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James Loughlin Obituary

Loughlin, James "Jamie" age 36, of Crete, IL, passed away August 20th, born May 20, 1969, he is survived by his devoted wife, Dawn (nee Eustace) and two loving children, Hunter James (age 4) and Riley Robert (age 2), his parents, Kevin and Nora Loughlin of Crete, IL, brother, Kevin (Melissa) Loughlin and nephews, Nicholas and Logan and niece, Kailee all of Dyer, IN, sister, Jennifer (Shane) English, nephew, Austin and niece, MacKenzie all of Crete, IL, his in-laws, Robert and Elsa Eustace of Stuart, FL, brother-in-law, Glen (Gina) Eustace, nephews, Jake and Zhenya and niece, Jordin all of Crete, IL. Jamie is survived by a large extended and loving family of aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Jamie was a 1987 graduate of Crete-Monee H.S., a 1992 graduate of Illinois State University with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Industrial Technology/Construction Sequence. Jamie was a member of the Sigma Epsilon fraternity. Jamie had taken over his fathers construction company in 2003 and recently began developing property in Chicago. An avid golfer Jamie was a member of Flossmoor C.C. His favorite times were spent with family and friends. Jamie lived life to the fullest and with much energy and enthusiasm. He will be missed by all of those whose lives he touched. The family will receive friends at Panozzo Bros. Funeral Home, 530 W. 14th St., (U.S. Rt. 30, 3 blks. E. of Western Ave.), Chicago Heights, on Thursday, from 12 noon to 9 p.m. Family and friends will meet Friday morning for an 11 a.m. Funeral Mass at Infant Jesus of Prague Church (Flossmoor Rd., 1 mile W. of Western Ave.), Flossmoor. Inurnment will be private. In lieu of flowers, Jamie's family request memorial in Jamie's name be directed to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Pl., Memphis, TN, 38105 or to charity of your choice. For further information: 708-481-9230

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Aug. 23 to Aug. 24, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for James Loughlin

Sponsored by Someone not nearly as wonderful as Jamie.

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LuBea Scanlan

September 1, 2007

Jay, the golf outing in September of
2007 was wonderful and Jennifer as usual did a marvelous job. We all miss you and pray for Dawn and the boys, and also pray for comfort for all of the family as everyone misses you so very much

KEVIN LOUGHLIN

August 27, 2007

Jay,

Keep an eye on us.
Its going to be great!!!!!!

Jennifer English

September 2, 2006

Memorial Benefit honoring Jamie on Saturday September 16, 2006.



Includes donation to the James D. Loughlin Memorial Foundation, golf outing (greens fees with cart), lunch and refreshments, cocktail hour, silent auction, dinner, and entertainment.



If interested in more information, please email Jennifer English at [email protected]

Julie Baldassano

August 20, 2006

Dear Dawn and Loughlin family,



I've thought of all you and Jamie so much over this past year. I wanted to express again how sorry I am for you tremendous loss. It's still hard to imagine he's not here...

I think about his great smile, personality, and how much he was loved by all. Please know that you're always in my thoughts and prayers.



Love,

Julie (Amram) Baldassano

July 17, 2006

Howdy Jamie,

Dan and I are taking a bike trip next weekend to Durango and Ouray an area we had always hoped to ride with you and Dawn, I will carry you with me.

Protect those of us who ride on difficult roads these days.



aunt Kim

Margaret Long(Poturalski)

July 14, 2006

Dear Loughlin Family, I just heard of this horrible tragedy and don't know how to say how sorry I am. I went to school with Kevin and Jamie and have great memories. My love and deepest simpathy goes out to your whole family.

Kristine Friend

June 26, 2006

I look to this book periodically just to see how others are grieving. I think of you and Dawn every day and ask "why?" I am so different from your wife, it's amazing we're best friends. I did not know you nearly as well as most people that have signed this book. I knew you as the man that completed my best friend, that put grins on her face, that made her want to be a mother, that made her happier than I'd ever seen her. Dawn has a lot of really great gifts in her life, but you are by far her greatest. I cry often for her and for the boys. I still cannot believe you are actually gone. You married the strongest, most amazing woman I have ever seen. I don't know how she keeps such a positive attitude. My guess is she got most of that from you. She was not like that before you entered the picture. I'm glad it stuck. I love seeing how much the boys are like you. Hunter and his patience with his brother (most of the time) and his love for anything construction - Riley and his daredevil antics - it's interesting what you pass on. I miss you and love you for all you gave to Dawn and your children. And I don't mean material things. You gave them much more than that. I know you are watching over them with such pride. Dawn loves you so much, she'd never let you down. You did so much in your short life, it's like you knew you weren't going to have enough time to fit it all in. I'll never forget how your hands shook when you handed me the little box wrapped in blue Tiffany paper to deliver to Dawn on your wedding day. You were both so nervous and cute! That was one of my best days. We miss you tremendously Jamie.

