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Donna Contraveos
October 11, 2021
Frannie Tommy & Dana,
Thinking about all of you letting you know we miss Tom and love you allAs you know life goes on as your new baby boy will complete your circle.
Dickie Basich
October 11, 2021
I go to the cemetery often and when I am there I always stop by you and pay my respects. I miss you my dear friend.
Donna Contraveos
October 11, 2012
Frannie,
I know it will be a year Oct 15, 2012 and i just want to let you know that your entire family is in my heart and prayers forever.
Love you all
Donna Contraveos and Family
October 26, 2011
Frances, I want to express my condolences for your family's loss. You will be in our prayers and Thomas will be in our thoughts.
Michael (Bear) Hernandez
October 23, 2011
Dear Fran, Tommy and Dana
Marie and I are deeply sorry for your terrible loss. Words cannot adequately describe this pain, as I speak from my first hand experience. Yet another beautiful debutante has lost her precious dad. Please accept our condolences as we were unable to attend the services. May the angels welcome him home and you be given comfort and peace in your family love.
God bless all of you
Therese and Marie
October 22, 2011
Dear Danny, Annette, Fran & family. We are so sorry to hear of your sudden loss. Please know our thoughts & prayers are with you at this most difficult & hurting time. May you cherish the moments you had together & carry those memories in your heart forever.
Love, Jerry & Judi Thommes & girls
Kathy Davino-Alagna
October 20, 2011
Fran,I just heard of your tremendous loss, my prayers and thoughts are with you and your children always!
Kathy Davino-Alagna
NOEL RUIZ
October 19, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Barb Zachar
October 19, 2011
To the family of Tom Nolan,
We are so sorry to hear the news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We have many good memories of Tom from the days of Hiawatha sports and SFB. He will be missed.
Sincerely,
The Zachar Family
Johnny Guido
October 19, 2011
I am so sorry to here about this most unfortunate news. We take for granted that family friendships will always be around. Tommy was one of favorite childhood memories (like another brother). Know that my whole family loved him very much and we send our deepest condolences to Frannie and family.
October 19, 2011
Dear Franny & kids,
I never thought in a million years I would hear this horrible news from Jenene when she called. I still cant believe what I heard. Tommy was a wonderful guy. He lived life to its fullest. He loved making everyone laugh. I will never forget all the fun times at the Galaxy when we all hung out there. Even to this day Tommy loved his Friday nights out!! He loved First Fridays at the Clubhouse. He had so much fun always running into some of his old friends there. He enjoyed talking about old times. It was always nice running into him and Dana at the jewelry show together. You never would see any fathers there with their daughters accept for Tommy, he said he loved taking her there. And he had to stop to get his cologne!! He loved talking to his old friends and his new friends. He always made sure to send out a bulk text to everyone in his phone book during all the holidays. Just to wish everyone a great day. He was always so thoughtful. He loved talking about his Franny, and his two beautiful children that made him so PROUD!! May you cherish all the wonderful times and memories you have of him to help get you through each day. He will forever be in your hearts and has become your guardian angel. He will always be with you.
My deepest condolences and thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Donna DeBoni Scholl
Sean Herling
October 19, 2011
To the Nolan Family, my deepest condolences. Tom was a wonderful man, he and I went through the academy together he was always helpful and made going to the academy a pleasure! He will be missed.
To Tom;
A true friend is one who knows all about you and likes you anyway, truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget. I will not forget you!
So for now my memories will have to do, for you and I will meet again, when we're least expecting it.
One day in some far off place, I will recognize your face, I won't say goodbye my friend, For you and I will meet again. RIP Tom.
Sean
Pam Paduch
October 19, 2011
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
October 18, 2011
Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband and father.He was a great man, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
The Percival Family
Bill and Pam
Jennifer-Mady, Billy, Nick and Dana
October 18, 2011
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
The Gruber Family
Gino Amoroso
October 18, 2011
"Carollyn, first true freinds,will never be forgotten,as they lived in our lives, they will forever live in our memories" Gino Amoroso (Scottsdale,AZ )
patricia scimone
October 18, 2011
Francis, I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for you and your children. May God Bless you all,
Love always Patti (Bartuch) Scimone
Maureen
October 18, 2011
I am so very sorry for your loss. May Thomas rest in peace. May god comfort you now and in the days ahead. God speed Thomas.
The Bickel's
October 18, 2011
Frannie,Tommy and Dana,
I am so sorry I wish I had some words to say but there are none except if you need anything please ask. we don't see much of each other but I would do anything you need.
Love the Bickel's.
October 18, 2011
Fran,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Steve Reggi
Rodger and Julie Webb
October 18, 2011
Frannie, Tommy and Dana,
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Tommy's passing. May God be with you at this time of sorrow and always. May Tommy rest in peace in the loving care of our Lord.
