Raymond Jundt Obituary

Thank you for watching over me when I needed you most ( you and grandma)

Grandpa,

I had just turned 17 a few months before you passed away. I can't believe it but I am 28 now. Alot has transpired since you left. Mostly good and some bad, but that is how it goes I guess. Overall, I have been incredibly blessed as you well know.

I talk alot about you and brag that I am your grandson. I used to see people at the hospitals in Bismarck that knew who you were; they all loved you to nobody's surprise. You definitely lived an incredible life, one that will not be soon forgotten.

I have had countless dreams about you since you passed away and I often wonder, are dreams our way to connect with those who have gone before us? I don't know but I hope those dreams don't stop.

Dreams have always been funny for me. Before grandma passed away I had a dream that she came to our house in Rochester, MN. I met her in the hallway and gave her a big long hug and started to cry. When I awoke the next morning I knew that I had to get to Bismarck to see. You see I have dreams like this before people pass away. Sure enough, Grandma passed away less than four weeks after Megan and I saw her. I was so glad I got to say goodbye. She still looked so beautiful and I told her that. I am so happy you two are together. How are those Happy Meal's tasting again?

Thank you for showing the Jundt family what hard work and sacrifice look like. I think that my best attribute is my work ethic and I know that I got that from you. I look at the work ethic and success of my cousins and know that they too know what hard work looks like. You also taught us to be honest. I know that cheating the system never results in anything.

Thank you Grandpa. Give grandma a kiss (on the cheek) from me!

Love,

Michael

I was thinking about you today, Dad. You have visited my dreams a few times since you left. You are always silent and I see your eyes or feel your touch. Is that how you let me know you are with me? It seems like you show up when I am needing you the most.

I wonder what you would think of your family if you were still here today...

It feels as though I lost you again when I walked through 2113 for the last time. You were everywhere in that home-it has always been home to me.

I will be going through the graduation ceremony tomorrow for my Doctorate. I sure hope you can see me. I'm not much for attention...but I sure wish you could have been here for this milestone.
Chelsea is getting married next year-I know you will be there, too.

I love you and think of you all the time.
Dr. Rachelle J. Reinisch

Three squeezes to you.

It is Oct.16th 2013... 8years and one day since we buried my love of 50+ years. The time has gone fast and I have kept busy.. that is the secret.. life goes on and I still think of him every time I look at the pictures around this house.. how can you Not ?? I know that my time is getting shorter, I will be 78 next month..I am already 3 years older then Ray was when he passed away. I know there were hard times in those 50+ years, but the good, I believe will always outweigh the bad.The peace I have felt, has been in knowing that he is with Our Heavenly Maker.. and hopefully I will be there with him one day.
Still the love of my life....
Your Mrs. J. Cecilia

Hello Dad! Eight years ago today we said "farewell" to you. Your Legacy continues albeit we all face the challenges of a modern day crazy world causing some zigs-and-zags to This Life.
Dad, I know your life was not lived perfect in God's eyes. I know you understand what its like to falter and fail. I do believe you now know the eternal depths of God's Grace, Mercy and Forgiveness. So today I need your prayers now more than ever. I will work hard to "zag" back onto a path that will make you smile and be viewed favorly by our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Your granddaughter Randi Rae recently sent me a book entitled "Not a Fan" written by pastor Kyle Idleman. (sidebar note: Randi Rae sent me the book along with her thank-you note to me for singing at her's and Walter's wedding June 29, 2013. Dad, It was a beautiful wedding event and you would have been so proud of Randi Rae and her Mom, your daughter, Crystal. But we know you were looking down on that day!) Anyway, the book is about our being a "fan" or "follower" of Jesus Christ. I now know I have only been a "fan" and not a true "follower." I have to change that. I will change that. Pray for me Dad. As I pray for the Wisdom, Courage and Strength to to be a "Follower" and not just a "Fan." Love your son, Curtis - October 15, 2013 P.S. More and more people comment how I look more like you as I age. I guess aside from my dark hair, I do see I am looking more "Jundt-like" as I age given pictures I have viewed recently of you, Howard, Harley and Grandpa Jundt!

I think about you still-three squeezes

I still miss you.

Papa:
Please know I think of you everyday. I especially knew you were with me on Oct. 15th this year when an intruded appeared on my property when I was home recovering from surgery feeling defenseless. My gate was locked that day and there was so many what ifs that I could have done this or not done that, that I knew I had a gaurdian angel watching over me as I was protected that day.
I miss you Papa-I hold you close to my heart always.
Love your daughter, Carita

Dear Grandpa,

I was thinking of you today. You sort of "popped" into my head and it made me smile. So I wanted to write you a note to say hi, and that I miss you. I also want to tell you about your Great-Granddaughter Anna. I know that you already know all about her, and I know you have been checking in on us. I am sad that she will not be able to meet you, but I have so many good memories of you, and stories to tell her. She will know you in that way. She is two months old already, and growing very fast. I would love it if you could look in on her from time to time, and say hello in your own special way.


