Gould, Jinelle A. (nee Nealis), 35, October 14, Flight Attendant American Airlines, loving wife of David, beloved daughter of Hon. Paul (Jane C.P.D. Ret.) Nealis, dear daughter-in-law of Kathy and Edward Gould, God-mother of Mia Vanella, sister-in-law of Sara (Jeff) Kovich and A1c Elizabeth Gould, USAF, niece of many aunts and uncles, cousin and friend of many. Funeral Monday, 9:15 a.m., from Donnellan Funeral Home, 10525 S. Western Ave., to St. John Fisher Church, 10234 S. Washtenaw. Mass 10 a.m. Interment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Visitation Sunday, 2 to 9 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Lance Armstrong Foundation, P.O. Box 161150, Austin, TX, 78716-1150, attn: Development, would be appreciated. 773-238-0075 or sign guest book at www.donnellanfuneralhome.com 
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Pam Ronan
October 21, 2004
David -
It's been a while since we've spoken but I wanted you to know how sorry I was to hear about Jinelle. I only had the pleasure of meeting Jinelle once or twice but know that the two of you seemed very happy together. I'm glad that you found one another and had those precious years together. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Pam
Melissa Migut
October 18, 2004
My sister Lynette and I both met Jinelle working at American Airlines and were very fortunate to become friends with her. Jinelle was a very beautiful person both on the outside and inside. We know there is a very special place in heaven for her. Our flights will always seem a little empty without her. But we will always remember her terrific spirit and have her wonderfull stories to tell.
Larry & Kathy Wall
October 18, 2004
Dear David,Jane and Paul,
Please know we feel your profound loss. We may never know why God chooses our Precious Children so soon...Our Faith carries us throughout this most painful Jounrney. I know your tears are endless and your hearts are broken..but someday the SUN will shine as it once did and you will smile gently to yourselves and feel Jinelles arms wrapped around you and you will realize she never really left...
Our angels are once again together laughing and spreading joy in Heaven just as they did here...
With much love,
Larry and Kathy Wall and Family
Erin Harrigan
October 18, 2004
Dear David, and Mr. and Mrs. Nealis,
Even though I knew this day would inevitably come, I was not prepared for the onslaught of emotions and memories and sadness in hearing that this beautiful, bubbly breath of life had left us. I got to spend a couple years with Jinelle, living with her at Eastern. WE were inseperable when she was there and every minute was always a blast....Whether we were laughing or dancing or singing or crying over some silly boy...we always had so much fun. Going to the grocery store could be an experience with Jinelle. But the main thing I want to say that sums her up, is that she always made you feel like you were her favorite person in the world. I am so lucky I had the time I did with her and to reconnect with her over the last couple years while she was going through her illness. I feel blessed to have known her and feel safer knowing that she is in heaven and watching over me and the many people she knew and loved.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Erin
Christine Scales
October 18, 2004
My sincere and deepest sympathy to the Gould and Nealis families. My prayers are with you all.
amy brich
October 18, 2004
Dave, Jane and Paul,
I had the privilege of taking care of Jinelle for 2 years. She always had a smile on her face and a positive word for everyone she saw. I was an honor to know her and take care of her. I was lucky to have been a part of her life even for a short time. She truly was a special person and loved life, her family, friends and flying. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Mike McGuire
October 17, 2004
Paul and Jane - I was so sorry to hear about Jinelle. I remember her as a teemager, and I remember what a nice young lady she grew into. I can only imagine the pain you must feel. You and your family are in my prayers.
Kris Currier
October 17, 2004
My deepest sympathy to all of you. I had the honor and privilege to fly with Jinelle at American Airlines. Whenever we saw each other on the plane it was big hugs and smiles and I was always so happy because I knew what a great trip it was going to be. Jinelle was one of the kindest, most gentle spirits I have ever known. It showed in her work and with all of her countless friends at American. There is a beautiful board in our operations in Chicago with pictures of all of you.
My heart is simply broken. I remember sitting on the jumpseat with her and sharing our life stories with each other. Jinelle found my photo album almost all f/a's carry with the pictures of our loved ones and of course my name was not in it. I found it in my mailbox with a note from Jinelle telling me she knew how much I must be missing it and how beautiful my two little boys are.
Jinelle's death is startling to me and it has made me realize that we are here for too short of a time. In her honor I plan on living my life to its fullest. I will always miss you my friend. May God grant your family the peace of knowing how loved and cherished you were by all those you have left behind.
Paul Mills
October 17, 2004
Dear Dave,
I am so sorry about your loss. My thoughts are with you during this time.
Paul
Pattie Carroll-Wood
October 17, 2004
My deepest sympathy to Jinelle's parents, husband and family. I have wonderful memories of Jinelle from high school and from the neighborhood. The first vision that comes to me when thinking of Jinelle is her infectious laugh and her smile that always seemed to be there! Thanks for the memories Jinelle, and God Bless.
Audrey & Donna
October 17, 2004
We were priviledged to know Jinelle for just one brief evening. The party was fun; the company was wonderful. We were deeply impressed by her wit, intelligence, sensitivity, sense of humor, and the beauty that shone from within.
Our thoughts and prayers are with David, the families, and all of those who will miss her dearly.
Lorry Clyne
October 17, 2004
My sincerest sympathy to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lorraine Hatton
October 16, 2004
I had the pleasure of working with Jinelle at American Airlines. She was a joy - always happy and full of fun. One of the loveliest girls I have had the pleasure to have known. I can only imagine the pain that you David, and Jinelle's parents are going through at this time. Her struggle is now over, and she is with God, one of his angels. She earned her wings here on earth. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Lorraine Hatton - Friend and Flight Attendant-American Airlines
Kevin McGreal
October 16, 2004
Jinelle, Thank you for the wonderful memories, your beautiful smile, and always the kind words. Though it's been a while, it seems as though just yesterday, we were sharing a laugh!
We'll never forget you...
Kevin and Mike McGreal (Bailly's)
Susan McCarthy
October 16, 2004
It is hard to understand this loss. A beautiful girl with a love of life and fun-I am lucky to have known Jinelle. We shared many good times in high-school, memories I will never forget. I am blessed to have been one of her many, many friends. My prayers are with you. May the Lord hold Jinelle in the arms of his love.
Tom and Pat Matz
October 16, 2004
Paul and Jane
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. We can not imagine the sorrow you must have. To lose a daughter must be so hard because you always expect to go before your children. Our prayers will be with you and your family
Tim & Donna Allman
October 16, 2004
On behalf of the members of the 79th st. Overflow Group and ourselves, we would like to express our deepest sympathy to the family of Jinelle.
Mary Lu & Ted Sweeney
October 16, 2004
Jane and Paul, Our hearts are breaking for you. It is so hard to understand this great loss.They say losing a child is the biggest heartache one can endure. You are in our prayers and may The Lord give you strength in the days to come. We sincerely want you to know we are here for you. May the Lord hold Jinelle in the palm of His hand until we meet her again. God bless .
Judy and Jim Sullivan
October 16, 2004
Just wanted you all to know that we are thinking of you during this most difficult time. Jinelle certainly fought the good fight and will be welcomed into heaven with open arms. May this be a comfort to you.
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