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Ruth McCarthy Obituary

McCarthy, Ruth F.

Ruth F. McCarthy, nee Schwalm, age 94, passed away February 9, 2024. Ruth was born to Carl and Elfriede Schwalm and resided in Chicago until moving to Naperville in 1973.

Ruth was preceded in death by her husband, Phillip J. McCarthy. She is survived by her children, Linda (Greg) Klawitter, Pat (Fritz) Brown and Paul (Debbie) McCarthy. Ruth dearly loved her grandchildren, Amy (Michael) Freitag, PJ Brown, Sarah (Simon) Schwindt and Megan (Daryth) Hammond. She was additionally blessed with great-grandchildren, James Freitag, Sophie Freitag, Grace Schwindt, Emily Schwindt, Averie Hammond and Lyla Hammond. Ruth cherished her late brother Carl Schwalm and his family; wife Marilyn (deceased), their children, David (Ashley) Schwalm (their children Brendan, Autumn and Olivia) and Chris (Bryan) Culp (their children Michaela and Mackenzie)Ruth was an active member of Trinity Lutheran Church, Lisle. She also spent many years working various retail establishments in Naperville. While working at Cee-Bees, she was fondly regarded as the "Pretzel Lady."

For those who would like to leave a lasting tribute to Ruth's life, memorial donations may be directed to either Trinity Lutheran Church or Misericordia.

Visitation will be Friday, February 16, 9:00-11:00 AM at the Friedrich-Jones Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 44 S. Mill St., Naperville. Funeral Services will follow at 11:30 AM at Trinity Lutheran Church, 1101 Kimberly Way, Lisle, 60532. Interment will be at Bethania Cemetery, Justice, IL. For information please call 630/355-0213 or visit www.friedrich-jones.co

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Feb. 13, 2024.

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Chris & Rick Thomason

February 16, 2024

Dear Pat,
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with You after the loss of Your Mama. May you have Peace knowing She is no longer in any pain. We now grieve for Us, However We Will All Be Together Again When We Are Called by His Side.
Much Love & Warm Hugs to You and Your Entire Family
Chris and Rick Thomason

Dan and Vicki Kanara

February 13, 2024

All our heartfelt condolences to the family. Sending our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely from the Kanara family.

Mary Bozek

February 13, 2024

Ruth was one of the kindest and generous people I have ever known. What a true friend. She attended and supported many of the Misericordia Christmas Brunches. Katie Bozek was always so happy when her daughter Linda brought Ruth there. She always was such a friend to Katie. I will always miss Ruth.

Bette and Ken Nelson

February 13, 2024

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Bette Nelson

February 13, 2024

Sending our deepest condolences to you and your family. Ken and Bette Nelson

Sr. Rosemary/Fr. Jack & Residents of Misericordia

February 13, 2024

Our sympathy and special prayers for Ruth and all her family and friends.

Darlene Hammond

February 12, 2024

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Jan Trevino

February 12, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful lady. We will miss you always.

Daria Iversen

February 12, 2024

So sorry to hear of your Mom´s passing. Your family will be in our prayers.
Alan and Daria Iversen

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