We love you Grandpa, and miss you always.
Love
Amy and Anna

Today

is Feb. 14th 2007--it would have been 52 years of marriage for us. I can't

believe how fast the time goes.

Soon it will be two years since my partner

died. I still miss him and dream about him often, but it is getting easier.

I just keep telling myself, that he is in a much better place and hope that

I will be there one day also. He left a great legacy. His children and grandchildren

are all doing so well and I know he would be very proud. Especially today

and knowing Randi Rae has been accepted into the Honors program. Criss was

so proud, she started to cry and said " people never thought I could raise

her on my own". Papa you always had faith in her and Randi.

I know you

are looking down this day smiling.

Love always your Valentine

Mrs. J.

A time to reflect. I often pause several moments each day thinking about the memories I shared with my Dad. Life here on earth is so short and it will just be a short lapse in time we will all be together again in our new LIFE with Christ. I will rejoice in the blessing from our Lord when I am in my father's presence once again!
Love to all-
Carita

Today is Oct.16th. One year ago yesterday, we buried our beloved husband , father, grandfather. The year has gone fast,but the memory is still very much alive. I know Papa is where he wanted to be, he was tired and it was so hard to go from day to day. Crystal, Cindy and I went to visit his grave. Crystal decorated it so beautifully. I know he was smiling down on her. Life is but a blink of an eye and may none of us forget that we are born to be with the Lord in Heaven. My prayer is that we will all be together and with our precious Maker one day. Ray loved the song "No Greater Love" the words "No Greater Love have I, only my love for you" But I know he loved the Lord and the Lord loved him too.
Rest in Peace my beloved.
Your wifey of 50 plus years. Cecilia

Today it has been a year since I lost my best friend. Dad, I miss you so much, but I do feel you with me every day. When I need your strength, I ask, and you give it to me.

Since you left this Earth, I have really learned what is important in life. Even in death, you are my mentor, my teacher. Of the lessons I've learned (and discovered) because of you, these have become most important: honesty is the best policy; keep small things small; cherish people not things; and tell those you love how you feel about them because you might not get the chance to later.

I'm so very glad that you and I had the opportunity for a close and loving relationship. Yes, we were buds. You were you and I was me and nothing more---and nothing less. Simplicity is beautiful. You're beautiful.

Tomorrow, I will give my first speech since a year ago, when you sat there watching, tears rolling down your cheeks. It is going to be hard to look out and not see you there. I'm scared to speak for the first time. It will be the first speech without you, and the first one about you. Even though your body won't be there, I know you will be *front and center*. That's how you were in my life -*front and center*. I know that you are proud that I've carried on your Toastmaster legend and now, Randi Rae is our third generation speaker. (I can see you smiling.)

I put beautiful flowers in all the fall colors on your grave today and it looks very beautiful. But you already knew that.......

All my love forever, Dear Daddy.

Well, almost a year since we lost the greatest man on Earth. This is the first time I have written in the guest book since grandpa left this wonderful place. Grandpa, I know you already know, but, not a single day goes by that my heart doesn't ache for your hugs and that huge smile with the little toothpick always on one end.

I am working hard at over coming my diabetes and I know everyday that you are here with me telling me never to give up. Every day it becomes a little better, my goal is to improve my quality of life by reflecting on everything you had to go through. I am sorry it took so long so find the words to say, and honestly Grandpa I still don't know what to say. I still reach for your wisdom and guidance everyday, I am still waiting for you to come out of the back bedroom with your white cup of coffee!! I still envision it everytime I am in the house. But Grandpa always remeber that you are NEVER forgotten, and in all your kids and us grandkids you wisdom and guidance will continue to flow accros this beautiful nation, always remebering where our roots are.
Your are truely my "Soldier of Life" and always will be. In the words of Uncle Curt and my father, I will always "Live to be Missed" following in your mighty footsteps. Thank you for everything Grandpa. I will always love you.

Today is Sat. May 28th in two days it will be a year since we had our 50th Ann. What a great day that was and I can only think about all the memories we made on that day.That was our goal to make some memories.I still miss you My Love and have some days that are hard, but now I must continue to go on and be here for our family. Please ask God to be with Curt, I am praying hard that his illness is nothing serious. I know it won't be long and I wll be with you, but I can't bear to see my children suffer. Enjoy your peace Papa, you deserve it so much. Your Mrs. J.

