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Mona
August 25, 2025
Hi Libby
I hardly believe it´s 14 years now.
I know you visit me frequently.
I think you often. Remembering the good and fun times that we had together.
I miss you Libby.
I´ll see you when God calls me to Him.
Then we´ll be together forever .
Until then I´m always thinking of you Libby.
I love you!!
Mona
September 3, 2024
Libby I wanted to tell you that Glenn watched
" Who´s that Girl" on August 29th in memory of you .
We remember the things that you loved.
You were so happy when you were going to see Madonna in concert. That was one of the happiest times in your life.
It made me feel good to know that I could be a part of making that happen for you.
I love you Libby!
Ramona
September 3, 2024
Hi Libby
It´s hard to believe it´s been this long since God called you home.
I miss seeing you, but
I´m happy that you aren´t sick and in pain anymore.
I´m hoping I´m able to visit you again soon.
I love you Libby.
You´re always on my mind.
Mona
January 22, 2024
Hi Libby,
I´m sorry you didn´t get the birthday message I wrote to you on your birthday.
The legacy website has changed since I last wrote to you, and I couldn´t find your name to send you a message.
I finally found the page to write to a message.
Happy belated birthday to you Libby!!!
I can only imagine how the celebrations are in heaven.
I´m sure it´s beautiful!
I´ll always remember those birthday cakes that you had when we went to parties at your house. Those cakes were so good.
The times we shared together I will cherish in my heart forever!!
Thank you for visiting me Libby.
I´m happy when I see you in my dreams.
It makes me smile when you visit in my dreams.
I can feel your presence when you are here. It´s comforting to know that you´re here communicating with us .
I miss talking with you.
Until we meet again, I´m always thinking of you.
Love, your big sister
Mona
May 16, 2023
Hi Libby,
I´ve been feeling your presence and also ma´s presence quite a bit lately.
I´m happy and smile when I know you and Ma are near me. I´ll always need you near.
Thank you for visiting me .
I´ve been seeing pac man video games in some movies lately.
I know that´s you trying to get my attention.
I was remembering when you were a little girl and loved to play Pac Man at the arcade.
We´d hang out at that store and buy candy and soda.
Good old times huh .
I miss you Libby.
Someday I will see you again.
Mona
Mona
January 19, 2023
Hi Libby
Happy birthday Libby!!
I´m sorry I didn´t write you yesterday.
I hope you had a wonderful birthday.
I miss and love you Libby.
Love, Mona
Mona
January 18, 2022
Happy birthday Libby!!
Remembering the times we came to your house to celebrate birthdays.
We had so much fun!
And so much yummy food. .
I miss those times together.
Some day we will be together again.
Until then, I miss and think about you every day.
I love you Libby.
Happy birthday !
Mona
August 29, 2021
Hey Libby,
Check this out!
One of the good memories I have of spending time together with you.
Our family functions were so much fun. I remember lots of laughter.
I wish now, that I would of spent more time with you.
Thank you for always understanding, when I didn´t come to see you more often.
I can´t believe this much time has passed.
I´m going out to run errands in a bit.
I know you will let me see, and notice your presence while I´m out.
Thank you for visiting me Libby.
Till we meet again, you are always on my mind.
Love you Libby! OXOX
Mona
August 28, 2021
Hi Libby,
Your baby is getting married.
I know everyone wishes that you could be there.
But I know, you will be there in spirit, smiling as you see Alfredo get married. I hope he feels your presence .
" We all wish Alfredo and Maelee a lifetime of best friends, love and happiness"
Mona
January 18, 2021
Happy birthday Libby!!
Thank you, for visiting Glenn and I today .
Glenn sent me a picture of you today giving him the bunny ears.
He was remembering how you use to have fun doing that to him in pictures .
We all miss you Libby!!!
Until we meet again, Happy birthday!!
I love you ❤
January 18, 2020
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY Libby!!
I was shopping the other day and came across two beanie babies.
One was an angel teddy bear exactly like the one
I placed by your side.
And the other one was a turtle. Speedy.
At that moment, I knew that you were with me.
I brought home the angel and turtle.
I love you Libby!
May 16, 2019
Happy Mother's Day Libby,
I'm happy that you and Ma are together.
It's sad for us here on earth, because you aren't physically with us.
But I'm happy you are with God now.
I can only imagine how wonderful it is in heaven.
I will be with you when God tells me it's my time.
I miss you Libby.
I miss all of you.
P.S Thank you for taking care of all our fur babies.
My Tasha joined you not long ago. I miss her so so much.
Now my our fur babies, and your fur babies can be friends and play together.
It comforts me to know that you are taking care of all our fur babies.
Thank you Libby ❤
I love you!
Sending hugs to you.
January 20, 2019
Happy belated birthday Libby,
I'm sorry for the belated birthday wish.
I know you understand.
I know you see the trials in my life right now.
Thank you for understanding Libby.
Your the best!
I miss and love very much. ❤
October 10, 2018
Hello Libby,
Today especially, I miss you so much!
I'm very emotional thinking about you today.
I know your in a better place now.
No more pain. No more sadness. No more tears.
Just a carefree life now.
I am happy that you are in heaven now.
But It still hurts that your physically gone.