October 18, 2011
On behalf of the Benevolence Committee, we are deeply sorry to hear about Thomas’ passing. If there is any way we can assist all of you during this time of healing, please do not hesitate to reach out to any of us. We hope that your family can find solace in the fact that Thomas accomplished so many things in a short amount of time, and that his life has touched so many others. Although we know he will be missed, always remember to celebrate his life rather than to mourn his loss. Please accept our deepest sympathies. -Dominican University Benevolence Committee
October 18, 2011
Frannie, Tommy and Dana, we are so saddened by the unexpected loss of a wonderful father and husband. Our hearts are in pain for you and we are at a loss as what to do for you. Know that you are in our prayers and we are here for you, always!
All our love,
Darlene, Sam, Michael, Nicky and Deanna
pattie deby hartl
October 18, 2011
our prayers and are thoughts are with you at this time of great shock the memories will sustain you at this time God will be with you
October 18, 2011
Frannie, Tommy & Dana
we are so sorry for your loss and our prayers are with you. May God be with you and look over you. The Ofenloch Family.
Lee & Patty Laino
October 18, 2011
Fran,Our thoughts are with you and your family.
October 18, 2011
Fran, Tommy and Dana. The world has lost one of the greatest guys that I ever had the pleasure of knowing. Tommy was a great friend, so funny, and I will truly miss him. I love you guys, be strong.
Nancye Mazzone
Joanne (Dugo) Kaszynski
October 18, 2011
Fran, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tom Rasch
October 18, 2011
Dear Fran and family,
We are deeply saddened for your loss. Billy just delivered him a pizza a few days ago. What a great man he was and excellent role model to so many. Your family has been such a wonderful asset to our neighborhood and his presence will be really missed. Our prayers go out to you all. Sincerely, Tom, Cris, Billy, Jeff Rasch
Laura DeCarlo
October 18, 2011
Frannie, Tommy and Dana,
Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you. Stay strong and be there for each other.
Nate, Laura & Amanda DeCarlo
Anita and Nick Rossi
October 17, 2011
Frannie, I was so saddened to hear the news..there are no words at this time..
You, Tommy, Dana and Joanne are in our prayers..Stay strong and know he is forever in your heart.
Carlene Amari
October 17, 2011
Dear Fran,Tommy,Dana and Carolynn. My deepest sympathy. My heart is breaking for all of you.Tommy was an amazing person. Wonderful husband,great father,loving brother and a good friend.He will be missed by so many. My momories are of a young Tommy so full of fun and laughter. I pray that God gives you comfort and helps you through this horrific time. So many people loved him and love all of you. Feel their love. xoxoxoxo
michael mclaughlin
October 17, 2011
CFD
Bob Mason
October 17, 2011
Our deepest sympathy to the Nolan family.
Mason Family
Andrea Lucarelli
October 17, 2011
Frannie,
We are so shocked and sorry to hear this news about your Tommy. Hold your children close and know that we, along with your family and friends are praying for you. We send our love and deep sympathy.
Andrea and Rich Lucarelli
October 17, 2011
Nolan Family,
Our deepest condolences to all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I will always remember what Tom did for me as a young man starting on the Fire department.
The Clarke Family
Jim and Maria Legg
October 17, 2011
Our sincerest sympathies to you and your family.
Ralph Abbinante
October 17, 2011
Frances
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Alan Martinez
October 17, 2011
My deepest sympathy to your family. Tommy will never be forgotten.His love of family and respect for his brothers & sisters on the job will for ever be remembered. May the Lord God grant unto him eternal rest and His perpetual light shine upon our brother Tom for all eternity. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Sincerely, Al Martinez & family
October 17, 2011
Frannie and loved ones, I am so so so sorry for your loss my prayers and thoughts are with you all. Love Marilyn (Bartucci) Kornau
October 17, 2011
Dear Fran and Family, Praying your hearts can find peace in knowing where Tommy is now and who he is with. I will always remember the tribute he wrote in my hunband Lou's Guest Book. Love and precious memories will always live on and your children will be your comfort and life line. Heaven has to be a glourious place and I know they will be waiting to welcome us HOME when our journey is over.
Love, Carole DiPinto
Billy's Mother
Ryan Nelson
October 17, 2011
Nolan Family ... will keep u in our thought and prayers .... God Bless all of u ... The Nelsons....
Rich O'Connell
October 17, 2011
Our sympathy goes to your family. Tom was a great guy and will be missed on the fire department. He always had a big smile on his face.
Sincerely,
Rich O'Connell and family.
Terry Link
October 17, 2011
To Frances and Family,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family in this difficult time. My prayers and thoughts are with the family and many friends.... Terry Link and Family
October 17, 2011
Fran, Tommy and Dana,
Very upset to hear the news about Tommy. Shocking. Will always remember the best of times in hockey with him.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tom, Kathy, Jeremy and Frankie Simonelli
sarah fini
October 17, 2011
im very sorry about your loss. trinity high school and i are all praying for you
George Hickey
October 17, 2011
Fran,Tommy and Dana, My deepest sympathies are with you. It broke my heart when I heard the news about Tom,I will always remember the great times we had coaching together. He was a wonderful man, our prayers are with you.
