Rebecca Scarlett Obituary

In 1977 (or1978, can't remember which) I met Becky, her sister, Robin, and their friend, Susan, as the Dayspring trio at Fairview United Methodist Church in Danville, VA. Back then I was accompanying the late Rev. Earl S. Tyson, Virginia Conference Evangelist, in his revival ministry as a musician. On the evening that the Trio performed--and it was so much more than a mere "performance"--with Becky on guitar, and Robin and Susan singing along, the church was packed. I was sitting near the rear of the building, and I only vaguely remember seeing the singers. But I never forgot what it was like to have heard them. They were doing "Dayspring," Becky's signature song (however, she wrote several other really fine pieces). The harmonies, the lyrics, the purity of the melody, the simplicity of their style and delivery was captivating. They were anointed. The song was especially anointed. I thought to myself, "I must learn that." During the week of the evangelistic services, I became acquainted with Becky. She was a truly gifted songwriter and a dedicated Christian. Her music was an outpouring and reflection of her life. One cannot write songs like that apart from the experience that inspires them. Earl and I left the area, and I saw Becky only one other time afterwards. Some years later I ran into her at a Christian gathering. At some point in our conversation I mentioned to her that I was doing "Dayspring." She was surprised and remarked, "As a solo piece? I can't imagine that because I wrote it as a song for trio." I told her that I believed that if she ever heard what I had done with it, that she would like it. She said that she would like to have heard it. But she never did. Sometime in the mid-2000s I contacted her mother, Jeane, in Danville, shortly before she left the retirement home in which she was then a resident to move to Alabama, where her daughter, Robin, was living. I phoned Jeane, and when I told her who I was, although it had been thirty years since we last spoke, it was as if no time had passed. She asked if I was aware that Becky had died a year-or-so earlier. I said that her pastor had already informed me. I talked with her at length about the possibility of my recording the song, "Dayspring," along with a few others, which I have since done. Jeane expressed her joy that someone was continuing Becky's legacy. I feel honored to have known Becky Blair Scarlett, and to have been given an opportunity to honor her for her love, devotion, and gift of song to the Lord Jesus Christ.

Dearest Blair Family,

We just found out yesterday that Becky had gone Home. I don't know how we missed this until now, but we are stunned. We love you and aur hearts are with you. We are here in prayer with you. Love always, Jim and Marcy Heffinger

Dear Mama Jeane....

I can honestly say that I know how you feel right now. I feel sure that when Joey found out who Becky is, he started talking her ears off. I know she is as happy as he is. Know that we are praying for you, Bob and the family. We miss you'll and can't wait to see ya. Love always, Barbara & Jan

Dearest Jeane, Bob, Robyn, Bill and Sam:

Please know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers during your sorrow. Becky was truly a treasure and an inspiration. There are souls in this world who have the gift of finding joy everywhere and of leaving it behind them when they go.

We love you, Judy and Stuart

Blair and Scarlett Families - I was saddend to hear of Becky's death. She was someone that I looked up to my entire teenage years, and then reconnected with her when we all lived in Illinois. She was a wonderful and very kind person, who I know is with God now. My thoughts and prayers are with your families. Stephanie Bailey Constant

To all of Becky's family. Our prayers and sympathy are with you. She was so well loved at Fairview, that we all will grieve with you. Jeane and Robin, all of my children extend their deepest sympathy also. They have such wonderful memories. Blessings, Lovetta

Dear Bill, little Sam, Mrs. Blair and Robin; I just wanted you to know that I am with you in thought at this time. I am so sad for the loss of our Becky, but I know that I know that Becky is in heaven with our Lord and will be watching over her sweet Sam and the rest of her family from there. If there is anything that I can do, please do not hesitate to call on me, I love you all. Becky's spirit will live on in all that knew her. God Bless You, Billie (11:30 am EST)

To the Blair and Scarlett Families:

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Becky had such a profound influence on so many of us. We are so blessed to have had her in our lives.

Dearest Mr. and Mrs. Blair and Robin,

I was so sad to hear of the death of sweet Becky. I have known her since Coates School where she and my sister, Judy, were in the same class. I never knew anyone to say an unkind thing about her...she was sweet to everyone she met. Robin, I still can hear 'Dayspring' singing the beautiful songs that Becky wrote. I share in your grief, but heaven seems much sweeter just knowing that Becky and other loved ones will be waiting there for us.

Mr. and Mrs. Blair and Robin,

My heartfelt sympathy to you all in the loss of your precious loved one. I worked many years ago with Becky at Dr. Milam's office. She was such a lovely person. Becky had a way of lifting everyone up with her beautiful outlook on life.



My thoughts and prayers are with you all.



Patricia H. Marlowe

Our hearts are so saddened by the loss of one of the most wonderful friends we have ever known. We know that Becky is safe and joyfully singing her wonderful songs before the Lord. Just know that our hearts, our prayers, our love are all extended to you folks. We will always keep Becky's songs alive--so that they will continue to proclaim this marvelous faith that has saved our souls!

Dear Jeane & Family

What a privilege it has been to know & love Becky. What an awesome witness she has been. And now to finally see the face of Jesus is what she lived for. Please know that you all are in our hearts & prayers daily.

We love you

Stuart, Dolly & Elizabeth Jennings

Dear Family,

I greave for you in the loss of Becky. I have known Becky since Coates Elementary School and we graduated together. We also sang together in the Alleluia Choir. I've always admired Becky's strength in her Christian walk and I still listen to the Day Spring tape that she, Robin and Susan made. Becky was truly a blessing to all around her and she will surely be missed. Please know my prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

Dear family,

I was so sorry to hear about your earthly separation from your sweet Becky. I have known her since grade school and have admired her spiritual walk with the Lord. I've enjoyed hearing her sing and the joy she brought to others in serving our Lord. Please know that I am praying for your family. I hurt with you, yet rejoice that she is with our Lord.

JEAN,

ANN CALLED ME. I AM SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSS. DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND BOBBY AND YOUR FAMILY.

SINCERELY, HELEN

Mama Jeane,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your sorrow. Becky's spirit and love for Jesus touched even those of us who did not know her well, through her music and testimony. Our hearts go out to you and Bob. May God's loving arms enfold you as only He can.

Gotcha!

To you all:

My prayers are with you.Becky is with her savior and Lord of her life. We will miss her and all she meant to us, but heaven is a better place with her there. Until we meet again Becky. I love you and yours and will continure to pray for you. Love, Joan

Our deepest sympathy, we are praying for you.

Dear Jean and Family,

You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry about Becky's death. Please know that you are in the hearts of your Fairview Family and that we all love you, your family, Becky's husband and son and Robin and all of her family. We will continue to lift you up in our prayers. With our love.

To my sweet Becky; You have seen the face of the Lord and that is what you have wanted since we were in our teens. I can rejoice for you, but am so sad for those of us left here without you. My heart is broken that I won't be able to talk to you and tell you that I love you, but I told your mom, Robin and Mrs. Scarlett to tell you for me.

I continue to send prayers up for Bill, little Sam and your mom, dad and Robin to be comforted during this time. I look forward to the day when I can see you again. I will miss you and I love you, dear sweet Becky. Billie