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Thomas Sarwark Obituary

Sarwark, Thomas Michael Age 21, his life was taken away suddenly in an automobile accident on May 3, 2012. Loving son of James F. and Judy L. Sarwark. Devoted brother of Christopher J. Sarwark and Allison E. Sarwark. Cherished grandson of James C. and Domenica H. McDonald of Sparta, IL and the late Stanley F. and Dorothy J. Sarwark. Tom was enrolled as a freshman at Illinois State University at the time of his death. Two years prior to attending ISU, he served with the United States Army's Company F, 2nd Battallion, 19th Infantry, 198th Infantry Brigade. His rank was Private First Class. He was loved by many aunts, uncles, cousins and close friends and will be missed dearly by all. Visitation Tuesday May 8th from 3:00 to 8:00 pm at Adolf Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Ltd. 7000 S. Madison St; Willowbrook. Family and friends will gather on Wednesday from 9:00 am until the time of funeral service 10:00 am at Christ Church of Oak Brook 31st & York Road, Oak Brook, IL 60523. Services will conclude at the church. Memorials in honor of Tom to Heroes First Foundation 6720 Best Friend Road, Norcross, GA 30071 or www.heroesfirstfoundation.org would be appreciated. Information: 630-325-2300 or www.adolfservices.com

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on May 7, 2012.

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Jimmy Z Zawiski

May 28, 2012

Dear Jim and Judy,
Words can't express our sorrow for your loss.
We've kept you and your family in our prayers, and entered you in our Church's Prayer circle of more than 500 people who have been praying for you daily at Willow Creek, and they will continue for a whole month.

I got some coaching from their pastoral care, and am happy to support you and offer their resources whenever you are ready.

This is going to take some time.

We Love You Very Much,

Jimmy Z & Maureen

Danny Young

May 12, 2012

Dear Jim, Judy, Chris, and Allie,

I'm sorry for your loss...tom was an awesome person to be around...he will be missed dearly,

May 11, 2012

To the Sarwark Family,
We were so sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your wonderful son and brother Tom. Words cannot adequately convey our sympathy at such a sad, difficult time. We will keep Tom and all of your family in our thoughts and prayers. We also appreciate Tom's service to our country.
Thomas & Rosemary Bellaire, Rob & John

Ruth Novak

May 10, 2012

Dear Judy, Allie, and family, - I was so sorry to hear of your families tragic loss. My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.

May 10, 2012

Dear Jim and Judy, We can take solace in the fact he is with God. My prayers and thoughts are with you. I have many fond memories of my time with your family. Sincerely, Gloria Schabb

May 10, 2012

Dear Jim and wife, We can have solace that he is with God. My prayers are with you. I have fine memories of my childhood with your family. Love to all and all my prayers. Sincerely, Gloria Schabb

Barry Walsh

May 10, 2012

Dear Jim and Judy,

My heart is heavy for you both. You and your son are in my thoughts and prayers.

Herb and Pat Goetschius

May 9, 2012

Jim and Judy ,

Please accept our heartfelt sympathies and condolences on your loss. We wish we could be there to put our arms around you both . We will be praying for you and your family

Janet Mutter

May 9, 2012

Dear Judy & Family: I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Although it has been many years since our days at U of I and KAT, you have been on my mind since I heard this news yesterday. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ernie Perez

May 9, 2012

Jim, and family, No words can express the loss of a child. Rita and I are with heavy hearts. Stay strong my friend.
Ernie & Rita Perez.

Salle Huber

May 9, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about Tommie. I can still remember the snowy day that he and matt played on the snowhill behind your house. How proud you must be of his service to our country. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Salle Huber and family

Dave & Rosemarie Brenneman

May 8, 2012

Dear Jim, Judy, Chris and Ali,

We are so sorry and hurt for and with you. In your terrible grief we are praying for you all with love...

Dave and Rosemarie

Nicole Burr

May 8, 2012

Judy we are all so shocked and sorry to hear about your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Sauerberg

May 8, 2012

With deepest sympathy from our family.

Rose Manfredini

May 8, 2012

It is with a heavy heart that I send you my deepest sympathies. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.

Brian Harris

May 8, 2012

Judy, Jim, ChrIs and Allie,
We are so very sad about Tommy, it is impossible to imagine what you are going through. Our prayers are with you and Tommy was such a great playmate of our boys.
Brian, Carla, Ashley, Heather, Brian, Danny & Kevin Harris

Marlene Salata DeJovine

May 8, 2012

To the Sarwark Family,
My prayers and condolences to all of you. Just know that Tom hasn't left you - he's just with you in a different way. I will be thinking of you during this time.

