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John Stephens Obituary

Stephens, John Cody 19, of Wilmette, passed away March 22, 2012. Cody is the beloved son of Ann Schacherer and John Stephens, stepson of Paul Schacherer; lving brother of Cassie Stephens, Lucas Stephens, Patrick Tiderman and Hunter Schacherer; grandson of Helen and Dr. James Stephens, and the late Leah Joyce Teller nee Garrison; beloved nephew and cousin to many. Cody was a 2011 graduate of New Trier High School. Cody loved listening to and playing music and electronic games with his best buddies. He grew up in the company of his family, sailing, swimming and playing on the shores of Lake Michiganin Pentwater, MI, and worked as a lifeguard at Gillson Park in Wilmette. Cody was naturally talented at working with computers and electronics and was studying computer science at Illinois State University at the time of his passing. Cody's early departure has left this world a sadder place but his love and light touched so many and will live on in our hearts forever. Visitation Friday, March 30, 3:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. at Donnellan Family Funeral Home, 100045 Skokie Blvd., at Old Orchard Rd., Skokie, IL 60077. Funeral Service Saturday, March 31, 11:00 a.m. at Kenilworth Union Church, 211 Kenilworth Ave, Kenilworth, IL 60043. Interment private. Info (847)-675-1990 or www.donnellanfuneral.com.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Mar. 27, 2012.

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Mommy

November 24, 2012

Cody-we had our first Thanksgiving without you here. It was worse than I thought it would be. I love and miss you, I wish you were here. I hope you know how much you're loved and cherished every day. I will continue to pray that you are at peace...Please God, let this be.

September 10, 2012

I love you and miss you more than my words on this page can ever say. I tell you out loud but don't know if you can hear me. I hope that you can feel my love and know that someday we will see each other again. You are missed so much by all of us.

Carleigh

April 12, 2012

Dear family of Cody,
I met Cody in my Calculus class at ISU, and I cant say we were the closest of friends but when we studied for tests, reminiscent of all the good times in calc 1 or poked fun of the way our calc2 teacher taught, I always thought Cody was a really great guy, funny and down to earth. When I heard the news I cried, and every time I eat the Welch's fruit snakes I cry because I remember the time he explained the very-particular way he ate them. I will truly never forget him, and I pray you may all get through this tough time.
With much love, Carleigh

Alison Kendall

April 4, 2012

John, Mr. and Mrs. Stephens, Scott, Todd, Bob and Jim, and all the rest of the Stephens family, I am so sorry to hear about Cody. I never had the opportunity to meet him, but just one look at his photo reminds me of all the Kenilworth Stephens boys. He has that same Stephens twinkle in his eye. I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Love always,
Alison (Platt) Kendall

Paula

April 2, 2012

Ann, Patrick, Luke, Cassie, Paul and John. Cody will always be alive and cherished in our thoughts and memories. I hope you find comfort and peace through Nature and Spirit. I love you.

Karen Schultz

April 1, 2012

Dear Cousin John and family, Uncle Jim and Helen, We were saddened to hear of the loss of Cody. Dad called and I felt your grief through him. I can't imagine what it would be like to lose a child, but know it would be one of the hardest things ever. I pray you can find strength and ultimately some peace through Jesus Christ. He can heal a broken heart.
Love,
Karen (Stephens) Schultz

Jeff and Maura Merlo

March 31, 2012

To all the Stephens family, our hearts are aching for you. May you find peace during these difficult times. God Bless your family in this time of sorrow.

Karrie and Rodney (Bubba) Gibson

March 31, 2012

Dear Patrick, Ann, John, Luke and Cassie, We are so sorry for your loss. I know Cody was loved and will be missed. Our hearts and prayers are with you during this time. We are sorry we cannot be there with you but we are thinking of you during this trying time. He is now with God and at peace, and in time you will find peace.

Andrew Sharp

March 30, 2012

To the Stephens family, I am terribly sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Brad & Brenda Gregory

March 30, 2012

We are so very sorry for your loss. Nothing can prepare anyone for such a tragedy. You are all in our thoughts and prayers

Linda

March 30, 2012

To the Stephens family, I am sorry to hear about your loss. May you find comfort in the God of comfort and hearer of prayer. 2 Corinithians 1:3

Laurie Spencer

March 30, 2012

So sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Alexei Frutig

March 30, 2012

I am very sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences. Cody will not be forgotten by his classmates from McKenzie to New Trier. May he rest in peace

David Wilmot

March 30, 2012

Luke,

I am so sorry for your loss, and words cannot even describe the sadness I felt when hearing the news. My deepest apologies for not being there with you through this troubling time. I had the pleasure of spending time with Cody multiple times down at Illinois State along with Rick, Alex, and yourself. You and your family our in my thoughts and prayers as well as the prayers of my family. I love you Luke, you're my friend and brother.

