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Elmer Layden Obituary

Layden III, Elmer F. "Trey" Preceded in death by his "Grandpa" Elmer F. Layden of Notre Dame "Four Horsemen Fame"; beloved son of Elmer F. Layden, Jr. and DeLores Layden; dear brother to sisters Karen Layden Westrich, Kimberly Layden and brother, Thomas J. Layden, passed on December 17, 2012 at age 54. Trey also leaves his loving son, Hunter Layden of San Diego, CA.. many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Trey loved the out-of-doors, fishing, cycling, wind-surfing, hang-gliding and all Gods "four-legged creatures". We ask that you please remember Trey in your prayers. A memorial service will be held soon. We are humbly asking that donations be made to the "Elmer F. Layden, III Abused Men's Assistance Fund" in Trey's memory, c/o North Shore Community Bank, 1145 Wilmette Avenue, Wilmette, IL 60091.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Jan. 5, 2013.

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April 13, 2013

So sorry to hear the sad news, prayers go to Kenzie and Michelle.
The Wilkinson Family, New Buffalo

Gwen Hillinger

March 23, 2013

To the Layden family..I am so sorry for your loss.. please know you are in my thoughts and prayers...

Coreen (Reinert) McIntosh

March 15, 2013

I was very saddened to hear of the passing of my cousin, "Trey". Sending all my love and support to Aunt Dory, Uncle Elmer, Kim, Karen, TJ and the rest of the family that needs to hear our prayers during this difficult time.

It has been quite a few years since I have seen all of you and I was just talking about Trey only three days ago to my husband and within a day, I received the call from my Mother that Trey's life was cut so short. I love you all and if there is anything I can do to help in anyway, please let me know.

February 26, 2013

Kim, Karen and the Layden family,

So sorry to learn of Trey's passing and our prayers are with all of you and his wife and daughter. I have happy school age memories of a clever fun guy. I am sorry his life was cut short and pray the good memories will help soften the void of his passing.

Much love to you all,
Mary Newton Hoffman

Cassie Hillinger-Vanoudenhove

February 22, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Layden family...Trey's candle burnt out way too soon. A great loss for all and someone we will always remember fondly when we recollect our childhood Best memories. Blessings to you all!
Cassie

Dene Hillinger

February 17, 2013

Today I received a call from my brother Duke telling me of Trey's passing..after my shock and sadness I was recalling and remembering all the memories from Minocqua and what a great part of our (Hillingers) childhood Trey and the wonderful Layden family were..Mr and Mrs Layden, Kim,Karen and TJ I am so sorry for your loss...dene hillinger

Kimberly Layden

February 5, 2013

Trey's passing was a devasting loss to our family and all who knew him. My loving brother Trey, we are sorry we were denied the chance to say goodbye. You were a devoted and affectionate husband and father, a fantastic provider, as well as a genuinely kind person with remarkable hidden talents, from your artwork, to building your prized wooden river boat, kite boarding, fly tying, and your keen intellect. You will long live in our hearts and memories and we will forever honor your life. Your adoring sister, Kim XOXO

Gayle Baugher(Parrett)

January 31, 2013

I was shocked to hear of Trey's death. I am so very sorry for your loss

phill krueger jr

January 26, 2013

Thoughts and prayers for trey, family, and friends.for whom we carry a heavy heart to the new year trey was a great friend and family man who will truly be missed :( but never forgotten :)

Janice Bradley

January 15, 2013

Trey was very special to me as was his family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

January 12, 2013

Michelle & Kenze, we are so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and comfort you in this time of sorrow.

Jane & Tim Sims

January 11, 2013

Our hearts are very heavy, cousin Trey, with your passing. You were abruptly taken from us at an early age. As our entire family moves forward, know that we are ALL committed to ensure your legacy is maintained and that justice is served. May God hold you in his hands - until we meet again. Your loving cousin, Pooch

Joan @ Joe Bosse

January 10, 2013

Kenzie and Michelle, we are sorry for your loss and you are both
In our prayers. Hope to see you soon...Be Strong..

January 10, 2013

We are so sorry of your loss. Keeping the family, especially Michelle and Kenzie, in our loving thoughts and prayers. The Madison Family, New Buffalo

Chris Norwood

January 9, 2013

My heart goes out to my sister Michelle laden and her beautiful daughter Kenzi may they stay strong..

Tim & MaryKay Hindes

January 9, 2013

Michelle and Kenzie our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May Gods peace bring comfort to all.

Claudia Buford

January 8, 2013

My condolences to his wife Michelle and beloved daughter Kenzie. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ann and Bill McKillip

January 7, 2013

Ann and I are sorry to hear of your loss. We extend our deepest sympathy to Mr. and Mrs. Layden and the rest of
your family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

The Beers Family

January 7, 2013

Watching Trey make kite surfing look easy was always inspiring. Visiting at sporting and school events will be a lasting memory. Michelle and Kenzie, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Mary Blochberger Smith

January 7, 2013

Michelle & Kenzie your St. Mary's family is sending love & prayers your way. May God's perpetual light shine upon Trey. Our deepest sympathy to you & your family.

Andrew Brown

January 7, 2013

Trey was a good and loyal friend. We shared many afternoons hunting birds in Laporte County and I will miss him. He was always a gentleman

Cici & Charlie Donnellly

January 7, 2013

My mom and I send our deepest condolences. I fondly remember great times with Trey et al when we were kids up at your lake home in N. Wisconsin. "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; love leaves a memory no one can steal."
Love & Light,

Roger Leyden

January 7, 2013

My prayers and thoughts are with his family. A joy to be with.
He was my Midwest sales manager. What a guy.

January 7, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with your family. God Bless.
Peggy Armstrong

Jim and Karen Fife

January 7, 2013

Our heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with you.

January 6, 2013

we are so sorry for your loss Love Dave + Carolyn (blake) Zank

Bill Panzoca

January 5, 2013

My thoughts are with your family. May you all be at peace knowing he is at rest.

Mark Callahan

January 5, 2013

I am so sorry to hear about treys passing. My thoughts are with you Mr and Mrs Layden, Kim, Karen and TJ.

jack williams

January 5, 2013

Our prayers and thought are with you at this time of sorrow.

January 5, 2013

your family is in my prayers. May God bring comfort to your family at this difficult time and may he bless your family.

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