I know you are around us. Watching over us. And I know you sometimes are near me to say Hello
Thank you Libby, for visiting me.
It makes me smile when I feel your presence.
I love and miss you Libby!
August 29, 2018
Hi Libby
Seven years have gone by already.
i sometimes still think your here.
I miss talking to you. I miss coming to Your house to see you.
Please forgive me for not writing or coming to visit you more often.
It doesn't mean I'm not thinking of you. It doesn't mean i have forgotten you.
I love and miss you.
I will try to come to see you as soon as I can Libby.
I love you !
January 18, 2018
Happy Birthday Libby!!
I hope you enjoy cake and ice cream to celebrate your birthday.
I know you liked cake with bananas and strawberries with whipped icing.
That was yummy cake!!
No bakeries around here make that yummy cake.
I wish there was a place around here to buy cake like that.
Then I'd have some, in honor of you.
I miss you Libby.
Happy Birthday to the birthday girl!
P.S.
Bob says, Happy Birthday !
Sister
December 25, 2017
Merry Christmas Libby,
Another year gone by.
Always thinking of you.
Our Christmas's together were always happy times.
I miss those times.
And I miss you dearly.
I love you Libby.
Mona
August 30, 2017
Hi Libby
Please forgive me for not writing to you more often.
It doesn't mean that I'm not thinking of you, or missing you. It seems like you've been gone longer than it has been.
I'm always thinking about you. And I miss you dearly.
I think about our conversations on the phone. I think about the times we've shared together.
I miss the times we'd come to your house to visit all of you.
I know your in a better place now. And I know I will someday see you again.
I miss you Libby....
Love, your big sister
January 18, 2017
Happy Birthday Libby!
I'm sure the celebrations in heaven are awesome!
I wish we could talk.
We'll talk again, when it's my time to leave earth.
I can only imagine what it will be like.
Till then- Thinking and missing you everyday.
I love you Libby.
January 1, 2017
Happy New Year Libby!
I'll always remember when you'd call me right after midnight on New Years Eve.
I was usually sleeping and then you'd say, " are you sleeping already".
I miss that call from you Libby.
Until we meet again, love and miss you.
December 27, 2016
Merry Christmas Libby
I know this is your favorite holiday.
I also know Alfredo and Fredo deeply miss you.
I know your under Gods wing now, but we all still miss you so much.
Until we meet again, I love you.
Mona
August 29, 2016
Hi Libby,
I love and miss you.
We all miss and love you, Libby.
I often ask God to say, " hi " to you.
I can see you smile Libby.
And I know your watching over me.
You will always be on my mind.
Until we meet again....
Mona
May 8, 2016
Hi Libby.
Love and miss you.
February 15, 2016
Hi Libby,
Thanks for coming to see me today.
You made me smile.
Always thinking of you.
I miss you Libby
Love, Mona
Mona
January 18, 2016
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LIBBY!!
We miss and love you.
January 18, 2016
Happy Birthday Day Libby!
Love and miss you !
Mona
December 25, 2015
Merry Christmas Libby,
We miss and love you.
Until we meet again....
May 10, 2015
Happy Mother's Day Libby, we love and miss you.
Mona
May 7, 2015
Hello Libby
Sorry I haven't written to you in awhile.
Always thinking of you, and miss you
Libby.
Happy Mothers Day Libby.
January 19, 2015
Happy Birthday Libby
I can only imagine how great it must be to celebrate your birthday in heaven.
I was imagining you with your birthday hat on. Balloons and flowers , and decorations everywhere. And of course, the best part, your birthday cake.
im sure your day was awesome, because that's how it is in heaven, God.
We all miss you Libby.
I love you Libby.
Mona
alfredo fernandez
January 18, 2015
Happy birthday Libby!
Mona
January 1, 2015
Happy New Year Libby
I love and miss you.
Christmas Evening with Libby
alfredo fernandez
December 27, 2014
Mona
December 25, 2014
Merry Christmas Libby
I know this was your favorite holiday. I miss the get togethers we had.
I know your watching over us.
We all miss you.
Until we meet again.
Love you.
Mona
October 5, 2014
Hi Libby
Always thinking of you.
Missing you always.
Always in my heart.
I miss, so much, talking with you.
Looking forward to seeing you again.
I love and miss you Libby.
Mona
August 30, 2014
Libby
Three years, and I still sometimes think I can call and talk to you.
I miss talking to u Libby.
Now you got to see Andy again. Theresa is so sad, but God will comfort her.
Just like He did for us when He called upon you.
Looking foward to seeing You again, in Gods heaven.
I love you Libby.
alfredo fernandez
August 29, 2014
It's been three years since you past away and we all miss you greatly. From time to time I still think that you're going to come through the door. Love you always.
alfredo fernandez
May 11, 2014
Happy Mothers Day Libby !
Mona
May 11, 2014
Happy Mother's Day Libby.
I miss and love you.
Michael Lopez
April 16, 2014
Hi Libby,
I know that it has been quite a while since I wrote to you. It does not mean that I have forgotten about you. I just have thought more of you than to actually write down my thoughts. We are all doing ok, but always miss you as well as ma and everyone else that we have lost. Our girls are growing up and will soon be in college. The time has really flown by. But I'm sure that you are aware of all of that as you watch over everyone. Well, I just wanted to say hi and let you know that we all love and miss you. See you soon.