Jennifer English

May 20, 2006

Dear Jay,

On your first birthday in heaven, and 9 months since you left us, your smile still shines brightly in our memories. I know you are watching down on us and although things have changed a lot here, I hope you are still smiling. Thinking of you always and especially today. Happy Birthday. We miss you very much.

Love,

Jen

Sheila Loughlin

May 20, 2006

Jamie, today would have been your 37th birthday and my thoughts are of you as they are everyday. Today's thoughts are happy ones of the joy you brought into all of our lives. I celebrate this day by remembering with gratitude those years we shared with you.

Aunt Sheila

Matt Holzer

May 17, 2006

jay i just wanted to say i think about you everyday. I miss you and wish you were around, I finally graduated college and we are having are annual party at the new house next month. I know you will be there in spirit and in all our hearts.



Love Matt

Sheri (Casini) Degen

February 20, 2006

Jamie

Even though we did not see alot of each other after college so many of my best memories of those great days included you and those crazy Sig Eps! I just wanted to write again and say..I think of you often. I pray often for your wife, kids and wonderful family and to this day I still cannot believe you are in heaven and not here. How lucky the angels in heaven are to have you with them. Bless your family and know even your oldest friends will never forget you.

Gina Chavez

December 28, 2005

Jay-I had a dream that I was talking to you. You were so soothing, so calm, and you were smiling...Somehow,I know that you are watching over all of us! I think of you, Dawn and the boys often. I miss your smile, ur up to no good laugh and your friendship. I will never forget all of the good times that we have all shared together. You will not be forgotten...

December 25, 2005

EVERONE TELLS ME THE HOLIDAYS ARE THE HARDEST. WELL THERE WRONG, EVER DAY IS HARD. THIS DAY I WOKE UP AND HAD OFTEN WONDERED WOULD HUNTER WAKE UP RILEY OR WOULD RILEY WAKE UP HUNTER IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NITE TO SNEEK A PEEK LIKE WE WOULD!! I HAD ANOTHER TEAR TO MY EYES, LIKE THE OTHER HUNDREDS I'VE BEEN HAVING, JUST VISUALIZING YOU AND DAWN WITH THE BOYS THIS MORNING WELL YOU KNOW AND I, JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE KNOWS YOU WONT BE THERE. JAY I AM SOBBING WHILE I TRY TO WRITE THIS. YOU ARE MISSED SO MUCH AND YES THE HOLIDAYS ARE HARD BUT MOST OF ALL EVERDAY IS THE MOST DIFFICULT! YOU WILL ALWAYS BE CHERISHED. MY PRAYER OR DREAM ON THIS DAY WAS TO DO THE THINGS THAT WE ONCE DID,IT PROBABLY WONT COME TRUE. BUT THATS WHY THEY ARE DREAMS, SOMEDAY I KNOW THAT YOU AND I WILL BE ABLE TO DO THOSE THINGS AGAIN. FOR NOW WE JUST GET BY AND DO WHATS NORMAL. SEE YOU WHEN I GET THERE. LOVE



ME

November 29, 2005

Jamie,

We so miss you so.Some times it is difficult for us left behind to connect with each other, tell Dawn that we love her and

the children deeply.

Kim

p.s. I think of you every day.

KEVIN LOUGHLIN

November 20, 2005

JIM D,



HEY I WISH I COULD SHARE EVERYTHING THAT HAS BEEN GOING ON.I CAN'T TOUCH OR TALK TO YOU BUT I DO IT THROUGH YOUR TRUE LOVE. ALSO THE KIDS THEY ARE SO SO MUCH FUN. I HOPE I CAN MAKE THEM WHAT YOU AND DAWN ALWAYS WANTED!!!!!

NOT JUST BECAUSE ITS THREE MONTHS I AM WRITING YOUR THOUGHTS ARE ALWAYS THERE.

