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Jerilyn Longeway Obituary

LONGEWAY

Jerilyn Dee

aka "Doc"

7/23/1947-5/4/2013



Jerilyn Dee Longeway, aka "Doc", maiden name Willard, who was a lifelong Toledo Resident passed away in her home at the young age of 65.

She was preceded in death by mother, Mary Margerat Willard; father, William C. Willard; sister, Judy Paradyse, and several beloved friends. Surviving are her children, daughter, Wendy Dickson (Jeff); son, Eric Longeway (Jessica); seven grandchildren, Kenneth, Derrick, Adrianna, Mackenzie and Brayden Dickson, Ashton Longeway, and brother, Jim Willard (Phyllis).

"Doc" currently worked at R-House for 13 years bartending while enjoying her favorite beverage, Bud Light. She retired as a proofreader, from H.O.T. Printing and Graphics after 30 years in 2009. In the late 70s, while being a housewife, she wrote jokes for Rodney Dangerfield and Joan Rivers. She bowled with the Blade Queens and averaged a 182. She attended Devilbiss and graduated from Start H.S. in 1965. Doc was an avid reader and writer, loved to watch movies and play on the computer. She was a huge fan of Barbra Streisand, and had a love for college football, especially OSU. She helped form Lend a Loving Hand, an organization which helped men, women and children living with HIV/AIDs.

Her strong love of family was first and foremost, and the passion she had for people was evident to all. She felt so blessed with the friendships of incredibly wonderful people. She would thank each and every one of you for enriching her life.

Sunday, May 12 from 2:00-8:00 at Rossford Eagles, 658 Lime City Road, we will be haveing a "Celebration of Life" Memorial Service. In lieu of flowers please join us at the Benefit on Friday, May 10, 2013, from 4:00 p.m. - close at R-House, 5534 Secor Rd. She will be greatly missed by all. Gone but never forgotten!

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Chicago Sun-Times from May 10 to May 11, 2013.

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Barb Chester

May 15, 2013

Rest in peace Jeri, you will be missed more than you could have ever known. Wendy, Eric and Jan, your sorrow is deep but also know it's a shared sorrow. My heartfelt condolences to you all.

Dale Thomas

May 12, 2013

Doc was a very special person and I have fond memories of her visits to Columbus for the COMIC bowling tournament. My condolences to Jan, her family and all her friends. She will be missed.

Diane Lipper

May 12, 2013

So sorry to hear about Doc, I knew her from way back in the days of the Scenic Bar where she always sat in the same stool. She was a wonderful lady and know she will be missed by so many.

Judy Hazle

May 12, 2013

You were truly a wonderful women. Friend for life no matter how much time passed between seeing each other. I will miss you and cherish are friendship. RIP my friend.

Chris Falbo

May 11, 2013

Doc,
One of the truest friends and a true lady. Never judging and always caring. There to give a hug when it was needed and to just be there when you were really down. I will miss you Doc. You touched my heart many years ago and you will remain there forever. God Speed...

deborah mockensturm

May 11, 2013

We will all miss our Aunt Jeri ,even though we haven't seen you in years.The Dick kids have great memories of you (crazy ones but good ones)All 8 of us will never forget you ,Uncle Tom,Wendy;and Eric coming over and hanging out.When Grandma was mixed in the bunch it was scare when you two were together,we never knew what you guys would do.I also remember coming to your house to play with Wendy (even though she wouldn't share her Barbie's)and going down the street to get ice cream.Thank you for being there for my family and thank you for being a great Aunt.We will all miss you very much,but your now up there with all your loved ones.We will never forget you and you will be missed until we see you again.Love you and your family.

cindy wood

May 11, 2013

Doc..many years together..I'm going to miss ya...watch over us my friend..u are free...

Elaine Morberg

May 11, 2013

Doc was a friend, favorite dance partner and a pillar in the community. She will be missed but always remembered. To Wendy, Eric and all the grandchildren that she always bragged about - my deepest sympathies. This was a shock for us all and a very sad one to bear.

May 11, 2013

The first time I walked into a gay bar I met Doc. I know I had the "deer in the headlights" look. She immediately welcomed me in, introduced me around and made me feel very comfortable and at home. Strangers would walk into R House and leave as family. That is the Doc Effect. Her example prompted patrons to do the same. I will always cherish this memory of Doc, one of the most loving and caring people I have met. You will be missed Doc! My prayers go out to the entire family.

Walt Gorman

Amy Trumbull

May 11, 2013

She was a great lady! I will miss her! I met her through my Aunt Pam (Rupp). Doc was part of a great group of ladies that I'm glad I was able to meet and call her my friend! RIP..

