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Mary Benfer Obituary

Mary Alice Benfer, 86, of Charlottesville, died Tuesday, June 14, 2005, at her home.

Born Oct. 30, 1918, in Sunbury, Pa., she was the daughter of the late Arthur A. and Ruth Vought Fertich. She was also preceded in death by her husband, Neil A. Benfer Sr.

She was a charter member of Broadus Memorial Baptist Church and was retired as a teacher from Jack Jouett Middle School in Albemarle County.

Survivors include her children, Neil A. Benfer Jr., Carol B. Wall of Charlottesville, Susan B. Seward of Centreville, and Brian A. Benfer of Richmond; 10 grandchildren; and four great-grandchildren.

A memorial service will be held 7 p.m. this evening, at the Cherry Avenue Christian Church with the Rev. Bob Wheeler and Mr. Harv Ayres officiating.

Those who wish may make contributions to Hospice of the Piedmont 2200 Old Ivy Rd. Suite 2 Charlottesville, VA 22903.

Hill & Wood Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Jun. 16, 2005.

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Joanie Domer

June 16, 2005

Dear Carol and Family,

The memorial service was so beautiful. What a wonderful tribute to a lovely lady from her loving chidren and grandchildren. God bless you all.

Jeanetta Burton

June 16, 2005

Carol Wall & Family: May God comfort you in your sorrow and the lose of your mother. You did all you could do. May loving thoughts and prayers strength you.

With Deepest Sympathy

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