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Reinhard Pfaffinger
September 2, 2022
Sad to learn of Tom's passing. Sending deepest condolences from the Pfaffinger family. We met Tom after we immigrated from Germany in 1969. I remember Tom visiting Germany when we went back home in 1974. It was a great time. Rest in peace.
GLH
August 10, 2020
Remembered.
GLH
August 10, 2019
Thinking of you...
August 10, 2018
Five years ago.
GLH
GLH
June 17, 2018
Thinking of you and your sons on Father's Day.
Terry Randall
March 7, 2018
I will miss and love you always You will always be in my heart
August 11, 2017
Remembered by many.
GLH
February 15, 2016
GLH
hugh curran
January 5, 2016
I just learned of Toms passing .He was a caring , supportive and charming guy.My condolences to his family and friends .
Ar aghaidh leat agus beir bua, a chara.
July 22, 2015
I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF TOM'S PASSING. HE WAS A TRUE GENTLEMEN AND A TRUE FRIENDMAY THE ROAD RISE UP TO MEET YOU, MAY THE WIND BE ALWAYS AT YOUR BACK, AND MAY THE RAIN FALL SOFT UPON YOUR FIELDS AND UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN
MAY GOD HOLD YOU IN THE PALM OF YOUR HAND.
REST WELL DEAR FRIEND, LARRY HILL
Matthew Mckeon
June 26, 2015
Happy Birthday Dad
Karen Turner
January 21, 2015
So very sorry and shocked to hear of his passing. Tom was incredible and very empathetic to the families he helped during the most difficult times in their life. He waked many of my loved ones and the care and respect he showed them even in their deceased state no one could compare. So very sorry for the family's loss and the Bridgeport community. Tom will be remembered, missed and cherished by many.
Diana Fessler
October 15, 2013
Just today I learned of Tom's passing. In the past, I had called him to talk about neighborhood history and I was ready for my next lesson; one that is not to be.
What a wonderful man Tom was. He was so generous with his time. Several years ago, he spent at least an hour on the phone with me helping me understand the times and lives of my grandparents and others: Everett "Doc" Sprinkle, Nellie Cassidy, Josephine Bukuaski, and so many others. He had such amazing recall of many people, places, and events. With Tom's passing, another part of the anchoring institutional memory of the area has passed, too. To those who loved him so, please accept my sincere condolences. And, may you find great peace in your faith.
With deepest sympathy,
Vincent King
October 9, 2013
I was so sorry to read about Tom. I am Vincent King, son of the late Harold J and Emily King. My aunt and uncle, Charlotte and Bud Cassidy were very close friends with your mother. I was born in Bridgeport on 37th street and remember fondly playing in the upstairs apartment above the funeral home when I was very young. The last time I met Tom it was up near Michiana where he had another parlor at one time and where Peggy and my aunt had their "summer"homes. He was a great guy, I only wished we spent more time together. Again, much thoughts and prayers to your family. Vincent King
August 28, 2013
GLH
Peter Piwowar
August 22, 2013
Dear Jay, Matt and family,
I am so very sorry to hear about your father's passing. I met your Dad in 1975. We worked together at the Chicago Board of Trade. We had a lot of fun times! He introduced me to Rush Street. He knew all the best restaurants and clubs. He was a great guy, intelligent, funny, generous, and he was always a gentleman. He loved to be dressed in a suit and tie. I have many fond memories of those days. I'm regret that we lost touch with one another the last several years. It's been nice knowing my pal, Tommy. May he rest in peace.
Jim Reilly
August 17, 2013
Friends ,Americans ,Countrymen . On Wednesday we came to bury Caesar but,also did we praise him. We will no longer fear the garish night for now you are a star. Goodnight sweet prince parting is such sweet sorrow but fare thee well till it be morrow .you did not deny but you upheld your fathers name with pride . Without Raphier or sword you died the death of a Chieftain at the Boyne. From now on we will be saying Romeo , Romeo wherefore art thou Bridgeport Romeo . There are five points in heaven go to the section with the green fields - St . Patrick , St.Bridget and St. Brendan will be there and they will show you the ropes . No need to look for Christ for he has always been in your mind and in your heart . A Friend Forever. .
August 15, 2013
I remember the McKeon family from living on Lowe avenue and knowing all the same people. My thoughts are with your family. Pattie Vella
Linda and Phil Arredia
August 15, 2013
Tom we will miss you! The DeSimone's and Raspante's and Brown families will miss you! Now we have to make other plans!!!! You were 37th street and Lowe's Rock.. Rest In Peace.