LOVE YA,



YOUR BIG BROTHER,

KEV

Missy Loughlin

October 27, 2005

Jamie,



I periodically check this book and re read all the wonderful things people have said about you. They are all so true. I agree with Matt, though. I think of you everyday and often forget I can't see you or talk to you. I miss you terribly and can't believe you're gone. Just know how much you were and still are loved. The boys are good. We're hanging in there. We share stories , crazy stories of you and Kev growing up and we just know some of those same pranks will reveal themselves in Hunter, Riley and Logan. What a combination the three of them are. I can still hear your laugh and see that magical smile when the three of them pull something that I know you would get a kick out of. Love you and miss you more than you can know.



Love,

Missy

Michael and Linda Berry

October 23, 2005

It is October and we wanted to tell you that our thoughts and prayers are still with the Loughlin family. We were out of town and were not able to hug you properly when Jamie left you. I heard that the celebration of Jamie's life was wonderful and that he leaves his children a wonderful legacy. We were blessed to have such a remarkable young man for so long.

KEVIN LOUGHLIN

October 21, 2005

JAY,



ITS BEEN TWO MONTHS NOW AND SEEMS LIKE FOREVER. I WAS WORKING WITH DAD TODAY AND KEPT WAITING FOR YOU TO SHOW UP! WE WERE SUPPOSE TO GET IN TROUBLE AND HAVE DAD YELL AT US.

MISS YOU DEEPLY.

YOUR LOVING BROTHER,

KEV

matt Holzer

October 20, 2005

Jay i cant believe its been 2 months i think about you everyday and still cant understand why you are not with us today i love you and miss you.

Kevin Loughlin

September 20, 2005

Jay,

Its been one month and feels like forever, I always look at your name

on the phone and wait for your call. Everything I look at and touch has something to do with what we use to do. Jay you dont know how much I miss you and just want to talk. Can't wait to see you!

Love your big brother

Kev

Debbie (Siegel) VanDam

September 5, 2005

Dawn --

I'm sorry to hear the sad news. My condolences to your and your family.

--Debbie (Crete-Monee H.S.)

Kelly Klein (Martin)

September 2, 2005

I remember Jamie from Crete Monee and he was the nicest guy to be around ALWAYS smiling!!

Dawn, please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

September 1, 2005

To: Jamie

Elenanor & Jim MacKenzie

JaneAnn

Homer & Fran



RABBITS! RABBITS! RABBITS!

August 31, 2005

"To sleep...to sleep, perchance to dream".

Good night sweet prince.

Shakespeare

August 29, 2005

Dawn and Family

I have a hard time thinking that I'm having to write this. Jamie was always so kind to take time to talk to my boys about cars or golf. He was a very giving person and will be missed by all who knew him (his wave and smile). If there is anything we can do to help you please let us know.



David, Donna, Christopher and Brandon Koven

Huntington Terrace

Crete, IL

TG and Paula McCready

August 29, 2005

Jaime,



Your thoughtfulness was comforting, your generosity was inspiring and your sincerity was always true. Having you as a friend helped make me the person I am and the world a better place. I will miss you because you can't be replaced. You were truly one of a kind.



Our deepest sympathy to Dawn, Hunter, Riley and the entire Loughlin family,

John & Kelly Patrician

August 29, 2005

To the entire Loughlin Family: I knew Jamie through the Sig Ep fraternity and over the years we became good friends. He was an inspiration to all who knew him with his strong personality and desire to succeed at anything he did. My prayers and deepest sympathy go out to you.

Tom & Linda Carruth

August 28, 2005

To the Loughlin & Eustace Families:



Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Dawn, my memories go back to you and Jamie courting; the bathroom primping, the "glow" and your neverending smile. From all of your stories, John, Patti and I believed that this guy was too good to be true! He, and the two of you together, were all that and so much more! He will be deeply missed by many, many people. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, the boys and the entire Loughlin and Eustace family.

Julie Kerkhoven

August 28, 2005

Loughlin Family,



I am saddened by your loss of such a wonderful person. I remember Jay with fondness and will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.

Tim Lori Mason and Logan Mizwicki

August 28, 2005

To The Loughlin Families

We are so deeply saddened by the loss of Jamie, and not being in the country at the time to offer a shoulder to lean on. Our extended Keeler Lake family will never be the same. We love you all more than you will ever know and are so sorry. Again we're sorry Miss and Kev we would have been there for you if we could have- just know that we are now. Dawn- we hope to see you and the boys in Michigan sometime soon. We love you.