Jo Bonner

May 11, 2013

Wendy and Eric, so sorry to hear about your mom. Will remember "DOC" for her kindness and humor and all the good times spent bowling and golfing -- especially the good times with the "Wild Bunch" at the state bowling tournaments. Sorry I haven't seen you lately but will remember the good times.
-Nurse Bonzie

Christopher Pryor

May 11, 2013

She always greeted me with a smile and said goodbye with a hug. I'm grateful to have known her.

Jen Tucker

May 11, 2013

Doc: selfless . . . too humble to ever have known the impact she had on those around her. Sing with the angels, my friend! Drink all of the Bud Light and watch movies before they come out in the stores, for there are no rules in heaven!!!

Eddie Diaz

May 11, 2013

Jan, Jeri will always be with you. You were the love of her life. Eric and Wendy, she is now your guardian Angel; she loved you so. My love to all of you.

Larry Ickes

May 11, 2013

Doc - you will be greatly missed by one and all... Shed boy will never forget you or the times we all shared.

May 11, 2013

Wendy and Eric -- Your Mother and I have been great friends for over 50 years. We have millions of laughs & memories along with our love for life. I lived with the Willard's in the 60's so I could tell you many, many stories. My heartfelt condolences to you all and give Jim my best. We graduated the same year from Start H.S. Love to you all!! Jean Pickens McComesky now in Fayetteville NC via W.Va., Ohio, NY, NJ, Ohio, & Las Vegas.

May 11, 2013

Doc I'm still a loss for words knowing you won't be behind the bar anymore and look up to say "hell no" when I walk in..... Love you my friend. RIP!

Deb Music

May 11, 2013

Wendy and Eric, I had the pleasure of having your Mother as a friend since the early eighties. She never heisitated to lend a hand, a kind word and a hug when needed. This has been a great loss for so many that she touched. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

May 11, 2013

This is a stunning loss to both Doc's family and friends. I will hold her in my heart forever. A good friend, wonderful person and gone too soon

Laura

May 11, 2013

I am stunned by the loss of this wonderful lady, we haven't had a lot of contact lately but you could do that with her and see her and talk like it was yesterday, She was a true friend to so many we all grieve her loss with you. Jeri have peace, hug and kiss our friends and make room for us yet to come. I will always love our friendship and you.
Laura Lewinski

David

May 10, 2013

Wendy and Eric,
I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom. Doc was, as you know, a very special person. Always greeted me (and many) with a smile, hug and a kiss. Great stories to tell, advice to share and pleasant to be around. She was one of a kind. She will be missed.
Godspeed, Doc. Get Heaven ready for the rest of us.

Bryan Smith

May 10, 2013

Doc, you truly had the biggest and kindest heart of anyone I've ever met. I wish that I'd gotten to know you better and I'll miss your wisdom and insight on Facebook. Rest in peace.

Chuck

May 10, 2013

Rest in peace my dear, dear friend. What a GIFT it was to have known and loved you. And what a weekend roommate you were!!! What fun Doc...thank you for blessing me with your friendship. I know that you are in heaven with a Bud Lite and pack of cigs...You enjoy baby!!!!

gerald kemp

May 10, 2013

so sorry to here of her passing ma God Bless all of the FAM, R.I.H. DOC.

Patty Douglas Radabaugh

May 10, 2013

I am so saddened to learn of Jeri's passing. She was the hub of laughter in high school. She kept everyone in stitches all through the years. Our deepest sympathy to her family.

Linda Weeks

May 10, 2013

Thank you Doc,for being such a wonderful neighbor to my daughter Teresa., and for taking care of her when I couldn't.Hold your head up high.for you have a whole lot of people down here, that is showing their love and devotion for you.You are loved by so many. I will miss you. Now, you go be with the other angels.

Stephanie Mills & Beth Holt

May 10, 2013

So very sorry about the loss of DOC! She was a wonderful women! DOC, we will miss your sweet smile, sharp sense of humor and of course, your caring personality. RIP knowing you touched many peoples lives. Thanks for the memories! It won't be the same without you. xoxo

mark ceglio

May 10, 2013

Again God has taken someone from us too soon... But i know she is up in HEAVEN, And i am sure she is making sure everything is in it's place.... RIP my friend.. And as always-"WATCH CLOSELY NOW"
Love ya Mark Ceglio (Sylvia Austin)

Mike Cremeans

May 10, 2013

Always had a smile, and something good to say!!! She will be missed by everyone. RIP Doc.

