Family,
It seems like just yesterday you were our neighbors. I have so many fond memoies with you all in them. Tommy grew up to be such a brave and honorable man. I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
May 7, 2012
Judy and Jim, I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Jayne Rediger Cuce
Nicholas Sarwark
May 7, 2012
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
Millie and Rick Wostratzky
May 7, 2012
Judy, Jim, Chris, and Allie,
We send you our deepest sympathy, and we'll keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Eva and Sven Ericsson
May 7, 2012
Dear Judy and Jim, Chris and Allison - our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
John McVicker
May 7, 2012
Jim and Judy, the McVicker family extends our deepest condolences to the entire Sarwark family. No parent, whether they are 20 or 100, should ever have to go through the unimaginable pain of burying a child. We cannot express enough how we feel.
John and Sandy McVicker
Bob & Kathy Weidner
May 7, 2012
Judy, Jim and family, we are with heavy hearts in mourning your loss and please know you have our deepest sympathy. We pray for God's grace and peace in comforting you.
Craig & Lorie Peterson
May 7, 2012
Jim: Please accept our deepest sympahty at this sad time. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Scott McNichols
May 7, 2012
Jim and Judy, I am very saddeded to hear of this news. Your friends here at McNichols Company are in prayer for you. We pray for the Lords grace to be on you. Blessings
Mark Zdeblick
May 7, 2012
Jim and Judy,
It is at times such as this that I feel the pain of distance more than any others. While I am not yet sure if my physical body will be able to attend the services over the next few days, be sure that my thoughts and prayers will be completely focused on you and your family during this difficult time.
Having lost a niece and a nephew over a span of four years in the recent past, I am acutely aware of your suffering. In fact, as I write this, I am reduced to tears. Courage, my dear friend, and Faith that your boy is in good Hands.
As an electrical engineer like Jim, eventually my grieving process led me to see the incredibly sad days you are now going through as “expanding my dynamic range of emotions”. While it took me years to see this, perhaps it will be some consolation that someday you may also learn to appreciate even the most mundane day – or even those once thought of as difficult – as definitely well above the new average.
May 7, 2012
Our thoughts and sympathy are with you.
Mike and Lynne Goldberg
Peter Whiting
May 7, 2012
Jim, Judy and family, you have our deepest sypathy and most sincere condolences at this saddest of times. You are all in our thoughts.
Peter and Carolyn Whiting
Jim & Chris Privoznik
May 7, 2012
Jim, Judy,Christopher & Ali:
Know for certain that we never lose the people we love even after they are no longer with us.
They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love will always be with us and leaves an indelible imprint in our memories.
We find comfort in knowing our lives have been made better and enriched by having shared their love.
With our Deepest Sympathies,
M. Smith
May 7, 2012
Please accept my deepest sympathies, there are no words powerful enough to express sorrow for your loss. However, even in the face of tragedy you can have hope. God will comfort you and give you peace at this critical time so do not let your hearts be troubled and rely on the God of comfort. (John 14:27) Love from God and those around you will help you through the days ahead as you begin to recover gradually from the pain.
Rosanne Byrne
May 7, 2012
Jim, Judy, Chris and Ali,
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time. Please accept our deepest sympathy!
Sincerely, The Byrne/ Lazzaretto Family
Lisa Hoffman
May 7, 2012
Sarwark Family,
Keeping your family in my thoughts. So sorry to hear about your loss. I have found memories of having Tom in my class at Gower.
Jim Rinkenberger
May 7, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know our prayers are with you both. Sincerely,
Jim and Marcia Rinkenberger

Krysta Privoznik
May 7, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of grief. I have such fond memories of Tommy, and the times we spent together at all the Cubs games, and I will never forget them. May you find courage and peace in the road ahead. Sincerely, Krysta Privoznik
Linda Korbus
May 7, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss! I have fond memories of Tom from math class.
What a fine young man!
Iwona Palka
May 7, 2012
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sheri McNamara
May 7, 2012
We are sending our deepest,deepest sympathies to the Sarwark family. May the wonderful memoirists of Tom comfort you in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Sincerely, Roy & Sheri McNamara (parents of Samantha Mc Namara)
Tammy Valley
May 7, 2012
We are so very sorry for your incredible loss. Please know that you are all in our prayers.
Tammy Valley & Donna Holland (Sam McNamara's Aunts)
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