Tim Lori Mason and Logan

Laura Loughlin

August 28, 2005

Jamie, We'll miss your pleasant attitude, warm smile and all around wonderful disposition. Bless you!

Uncle John & Aunt Laura

Dane Konjevic

August 28, 2005

Loughlin & Eustace Families,



My family would like to extend our condolences and deepest sympathies for a truly great man. Growing up with him was a privledge.

Henry Oyuela

August 27, 2005

The times that I had the privilege to speak with Jaime, were only the brief seconds he would stop by the front office of a co. where I use to be an office assistant. In those brief moments that I would speak with him, it was more than enough to know what an amazing person he was, and how fortunate any who would feel to call him a friend, even more so family. I send my deepest sympathy to his family and loved ones, may God provide you with the strength and closure during this difficult time. I know he will always be remembered, even by those who only knew him for brief moments.

Lynn & Leland Payne

August 27, 2005

Dawn, Bob and Elsa,

Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your families in the loss of Jamie. May God give you comfort and strength.

Our love and sympathy,

Laurie (Lezak) Manzardo

August 26, 2005

Dear Dawn & Kevin and Families,

I am truly sorry for your loss. Although I did not know Jamie, what a great legacy he leaves behind. After losing our daughter tragically in 1998, we learned how precious life is and we were forever changed. There truly are no words to take away your pain. I hope this poem offers you some comfort.



THE BROKEN CHAIN



We little knew that morning that God was going to call your name,



In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same.



It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone,



For part of us went with you, the day God called you home.



You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide,



And though we cannot see you, you are always at our side.



Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same,



But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.



--Author Unknown



God Bless You.

Laurie, Rob, Alec, John, Christopher & angel Gabriella

Eric Wessel

August 26, 2005

Dawn,

All of our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your boys. Jamie was a GREAT guy. May God be with your family at this difficuct time.

Eric & Keri Wessel

Janie Chapman

August 26, 2005

Dear Nora and Kevin,



Judy called and told me about Jamie. I am so very sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family and Dawn and the children.



Through my tears, I read through the pages of Jamie's Guest Book. What a wonderful tribute! Judy always told me that Jamie was special, and now I see that it wasn't just an adoring Aunt speaking.



Try to find comfort in family and friends and with your memories that Jamie has tucked away in your hearts.



With Love and Sympathy,



Janie (Judy's childhood friend)

Keith Kowalski

August 26, 2005

Jamie and I were fraternity brothers at college. I will always remember Jamie for his genuine kindness and his great positive energy and attitude. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sandi Harpstrite (Sieron)

August 26, 2005

Dawn and family,

I heard about Jamie on US99 while visiting family this week. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Jamie was a great guy and he will be missed.

Chuck VanDrunen

August 26, 2005

Some people have the power to change our lives - even after they're no longer a part of it.

Patti & Mike Clausen

August 26, 2005

Dawn,



Mike & I both feel the world is a much sadder place without Jamie. I'm glad you feel that you are happy for the time you had...although it was too short a time. But, you truly did have a fairy tale love & have two wonderful boys to help you get through the sad times. Some of the best memories I have are those with the "lunch gang" at Brian's during your courting days with Jamie. In all your life I never saw you so happy - remember we used to tease you about how you "glowed"? Then when we met Jamie, we knew he truly was your Knight in Shining Armor. Luckily, we were able to see you guys in Florida this spring and how wonderful - you still had the glow and Jamie still had his beautiful smile of happiness which was due to his lovely wife. He will be missed, but Mike and I feel we are better people for having known Jamie and had him in our lives for a short time. Take care Dawn, Hunter and Riley. Jamie is watching over all of you.

Love Patti and Mike

Michael Wirth

August 26, 2005

I've always believed that A good measure of a man, was the memories that people had of him. When I heard of Jamie's passing , I reflected on all of my memories of him, that I had. Jamie and I were friends in college, and even though we had not spoken to each other in over 10 years I would still consier him a good friend.

I've often said that I wouldn't trade my years in college for all the money in the world, and Jamie was a part of those memories for me. We shared a lot in common, sharing many of the same interests. We both won the body building show at ISU, He in 1991 and me 1990. My roomate Key trained us both, and many of days did we spend together in the gym.

I bought my first motor cylcle from Jamie(GSXR 750 Pink and White). Jamie was a good friend. A good looking guy, with a killer smile, and fun to hang out with. I'll always remember him.