RoseMary (joyce) Olson
August 14, 2013
This is a very sad day for 37th Street and for all those family's you and your parents helped. Now you are Home again with your mom, dad, brother, and sister. It's hard to believe you are gone, from the people who will be looking for a caring Funeral Director, to make everything just the way you, wanted it to be. We are sorry for your family's and friends, loss you will be missed, by all. God Bless
Doug Bernacchi
August 13, 2013
Tom, this world lost perhaps the coolest person amongst us. Very sad day. You be good! Sincere condolences to your children, family and friends.
And to the Next Journey...
August 13, 2013
Ah Tom, "Take the first star to the right..then on to daylight" where St Peter is waiting for your famous stories,big cigars and as mentioned by many, your wit and charm and expansive soul. I will miss all including the cigars but I see these in Jay & Matt and will remember. Much love to Gretchen, Jay and Matt/ So sorry I cant be there. Linda Powless
Thomas & Janet Huels & Family
August 13, 2013
Our sympathy goes out to the family. Sorry we can't make it, but we are there in spirit.
Judy (Capraro) Gingerella
August 13, 2013
I was so saddened to hear of Tom's passing. We met over 40 years ago and were great friends till our paths took us in different directions. My sincere condolences to Tom's family and friends.
Mary Preusser-Moore
August 13, 2013
What a great loss to the neighborhood you will be missed.
John Kutyba
August 13, 2013
My condolences to the family. May he rest in peace and god bless him.
Julie Skelton
August 13, 2013
Such a wonderful man, he had helped my family and friends in their time of Loss. My thoughts and prayers are with his family, he will be missed.
Dick Daley
August 13, 2013
Rest in Peace Tom.
God bless your family
JOSEPH RUEBENSAM
August 13, 2013
His family helped wake my parents -my 13 month old son -my brother -in-law and in October 2012 he laid My wife to rest he was a great man like his father before him always helping the people of the community MAY GOD REST HIS SOUL
Sam Ferraro
August 13, 2013
May he rest in peace +
Debra Sidabras
August 12, 2013
When my father passed Tom took care of him. When my sister and brother didn't tell him that I was part of the family, Tom made sure my car was placed where it should be placed. Thank you Tom. May God Bless you and your family. Your smile will be missed.
August 12, 2013
Jay and Matt,
I am so deeply sorry to hear about your Dads passing. Tommy was such an amazing man who touched the lives of many-with his larger than life personality wit and charm. I'm certain you both know how proud he was of you.
Georgia Apostolas
Corrine Shilney
August 12, 2013
Tommy was an old friend to my Dad - Buddy Shilney. He was there for him and our family during our times of need. May they join one another in heaven and laugh like old times. Our dearest condolences to his family and all who were touched by his life. God Bless you all!
Denise Corcoran
August 12, 2013
I remember Tom made both my parents' funerals' easier to bear with his kindness and great sense of humor. He was a wonderful man and will be sorely missed. May he rest in peace. My condolences to his family.
Heather Holmberg
August 12, 2013
One time, one of Tom's families planning the funeral for their young daughter had an odd request -- a pink casket. Tom cleverly put pink gels in the overhead lighting to accommodate the grieving family's request. A white casket, turned pink. Another life celebrated! I'll never forget it. To my wonderful sister, Gretchen, and my nephews, Matt and Jay - my heart shares this moment with you from afar.
Carolyn Sheehan
August 12, 2013
I will always remember Tommy for making the burial of our parents a little less painful with his humor and expertise for which I will always be grateful.
August 12, 2013
You will be remembered as a friend and in our daily masses at Notre Dame Church.
Dick & Marge Heinrich, Michigan City, IN 46360
~ ~ Fr. Dan Brandt, CPD Chaplain
August 12, 2013
Heartfelt and prayerful condolences from the Chicago Police Chaplains. Tom will be remembered at the Police Mass on Sunday, 25 AUG, 11:00 a.m., at Mercy Home - 1140 W. Jackson Blvd. In the meantime, may family and friends know the healing touch of our all-loving, all-merciful God! [Police Chaplains Ministry: www.ChicagoPCM.org or 312/738-7588]
James McGowan
August 12, 2013
I was Speechless When I Heard of Thomas passing. He is the same age I am and have known him since the 1960's. This is devastating. I hope some peace can come to the Family. My Folks are from the same area and new his parents. Last Name Wallace
Dave Samber
August 12, 2013
Many years ago, Tom told me that I often sing the things that many can't even say. So, here's to You, Tom, as part of an Irish Blessing: "May the Joy of Friendships be remembered; May the Saints sing loudly of your deeds. And until We meet again, may God hold Tommy in the palm of His hand!"
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