Michael
Mona
April 14, 2014
Hello Libby
Texted Fredo the other day. He's doing really well in school. I know you'd be so proud of him. I told him great job and keep up the good work.
I know you wanted him to finish school and that is what he's doing.
I give him a lot of credit. He's been through a lot.
He's a strong person, because of you.
Your not physically here, but still helping him.
You are greatly missed by everyone Libby.
I love you.
Your sister, Mona
Mona
April 2, 2014
Hello Libby
Your always on my mind. I miss seeing you. I still picture you being at home with Alfredo, Fredo and chopper.
I thank God when He gives me another day to live, but I am looking forward to seeing you again.
I really miss you Libby.
I hold you near. You are in my heart.
Love, Mona
Mona
March 17, 2014
Hi Libby
Mona Chase
March 16, 2014
Libby,
"One sweet day. "
Till then, always thinking of you.
I miss you!
Mona
January 19, 2014
Sorry about those ?
It was suppose to be a bouquet of flowers and a heart.
I guess those kinds of signs are not allowed.
Sorry again.
I miss you Libby.
Mona Chase
January 18, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LIBBY ??
I LOVE YOU ??
Mona Chase
January 2, 2014
Libby,
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
I miss you.
I'm hoping to get another sign from you. It gives me comfort when that happens. I like when you communicate with me.
Remember when you'd call me on New Year's Day? 12:01.
And if I didn't answer, which I rarely did, you'd leave a message.
"What, your sleeping already"??
What can I say, I'm old.
Anyways, Fredo texted and wished me a Happy New Year. At 12:01
He's carrying on for you. (-:
Happy New Year Libby!!!
I love you.
Love, Mona
Alfredo Fernandez
December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas Libby. We all love and miss you. Hope you love the wreath we placed for you. Love you.
Mona Chase
September 21, 2013
Hi Libby
I know I can talk to you anytime, but I wish I could hear your voice.
Another birthday has come and gone for me. Once again I thought about you calling to wish me a Happy Birthday.
I know I didn't call or come visit you as much as I should have, while you were here. I struggled with that a long time after you were gone. I've asked for your forgiveness, and I know you've forgiven me. That's what helps me to go on.
Even though I can't get a text or phone call from you, I know your with me and communicating with me in your own way.
I like when I get messages from you. It makes me smile to know your watching over me.
I know God only knows when it's time for me to see you again. So, all i can do is be patient and wait.
So, until then I really miss and love you Libby. ??
I think about you always.
Love, Mona
Miss you Libby
alfredo fernandez
August 30, 2013
Jackie
August 29, 2013
Hello Aunt Libby. I miss you so very much!! The past week and cant help but cry every time I think of you! It is so hard to believe that is has been two years since you were taken from us. I know your in a better place but I cant help but wish you were still here on earth with us all! I love you and miss you! I talk about you often to my boys. Can you believe lil Edgar is in kindergarten already. Manny will have an exam on the 10th please continue to protect him and be by his side during that time since I cant be there while it is going on. Julius is so big and talking so much asking right now for some more water now lol. They loved you so much! lil Edgar still remembers you and packer he was asking about both of you recently. I plan to go visit you, both my grandmas, my daddy and my father in law this weekend. I love and miss you so much Aunt Libby you are forever in my heart!! x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0!!!
Mona Chase
August 29, 2013
Hi Libby,
I still sometimes think your at home with your family. It's been two years now since you had to leave this earth.
I miss you, and wish I could call and talk to you. But I know your in a better place. I also know that if I need or want to talk to you, I just ask God to please talk to you for me. That gives me great comfort.
I believe you are watching over us. I bet at times you even walk right along side of us. (-:
I talk to you all the time. That makes me smile.
I often think about our last day together at the museum. I see you in my mind. You were enjoying that cow pie drink. You really liked that drink ??.
I remember your smiling face, whenever I think of you.
I know it's Gods will when it's time for me to come to heaven, but I look forward to seeing your smiling face once again.
Never to part again from you.
I know you don't want me to feel sad, but I can't help but feel sad at this time. It's 11:08 am right now, and My body is feeling out of the norm right now. And I know why.
Oh Libby. How I wish I could of talked to you before you left.
I think of you laying down at Alfredo's parents house when you were feeling sick, that morning two years ago today.
I only hope You weren't scared.
Libby, you are in my prayers everyday. I miss and love you so much.
Thank you for loving all of us while you were here on earth.
I'm sorry I didn't come to see you today. I'm hoping to visit you sometime in September.
Until we meet again,
I MISS YOU LIBBY??
alfredo fernandez
June 2, 2013
Happy 23rd Anniversary Libby,
hope you liked our little picnic together.
Love and miss you always.
Mona Chase
May 12, 2013
Happy Mothers Day Libby!
I know you must miss your family, as we all miss you.
Some day we will all get to see you again. Until then, you are in our hearts.
I miss and love you Libby. XOXO
Have a wonderful day!!
Love, Mona
Mona Chase
April 15, 2013
Libby,
I MISS YOU!!!!