I hope that his parents, brother , and sister can find a way to cope with losing their son/brother. And, my prayers are with his wife and sons who lost their husband and father. God speed Jamie, the world is a darker/ more dull place without you.

alex scheetz

August 25, 2005

I cant really explain my saddness for the loughlins.but I have met Jamie before and the rest of the family.I know them through the nanny,Magan F.Who is practically my aunt. I would help her out with the kids and sometimes went over to their house and swam while we all talked at the pool.I will never forget Jay as everyone called him. He will be in my prayers and heart along with the loughlin family.He was a great Father and husband to his dear wife Dawn.I give you all my sympathy and love Jay Loughlin,this was so sudden and unespected.What a awful and tragic loss,that will never be forgotten.

Kathryn Forster (Persch)

August 25, 2005

Dawn-Thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.



When the warmth of the sun touches my face, I see your smile and feel your embrace.



I hear the whisper of love in the wind And I know that you are close to me again



The rain speaks of tears and the thunder of pain,But soon the sun comes the earth to reclaim.



As the days come and go and the world moves on, I know you're still here, you'll never be gone.



On the night the Angel came and took your hand, We cried as you left for an unknown land.



But Heaven rejoiced as you came into sight, For your soul was a diamond, shining so bright!



All our love, Jason, Kathryn and Alex Forster

Meghan and Tim Householder

August 25, 2005

Jen, Shane, Mr. and Mrs. Loughlin, and family~ We are so sorry for your loss and are praying for peace for all of you.

Chip Arnold

August 25, 2005

Dear Loughlin Family,



I was shocked and saddened to learn of Jamie's passing. We were fraternity brothers at ISU and I will always remember him as one of the kindest people I have known. Please accept my sincere condolences.



Chip, Jessica, Brynn and Megan Arnold

Chris Rimbos

August 25, 2005

All our prayers, condolences and thoughts go out to you and your family. From another fraternity brother - H.F.F. - May God Bless you all...

Will and Carolyn Collis

August 25, 2005

Dawn: We were deeply saddened at the news of this tragedy. Please know that you, your family and the Loughlins's are in our thoughts and prayers. We were close to your mother and father and can only imagine the emotional pain they must be in and only wish we could do or say something to ease it. It sounds like you have a tremendous support system in your life and the memory of Jamie will not be forgotten. It sounds like in his too brief years, he spent them well and will pass on a great legacy to his sons.

Susan Bach

August 25, 2005

Dawn, Hunter and Riley, Although I have not known you very long, I have very special feelings for all of you. It was a pleasure to be one of Hunter's pre-school teachers as he was an absolute joy. It was also nice to get to know his mommy and daddy because it then became obvious why Hunter is such a very special little boy. I am looking forward to getting to know Riley in the years to come. My deepest, most heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all. I can only hope that in time your pain will lessen. Feel the love of those around you and gather strength from that. We are here for you whenever you may need us and we promise to look after Hunter while he is at school. Love, Sue Bach

Theresa Gamboa

August 25, 2005

To The Loughlin & Eustace Family,



I am deeply saddend by the new's of this young man's life cut so short. I have so many fond memories of Jamie. I will hold them dear to my heart. My love goes out you Dawn, Hunter & Reily. May God hold you tight in the palm of his hand and guide you and your family thru this difficult time.

God Bless



Theresa Gamboa

Sandi Jones (Teefel)

August 25, 2005

My heart is full of sadness that such a wonderfull person has been taken so suddenly and so young.



My heart is full of sadness for Dawn who has lost her soulmate and best friend.



My heart is full of sadness for the boys who will not get to spend everyday with their dad and who will not get to expierence just how great their dad was.



My heart is full of sadness for the Loughlin's who have lost a son they must be very proud of and whom they loved very much.



My heart is full of sadness for Jamie's comrades; Tommy, Johnny, Paul and Danny. Often for may to think of one is to think of all.



My heart is full of sadness for Kevin who has now also lost a brother and a friend.



My heart is full of sadness that I cannot say good-bye to a special friend.



Jamie, you have touched the lives of many people in a way that makes you a part of their hearts forever.

Christine & Jerry Kropp

August 25, 2005

Kevin, Missy & The entire Louglin Family,



We are deeply sorry for the loss of your loved one and we send our prayers to the entire family.

Neala Kropp (Martel)

August 25, 2005

My sincere condolences go out to the entire Loughlin family and my thoughts are prayers are with you.

Vince Volpe

August 25, 2005

Jay Was Truly one of the Nicest guys I ever met. He will be missed by all who knew him. My heart felt condolences to his whole family.

