Matthew Montes Obituary

The pain of losing a child is enough to break your heart, as well as your spirit. I felt that when I lost my child, I had lost my purpose in life.



Recently, I realized that being a parent is a permenant gift. A life-long responsibility which never expires. Just as you will always be Matthew's Mom and Dad, I will always be Michael's Mom. With this in mind, I know that I still have purpose. And on those days when I fall apart, I remember, Michael would expect more from me.



Take comfort in eachother during this painful time. When you are weak, hold eachother strong. Remind one another of the love you have, and the life you helped create.



Matthew is never far from you. Let his spirit help to mend your hearts. After all, that is what angel's do best.



I will pray for you everyday.

Rigo and Wanda,

My thoughts and condolences are with you at this terribly difficult time. We may never understand God's plan, however we must trust in it. God's strength always.

All my love,

Julie

Wanda and Rigo,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know your little angel is watching over you. Thank you for letting me be a part of Matthew's life. I hope that I can remain a part of your life as well. Be strong.

Love, Nikki

In memory of our nephew and cousin, Matthew Rigo. You have touched us all and we will always love you. To Wanda & Rigo, your "little angel" is with you always. Our families, Ruiz & Montes among many others with friends love you dearly. Hugs & Kisses from Julian, Adrian & Alyssa.

My heartfelt sympathies to you, Wanda, your husband and family on your loss. Your photo gallery picture brought tears.

We prayed for you and your family at our church prayer meeting last Wednesday asking for God's grace and comfort in this most difficult time. We miss you at work and will continue to pray for you.

Rigo and Family,

I just returned from my days off when I heard the news. I am so deeply sorry for your loss and will include you in my prayers that in this sad time, you find peace and hope in fond memories. Although the wound will never heal completely, the joys experienced will comfort. On behalf of all the members of the 25th District, and my family, accept our deepest condolences.



May God Bless and Keep you

Jim Curry, 25th District

To Rigo and Wanda,

On behalf of all the members of the Elmwood Park Police Department, Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss.

Andrew Hock, (Commander, Elmwood Park Police Department).

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.....IM PRAYING FOR YOU.

My prayers are with the Montes Family. Rest in Peace Matthew R. Montes. We Love You!!!

Please accept with deepest sympathy our condolences during this hard and difficult time. May God Bless You...

Rigo and Wanda



Our thoughts and prayers go out to you both. Matthew, my nephew is now by the Lord's side watching over all of us. He is in the best of hands; yet he will be greatly missed by us all.

Love you,



Tere & the Girls

Dear Rigo & Wanda,

Baby Matthew is in heaven now,with our Lord, Jesus Christ. I know that everyone is questioning why he got to stay such a brief time with us. I realize now that we have all been tremendously blessed to have "Angel" Matthew in our lives. Because of Matthew, members of your families have mended broken relationships. Because of Matthew, both of you were able to see how much your friends and family love you. Because of Matthew, people stopped taking simple joys in their lives for granted- - sunsets, a cool breeze, the beauty of the autumn leaves, a child's hug. It is truly miraculous when a person stops what he/she is doing and begins to view the world from a new perspective. Matthew performed this miracle in so many of our lives. Angels perform miracles.



May Our Lord bless both of you and keep you close to His Heart.



We Love You,

Vonni, Evan, and Isaac

Wanda and Rigo,



Please know how much I rejoiced with you when your beautiful baby boy was born...Please know how deeply I am grieving now with you during this most difficult time.. as you try to understand and cope with the loss of Matthew.



Know that you have been and will continue to be in my daily thoughts and prayers...Trust in God that He will be with you, will guide you in the days ahead and that He will make His presence known to you more than ever in your lives.



God bless you both and God bless baby Matthew!



Elaine Panfil

Rigo and Wanda,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know that God is watching over Matthew and will he will be well taken care of. May God bless you and your familes and bring you comfort at this time. Please accept our condolences and know that we are here for you if there is ANYTHING that you ever need.