Love, Mona
Mona Chase
January 19, 2013
I Libby
I hope your birthday was wonderful. I'm sure it was. Just being in heaven must be wonderful.
Michelle told me she dreamt about you. You wanted me to know that you have Coda, and that he is okay. I'm devastated from losing Coda and needed to know that he is okay. Now I know that my Coda Boy is okay. I know that, because you have him. Thank you Libby. I know you'll take good care of him.
Last night in my prayers I asked God if I could dream about Coda. I dreamt of you.
You said you came to say hi, and to see if I was okay. We hugged and talked for only a short period of time and then you said you had to leave.
God let me dream about you to ease my worries and hurting.
I miss you Libby. Thank you very much for taking care of Coda. It'll be so wonderful when God calls me home and I can see Him, Jesus and everyone else there.
Until then, you are always in my heart.
Love, mona
Alfredo Fernandez
January 18, 2013
Happy Birthday Libby !
I got your favorite cake so that we can still celebrate you.
I will also say a prayer for you.
Love and miss you babe.
Mona Chase
January 18, 2013
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LIBBY!!!!!
Enjoy your birthday with everyone in heaven today!!
I will write to you again later on today
I love and miss you!!!
Mona Chase
January 14, 2013
Dear Libby,
As you know, I had to let my Coda Boy go. He had cancer and was suffering, and it didn't look good.
Oh how I miss him. I know he is in heaven with you now. He can finally be off lead and run around and play. He's happy to be able to run, play and be pain free. I know that you will see Coda Boy and take good care of him for us.
Thank You Libby!!!
Just like when you passed away, I know God took you for a reason. And I know that God also took Coda for a reason. I just don't exactly know the reason right now. I just know that I miss him so much.
God doesn't give us anything we can't handle.
I love and miss you Libby.
I wasn't ready for my Coda Boy to leave me, but I'm happy he is with you now and I know that you will love and take care of Coda for me.
Thank you Libby.
Please give Coda a BIG hug from me and tell him that I love him, and that he is a good boy
Please also tell Coda Boy that Glenn and Joanie love him.
Thanks so much Libby.
Love, Mona
Mona Chase
December 31, 2012
HAPPY NEW YEAR LIBBY!!
I remember when u used to call me to wish me a happy New Years before midnight because I'd always fall asleep before then (-:
You'd probally be laughing at me.
I really was missing you earlier today. I was driving in my car and crying because I miss you.
Someday we will be together forever.
I love you Libby.
Mona
Mona Chase
December 25, 2012
Merry Christmas Libby!
We all miss you. More so when the holidays come.
I know your watching over us. That gives me comfort. Things sometimes happen and I then know your watching me. I can see you smiling at me. I know u want me to be happy.
As long as I know your okay, then I'll be alright.
Someday we will be together again Libby.
Until then, you are always on my mind and in my heart.
Love, Mona
Mona Chase
December 16, 2012
Hi Libby
Christmas, your favorite holiday, is just around the corner. It will be two Christmas's without you here.
I took out the last two Christmas cards that you sent us. I liked seeing your handwriting. It's sad, but I am able to see your handwriting.
I had a coffee cup made with a picture of you and me on it. I use that cup almost everyday. I look at your smiling face and Then i smile back at you. (-:
I miss you Libby.
Merry Christmas Libby!!
I love and think about you everyday Libby.
Love, your sister Mona
alfredo fernandez
October 25, 2012
Hi babe, just wanted to say Hello and that I'm always thinking of you.
Love and miss you so much.
Mona Chase
September 13, 2012
Hello Libby
When I write to you I wish I could hear your voice. I haven't dreamt about you in a long time. I wish I would. It makes me feel like your not so far away and it seems like you haven't been gone for as long as you have.
It's still so hard to believe that your not here anymore. I keep picturing you at home with Alfredo, Fredo, chopper and packer.
We all miss you so much Libby.
I'm happy that I was able to come visit you on Sept. 9th. Its nice that mom and Manuel are there too It's always nice to come to Chicago to visit the family.
I'm struggling with some things in my life right now. Things that we use to talk about. I wish I could talk to you it. I miss not having you here to help me feel better. I thank God that I have family to talk to.
I'm glad you are pain free now, where there is no sorrow and no sadness. Only joy and a glorious life with God. So, I'm happy that you are okay now.
I love and miss you Libby.
Mona
alfredo fernandez
August 29, 2012
Libby,
I can't believe that it's been one year since you were taken from us. There is not one day that I do not think or miss you.
You are the strongest person that I have ever met. I was so proud of you. No one will ever compare to you.
I don't know when is the next time we will see each other but when I do I will hold on to you and won't let go.
Mona Chase
August 29, 2012
Libby,
I love the memories I have of you. You are ALWAYS on my mind. Today between 1and 2 for my special time remembering you, I will watch the video of you. At 1:30 I will light a candle for you, sit on my deck, pray for you, and remember you. I will never forget you Libby! You were the greatest sister anyone could ever have. I know we are far apart from each other now, and that we cannot physically talk to each other. But we are connected at the heart, and no one can ever break our bond. I'm so lucky that you are my sister. My only regrett is that I wish I would of told you that more often.
I know you don't want me to cry for you. Your wish for me is to be happy. I know you want us to know, that your in a better place. But today is especially hard, and I will be struggling. I will still try to remember that you are okay. And that you are in heaven with God now.