Grace Witvliet

August 25, 2005

Dear Dawn and the Loughlin family

There is nothing we can say that will ease the pain you all must be feeling. We just want you to know how sorry we are for your loss. Jami will never be replaced in your hearts and the good memories will always be there. Time is a great healer as is prayer. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

John & Grace Witvliet

Mark Galasso

August 25, 2005

Jamie and I were fratenity brothers in college. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of his family and friends. Jamie was one of the most geniune peolpe I have ever met. My prayers are with you in this trying time.

Tammy (Cave) DeSanto

August 25, 2005

Dawn, words can not begin to express my deepest sympothy. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Billy Rosinia's Staff @ Flagg Creek Golf Course

August 25, 2005

Dear Kevin & Family, Our deepest condolences and sympathies are with you during this most difficult time. May God hold Jamie close in his loving arms.

Sincerely,

Diane Hansen

August 25, 2005

To the entire Loughlin and Eustace family, my deepest heartfelt sympathy on your tragic loss. I have never met Jamie, but know of him, Dawn, Hunter and Riley through the children's nanny, Megan Farkos. I have always heard wonderful stories about Jamie through Megan; he truly was an exceptional person. I know he will be missed by many. My heart goes out to all who grieve for Jamie, I can't even begin to imagine the pain and grief that you are feeling. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Although it will take time, may happy memories help to ease your sorrow.



Diane Hansen

Andy and Marybeth Schwieters

August 25, 2005

Dear Loughlin and Eustace Families,



We are friends of your extended family and also grew up in Crete. We were so shocked to hear this news and extend our sympathies to your families. God Bless Jamie.

August 25, 2005

What a beautiful person-inside and out! These many guest book messages are a testament to the kind of person Jay was and the impact he had on everyone in Crete, through his many friendships and business relationships. May you feel God near during this very difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Hector, Maria, Gina, and Nick Garza

August 25, 2005

Dear Dawn, Hunter, Riley, Loughlin and Eustace Families,

My Father (Hector), Mother(Maria), Gina and I are deeply saddened for your loss and are forever grateful for knowing Jamie. Jamie is and was always a loyal, honest, considerate, standout guy of the highest character.

Our hearts and prayers go out to you!

Craig Franzen

August 25, 2005

To the Loughlin family,



Jamie and were fraternity brothers in college. He was someone I always looked up to and aspired to be like. You have my deepest sympathy for your loss.



Sincerely,

Carol Glenck

August 25, 2005

Dawn,

No words can describe your feelings or help soothe the pain you have. You are in our thoughts and prayers. You have a wonderful family to try and help you cope. All our best to you, Hunter & Riley.

Bill & Carol Glenck

Florence Carta

August 25, 2005

The Loughlin and Eustace families,

This world has lost a very special man.

So many hearts are broken, we all grieve.

His warmth and smile will never be forgotten.

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Florence and Ken Carta

Beth Poelstra

August 25, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with the Loughlin and Eustace family during this difficult time.

Frank Goncher

August 25, 2005

Jesus needs your help, he couldn't have picked a better guy, though we will miss you much, we didn't get to say goodbye, for now anyway until we meet again, my good freind,



Godspeed Ann & Frank!

Marchell Barkey

August 25, 2005

Kevin, Missy, and the entire Loughlin Family,



Bob and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Although, we never met your brother Jamie, we know that like you, he was a wonderful person. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. If there is anything Kaliee and Nick need please don't hesitate to ask.

Bob and Marchell Barkey

Nick and Kaliee's Teacher

Jim Mann

August 25, 2005

Jamie and I were fraternity brothers in college... I remember when first joined, he was someone that you just liked right away. My thoughts are with the Loughlin family during this difficult time.

Michael McCann

August 25, 2005

I did not have the pleasure to have a non-business relationship with Jamie,only a professional one.To say I have never dealt with a more honest and fair individual does not do justice to him.From the top to the bottom of KBL,s employees,Jamies kindness could be found in all of them.I am truly grateful to be able to call Jamie,friend.On behalf of myself and my employees, our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Carol Ellis

August 25, 2005

The world has lost an amazing person. As the dental hygienist to the Loughlin family for the last 20 years, I am priveleged to have know Jamie and the entire family. I can tell you that all of us at Dr. Cubbon's office had the highest regard for him. I have so many memories of Jamie. He was truly a one of a kind man who was so proud of his family. His inner beauty never failed to show through, and he will be dearly missed.