Cecilia

Today I felt the presence of our Papa during a long management training session I had to put together. Dad, I think of you often and miss you dearly. I know that my pain in side will pass when our two hearts meet again. God has given me a new life to look forward to knowing you will be there smiling with out stretched arms waiting for our hearts to be close together once again.

Happy Blessed Day Papa- I love you so...........

Your middle one,

Carita

Dad,If only you could tell me in a dream how beautiful our journey will be. I can only imagine!!!!!

Today is March 2oth 2006.My beloved would have been 76 today. Today is a rather hard day, as it brings back many memories. I continue to thank God for the many years we shared our life. I know life is but a blink of an eye, and soon we all will cross the path that Ray has crossed and may we all know the peace and love of our Heavenly Savior as I know Ray is sharing right now. I thank God with the help of Ray that I have been blessed with a wonderful family and a life that I wouldn't change if I could. Yes, there were hard times, but more good times and it is said that "if the Lord leeds you to it, He will help you through it" and I feel His presence in my life everyday.

Thank you Lord and dear family for all the years we have had.

God bless and watch over all of us.

Love Mom ,Grandma J.

Hello Dad!



It's March 18th, just two more days 'till your 76 birthday! I have an important business meeting on that day and I know you will be there . It still just doesn't seem possible that you are gone from here. There are so many more accomplishments, so many more milestones - in my life that I envisioned there would more times when you would be there to say - "I'm proud of you son!"



I know you are at peace now, without pain, without worry, without stress - things that never seemed to leave you alone. You never really had a relaxing, low stress retirement and that still makes me sad. But by Faith I know that your reward for all your sacrifice, all your giving, all your kindness, caring and love for others and your suffering; means you will see eternal life. You lived by the Ten Commandments - you avoided the Seven Deadly Sins and with Mom at your side, you both setforth a foundation for your children to be moral assets to society, not immoral parasites. I have seen the latter in the business world, and I see how awful they are and how their offspring are following in their ways.



But I will continue to work hard to do what would please you Dad, because I know it would also please our God. I want to Live to be Missed, just like my Dad.



Happy 76th Birthday Dad! Love Curt

Grandpa



The day I was born,

Grandpa was there.

The day I was baptized,

Grandpa was there.

The day I was confirmed,

Grandpa was there.

Every birthday,

every Christmas,

every illness,

every surgery,

Grandpa was there.

When sickness debilitated Grandpa, I was there.

The day Grandpa died, I was there.

The days Grandpa lives, I am here.

The days Grandpa is gone,

I am not morose, for I know

he is here.

The day I die,

Grandpa will be there.

The day Grandpa and I coalesce, God will be there.

Although he is no longer here to facilitate my difficulties, I will have no resignation to persevere, because Grandpa is here.

Shelly,

Thinking of you!

An anecdote I have of grandpa is a mastering of a skill that I will probably never figure out. When we would visit, Grandma and Grandpa would stay up late with us and watch one of our dozens of rented movies (since there was nothing else to do for people that stayed awake till 4 in the morning). Grandpa, with his cup of coffee and toothpick, would sit in the basement chair and watch movies just as late as the rest of us. I found his secret to staying awake was that he would take 3 minute naps spaced through the movie. The most amazing part though, is that he did it while holding a cup of coffee in his lap, and a toothpick in his mouth. He could do this without spilling a thing.



I treasure the time I had with him, Whether through long distance visits and family gatherings, i wish I had more time. He was a great man, and I will miss him.

I'm so sorry about your loss. I'm also very sorry that I haven't gotten on here earlier. I too know what it feels like to lose someone so close to you so quick. Stay strong, I love you, and I'm always here for you! Listen to me being the big counselor now...hehe!

From your big blue eyed girl, Christy

It was over one month ago that my older brother, Ray, was laid to rest on a beautiful, cloudless day on the slopes of the Missouri. It was a day that was reminiscent of so many of our days together while we were growing up on the farm near Rugby. It was also a day that was a tribute to his life and I thank God for that.



On this Thanksgiving Day, my wife Patricia, our California family and I send all the members of Ray's wonderful family and especially his wife, Toots, our very warmest love and affection and the knowledge that we share in your loss. Ray will be as admired and loved in heaven as he was here on earth.



Our loss is God's gain.



Howard, Patricia & Family,

In The Sky

I'm sorry for the loss you have suffered.

Just know he went to a better place.

Never forget the times you shared.

Or your father's shining face.

Just knowing how you feel would mean the world.

Knowing you cared to cry.

So when you feel your will will curl.

Just know he's there in that big blue sky.