David Creamer

March 30, 2012

Cody was a good friend and I am sad to see him go. I met him freshman year in high school and stayed friends with him ever since. I will never forget how kind and friendly he was to me. I cannot imagine the feeling of loss his family must be experiencing and my deepest sympathies and prayers go out to them.

sheila and steve erley

March 30, 2012

we are so sorry to hear of this great loss to your family. may you find peace and comfort in each other at this difficult time.
i hope you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Audrey and Bob Wright

March 30, 2012

We are so sorry to learn of such a great loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family and friends.

Laura Postelnek

March 30, 2012

Ann, Luke, Cassie, Patrick and Paul,

Our deepest sympathies to each one of you. Words can not convey the sadness we feel. You are very much in our thoughts and prayers as you all are so very special to us.

We hope you find support and comfort from those around you.

With much love,
Adam, Brittney, Stephanie and

Mom & Paul

March 30, 2012

This candle is for our son Cody who we love with all of our being and who lights up our hearts.

Connie Scheppers

March 30, 2012

Dear Pat and family,
We are so sorry for your loss, please know that you are in our prayers.
Love, Connie (Tony's mom)

Michael Williams

March 29, 2012

To the family. My deepest sympathy for your loss. May God, who sees our tears and pain of heart comfort and strengthen you at this very difficult time.

May the words of Psamls 34:17,18 comfort you at this time of sorrow.

Terry Friedman-Beachler

March 29, 2012

Dear John,

I heard about the tragic death of a young man at Illinois State on the news here in Indy and tonight I was deeply saddened to hear that Cody was your son. My deepest thoughts and prayers to you John and may you find strength in family and friends in this most difficult time.

Sincerely,
Terry Friedman Beachler

Elaine Scully

March 29, 2012

Our hearts and prayers are with you. May your memories, while far too short, give you all strength.
Scully family

March 29, 2012

Ann and family,how sad that you have lost someone so young, my heart and prayers are with you. Claudette Stevenson(Kruger Grandmother)

Cindy Colevris

March 29, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time of need. It is very hard to understand what pain you are going through. Please find support in the words and actions from those of us that do not know you or your family, but need to send you our sincere sympathy.

March 29, 2012

Sending thoughts and prayers as you celebrate Cody's life. May your memories of him for ever comfort you.

nicki wagner-weber

March 28, 2012

John, I am deeply affected and sorrowful by the news of your son. All my love, prayers and comfort to you and your family.

M

March 28, 2012

May your son rest in peace.

March 28, 2012

Ann & Family,
Please know that all at COF have you and your family in our prayers. We are all so sorry for this sadness. Please know that we all feel your pain.

Patti Keating

March 28, 2012

Although seperated by time and space, we are forever bonded by our earthly fathers. Just as that familial bond of love remains between us, remember that our Heavenly Father loves us even more and He is not confined by space and time. Lean on Him in your time of sorrow. May you receive His peace and love. His shoulders are big enough for you, Big John. I love you, Patti (Stephens) Keating

Chris and John Dlouhy

March 28, 2012

We are deeply saddened by the news of Cody's passing. With very heavy hearts, we send our thoughts, our prayers, and our deepest sympathy.

Kyle Schultz

March 28, 2012

John,
My deepest sympathy and condolences for your loss. A parent's worst nightmare is the loss of a child. I have two daughters and my heart aches knowing that such a good man like you has to endure such a pain. Be strong Big John.

Dee Dee Silverstein

March 28, 2012

Ann, Cassie, Luke, Patrick and Paul,

There are no words to express or adequate enough to comfort. Know that you are wrapped in feelings of warmth, strength, and love.

Deepest sympathies from our family to each of you. Your family holds such a special place in our hearts.

Love,
Maddie, Sam and

March 27, 2012

To the family. Losing someone who has being a part of your life for so many years must be very difficult. May it help to ease the hurt you feel now to know that others care and are thinking of you at this sad time. With deepest sympathy. (Psalms 61:3)

Olivia Armstrong

March 27, 2012

Cody has not been forgotten by his classmates-- he will be missed by the NT class of 2011. May he rest in peace. My prayers go out to you in this difficult time.

Stephanie Raue

March 27, 2012

I proudly taught both Cody and Cassie Stephens at Wilmette Junior High School. While I am devastated to hear of Cody's passing, I vividly remember his quirky and fun sense of humor, curiosity and smile. I will continue to keep the entire family in my thoughts and prayers.

Ed Blatchford

March 27, 2012

John
Im so sorry
My deepest sympathies

Katie Renchen

March 27, 2012

I can't explain my deepest sympathy in words to you. My thoughts and prayers with you and your family during this difficult time.

Barbara Doepp

March 27, 2012

I am so very sorry to hear of this! It has to be truly devastating. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I remember meeting Paul and Cody in the Carsons parking lot as they were out and about. They seemed so happy together. May God be with you during these trying times.

March 27, 2012

You are all in our thoughts and prayers these trying days. Our hearts go out to you all. Cody was such a good soul. May God grant him eternal rest and peace.
Sincerely,
Leo and Sophia Manta

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