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Lupe Costabile Obituary

Costabile, Lupe 73, of Aurora, IL, died Sunday, March 16, 2008. Beloved daughter of the late Carlos and Manuella Parrish, loving wife of Louis Costabile, loving mother of Luigi (Jennifer), and Eugene Costabile, Angelina (Ismet) Zeitoun, loving sister of Oscar (Rosie), Roy Parrish and Beatrice Martinez, loving grandmother of Andrew, Michael and Kristina Costabile, Sabreena, Amir "Peto", Muma and Deena Zeitoun. A visitation will be from 3 to 8 p.m. Thursday at the Beidelman-Kunsch Funeral Home, 24021 W. Royal Worlington Dr., Naperville, IL. Funeral service will be held at the funeral home on Friday, March 21, 2008. Interment Queen of Heaven, Hillside, IL. Info., 630-922-9630.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Mar. 19, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
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Nancy Lopez

April 16, 2008

Tia its been a month that you left us. I think of you often as I always did. Thank you for the memories you left me. I know that you are watching over us just as if you were here. Que dios te bendiga querida tia.I love you

Mary Williams

April 15, 2008

To Aunt Lu,

I was deeply saddened by your sudden illness and passing. My prayers go out to all your family. I know that these last years you and my father have been very close and I know my dad already misses you so much. I remember the times when grandma and I would take the train from Houston to Chicago to come visit you. I think it was the first time, I saw snow. What a great time I had! As the years passed, I would see grandma in you. We all loved spending time with you and laughing so much, till we were all crying. You will truly be missed.

Love,
Mary Ann (Parrish) Williams

Jennifer (Parrish) Garcia

April 15, 2008

What sweet fun memories I have my Aunt Lupe. Coming to Houston, sitting around talking, so wise in her words. I loved the way her and my Dad(Oscar)could read each other. I loved her outlook and spin on things! I know this isn't goodbye forever and we'll all be together again in Heaven one fine day.

Sandra Pacheco

April 8, 2008

Dearest Auntie Lou,
I am so deeply saddened of your illness, suffering and passing. I will always have the bubbly memories of you and Uncle Lou. I still have your picture of Vic when he was little you gave to me. My condolences to your family and Uncle Lou. Auntie Lou will be missed by all. Angie, your message really touched my heart and left many tears. Auntie Lou's memory will always be alive. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Sandra Pachecl

Danny & Lisa Pearrow and family

March 21, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. While we cannot begin to understand your grief, please know that we are thinking of you and offer our deepest condolences.

Manuella Shung

March 20, 2008

Rembering Aunt Lou, were going to miss you coming to Houston, and going to the casino's, gossiping, and sacando garra. Staying up and playing cards, talking, and smoking cigarettes. We'll always remember you and you will always be in our hearts and prayers. You did it your way. Rest in peace from the Loqueras. Bubbles, Licha, Gilbert, Peeps, Paya, Dora, Joe, and Lil' Tina.

Beatrice Martinez

March 20, 2008

To my loving sister, I will miss you very much. When you came to Houston, we had good times. Remembering everything the good and bad. We sat down and talked for hours. Rest in peace. From your sister Bea .

Analisa (Martinez), Jose, Jozef, and Joshua DelAngel

March 20, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers to all the Costabile and Parrish Family. Aunt Lou will be deeply missed.

Jeanette Parrish

March 20, 2008

She will be greatly missed. She was truly a one of a kind who touched many people with her great sense of humor and free spirit. Our most sincere condolences to our Uncle Bo and our cousins. From the family of Carlos (deceased) and Norma Parrish.

anna trevino

March 20, 2008

Your memories will live on in our hearts. You will be greatly missed we love you very much. Anna,Emillio,Alex,Mariah Trevino

magda martinez

March 20, 2008

Your memories are with us Lou,Were gonna miss you coming to Houston. Our thoughts and are prayers are with you. We LOVE YOU!!! Magda,Carlos, Marc Martinez

Michael, Priscilla & Gabe Linnemann

March 20, 2008

While no words can truly comfort you, please know that our deepest prayers and wishes are with you all during this difficult time.

Rafael & Irene Zubizarreta

March 20, 2008

We were deeply saddened to hear of Aunt Lou's passing. She has always held a special place in our hearts; She was an Aunt, a confidante, a friend, and someone who was always there to share in the good times, the bad, the happy and the sad. Our frequent phone calls will be missed more than words can express.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Uncle Bo, her children, Aunt Bea, Uncle Roy, Oscar and the many whose lives she touched.
May we all find comfort in the memories that are ours to cherish always....
You will be forever missed Aunt Lou..
We love you

Rafael Zubizarreta Jr

March 20, 2008

I'm praying for the Costabile/Martinez family. I enjoyed the time I got to spend with you Aunt Lou and you will always be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

John and Nora Martinez

March 20, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Nancy Lopez

March 19, 2008

Tia you will be greatly missed. I will always cherish the wonderful memories of the times we spent together and the things you taught me. Que dios te bendiga. Te amo

John and Nora, John Paul and David Spencer Martinez

March 19, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers to all the family of Lou Costabile and the Martinez family. Couldn't wait for Aunt Lou to come to Houston for visits. We all gathered at Aunt Bea's house for fun and laughter. Listened to all her jokes and stories, we laughed and enjoyed and loved her very much. She will be dearly missed by all and she will now be watching over us. She will be our Guardian Angel. You will always be in our hearts because as long as we keep you there your memory will live forever.
Love you,

John and Nora Martinez

March 19, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Beatrice Martinez & Family

March 19, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Tina Vazquez

March 19, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Richard Payne

March 19, 2008

Our hearts go out to you in these difficult times, she will be missed by all of us.

Dee Torres (Mercuri)

March 19, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom was always laughing and friendly to all of us kids growing up. My prayers are with all of you at this trying time.

Adelfa and Edward Parrish

March 19, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Adelfa Parrish

March 19, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Beth Collins

March 19, 2008

Lupe was such a wonderful neighbor. She was always there to offer helpful advice and share a story or two. She never complained but was more concerned about how the other person felt. She will be missed by all -- especially me as during the summer I always looked for her on the porch and would beep at her on my way to do errands.

Lisa Segura

March 19, 2008

Auntie Lou will truly be missed. She was a great person with a wonderful heart. Heaven is so lucky to be getting a wonderful addition to their flock of angels. I love you and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lisa and Kids

Linda Segura-Wilson

March 19, 2008

Auntie Lou was a wonderful and beautiful person I will always remember the summers I spent with her and uncle and the kids. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you during this difficult time.

Love,
Cousin Linda and Family

March 19, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your mother was a good woman who touched many people and left many fond memories. I wish your family peace in this tough time.
Daryl

angie

March 19, 2008

Mom- I love you!

Angie Costabile-Zeitoun

March 19, 2008

to my mom's Houston Family

Thank you,

She loved you all so very much,
Aunt Bea, Uncle Oscar and Uncle Roy, and all the cousins, nieces and nephews. God bless all of you and your families. my Mom is resting now.

Ernest and Marianne Perez

March 19, 2008

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief. Our thought's and prayer's are with Uncle Bo, children, Aunt Bea and uncles Roy and Oscar. Lou was loved and will be missed dearly.

Mike Esparza

March 18, 2008

My deepest sympathy and condolences to all the family.Aunt Lupe was a sweet fun tia to have known and be around.I wish I could of spent more time with her when she was here in houston.Our prayers go out to Aunt bee Uncle roy my dad oscar and the rest of the family. God Bless youll

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