Matthew Greene

May 10, 2013

Doc always knew the right thing to say no matter what the situation was. She got me through some rough patches in my life and can't thank her enough for that. Always thinking of everyone else and how she can enhance their lives even to the simplest things like making some meal to share or burning DVD's she thought you would enjoy. Can't forget that she started the frozen shot glasses! The pic posted I took, and the reverse I'll share is the one she took back of me right after. Love you Doc!

Emily Berger

May 10, 2013

Jim, Phyllis and Family, you have my deepest condolences regarding the loss of a Life obviously well lived. I wish I would have known her. Hugs and Love, Emily

Randy Roberts

May 10, 2013

What can I say? Doc was one great lady! She welcomed everyone and was the first to help, if someone needed it. She will be missed greatly and my thoughts and prayers go out to her children and grandchildren. Goodbye my friend, I love you and miss you!

Larry Sabo

May 10, 2013

What can I say dear friend? I will continue arguing with the boys online to keep you entertained and give you an occasional laugh as always. HH will never be the same without you in the picture. R.I.P. Love you!

May 10, 2013

my longtime friend n neighbor,out apt building will never b the same...one day i will come a knocking on ur door..thank u 4 being such an amazing friend...all my love T

May 10, 2013

a long time friend and neighbor of mine,she was an amazing and unselfish woman.Im not ready 2 have a new neighbor here soon,it will never b the same w out u.thank u Doc 4 all u have done 4 me and I will miss us knocking on eachothers doors..one day i will again in heaven,,,lots of love...T

Jeff Benz

May 10, 2013

I'm going to miss all of our bowling conversations. Especially when she used to tell me "how it was back in the old days." Doc was a great friend and always a joy to be around. I will miss you!

chad smith

May 10, 2013

doc you will be greatly missed your compassion and love for anyone that crossed your path was your light... my greatest sympathies go out to your family and those of us that are left behind

Eddie Diaz

May 10, 2013

Thank you for being my friend. Adios Mi Amiga! Until we meet again ....

Rick Paquette

May 10, 2013

Doc was a truly unique and beautiful person. Her love of life and love for others was boundless. I will miss you Doc, with all my heart. Rest in peace dear friend.

Marge Kurtz-Kowalewski

May 10, 2013

To the Family of Jeri,
I am so sad to hear of her passing. She was indeed a great person and a joy to be with and I am so blessed to have shared many good times with her on and off the bowling lanes. She brought happiness to all the lives that she touched, she will be truly missed by us all.

Terry Robinson

May 10, 2013

A pillar in the LGBT community has been lost. She touched, and changed, many lives. I feel truly blessed to have considered her our friend.

ALLEN

May 10, 2013

DOC will be truly missed . I have share times with her and I know she was loved by many . my thoughts and prayers go out to family and friends . rest in peace DOC .....

Sheryl Deck

May 10, 2013

Aunt Jeri,

You will forever be in our Hearts.

Cheryl Hutchinson

May 10, 2013

I don't personally know Doc but I do know her daughter Wendy. I have heard a lot of beautiful stories about her. She was a wonderful person. She will truly be missed. RIP Doc, if you were half as wonderful as your daughter, I wish I could have met you.

Denise Lay

May 10, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ronald Shaffer

May 10, 2013

Doc will be remembered for being the beautiful woman that she was - in aspects of life. A truly remarkable woman and friend. We ill never be apart because we are connected at the heart. Rest in Peace my dear friend.

RICHARD ROEPKE

May 10, 2013

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST DOC WAS A GOOD PERSON TO ME.BYE DOC YOU WILL BE MISSED.

Patrick O'Toole

May 10, 2013

a class act,a great lady, and a good friend, this woman made Toledo a better place to live. And a sadder place without her.
Bless you Doc, and keep a cold one waiting for me.

Jon Lento

May 10, 2013

Doc enough wods can not express the small things you did that have forever changed me, I am so glad our paths were able to cross, love you my friend, God got one more heck of an angel up there.

Christy Tingley

May 10, 2013

My thoughts go out to all of Doc's family and friends (and boy did she have a lot of friends). We have lost a wonderful woman and a 2nd mother to many of us including myself. She will be dearly missed by everyone who has crossed her path.

Lynn Sojak

May 10, 2013

Jeri made my trips over to HOT a pleasure for many years! Loved her wit, and keen proofreading skills. Thank you for the memories.

Toni Wikstrom

May 10, 2013

So sorry for the family, she was truly an icon and such a great lady. I will miss my stories with her...Toni

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