October 17, 2011
Frannie,Tommy,& Dana,
The loss you all are feeling right now words cannot express. Just know that you are surrounded by many people who love you and are there for all of you during this difficlut time! Frannie I will always remember Tom fondly as he always made me laugh so hard!! I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers. The girls send you all their sympathies as well! We love you all, Kathy, Alyssa & Olyvia Diaz
Susan (Cavello) Rochford
October 17, 2011
Frances and family
I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. I did not know him but am sure he was a wonderful husband and father as you Franes are a wonderful person. May God be with you always.
Cathy Kleinschmidt
October 17, 2011
I couldn't believe it when Glenn told me that Tom had died. He was much too young to be taken from you and your family. Please accept my condolences. I know he will be greatly missed.
Dickie Basich
October 17, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
October 17, 2011
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Diane Gedik
October 17, 2011
Fran: My deepest sympathy at this very very difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Tommy and Dana. If you need anything, I am here for you. I am at a loss for words...Love, Diane Gedik
October 17, 2011
Dana and family, Please accept our condolences. We didn't know your dad but just knowing you we can only assume he was a wonderful man.
The Sabbia Family
Greg Najarian
October 17, 2011
To the Nolan family I am so sorry for your sudden loss. I remember Tom from the days of Engine 86, Truck 57. Bill Cooper introduced me to Tom. He will be missed.
Carol Beucher
October 17, 2011
Fran, Tommy, and Dana,
My condolensces to you all. My son Ricky went to Norridge prescholl with Tommy and always remembered the time Tom took them to the fire house! May you all find comfort in each other and all the memories you shared and all the lives that Tom has touched!
Carol Beucher and family
Cindy DelMonaco
October 17, 2011
Dear Frannie, Tommy and Dana, there are no words to convey our sympathy. There is a void that can never be filled with the loss of Tommy. He will live in our hearts forever. He is Augie's friend by chance, but he is his brother by choice.
Mary Trampas
October 17, 2011
Dear Fran, You and your children have been in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.
Maria Mango Abbate
October 17, 2011
Frannie,
I am so sorry for your loss my prayers are with you and your children.
Maria Mango Abbate
October 17, 2011
Frannie & all Tommy's loved ones,
I will always remember Tommy as a great man who lived his life to the fulliest. I will always cherish the memories we all made together as we grew up. As we got older our lives went in different directions but our hearts never let go of all of our friendship. As you know Frannie my heart is broken once again for the loss of Tommy. This is like a nightmare that I would never wish on anyone. Remember the love you have for each other and your children and that will get you to the next day. Losing the love of our life is so hard but as we all know life goes on within our children. It is breaking my heart that you and I have lost great men but they two shall be together in heaven. God had a plan for Tommy and Joey and one day we shall all meet again but until then know I'm here for you and your children. Our chain has been broken but we will reconnect that chain when it is our time. Until then please feel free to call me when ever you need a friend for I feel your pain more than anyone. Remember Joey will keep him laughing like the old days.
Love you,
Donna Contraveos
Christina & Fred & Gabriella
Nicole Contraveos
1st District Engineers
October 17, 2011
On behalf of the 1st District of the Chicago Fire Department, our thoughts, prayers, and condolences go out to the family of Capt. Thomas E. Nolan. May the Lord embrace his spirit on his soul.
CHRISTINA ALVAREZ
October 17, 2011
I AM BEYOND WORDS AND DEVASTATED BY THIS LOSS. OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES AND LOVE TO MY DEAREST FRIEND FRANCE AND BEAUTIFUL TOMMY AND DANA GIRL. BIG TOMMY COULD ALWAYS MAKE ME LAUGH SO HARD, I WILL MISS THAT!
ALL OUR LOVE AND SUPPORT TO ALL OF YOU ALWAYS,
JOEY, CHRISTINA, NICOLE, JOEY & ANTHONY ALVAREZ
October 17, 2011
Fran, Tommy and Dana: May the blessing of the Lord's love be with you in this time of grief. My thoughts and prayers are with you right now. Love, Jill DiPinto Bellamah (Florida)
October 17, 2011
Fran, Tommy and Dana... My heart goes out to you for your sudden loss of "Big Tommy"... I always enjoyed hearing the many stories about him and only wish I could have gotten to know him better..xoxo, Maria Ventimiglia
October 17, 2011
I AM BEYOND WORDS AND DEVASTATED BY THIS LOSS. OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES AND ALL OUR LOVE ALWAYS TO MY DEAREST FRIEND FRANCES AND BEAUTIFUL TOMMY & DANA GIRL!
HERE FOR YOU ALWAYS,
CHRISTINA, JOEY, NICOLE, JOEY & ANTHONY ALVAREZ
Laurie Plescia
October 17, 2011
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
The Staff of Cumberland Chapels
October 17, 2011
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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