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Kenneth Heffley Obituary

Heffley, Kenneth W. "Unky" Age 80, died Friday, January 17, 2020, at 7:25 a.m. in Surprise, Arizona. His loving niece, Pati, having cared for him these last three years, was by his side. Unky was born on October 20, 1939, in Chicago, IL, to parents Dorothea (Zierfuss) and Edgar Heffley. He graduated from Argo High School in Argo, Illinois and attended Moreno Valley College in Argo majoring in business. In 1969, he began his career at Akzo Chemical (Nobel Chemical) and retired as the purchasing manager. Unky was the youngest of five siblings, his loving sister Vera Cassata (Joe) went to heaven (December 25, 2019, Christmas Day) along with Frances Horejsi (Bob), Richard "Dick" Heffley (Stella), and Dorothy Cooley (Tom), all of whom were waiting for him at heaven's gates. Unky is survived by his nieces and nephews, whom he loved with all his heart and who adored him, Johnny Cassata (Sharon), Bonnie Smith (Brian), Sue Meier (Alden), of Mt. Juliet, Tennessee, Pati Lackner (Bill), of Surprise, Arizona, Thomas Cooley (Kimberly), of Spring Grove, Illinois, and Tammy Smith (Doug), of Richmond, Illinois. Unky is also survived by great-nieces and nephews, Summer Germann (Chad), Mac, Rider, Tony, Ocean, Nate, Deegan, Ellie, and Delanee. Unky's nieces and nephews in Florida, Bobby Heffley (Barb), Kenny, his namesake, Billy, Kathy, Krissy, and Kimmy. Unky's great-nieces and nephews in Florida, Brittany, Megan, Matt, Taylor, Tyler, Delver, Joshua, and Shealyn. Unky was a very social man who was deeply involved in sports and politics. He enjoyed traveling, golfing, the Chicago Bears, but "Loved" the Chicago Cubs. But most of all, in his later life, he liked traveling to watch his great-nieces and nephews with all their sporting events; he was their "Biggest" fan. A funeral is scheduled for February 2020 at Crockett Meadows Cemetery in Hurricane Mills, Tennessee with a reception to follow at the Log Cabin Restaurant. A Celebration of Life will be held in Chicago in March at Durbin's in Burbank, IL, where Sam, Bob, Bird and Rosey so enjoyed pizza and beer with Unky.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Jan. 24, 2020.

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D Sue Flynn-Meier

January 18, 2025

Unk, I forgot all about this surprise birthday dinner we did when you visited us in Nashville.. Alden & You always made me laugh as it was double trouble as you two were trying to aggravate me, truth I miss that as boy did you two laugh alot! We love & miss you! Sue & Alden

D Sue Flynn-Meier

January 18, 2025

It's 4 years now Unk since you went to heaven, goodness .. Alden & I were talking about you just the other day, of how much you loved to drive our golf cart all over the property as you watched Alden doing stuff! We love & miss you Unk! Love Sue & Alden

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Yvonne Smith

January 18, 2024

Unk also had two great nephews, sons of Yvonne (Bonnie) Brian Smith. Christopher of Mantino, IL and Timothy (Jaclyn) Smith of Highland, IN spent a good deal of time with him while he lived in Burbank, IL. He has three great, great nephews. Aidan, son of Christopher, and Gavin and Colton, sons of Timothy (Jaclyn).

Miss you Ubaldi, thank you for the love.

Rebecca Heffley

January 26, 2020

Love you unk. We shall see u in heaven unk. U will be missed by so many...

Tammy Smith

January 26, 2020

Hey Unk, I still don't believe you are in heaven. I sure miss you. I hope you are enjoying mom and dad. I know how much you missed them. Love tam

Sue Meier

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Unky & Cubs!

Sue Flynn-Meier

January 24, 2020

Too funny!

Kelley Heffley

January 24, 2020

You will be missed Unk! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, Patty, Sue, Tammy and the rest of the family. Love, Kelley and Tim

Tracy Heffley-Ryan

January 24, 2020

Love ya Unk

Kimberly Cooley

January 24, 2020

Unky,

We love and miss you already.

Love, Tommy, Kimberly, Deegan and Delanee. XOXO

Kimberly Cooley

January 24, 2020

Unky and Delanee

Kimberly Cooley

January 24, 2020

Unky and Deegan at the races

Kimberly Cooley

January 24, 2020

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My favorite memories will always be of you picking me up in your hot Mustang and driving up to Aunt Dots and Uncle Toms for the weekend. You were a great uncle and friend even if you gave me a hard time my entire life about my bangs! I cannot imagine growing up without you. Thank you for adding endless joy to our lives. Love, Bonnie

Sue Flynn-Meier

January 24, 2020

To the best Unk! We love you! Love Sue & Alden

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