Dawn, Kevin, Nora, Kevin and Jennifer, you are in my prayers.

Mark Dyrek

August 25, 2005

Dawn,



Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.



The Dyrek Family

Susanne Smith

August 25, 2005

There are no words for such a sudden and tragic loss. My prayers go out to your family and friends. May James be at rest with God and continue to smile down on us. May all our families and friends one day be reunited in the the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus.

Tanya & Ken Carta

August 25, 2005

Dawn and the entire Loughlin family

It is with heartfelt saddness that I write this today. Jay was a man filled with overwhelming generosity and kindness, who lived life to the fullest and touched so many people in so many ways. To have one true friend is lucky, to have a friend like Jay is a blessing. Dawn and Jay lived the true "Fairy Tale" life that most people never get a chance to experience. Even though it has been cut short, the time they shared produced many wonderful memories, and 2 precious little men who have some mighty "BIG" shoes to fill, but will,undoubtedly, be told by many what an Angel their daddy truly is. Dawn,I hope you remember that you have many friends who will listen and truly care, and may you take heart in knowing that while time can not take away your pain and sorrow, it will, someday, soften the edges and ease your burden.

With Deepest Sympathy

LuBea and Earl Scanlan

August 25, 2005

Our deepest sympathy to all.

May tender memories soften your grief and may you find peace in the thought of knowing the "joy" your loved one Jamie brought and the happy hours that belonged to you.

May you find comfort in the arms of

our Heavenly Father. Our love and

prayers are with you all.

The Earl Scanlan Family

Carol and Bill Casey

August 25, 2005

Dawn,



Jamie will look after you, Hunter and Riley throughout your lives. Our love is always with you.

Michael and Amy Bialko

August 25, 2005

To the Loughlin family,



We were very sad to hear of Jamies passing. We send our prayers to the entire family on Jamies loss as a terrific father, husband, and friend to all.



The Bialko family

Marlene Brown

August 25, 2005

Dear Dawn,

The world lost a genuinely kind, loving, generous human being when Jamie left us. I'm sorry for anyone who didn't have the good fortune to meet him. For those of us who did, we will be forever grateful. We will keep his memory in our hearts and minds forever as an inspiration to live our lives as he lived his.

All our love to you, Hunter and Riley,

"Uncle" Dan and "Aunt" Marlene

Wally and Nora Kasprzycki

August 25, 2005

Kevin and Missy and families.



Although we never met him, you represent your family well Kevin-I imagine him to be as kind and generous as you. We are so sorry for your loss and hope the healing begins quickly.

Love to both of you and all the kids

Nora and Wally, Will and Wally

Jeremy Holzer

August 24, 2005

Jamie, the Holzer's will truly miss you.

Matthew Anderson

August 24, 2005

Dawn -

My heart grieves at your loss. May the Lord provide you comfort and guidance during this time of grief and sorrow. Our prayers are with you and your family.



"..but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. " Isaiah 40:31

Jennifer English

August 24, 2005

Dear Jay,

Tonight we met again. It wasn’t the same. I wanted to see your beautiful smile, your gorgeous teeth. You didn’t touch my shoulder with your strong but gentle hand and I couldn’t hear you say, “Hi, Jen”. I miss you so deeply.

Although I am in pain, it brings such happiness to look at your boys and look into their eyes. You live on through them. I can’t wait to help them grow up, to play with them, for Shane to “fight” with them, play football, whatever they want. Know that he will be a strong male role model for them. You couldn’t have “designed or made” a more perfect wife if you had the chance. Dawn is amazing. I am so thankful that the two of you had your time together. I can’t “be you”, but I hope Dawn can find comfort in being with me and the Loughlin family. I look forward to making lots of memories with Dawn, Hunter and Riley, and will share when we meet again.

I love you Jay.

Love, Jen.

Doree (Pleus) Moran

August 24, 2005

To the Loughlin family,



My husband and I were very sad to hear of Jamies passing. It is with heavy hearts that we send our condolences to the entire family.



I had the pleasure of meeting Jamie and Kevin through my brother, Doug, and feel blessed to have shared so many laughs with them.



Jamies laugh and smile will be greatly missed by all that knew him.



God Bless,

Doree, Bryan, Brenna, Casey and Delaney Moran

Scott Swanson

August 24, 2005

My deepest sympathy to Jamie's family. We were fraternity brothers and started out in the same pledge class. I have very fond memories of him and will always remember that constant smile. As "brotherhood" extends beyond an individual, please let me know if your family ever needs any assistance.