To lose a loved one is like loosing your place in life. It makes you reevaluate where you stand and who you are. I don't believe God intended death to make us do that. He intended death to help every one us begin new chapters and be a stronger person than we already are. Shelly, I know you will be stronger because of your loss and I look forward to seeing that person sprout out of you. It may not be tomorrow, next week, or even by the end of the year, but it will happen; I promise. Life may have seem to have taken this unexected bend in the road but once you get around the corner you will see all the beauty to last you a life time. Until then, grieve because you need to, cry because you can, and laugh at all the good times you had with your dad because they mean so much to you.

I miss you Dad, but I'll see you again. Rest peacefully and thankyou for loving me.

To Ray's family,

You are all in my thoughts and prayers.



Cecilia, you are a very special person. You seem to rise to every occasion with dignity and poise. I admire your strength and faith.



Ray was a special person, valued not only your family, but by your community. Many will miss him.



I only met Ray once but he left a lasting impression on me.

God has blessed each of us by allowing "Ray" to touch our lives.

Mrs.Reinisch Im sorry to hear about your dad I know its hard Ive been there before when i lost my grandma but hes in a better place now watching over you and your family you will see him again he will always be in your heart itll be rough for a little bit but itll get better I love you dont ever forget that Hugs & Kisses

We wish to express our deepest sympathy to the entire Jundt family during this very difficult time. We became as close to Cecilia as "email friends" could, and our only regret is that we did not have the privilege of meeting Ray personally before his passing. We think of Cecilia and Ray every day and pray that she takes the time to care for herself as well as she cared for Ray !!

To all who read this guest book: This is a dedication I read when presenting a research paper in front of my Business Ethics class the week after my return from North Dakota:

DEDICATED TO Raymond J. Jundt

I dedicate this paper to my Dad (Papa) - for without the scientific research of new experimental drugs, I would not have been fortunate enough to have the many memories and years being in the presence of such a wonderful man, my hero.

I remember a man who always made me feel special inside. This man was one of few words and a gracious heart. He cared and loved me even when I was not at my best behavior. He never held back on compassion for others, friendship or trust. You could rely on him as a trustworthy friend, mentor, teacher, and father whenever you needed him. My faith is strong because of this man. Through the grace of God this man fulfilled his purpose in life with fifty wonderful married years, a beautiful wife, and nine beautiful children.

Dad, your legacy lives on – until I see you again - I am holding you close in my heart always.

Your number five; daughter,

Carita

Papa, You always knew what to say with only a few words to brighten everyone's day. I miss your hugs and kisses, your kind and gentle caring heart, my confidant and "Dear Friend". I will cherish all the memories we shared, the vacations and get aways you made so special. We were great pinocle partners and even in defeat, we could look at the bright side .... we made others feel good. I miss your wisdom, and guidance. It was because of you, I became known in our family as the " Peacemaker". Thank you for being such a wonderful role model when raising your family. I admired everything about you. I was proud to have found a husband and raised a son with your help and guidance, much like you.

I feel at peace knowing that you are no longer suffering but, I still cry many tears because I miss your presence here on earth.

Until we meet again one day, watch over us all and know that I will never forget what you have done for me.

To me you will always be " The Perfect Papa"

Your loving #2 daughter

Cindy Marie

It just doesn't seem possible that Ray is gone from this earth ... memories of my childhood, growing up on 3rd Street, are never complete without thinking about the Jundt house! Things were always a little "crazy" around there ... there was always some sort of "action" happening at all times of the day. But when I think about Ray, I remember how unruffled he always was ... I remember his quiet demeanor, his smile, his giggle, his kindness and the awesome love him and Toots had for each other and all 9 of the kids!

Thank you, Ray and Toots, for bringing all these great children into this world ... and especially for "Snelly" my favorite sister-in-law and best friend!

Our lives are better for having known you, Ray. Rest in peace.



Mike, Kim, Meagan and Andy Reinisch

Toots, what a marvelous family you and Ray have raised. You can feel the love surround all of you. Ray will always remain with you, even tho you can't see him. My prayers are with you.

I have been blessed by the friendship of your daughter Shelly and her family. It is because of you and your family that Shelly is the wonderful lady that is so special to me. The love, kindness,

and caring that she shows stems from those who have nutured her very being through the years. She is a reflection of her parents who she holds dear in her heart and that circle of love goes unbroken.

You're in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry for ur loss.

Shelly I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. I know it's a very hard time and I wish I could give you a hug right now. Just know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

I feel like I have had a chance to know Mr. Jundt through his daughter, Shelly. He really was the greatest angel in disguise:)

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

We all live vicariously at some point in time, and I believe we have all come to know the gracious nature of the Jundt family. You sir, as I have come to hear, were a great man, and have produced a wonderful nature in this world. I thank you for your life, and for what you left behind. You have come to touch us all in some way.

My mother moved her residence to Heaven in June of '97 so I understand your sorrow and grief. It is a great comfort to know we'll see precious loved ones on the other side.

