Stanley Houpy Obituary

Dad, we miss you very much. We cannot manage to find the words to express how much we miss you and how much we love you. The holidays were not the same and will never be the same. We don't understand why you had to go... except that God wanted you to be with him. We will always love you. Patty, Daphne and Stephanie

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Stanley, I'll never forget how thoughful and kind you are. you're a wonderful man. I'd like to offer my deepest sympathy to your family, Patty, Daphne and Stephanie. May GOD BLESS YOU. A LONG TIME FRIEND

I wish to express my condolences to Patty and his family.A long time co-worker.

Stanley was a strong bold figure. In his youth his anger could halve a tree trunk, his gentleness could make you cry. He was passionate about what he loved and believed in. He walked like a man who had no fear, but he could cry when his heart was broken.
When he wanted something he was determined.He had a laugh and a wry sense of humor. He grew up in the streets of Chicago and boy was he street smart and he was also really smart. He loved his mother and her Czech cooking. He enjoyed his fathers love of classical music that would play full blast in the hot Chicago evenings while,Stanley sat on the front porch. His brothers and his sisters were his to protect and if you were his friend, he was always on your side.
He stood up for what he believed in and no one would want a confrontation with the man. He loved to fish in the Great Lakes and hang around at the local School ground at Corkery. He loved to play pool at the neighborhood bar and put quarters in the Juke box and dance.
It is sad to think he is gone, but he lives in the hearts of those who knew him and his fortunate family that shared his life.

Stan was my best friend . We fished , hunted and injoyed life in our younger days . He was always there to help if you needed a hand . He was a good buddy ,Father , and husband to Patty and his kids . I am sure he is in a better place where there is no pain . He is probably up there with his brothers fishing in that Great Beyond and smiling down on us .Stan , Rest In Peace ,Bill

It was a pleasure knowing and working with you rest in peace.

Ex-co Worker Della Burton

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.

Uncle Stanley,
You are in our prayers! We could not have asked for a better uncle, we will miss you always.
We love you, John & Jessica