I will come to visit you on September 9th.
I am sorry that I couldn't visit you today ):
I love and miss you Libby!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mona
Michael Lopez
August 29, 2012
aHi Libby,
It is so hard to believe that it has been a year since you were taken from us. The only good thing about that is knowing that it has been a year since you have been away from the pain and suffering that you had to deal with, every day. Besides, that all that I can do is miss you and wish that you were still here with all of us. I remember hearing the news on my voicemail form Mona, while I was driving home and felt like it was just a bad dream as I was listening to her voice, telling me the tragic news and I have been in somewhat of denial ever since. All that I can ask today is for you to help everybody be strong through all of this.....especially today. This afternoon, we we are going to the cemetary to see you and hope that you can feel our love as well as the love from the rest of the family that will not be able to be there with us. I'm sure that you know, that no matter where any of us are, we all love and miss you just as much as the day that you left us. Take care Libby, and I will see you soon.
Love,
Michael
Mona Chase
August 26, 2012
Hi Libby,
In a few days it will be a year since you had to go. A year. I can hardly believe it. Fall is just around the corner. Last Fall was pretty rough. I waited for you to call me on my birthday.
Than Christmas, your favorite
holiday, (I was told by Alfredo).
The holidays are rough on everyone. As you know, you are always on our minds. Especially now that it is approaching one year since you went to heaven. It's going to hit all of us, all over again. Please forgive me Libby, but as you know I won't be able to come see you until September 9 th. I'll just keep your smiling face in my mind. I miss you Libby! It's so hard as I sit here and think of you. I still think I can get on the phone and call you and hear your voice. Or that I can visit you at the house with your family. I know your in a better place now. Where there is no pain, no hurting, no sadness, no crying. Just happiness. It gives me comfort to know that you are at that place now. In heaven. SMILING. Wanting all of us to be happy and not sad that you had to leave your family here on earth. I am happy for you Libby.
I will come to visit you soon Libby. I LOVE YOU!!!
Mona
Jackie
August 25, 2012
Hello Aunt Libby. I miss you so much it hurts so much to know its been a year already. I miss you so much you were one of my bestfriends. so much has been going on lately and knowing its going on a year since you left us it makes me feel depressed. I know your in a better place without pain but I wish you were still here with us. As you already know Manny just had his exam this past wednesday and he has no caner/tumors anymore. I know your one of his guardian angels. He sleeps with your blanket every night so its like your the one that puts him to sleep. I have been meaning to come write to you even though I talk to you all the time in my mind and heart. I love and miss you so much Aunt Libby!!
Jim Talbot
August 1, 2012
Hi Libby, it's Jim. I can't believe that it has been nearly a year since you passed away. You were a good friend and a good listener. You always listened to my problems. As annoying as I was at times you listened,to me and had given me advice on how to improve my situation..you were a genuinely nice person Libby, and a fun person to be around, and we miss you very much.
Michael Lopez
July 14, 2012
Hi Libby,
How are you doing? As you can see, we are doing the best that we can. I was just sitting here this Saturday morning (7:10am)going thru bills then decided to look at yours and ma's Legacy guestbook, and just love to read the things that we have all written to you both since you have been gone and can feel all of the love that is there, thru these letters. That is something that money can never buy. You both were and will always be loved and missed by so many. I just wish that Monica and Melisa got to grow up some with you two in their lives to help inspire them. They would have only been better for it. But I'm sure that you both are doing what you can from heaven. I don't doubt that at all. Well, I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you both and am forever missing you. See you all soon.
Love,
Michael
Mona Chase
June 29, 2012
Hello Libby,
I'm really missing you today. It's 10 months now. I took the day off from work. You are always on my mind. But I want to tell you about a song that really reminds me of you.
"I Will Remember You "
By: Amy Grant
I talk to you everyday. I think about you everyday. I love and miss you very much Libby!! You are forever in my heart ooxx.
Love, your sister Mona
Mona Chase
June 4, 2012
Hi Libby, Its been eight years since Ma has passed away, and nine months since you've passed away. I remember the day you called me, to tell me that Ma passed away. It was my day off from work. I was thinking of the day Alfredo called to tell me that you were on the way to the hospital. It also, was my day off work. He was on his way to the hospital and said he'd call me when he found out how you were doing. The wait was agonizing. And then Alfredo called and told me that you didn't make it. That was the saddest and most painful day of my life. We all felt that way. I go to greifshare meetings on Thursday evenings. The meetings are for people grieving for a lost loved one. We were told at the very first meeting, that (someday) we would be able to smile again when think of our loved ones. Someday the tears will come less. That's the process of healing through the journey of greif. I'm getting there. I'm starting to smile when I think of you. That doesn't mean I don't miss you anymore. It means I've accepted your death and at peace knowing that you are with our Lord, Jesus Christ, safe and happy. I can only imagine how awesome it is going to be when I too, can go to heaven and see our Lord, Jesus Christ and You, again. I know, with Jesus Christ in my life, that I will see you again. It makes me happy when I think of that day (: It must be awesome that you and Ma are together again. I know how very much you missed her presence after she passed away. Now I'm missing your presence and looking forward to seeing you again. My greifshare meetings are helping me heal from the loss of losing you. I gave Alfredo and Fredo some books to read to help them heal from losing you too. I wish they would go to those meetings like I go to. I know it would help them a lot. There is a place near their house that has those meetings. I only hope they read the books, if they don't go to the meetings. I keep everyone in my daily prayers. Including Chopper and Packer. I was sitting in my living room last night and realized that both you and Ma passed away on my day off. I beleive that was so I wouldn't have to go through that kind of pain while I was at work. I thank God for that. I also, thank you and Ma. I miss you Libby. Your always on my mind. And I keep you in my heart. Just thinking of you, right this very second, makes me feel good, because I know someday I WILL see you again. I'll see all of you that are in heaven now. I know with God, you are watching over us. Well, it was nice talking to you Libby. I always feel like I'm really texting you. If you can please say Hi to everyone for me. Thanks Libby! I love and miss you very much!!
