Michael Lenke Obituary

Michael was my first couples therapist with my now-ex-husband. Despite the fact that we divorced, Dr. Lenke was a FABULOUS therapist. His ability to listen to process through the overload of content and be "real," never once coming across as smarter, more knowledgable, or better in any way. He was compassionate, loving, caring, and helped me immensely as a human being. I am currently an MFT Trainee myself and remember Dr. Lenke so very fondly. I learned of his passing when I was 9 months pregnant with my twins, who are now almost 5 years old. So often, I find myself wishing I could send Michael a picture of my beautiful babies as he knew how badly I wanted children back when we saw him (approximately 2010-2011). God bless you Michael Lenke...you are missed.

Today, four years and two weeks after his passing, I found out my old friend Mike Lenke had passed away. While I hadn't spoken with him in over 15 years, he has always remained very dear to me.

Mike and I became friends at a time in my life (age 15) when he helped me to gain greater confidence in myself, and to believe I could accomplish the things I chose to do. He was like the big brother I never had.

He shared his time, family, wisdom, and humor with me. I remember countless summer days body surfing with him at Will Rogers State or Zuma Beach. Then, there was all those UCLA basketball games; during the heydays, no less.

When I encountered difficult times, I knew I could call on him for council. Even before he became a therapist, he always had the best advice around. He seemed to have perspectives on situations that no one else could see. He was truly remarkable in that way and I believe that helped elevate him to being the practitioner he was.

To Ellie, Michele, Jody and the rest of the family, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Mike you will remain in my heart as long as it's ticking. Thank you for all the memories. I hope we meet again sometime, buddy. RIP.

Dear Ellie and family,

So sorry and sad to hear of Mike's illness and passing. My thoughts have been with you for the last six weeks.

Much love,
Cousin Leslie

Dear Ellie and Family,

I can not express to you how heavy and sad my heart is today upon hearing about the passing of Michael.

He was such an important part of my life who got me through some really difficult times. I am proud to have called him my friend for the last 14 years. His words still ring in my ears to this day. I'm sure he would be pleased in knowing that I am "being good to me". I will never forget him.

~Tess Shelton~

I met Dr. Lenke once and he was a very nice gentleman, may he always be remembered with wonderful memories. Shalom.

He was a family member and made a positive print on my life that will be felt forever. I will miss him so very much.

Mike was a fun and wonderful person to know. A great fan of UCLA basketball and fun to sit behind and watch him as he watched the game. He will be missed but stay forever in our hearts.

Noella

Mike Lenke's footprint remains indelible. Mike's passing does not diminish the profound impact he has made in so many lives...injecting realism, honesty and love. Mike, you made a difference with so many who came to you. Your guidance enriched our lives. For that, we applaud and thank you, my friend.

Dear Ellie and family,
You have many beautiful memories and years to cherish. We will always remember Mike for his basketball abilities and all Mike had to offer Sleters F.H.H.S. class 1957.

I miss you Mike....

Ellie-
My heart goes out to you and your family. We were all truly blessed to have had such an amazing and prolific man in all of our lives. He was a true warrior of principals, always the beam of sunlight and strenght. I will forever be grateful for all that I learned from him, and will hopefully be able to pay at least some of it forward some day.. My thoughts are with you and let's always remember his raucus laughter that always evolved out of a fit of giggles.. "Be good to you.." Love Jen Phillips

Ellie,
We are forever grateful for all the wisdom and honesty that Mike gave to our family. We will honor his memory by living the lives he taught us to live.
With much love,
The Smith family

Ellie, Your words were beautiful we are so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.

Ellie and family am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
cousin Lois

Elle,
Martin and I were so sorry to hear about Michael's sudden passing. We send you our our condolence. We will keep in touch.

Love,

Your Cousin Linda

Ellie,
You are always in my thoughts.My condolences to you, Michael's daughters,and the entire family.
lots of love,
Bernice

Ellie, Bernice (mom)told me of Michael's untimely passing. I am so sorry for your loss. I will have you in my thoughts and prayers. Cousin Ian

Elie, I am so saddened by hearing of Michael's passing. He was a meaningful part of my life and I have always held him, and you, with great warmth and admration. My best to you and your family.