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Felicia Lamendella Obituary

Lamendella, Felicia (nee Costabile), beloved wife of the late Joseph, loving mother of Joseph A. (Carol), John T. and Justine (Robert) Bykowski, dear sister of Richard (Josephine) and the late Justin, Eleanor, Rocco and John, proud grandmother of Joseph W., Julie A. (Seth Aptisa), Michael J. (Laura), Amy, Paul, Jessica, Dana Bykowski and John Bykowski. Former mother-in-law to Rita and Denise, fond aunt and great-aunt to many wonderful nieces and nephews, dear friend to many. Family and friends will meet Thursday, at St. Benedict Church, 2215 W. Irving Park, at 9:30 a.m., for 10:30 a.m. Mass of the Resurrection. Interment Private. 773-276-7800. In lieu of flowers, please make contributions to Little Brothers-Friends of the Elderly, 335 N. Ashland, Chicago, IL, 60607.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Mar. 16 to Mar. 17, 2004.

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Ken and Diane Bykowski

March 29, 2004

It was always such a pleasure to chat with your mom on the phone over the miles. We could always tell she had a "smile" in her voice.

Rob McInnes

March 26, 2004

Felicia was a presence to be reckoned with. I don't think she passed unobtrusively through anyone's life. If you were lucky enough to have encountered her, you would never forget her. (She wouldn't let you, if you tried!) Everyone will have their own strong memories of her - and their own "lessons from Felicia" that they will try to emulate in their own lives. From my own experience, it will be her amazing ability nurture relationships. It was remarkable how she took such a deep and sincere interest in the lives of everyone she encountered. She seemed insatiable in her appetite for personal information and she NEVER FOROT A THING! Of course, once you were on her list, she would also never, never let you go - she emulated such tenacity and steadfastness in her relationships! In short, she seemed to think that everyone was "special" - and she helped us all to feel that way.

Guy Miller

March 22, 2004

What can you say about a woman that was constantly praying for me during my fight with leukemia? If this wasn't a sign of love, then how about her continued prayers after my treatment and interest in my life? We will miss that warm and loving heart and smile.

Christina Dunn

March 20, 2004

To the woman who devoutly prayed for my health and happiness, to my "honorary Mama", to one who gave freely to all around her....you are honored.

Kathy O'Keeffe

March 20, 2004

To The Lamendella Family



My condolences to your family. I worked with your Mom at Hoffings for over twenty years. She was a fine and caring lady and was so proud of her family. I have many fond memories of her. God Bless you.

Kendra Webster

March 19, 2004

Felicia was a wonderful, loving friend, and I am a better person for having known her and loved her. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of us who will always remember the bright spark she brought to each of our lives.

Denise Bissonnette

March 19, 2004

To everyone who loved her deeply, I wish for you the peace and joy of knowing that Felicia is finally able to be with all of us at all times - and yes, she is fluffing her wings like a true queen!



In honor of this great woman who graced my life and that of my entire family, I will be eternally and wholeheartedly grateful!

Jim McGovern

March 18, 2004

Joe, John and Justine: my sympathy to you on your loss. There aren't many left of the old School St. bunch. It was a great time in my life to have shared with your mother. I am very sorry that I couldn't make it for mass this morning.

Brigette Paul - Casalino

March 17, 2004

Wishing you love, comfort, and peace.

May your memories keep her spirit with you forever.



Our thoughts are with you all.



Anthony & Brigette Casalino (Paul)

James Paul

March 17, 2004

Joey, Johnny, Justine and Family,

We are saddened to hear of Auntie "Phil's" passing. She was a strong, bright and spirited woman who will be truly missed.

Our thoughts, love, and prayers to you and your families.



Jimmy & Sharron Paul

Caroline (Mueller) Zwerg

March 17, 2004

I was saddened to hear of "Auntie Phil's" death but know that she lived a long and full life. She was a good friend to many and will be fondly remembered.

Dan and Beth LaMore and family

March 17, 2004

Phyl was another Grandmother to us. We loved her and will miss her dearly. She will live on in our hearts and memories when we look back at her in our wedding photos. Our prayers are with the family at this time. God bless all of you.

Lee, Angie, & Renee Rivera

March 17, 2004

Joe, John, and Justine,

Please accept our sincerest condolences on the loss of your mother. We all have fond memories of her and had been in touch with her over the past couple of years via periodic phone calls. She was a bright light and we will miss her.



The Lee Rivera Family

Martin Mendelsohn

March 16, 2004

We extend our deepest sympathy and condolences to the Lamendella family.

Sheran Nunes

March 16, 2004

Felicia was loved by all of us.

She will be missed but we all have special memories that we hold dear to us.

Greg & Sheran Nunes

Bud & Zona Preston

Julie Lamendella

March 16, 2004

Celebrate the life of a women who was a pillar of strength,love and friendship. Felicia's legacy will live on by the many positive influences she has had in my life. I will miss her vitality, our meaningful conversations and her caring ways. God bless!

Richard McClowry

March 16, 2004

Sincerest Condolensces to the Lamendella Family. Mrs. Lamendella will be in our prayers.



Rich and Jim

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