Love, your sister Mona
alfredo fernandez
June 2, 2012
Happy 22nd Anniversary Libby, hoped you liked our little picnic together.
Alfredo Fernandez
May 13, 2012
Happy mother's day Libby, you were one of the best mother's one could be, you sacrificed a lot for fredo and helped him and for that I would like to thank you
Mona Chase
May 13, 2012
Happy Mothers Day Libby!!! You were a great mom. I know that both Fredo and Alfredo miss you so so so much. Chopper and packer probably miss you too. I have some pictures of you and Fredo that were taken about 2-4 months after Fredo was born. I could see in your eyes how much you were proud of Fredo and how much you loved him. I know you loved him with all your heart. What a GREAT MOM you were Libby! I hope you can hear Alfredo and Fredo tell you how much they miss, love, and appreciate everything you did for them. I pray and ask god to let you know how Alfredo and Fredo miss and love you. I miss and love you dearly Libby!!! Your sister, Mona
Michael Lopez
May 13, 2012
Libby,
Happy Mother's Day! I know that you were a great mom and I was always very proud of you for doing all that you could to help Fredo achive his goals in life. I believe that even in heaven, you are still helping guide him any way that you can.
He had a great mom and Alfredo, a great wife, and I know that they both know it. I just wish that you were still around for them to tell you. We all miss you and think of you, all of the time. Enjoy this special day which is dedicated to great moms like you!
Michael
Mona Chase
April 18, 2012
Hi libby,
It was nice to be able to come visit you, Ma and Manuel. I hope I didn't upset anyone with the letter I wrote, and read to you. I had to write that letter and read it to you. It's something I've been wanting to do for awhile. I do feel better after I talk to you. My intentions were'nt to upset everyone with my letter. I just had to read my thoughts and feelings to you. I know you are in a better place now. But I still miss you. I miss hearing your voice. I miss talking to you. I miss seeing your smiling face, as you walk towards me, to greet me. It was always nice to see, and hug you. On my way to your house I was wondering if Alfredo still had your Mars Cheese Castle t-shirt on the chair where you left it. I was happy to see that it was still there. I took a picture of it. I look forward to the day that God takes me up to the clouds into heaven to reunite with you. Until then, I will miss you and always have you on my mind and in my heart. I love you Libby!
Your sister, Mona
was happy to see that it was still
Mona Chase
April 9, 2012
Heillo Libby,
Happy Easter! We will be coming to visit you on Saturday. I can hardly wait. I miss you Libby. I wish I could really see you, but I know that's not possible. I will be happy to come visit you at the cemetery. It will be nice to see everyone. We are all planning to meet at the cemetery. Then we will all go over to your house and hang out. That's always so hard, because your not physically there. The pain of missing you really hurts. But I know your there spiritually, and that eases the pain a little. It'll be nice to visit with everyone. Bob and I will take chopper and packer for a walk. They like going for a walk. Well Libby, I will see you on Saturday. I love you! Your sister, Mona
alfredo fernandez
April 7, 2012
Hi Libby,
just wanted to say happy Easter.
Love you.
Mona Chase
April 2, 2012
Libby, I miss and love you!!