I will never forget this wonderful man known as my grandpa Jundt. I will never forget the look on his face when he had his family together, he looked happy. Two memories I have of my grandpa are "The three squeezes", we squeezed each others hand three times which means "I love you" another memory I have of him is the way he would take his naps, one cup of coffee on his lap, and a toothpick hanging from his mouth, and occasionally waking up to take a sip of coffee and falling back asleep, grandma would take the toothpick out after awhile so he wouldnt choke on it :D The last thing my grandpa did to me was squeeze my hand three times and he said " I love you" right before I went back to Indiana, that is one memory Im going to hold onto a long time. I will never forget you grandpa, I love you.

Though I have never met most of the family, I feel as if I know you through Shelly's friendship. She is an inspiration and a joy to have as a friend, and I know you are all a part of her in so many ways. Your family has been and will continue to be in my prayers.

I am only sad that I never met this wonderful man. God bless all of you for being the wonderful people I constanly hear about.

After being unresponsive all day, shortly before Dad took his last breath, he opened his eyes, looked up towards the heavens, and began a most miraculous chanting.

I know there is a heaven, and Dad is there.............."I can only imagine." No more suffering, only peace. I miss my Dad very much, he will always be a part of me.

Thank you Mom, for being so strong in your faith, for the love you and Dad shared, and for all the sacrifices you both made for your family. Love you dearly.

Peace and Grace, to all our wonderful family and friends.

I am terribly sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers and best wishes to you.

Curt,

My deepest sympathies for the loss of your father. Although I did not know him during his time on this earth, after reading the letters and seeing the photos, I feel like I knew him a little by being part of your life. Your father left a great legacy through you and your family. May God bless and comfort you and your family during this difficult time.

Yesterday in church, after we lit Dad's candle for the All Soul's Day ceremony, Mom leaned over to Randi Rae and said, "There is not one man here nearly as handsome as your Grandpa." Looking at the pictures in the photo gallery, you will find it easy to agree.

As all of my siblings will attest to, and Curt put so eloquently in the eulogy---

"Dad, no matter how long we live, no matter how far from home we stray, we will never forget you, and we will never forget to continue building upon the legacy of your life by doing what would have pleased you, BECAUSE WE KNOW IT WILL ALSO PLEASE GOD. We will do what’s right and “LIVE TO BE MISSED”, just like you did."

r>I miss you so much, Daddy. But I am finding peace in knowing that you are finally well.

Your Buddy, Crissy

Eulogy October 19, 2005



“Farwell to my Father - Raymond J. Jundt, PE”

BY Curtis D. Jundt - #4 of 9



**Thank You to all for prayers, cards, food – thank Sr Ivo, Fr. Paul**



Raymond or Ray – terms of endearment: Dad, Daddy, Pappa, Grandpa, Sarg, Sergeant Blue – a man with many hats now gone from here to a better place. I can tell you that Heaven just got a whole lot smarter since Saturday!! I can see my Dad already tutoring calculus to some mathematically challenged angels!!



Let me tell you about my Dad: My Dad Lived to be Missed – we’ve all shed a million tears in the time since we knew he would leave us 10 days ago, and since he left us here for the pearly gates of Heaven. But today Dad, we will celebrate your life and its legacy left to all your children and grandchildren to follow.



The greatest thing my Dad did for all nine of his children was to love my Mother unconditionally, and I “mean” unconditionally, for 50 years, 8-months and 1-day here on earth. He never had to tell us that, we witnessed it many times. My Dad adored my Mother and was just simply a “teddy bear” when it came to her and his daughters. He told us boys over coffee one night – years ago “you know boys those girls have me by their little finger – and that’s just the way it is”. He also told us growing up that “you don’t ever hit a lady – only sissies hit ladies! Even his grandson Jeremy received some words of wisdom about relationships after he attempted to argue a point with grandma, or maybe it was Amber. He told Jeremy “you’ll learn soon enough - never argue with a woman, she’s always right!”



By all who knew my Dad, they witnessed that he was a good and righteous man. Speaking on behalf of my siblings, we can say we did not ever see greed, jealousy, envy, revenge, vindictiveness or dishonesty. He didn’t preach the Ten Commandments, he lived them and we learned through his example.



My Dad didn’t believe in taking short-cuts in anything, especially in living a good Christian life and in getting an education. He told us all early on that “cheating in school will hurt no one but you”. [excluded said at Vigil Tuesday evening – “cheating in school will only make you a dummy”]



My Dad had impeccable morals and ethics and firmly taught us to adhere to what was right. He was gracious, yet firm when needed and he knew how to live “love”. I saw this not in just his family, but how he loved his two brothers, Howard and Harley, so dearly and always talked proudly about their accomplishments, never in envy or jealousy. The three of them were just simply great pals during his entire life and we had many laughs hearing stories about pranks my Dad used to pull on Uncle Howard, and their little brother, Harley. Of course we all know Uncle Howard will never pee on an electric fence again after the prank his older brother pulled on him!