Shelby Pixley

May 8, 2012

Jim and Judy

I was taken back by the loss of your son. My oldest son has just started to drive and I shared this tragic accident with him in hopes that he can learn how fragile life is. God bless and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Shelby and Amy Pixley

Jane Rinkenberger Kolar

May 8, 2012

I'm saddened to hear of your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.

May 8, 2012

Judy, Jim, Chris and Allie,

Our very deepest symapathy to all of you. We are so saddened to hear about Tommy. He is greatly missed.

Sent with love from Emily and Natalie Cain

Heather Harris

May 7, 2012

Sarwark Family,

It seems like just yesterday you were our neighbors. I have so many fond memoies with you all in them. Tommy grew up to be such a brave and honorable man. I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

May 7, 2012

Judy and Jim, I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Jayne Rediger Cuce

Nicholas Sarwark

May 7, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you.

Millie and Rick Wostratzky

May 7, 2012

Judy, Jim, Chris, and Allie,

We send you our deepest sympathy, and we'll keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Eva and Sven Ericsson

May 7, 2012

Dear Judy and Jim, Chris and Allison - our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.

John McVicker

May 7, 2012

Jim and Judy, the McVicker family extends our deepest condolences to the entire Sarwark family. No parent, whether they are 20 or 100, should ever have to go through the unimaginable pain of burying a child. We cannot express enough how we feel.

John and Sandy McVicker

Bob & Kathy Weidner

May 7, 2012

Judy, Jim and family, we are with heavy hearts in mourning your loss and please know you have our deepest sympathy. We pray for God's grace and peace in comforting you.

Craig & Lorie Peterson

May 7, 2012

Jim: Please accept our deepest sympahty at this sad time. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Scott McNichols

May 7, 2012

Jim and Judy, I am very saddeded to hear of this news. Your friends here at McNichols Company are in prayer for you. We pray for the Lords grace to be on you. Blessings

Mark Zdeblick

May 7, 2012

Jim and Judy,

It is at times such as this that I feel the pain of distance more than any others. While I am not yet sure if my physical body will be able to attend the services over the next few days, be sure that my thoughts and prayers will be completely focused on you and your family during this difficult time.

Having lost a niece and a nephew over a span of four years in the recent past, I am acutely aware of your suffering. In fact, as I write this, I am reduced to tears. Courage, my dear friend, and Faith that your boy is in good Hands.

As an electrical engineer like Jim, eventually my grieving process led me to see the incredibly sad days you are now going through as “expanding my dynamic range of emotions”. While it took me years to see this, perhaps it will be some consolation that someday you may also learn to appreciate even the most mundane day – or even those once thought of as difficult – as definitely well above the new average.

May 7, 2012

Our thoughts and sympathy are with you.
Mike and Lynne Goldberg

Peter Whiting

May 7, 2012

Jim, Judy and family, you have our deepest sypathy and most sincere condolences at this saddest of times. You are all in our thoughts.

Peter and Carolyn Whiting

Jim & Chris Privoznik

May 7, 2012

Jim, Judy,Christopher & Ali:

Know for certain that we never lose the people we love even after they are no longer with us.

They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love will always be with us and leaves an indelible imprint in our memories.

We find comfort in knowing our lives have been made better and enriched by having shared their love.

With our Deepest Sympathies,

M. Smith

May 7, 2012

Please accept my deepest sympathies, there are no words powerful enough to express sorrow for your loss. However, even in the face of tragedy you can have hope. God will comfort you and give you peace at this critical time so do not let your hearts be troubled and rely on the God of comfort. (John 14:27) Love from God and those around you will help you through the days ahead as you begin to recover gradually from the pain.

Rosanne Byrne

May 7, 2012

Jim, Judy, Chris and Ali,

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time. Please accept our deepest sympathy!

Sincerely, The Byrne/ Lazzaretto Family

Lisa Hoffman

May 7, 2012

Sarwark Family,

Keeping your family in my thoughts. So sorry to hear about your loss. I have found memories of having Tom in my class at Gower.

Jim Rinkenberger

May 7, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss. Please know our prayers are with you both. Sincerely,
Jim and Marcia Rinkenberger

Krysta Privoznik

May 7, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of grief. I have such fond memories of Tommy, and the times we spent together at all the Cubs games, and I will never forget them. May you find courage and peace in the road ahead. Sincerely, Krysta Privoznik

Linda Korbus

May 7, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss! I have fond memories of Tom from math class.
What a fine young man!

Iwona Palka

May 7, 2012

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sheri McNamara

May 7, 2012

We are sending our deepest,deepest sympathies to the Sarwark family. May the wonderful memoirists of Tom comfort you in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Sincerely, Roy & Sheri McNamara (parents of Samantha Mc Namara)

Tammy Valley

May 7, 2012

We are so very sorry for your incredible loss. Please know that you are all in our prayers.
Tammy Valley & Donna Holland (Sam McNamara's Aunts)

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