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Fred Bender Obituary
Bender, Fred 97, beloved husband for 71 ½ years of Ruth (nee Baum), devoted father of Alfred (Marilyn) Bender, Jeffrey (Wendy) Bender and Karen (Bernie) Scalin, proud grandfather of Scott (Laura) Bender, Aviva Bender-Tualemoso, Joshua Bender, Jennifer (Barry) Ostrow, Rachel (Ricardo) Montecino, Andrew (Julia) Bender, Jonathan (Kate) Bender, Marilyn (Roger) Davis, Wendy (Danny) Schneider, Cari Smyth, Hara Scalin, cherished great-grandfather of Jared, Kaitlin, Jonah, Natalie, Cally, Amber, Jennifer, Sara, Tony and Adam, dear great-great-grandfather of Gerek. Services Friday 11:30 a.m. at The New Light Cemetery Chapel, 6807 East Prairie Road, Lincolnwood. Chicago Jewish Funerals (Jewish Burial Society) 847-229-8822. www.cjfinfo.com 
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for Fred Bender
Jean Scheuer Horstmann
January 30, 2009
My condolences go out to the entire Bender family on your loss. I knew the family when Al and I went to Temple Beth Israel as young adults. Fred will be remembered fondly.
January 30, 2009
Patricia Burns
January 30, 2009
Karen, Bernie, Ruth and the entire Bender Family,
On behalf of your Nova Scotia Canada family we send our sincere condolences on the passing Fred. You are all in our thoughts at this time.
Patricia
Barbara Davies
January 29, 2009
My sincerest condolences to the entire Bender family for your loss. I'll always remember Fred for that twinkle in his eye when we exchanged friendly barbs. And I'll especially remember him for his unique talent in knowing every button that could set his daughter off. 'When we love with all we have, we grieve with all we are.' My thoughts are with you.
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NORBERT JOHNSON
January 29, 2009
I WAS FRED'S REAL ESTATE PARTNER
AT BLUE STAR REALTY IN 1962-63-64
HE WAS A GREAT MAN AND PARTNER-
NORBERT L. JOHNSON, JOHNSON REAL ESTATE IN NILES-1-847-967-
8800
NORBERT JOHNSON
January 29, 2009
I WAS FRED"S REAL ESTATE PARTNER
AT BLUE STAR REALTY IN 1962-63
AND 64-HE WAS A GREAT MAN AND A
GOOD PARTNER-NORBERT L. JOHNSON,JOHNSON REAL ESTATE CO.
IN NILES- 1-847-967-8800
Suzette De Salvo
January 29, 2009
Ruth,
You are in my thoughts & prayers. You were a wonderful wife to Fred, and he was blessed to have you. Please accept my most sincere sympathy on your loss.
Love, Suzette
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