Yes, our Dad led his family by example and was a firm disciplinarian. To us boys he had a firm hand when we messed up and crossed the fine line of right-and-wrong. And after the first infraction there was always a stern warning to do what’s right.

[excluded due to time: Even my nephew Jeremy learned well when to heed Grandpa’s subtle warnings. He would say “Jeremy, do you need help?” and Jeremy would answer “no Grandpa”. But one day Jeremy did need help and Grandpa firmly led him to the living room sofa to sit and think for a while with a firm warning “do not get off of here until I tell you”. Well, Grandpa went about some chores in the kitchen and then decided to take a short knap. About two hours later, refreshed from his knap, Grandpa walked into the living room only to find Jeremy still on the sofa – obediently waiting for Grandpa’s permission to leave!]



To our community my Dad was a giver, not a taker. He took for gospel JFK’s words “ask not what your Country can do for you, but what you can do for your Country”. He gave himself in service to the City of Bismarck in a position that was under-compensated, over-worked and more often than not, taken for granted (sounds like Fr. Paul’s job!). He endured the scrutiny of the public eye and the politics of the city commission. But for him his passion was, he told me, the engineering – he simply did not like the confrontation and negativity or hindsighting that went with the job as it went against his grain. But get him talking about the engineering projects in Bismarck that he had been, or was, involved in and man would he light up!



[excluded for time: I’ll never forget when he was still both the City Engineer and Director of Public Works we would get infrequent phone calls at the house and at all hours from some often times irrational complainants. It was a Saturday late in the evening and this gentleman was unhappy about the snow removal. We were all visiting in the kitchen and all we heard on Dad’s end was “I see”, “ok”, “mmm hmm mmm hmm” – the gentlemen was apparently inebriated and was spinning yarn a thousand miles long. My Dad couldn’t even get a word in edgewise so he walked over to the table, shook his head and handed the phone to my sister Cynthia who just continued conversing with the guy – it was amusing because the guy didn’t even question the change from my Dad’s voice to one of the girls! By the time we were done this intoxicated gentleman was able to plead his case to darn near the entire family!]



My Dad’s trademark is all over this city and he is still unequivocally respected by all who knew and worked with him. He was a gracious leader. At his retirement celebration in April 1993, we heard from a couple of spouses of employees who were so grateful for my Dad’s compassion in getting their husbands into alcohol addiction treatment while he kept their job’s open for them if they came back sober. He didn’t just fire them; he did what was the only right thing to do in his mind.



My Dad served this parish as the Chair of the first parish counsel (called something else back then) and he and my mother have always been faithful contributors and volunteers. My Dad set an example by Always having his weekly envelope in his coat pocket every Sunday; even when money was short he dropped the envelope in the basket. I remember him helping with many God’s Share Appeals going door-to-door meeting with fellow parishioners.



[Excluded for time: My Dad served on the Park Board for many years and was a long time board member of the Capital Credit Union in its earlier years.] His expertise and professionalism were in high demand while we were growing up and it meant we didn’t see him much during the week. As difficult as it was, I struggle to recall any time where he complained about his enduring schedule – I think he felt martyrdom was for after life on earth. That humble aspect of his life is one that has always left a huge impression on me. He did after all; emulate the true example of “humility”. For a man with so many God-given attributes put toward so many awesome accomplishments, you did not hear him blow his horn. He was not a self-promoter as he saw that as a character flaw.



We were given a final gift of having my Dad regain an unbelievable level of coherency in his last 24 hours. He was able to speak better than at any time in the last 17 days. On the night before he passed away, he was unbelievably coherent – he recalled everything we spoke about. He looked at my daughter Rebecca and said “Becky, did you tell Dave (her husband) hello from me?” My Rebecca is a softy and she turned to cry and couldn’t give him an answer. He then replied “Becky, when I get debugged, I will send you my blessings”. My niece Randi Rae then went over to give him a kiss and his arms rose to hug her like never before in the past 17 days. Shortly after that on Friday evening he closed his eyes and did not open them again until minutes before his passing on Saturday. My sister Raenelle had sat with our Dad every night for the past four nights and was by him at that time. At 5 PM his eyes opened up and his lips were moving as if he were speaking to someone. She quickly called my Mom and other family members came quickly to his side. Mom then pulled his head to her and said “spread your wings and fly my love” – after one more breath he left this earth.



Dad, no matter how long we live, no matter how far from home we stray, we will never forget you, and we will never forget to continue building upon the legacy of your life by doing what would have pleased you, because we know it will also please God. We will do what’s right and “live to be missed”, just like you did.