Love, Mona
Mona Chade
March 12, 2012
Hello Libby,
As usual, I am thinking of you. I was thinking of coming to see you. I think I'm feeling that way because the weather has been kinda nice and that's usually when I came to visit you. And then I remember, your not here anymore. I know it's only been six months since you've been gone, but it's been a long six months. Its still hard to believe your not here anymore. Last night in my prayers I asked God if He could please give you a message from me. I miss and love you very much Libby. Earlier today I was thinking of the last day we spent together. Our trip to the museum. I am so grateful that I was able to see and spend time with you nine days before you died. I do still regret not coming to see you more often, but I know you've forgiven me. Thank you for that Libby. Just know that I am always thinking about you. You will always be in my heart and on my mind. Love, Mona
Mona Chase
March 5, 2012
Hi Libby,
Just wanted to talk to you. I was listening to some of the songs you have on your Tab, that Alfredo and Fredo gave me. I wish I knew about some of your favorite songs , while you were still here. We both liked some of the same songs. I wish I knew that , when you were still here. I would of liked to talked with you about it. One of your favorite songs that is also one of my favorites is "Over the Rainbow". By Israel Kamakawiwoule. When I listened to that song by him I cried. I cried because it made me sad that I didn't know we both liked that song. I wish I would of known. I miss you Libby. I was thinking about when you use to come over to my apartment on 23rd St. You liked hanging around me, and I liked my little sister around me. You and I use to take the neighborhood kids for walks together. We use to go to the park by the school all the time. Glenn remembers you teaching him how to shoot the basketball. All you guys use to ride your bikes to that playground by the school. Remember when we use to all sit on those steps in front of the house till late at night? We would all just sit there and talk. That was fun huh? I remember when ma use to take us to the carnival every year. We always had fun at the carnival. I remember helping you with your homework when you were a little girl. I remember you liked useing your crayons and markers. I can hardly wait to see you again Libby. I will wait for that day to come. I love and miss you dearly Libby. Love, Mona
Mona Chase
February 29, 2012
Hello Libby, I Miss You Libby. It's been six months since God has called you home. I still always think your still here on earth living with alfredo fredo chopper and packer. And then it hits me again, your with God now. I still miss your greatly, but I feel good knowing where you are now. We can't be selfess. You are where you belong now. Home. And I can hardly wait to see my heavenly Lord and you. Someday, Libby. I love and miss you very much Libby! Your sister, mona
Alfredo Fernandez
February 29, 2012
Hi Libby, it's been six months since you left us and though I wish that you were still with us at least you are no longer suffering or in pain. It's been very hard without you and I wish I could be as strong as you. We both miss you and love you very much and wanted to tell you thank you for everything you did for us and for making me a better person. I will always love you Libby, your husband alfredo.
alfredo fernandez
February 14, 2012
Libby, Happy Valentines Day,
Missing you like crazy today,
Wish I could hug and kiss you again,
Can't wait to see you again,
I Love you.
Mona Chase
February 14, 2012
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY LIBBY! Sending you lots of love,hugs,and kisses. We all love and miss you so very much Libby! You enjoy your lovely day. Here is a big (HUG) for you! I love you Libby!! Your big sister Mona
Mona Chase
February 6, 2012
Hello Libby, I dreamt about you last night. You were in my dream for only a few seconds. I was in the hospital. The nurse was in the room with me. The nurse told me I had a visitor, and then you walked into the room. As usual, you had a smile on your face when you walked into the room. You sat on the bed right next to me, and asked me how I was feeling? And then I woke up. It was nice to see you in my dream, but then I was sad again. I know you don't want me to be sad Libby. So I tried to be happy thinking about dreaming of you. Seeing you in my dream seem so real. I miss you Libby. I think about you all the time. I talk to you all the time. I am happy that you are in heaven with God now. You are home with God now, and someday I will come be with you. God will call on us one by one, until we are all together again. And it will be awesome when that day comes. Thank you for coming to see me in my dreams Libby. I love you. Well, goodnight Libby. Love, your sister mona
Jackie Lopez-Cruz
January 31, 2012
Hello Aunt Libby.. I miss you so much! I hope you enjoyed your first Birthday up in Heaven with grandma, my dad and all of our loved ones that have also left us. We are headed to Philli again next tuesday to take Mac for his exam out there. I want to ask that you please Bless and pertect him but I ask more that you keep watch over my little Edgar and Julius as they will be staying here at home with my aunt and uncle. I dont want to leave them even though its just a day but I have no other choice and its killing me. Its to the point where I cant sleep at night all i want to do is stay up and watch Eddie and Julius sleep and touch their little sleeping heads. I'm so affraid that they are going to hate me for it. Everyone keeps telling me its just one night but they have no idea how I'm feeling. I know its for Mannys own good but Aunt Libby it still hurts to leave my other two babies. I know that you will be here watching over them for me and conforting them. They loved you so much. I have your picture on my counter next to where you always seen my dads and Manny and Eddie have caought on to me blessing myself and kessing both your pictures and they do the same now! Edgar and I will always tell them how GREAT OF A PERSON YOU WERE!! WE LOVE AND MISS YOU BUT KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE NOW AND JUST LOOK FOWARD TO THE DAY WHEN WE ALL MEET AGAIN IN HEAVEN BUT UNTIL THEN I KNOW THAT YOU, DADDY AND GRANDMA ARE LOOKING DOWN ON US ALL AND PROTECTING US!
Mona Chase
January 29, 2012
Hello Libby, It has been five months now. I miss you a lot Libby. I was reading the texts on my phone of us texting eachother. The oldest texts I have left on my phone are dated July 12, 2011. The last dated text was August 20, 2011. The day we went to the museum together. A day I will always cherish. That is a day that I will always remember. I think about us going into that icecream shop. You had a milk shake that was called a cow shake. Don't know why it was called that. You said it taste just like a regular chocolate shake. I think about it, because you really enjoyed that shake. You were having fun. I'm glad you had fun Libby. I enjoyed spending the day with you too. I thank God that I was able to see you before He took you away. I am so sad right now as i'm writing this message, because I miss you so much. As I was saying about our last texts to eachother. The very last one was me telling you that we made it home. You said you were glad that we made it home safe and sound. As usuall, you always worried about everyone. And then our very last text to eachother was to say goodnight. I never got the chance to talk to you again. I wish I could talk to you Libby. I miss you so. I know you are okay now. You are in heaven with God. The best place ever! And until I can be with you again, I will keep all of my memories of you in my heart. I love and miss you dearly Libby. We all do. Goodnight my little sister. Love, Mona
Mona Chase
January 18, 2012
Hi Libby, I just needed to write to you again before the end of my day. I wish I could of went to visit you today. I know that you understand though. That was one of the greastest qualities in you. You easily understood and forgave everyone. I really wish I could of made a visit to you. I'll have to settle talking to you as a visit for now. I especially missed you alot today, because its your birthday. I know you were happy that alfredo, and mike went to see you today. John is going to try to go see you tomorrow as well. Sleep well Libby. Happy,Happy Birthday Libby!!! I love you Libby. Love, mona
Michael Lopez
January 18, 2012
Happy Birthday Libby!