Tom & Leslie Johnson

August 24, 2005

To the Loughlin & Eustace Families ~



Our deepest sympathy goes out to both families during this difficult time. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.

Brian Loughlin

August 24, 2005

Uncle Kevin, Nora, Dawn, Kevin & Jennifer,



Jamie will be missed by anyone who had even a moment to know him. He was a special person and definitely one of a kind. Jamie will be forever in our thoughts and prayers. Dawn if you ever need anything, please let us know.

Brian, Gladys, Diana & Dan

Sylvia Neitzel

August 24, 2005

Dawn, Nora, and Kevin,



Ed and I would like to express our deepest sympathy to you. May God be with you.



Sylvia and Ed Neitzel, Crete

The Goncher's

August 24, 2005

Growing up together.

Hanging out together.

We will miss you!

Until we are all together again?

Jan Shaw

August 24, 2005

Dear Dawn, Elsa, Bob & The Loughlin,

Howard and I are so saden by the lost of Jamie. Dawn, you and your children will remain in our thoughts and prayers. So few people truly find their sole mate but I know from your parents that Jamie was yours. Our deepest sympathy. Jan & Howard Shaw

Debi Oertle

August 24, 2005

Dear Dawn,Hunter,Riley, and the Loughlin/Eustace families....Sherry and I are stunned at the loss of this kind and brilliant man....and feel honored to have worked with him. Our hearts and prayers go out to you at this time of such great loss.

Debi Oertle

Farkos Family *

August 24, 2005

Our deepest sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Farkos family & friends

Arlyne Beedle (Campbell)

August 24, 2005

Dawn-

Deepest sympathy to you and your family with your loss. Jamie was a wonderful friend and my dad (Mr. Campbell) thought highly of him. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Arlyne Beedle (Campbell)

Frank Connelly

August 24, 2005

My wife Sarah and I send our deepest sympathy to the Loughlin family. Jaime was a very special person who lived life to the fullest. He will be missed deeply by everyone. God Bless,

Frank & Sarah Connelly

Kirk English

August 24, 2005

To the Loughlin and Eustace Families,



There are no words to adequately express the deepest of sympathy that we feel for your families.



Jamie was a wonderful person who touched our lives as well as so many others in such a positive way. He will be missed dearly.



Our hearts are heavy with sadness, as we know yours are, we hope that your families are able to move through this very difficult time.



Please let us know if there is anything we can do.

James and Sons Ltd John, Michele, Alisa, Cindy,Jeff, Steve, Brenda , Gail, Jim

August 24, 2005

Dawn,

All your friends here are deeply sadden by your loss. It was an honor to know Jamie, He was a kind,

loving friend to all. He will be missed by all who knew him. Our prayers are with you and the boys.

"Miss Megan" Farkos

August 24, 2005

Loughlin & Eustace Family & All friends: As we all know Jamie was an absolutely wonderful person with an open heart and generous attitude that everyone who has ever met him was able to experience. Becoming a part of his family has been one of the greatest things in my life. I am so fortunate to have had the chance to know how wonderful he was. Jamie was a great friend, father-figure, mentor, listener and "boss" to me.

Jamie-You will be greatly missed and loved by everyone. I promise to always let the boys & Dawn know the love you had for them.

Dawn- I know you are scared & worried about raising the kids on your own but you wont have to because WE will do it together & Everyday I will help you to remind them and show them how much they meant to J.



I am thankful everyday that I have become the boy's nanny. I will always be here for them. Dawn you have been a wonderful friend and I will always be here for support.



I Love you all.

Jodi

August 24, 2005

My deepest sympathies to you and your family in your tragic loss. I did not know Jamie, but heard his story on US99. You truly thought of a wonderful way to honor his memory by donating the concert tickets. May God bless you and your family.

Ginger (Rademacher) Arnell

August 24, 2005

I went to high school with Jamie,Kevin and Dawn and have been a friend of Kevin's for a long time. I got to know Jamie after high school and what a wonderful guy. I am so glad that I had the chance to know him. My prayers and thoughts are with the entire family.

Jennifer Johnson

August 24, 2005

Mrs. Loughlin,



My condolences to you and the family. I graduated with your brother, Glenn. I remember the love you shared in highschool and know that you were both blessed to have each other. My prayers are with you all. - Jennifer

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