Sleep in Heavenly Peace Dad! Your Beloved wife Cecilia and your nine children along with their awesome children will be with you someday! Today its farewell – we’ll see you later, not goodbye, ‘cause we will see you again someday.

Love eternally from your nine Children,

Raenelle, Cynthia, Randall, Curtis, Carita, Rachelle, Ryan, Crystal and Clark; and your loving wife Cecilia.

Dear Aunt Toots & Family:

We are so sorry to get the news about Uncle Ray. We are so very glad we were able to make it to your 50th wedding anniversary last summer. Uncle Ray was always special to all of us & I reiterate when I say the same things my siblings have said...we always felt very welcome, safe & loved when visiting at your house. We will all miss Uncle Ray a lot. God Bless all of you during this sad time...All our love, Sharon & Bill

My Beloved husband of 50 and a half years, I will miss you so much. I know that you are in heaven and one day we will be together again.Thanks for fighting so hard to be well enough to make that special day for me. We wanted to create some memories and we did just that. I thank God for the 17 days I had to sit by your side and tell you I loved you and say our prayers together.That will always be the hardest time for me, when i have to say my prayers at nite alone. Keep watching over all of us my love-- till we meet again.

Your Mrs J.

Dear Aunt Toots & Cousins,

I was saddened to hear of Uncle Ray's passing. As I read through this guest book it was obvious that the sentiments and memories of Uncle Ray are very much the same for everyone. Each entry speaks of wonderful memories of him regardless of the length of time they knew him. I know my siblings and I were always made to feel special by him whenever we came to visit. We were impressed by his gentleness, his intelect, his obvious love for his family and our heavenly father, and his empathy for his fellow man. We all wished more then once that our own dad had been more like him. What a wonderful role model he was and what a terrible loss this world has suffered due to his passing. Take comfort in the fact that he is with our heavenly father, my Mom (Dolly), Aunt Vera, Grandpa and Grandma Schneider and of course his own parents. I'm sure about now they are all in heaven playing a hearty game of cards or dancing the polka. My only regret is that we didn't live in Bismarck long enough to get to spend more time with all of you. Our deepest sympathy to you and yours in your time of sorrow. Love to all, Rose & Family

DAD



His eyes go right through you,

As you catch their glance.

To be in his presence,

Was just like a dance.



Sweet nothings at bedtime,

Whispered in your ear,

Will always be heard

As if you are near.



A man of few words,

Not much need be said,

When every word spoken,

Lives on in my head.



You are so amazing,

So sweet and so smart,

How could any one man,

Have such a big heart?



Quiet and gracious,

A beautiful man,

His love passes through you,

With a squeeze from his hand.



Walking and talking,

And loving my dad,

A lifetime of memories,

What a gift I have had.



The riches I’ve known,

And what I want to be,

Come from his heart,

This person of me.



I know I will miss you,

I didn’t want you to go,

I’m so happy for your peace,

That one day I’ll know.

Curt,Kelly,and family,

Hearing what you went through these last few weeks watching your dad slip away reminded us so much of when we lost Wade's mom 15 years ago. Like you, the experience also helped us know for certain that there truly is a heaven that eagerly waits for all of us when the time is right... and that's the part that is hard to understand. The memories help us wait for our chance to be together again. Be strong in the love of your family.. Love you!

I love ya a ton Grandpa and I can't wait to meet you in heaven. I hope you will put in a good word for me and the rest of the family. I will always remeber your smile and your wonderful words of wisdom. Thanks for always keeping an accurate measure of my height on the broom closet door.

I love you Grandpa!!!

To the entire Jundt family, I just learned of your father when I ran into Randy in Jamestown. I want to send you my thoughts and prayers. Your father was a great man and wonderful person. May you all find comfort in the strength of our father in heaven. Peace to all of you.

Dear Aunt Toots and Family,

I was deeply saddened to hear of Uncle Ray's passing. I'll always remember what a kind, gentle person he was, and how special I felt to be his god daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Maureen (Renie)

Peace and love to all of you. You are neat and spirited people. You had a precious and dear person in your lives. He lives forever in all of us.



I thank God for Ray as he was a man who encompassed and lived the commandment of love. He was here with us in church, in our community. We/I treasure his presence and goodness.



Sister Ivo Schoch

Curt, Kelly & Family -

We send our heartfelt sympathy to you in the loss of your father. May God continue to give you the comfort you need to get through this most difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

CJ and Family,

My deepest sympathy to you on your great loss. May he live on in your hearts.