Something incredible happened today!I stopped at the cemetary today to tell you Happy Birthday. I was very cold up there, but then all of a sudden, when I told you that I was going to leave because I was freezing, the wind just stopped and I didn't feel cold anymore. I don't know how to explain it except that it was as if you wanted me to stay around for a bit longer so you somehow made the cold go away for just a brief minute. I could almost feel you there watching over me as that was happening. I left there feeling real good. I know that you are doing well and enjoying YOUR day today. You have been on my mind all day today. At my job, every tag that I need to have entered into the system, I have to put my initials and the date on it, so being that I get about 50 tickets a day, I'm sure you can see just how much I was reminded of you every time I wrote the date. Not that I needed that to remind me of you. You enter my mind every day without any reminders. I miss you very much and wish that I could see you again. I loved the things that Mona & Alfredo wrote to you on here today. I used a picture that Alfredo sent me today for this message. Your gravesite looks great. It is filled with nothing but love. Something that can ever be taken from us. We will always love you, no matter what.
Love,
Michael
Mona Chase
January 18, 2012
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LIBBY!!! I hope you have a great day Libby! Enjoy your cake and icecream with everyone from up above. I was thinking of the day Ma was giving birth to you. I often think of that day. You were having a hard time entering this world. I was worried about you and Ma. I remember Ma had us stay with the candy store owner while we were all waiting for you to enter this world. And then I heard, "it's a girl"! I had a little sister. I was excited Libby. Growing up together with you was great Libby! In reality, you were my only sister. And oh, how I miss my only sister!! My little sister, I miss you so. I talk to you all the time and I hope that you can hear me. I also ask God if He could give you messages from me. You are in my prayers Libby. It comforts all of us to know that you are up above watching over us. I will wait for God to call on me to join you. Untill then, you will forever be in my heart, and always on my mind. I love you Libby! You have a very Happy Birthday Libby!!!! Love, Your big sister Mona xoxoxoxo
alfredo fernandez
January 18, 2012
Happy Birthday LIBBY !
I always tried to do or give you something different for you on your birthday hopefully you like your gift this year.
I hope that you will get everything that your heart desires today, everything that you ever wanted, and everything that you ever received as birthday gifts because you deserve it.
I'm sending you a big hug and kiss Libby and know that your are very much loved and miss by everyone.
Love you.
Mona Chase
January 17, 2012
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LIBBY!!!
Mona Chase
January 1, 2012
Happy New Year Libby, Wow I kept thinking you were going to call me to wish me a Happy New Year, like you did every New Years Eve. I wish I could talk with you. I really miss you Libby. Please wish everyone else there with you a Happy New Year. I will talk to you again soon. Love, your sister mona
Mona Chase
December 29, 2011
Hi Libby, it's been four months now. It's still hard to believe you are gone. I know God decided to end your suffering and call you to Him. You are now pain free and happy. Safe and sound under Gods wings. Now I wait for God to call on me to join us together again. One by one we will join you again Libby. Until then, I will miss you dearly. I love you Libby. Your sister, Mona
Mona Chase
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas Libby. It has been very hard getting through this first Christmas without you. It has been a very sad day. It doesn't seem like christmas. Nothing will never be the same without you. I miss you Libby. I've prayed and asked God to wish you a Merry Christmas from me. I've also asked Him to give Alfredo, Fredo and the rest of us comfort in dealing with our sadness at this time of the year. Alfredo and Fredo gave me your note pad for Christmas. I am so happy to have anything that belonged to you. It gives me comfort to know it was something you once touched. It made me feel good when Alfredo said you would of wanted me to have it. Your no longer here, but I received a gift from you. Thank you Libby. I am also happy that we went to visit you -probably the last time for this year. I will come and visit you again in the spring. I love and miss you very much Libby! MERRY CHRISTMAS LIBBY!
Michael Lopez
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas Libby,
It was nice to have so much of the family at the cemetary yesterday saying hi to you all. It was very hard emotionally to go through Christmas without you and your great smile, and positive attitude. I could not help but feel a lot of warmth and love as everyone was at our place celebrating the day. I miss all of you, every day and think about the future of all meeting once again. It was really great to have Fredo there as well. I just wish that Alfredo would have joined us as well, but i have to respect his wishes as well.But,I did miss his presence not being there. It was a real happy time but I'm sure that you were on all of our minds the whole time. Well, I will write to you again soon. I love you!
Love,
Michael
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