Dear Cecilia and family,

I want to extend my prayerful sympathy to all of you. Ray left a wonderful legacy of gentleness, honor, and service...a great gift to our world today. A "few years ago" I had the privilege of teaching two of your and Ray's children, Raenelle and Randy at Cathedral. At that time I was Sister Yvonne. They may have forgotten me but I have not forgotten them and the loving support you and Ray gave your children. May Ray's memory keep his presence alive among you, especially as you share stories about him. May Ray know forever God's loving and welcome embrace of peace and joy.

Sincerely,

May God bless you and your family in

this time of sorrow.From Rays double cousin

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

To the whole family,



My heartfelt sorrow and prayers are with all of you. Uncle Ray will be missed greatly by all. He always had a way of making us feel special and welcome whenever we came to visit. I know that God is with all of you at this time as he was when we lost Mom. Time, family and memories are the greatest of healers. Love, thoughts and prayers to all of you.

Dear Aunt Toots & Family--

Darlene & I, along with our children, Michelle and Christopher, and their families, are keeping you in our thoughts & prayers. Darlene & I cherish the memories of all the good times we had with you & Uncle Ray, way back, the first few years we were married. Uncle Ray was such a special person. Even tho' we haven't seen much of you, over the years since we moved away, he will be deeply missed.

I have not known Ray Jundt for long, but I could tell upon meeting him how important his family was to him. His pride in his wife, children and grandchildren was readily apparent. His goal in life seemed to be for his wife, children and grandchildren to be happy. I know how delighted he was to have his family and friends around him at his recent anniversary celebration. He will be missed, but a large part of him will remain with his family as he continues to take pride in their accomplishments.

Heather and I are so saddened by your loss. Your husband and father was a wonderful man! May you always know that he will be looking down from heaven and watching over all of you.

My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family.

Love Cousin Marlena and Family

Rachelle (Shelly)

I don't know if you will even remember me, but I attending Hughes Junior High School with you. Just recently I saw your parents at a Saturday evening mass at Corpus Christi. Your mom read that day, and hearing her voice just brought back the memories of time you and I spent together. I did not know your father very well, but I do remember that feeling of how much he love his family. My prayers are with you.

Carol (Schmidt) Kurtz

Curt, Kelly, Amy, Becky, Michael:

We know how important your Dad (and Grandpa) was to you. We're sorry for your loss. Keep him close in your heart, and he'll never really be gone. We love you!

Dear Cecelia, we were sad to hear about Ray's passing. Rose & I have enjoyed any time we had with you & Ray and your family over the last few years. It was so nice we could spend last Fourth of July evening with you out at Doug's farm. As many have said Ray always had a smile and a kind word for you. We will miss him dearly and keep you and your family in our prayers.

Dearest Grandpa,



I miss you terribly. I am so proud to be your Granddaughter, and so thankful for all of the beautiful memories I have of you. So intelligent, so loving, and so kind, the life you have lived is truly an example to live by. Thank you for everything Grandpa. I love you very much.

Curt & Kelly:



Marcy and I have both lost our fathers; therefore, we do appreciate what you are experiencing right know. Hold blessed the fact that you were able to spend time with Ray and say your good byes.



I suspect he is already designing some new Heavenly subdivision and laying out the storm-sewer system or street plan. I know he always enjoyed being involved more than being a spectator.

Dear Cecelia, and family, My heartfelt sympathy is with you in the loss of Ray. I know that he has gone to heaven because of his faith in Jesus. May

God put His loving arms around each one of you and grant to you His comfort and peace. All my love to you. Maryann Greene

I cannot believe the time has come to say goodbye to you. I am comforted by the fact that without question heaven gained one heck of an angel. I am so glad that you gave me so many wonderful memories that I will cherish forever. I could never express how terribly you will be missed by us. Dave was just telling me today that he will miss talking about Engineering with you, as you knew so much. Thank you for making us never have to question how much you loved us. I love you Grandpa, I'll see you again someday.

Love, Becky

I'm sorry for your loss.

If you haven't already, check out the photos of my father in the gallery.



While watching the end of “Mr. Holland’s Opus” some time ago, I tried to think of a teacher or someone who inspired me. My father quickly came to mind. Following in his footsteps and working in Bismarck, I’ve met more people than I can count who new him professionally. Now of course none of them are going to say anything bad to me about my father, but I believe praise, on the other hand, is only expressed sincerely. Everyone, and I mean everyone, has gone to great lengths to tell me how much they think of him. After that, they always ask how he is doing.



If I had one wish for my professional career, it would be to retire with as much respect as he did. I know this will never come true because it is impossible!



He was my teacher, my role model, my hero, and my friend. I will miss him very much!

Dear Crystal,

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Randi Rae and the rest of the Jundt family. I only had the chance to meet your dad a few times but during those times I could tell how much he loved and respected his family. I am truly sorry for your loss.