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David Carlson Obituary

Carlson, David Howard 52, of Forest Park, IL and Madison, WI, at rest December 20, 2007. Beloved son of Howard and Joanne Carlson, Wilmette, IL; loving partner of David Schallhammer; dearest brother of Susan (Bradley) Oltmanns, Manhattan Beach, CA and Steve (Ruth), Asheville, NC; dear uncle of Carrie (Paul) Botten, London, England Erik and Matthew Carlson, Asheville, NC. David was a graduate of New Trier H.S., Indiana University and received his Masters from DePaul University; he was employed as a Bank Examiner with Federal Deposit Insurance Corp. (FDIC). Memorial services will be held at 1 p.m., on Saturday, December 29, 2007 at the Kenilworth Union Church, 211 Kenilworth Ave., Kenilworth, IL. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Brady Campaign to Prevent Gun Violence, The Kenilworth Union Church Endowment Fund or the American Cancer Society. For further funeral info contact: Ivins Funeral Home at www.ivinsfuneralhome.com or 708-447-2261.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Dec. 27, 2007.

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Valerie Murphy (Workman)

January 10, 2008

My parents have been the Dave's friends for years and my heart was saddened to hear of Dave's passing. He was so sweet to come to my wedding in 2006 and it was great for everyone to get together. My thoughts and prayers go out to Dave s. and all who knew and loved Dave C.

Jenny Shukla

January 4, 2008

I had the opportunity to work with Dave on multiple occasions when he examined our bank. He was always a pleasure to work with; he was a great guy..My deepest condolences to his family and friends. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Stephanie Djock

January 3, 2008

I've only known the Daves for about six years and can probably count on my fingers the number of occasions I've seen them, but in that time, I've come to love them dearly. The shock and sadness of Dave's passing cannot be overstated, but fortunately for us, neither can the warmth and joy of his spirit.

After John Lennon's death, Yoko Ono said something along the lines of: "When John was alive, we spent much of our time together. But now, we are together all of the time." Dave is incomprehensible to us now, but he is with us still.

Dave S. and Mr. & Mrs. Carlson, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Liz Dolan

January 3, 2008

I had the opportunity to work with Dave on multiple occasions when he examined our bank. What a truly genuine person, always a pleasure to see over the years. My deepest condolences to his partner, family and friends. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Rob Walton

January 1, 2008

In a single second, the lives of my partner Art, Myself, and all those who loved Dave were changed forever. As close friends of "the Dave's" for over 20 years, this lose is tragic and devastating. We pray for Dave Carlson, his loving partner Dave Schallhammer, and the entire family. Dave's spirit will live on in our hearts forever.

Bob and Bob Schubert and Snyder

January 1, 2008

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.

David Marshall & Ágnes Rédei

December 29, 2007

We have just returned from visiting family in Ohio - and sat down this morning to check our messages. Time just seemed to stop when we read this terrible news. We are just shocked. Neither of us can begin to understand how this could have happened to such a wonderful, considerate person. We remember Dave as a kind, caring man who enjoyed this life.

David S - our hearts go out to you during this time. We are reading this too late to make it in time for the funeral - but you are in our thoughts. We thought the world of both of you. We never thought of you as landlords, but as friends.

David & Agi

Nathalie Knox

December 28, 2007

Dearest Dave and the Carlson Family - My heart is breaking for you, in the loss of your loved one. My family loved him also. We are truly better people for knowing Dave. I will forever remember his laugh it was contagious and genuine. I pray for peace and comfort to you all.

Jeff Sobczynski

December 28, 2007

Dave Schallhamer and the Carlson family:

First, let me express my sincere condolences for this tragedy. What a loss.

I had the pleasure of knowing Dave C. as my wife and I bought our first home from Dave C. and Dave S. They were both very supporting and understanding. Further, Dave continued to prove himself a fine and warm person by staying in touch with friends and neighbors including our neighbor Joanne after the death of her mother Rita.

I know that Dave is in Heaven experiencing the grace of God.

Dave S. please let us know if we can be of any help.

Sincerely,

Jeff and Shawn Sobczynski
708 848-4452

Kate Kutasi

December 28, 2007

In this time of grief and mourning and while my heart is breaking, I also find myself remembering all the good times with Dave. His joy, his enthusiasm for life and the way he has touched my life and made me a better person. I know he has touched all who knew him. He lives on in our hearts and memories. My thoughts and prayers are with Dave S. and Dave's family.

Vicki and Ron Vaisvila

December 27, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Lucy Mathiak and Jim Sewell

December 27, 2007

Dear Dave S and friends and family of Dave Carlson,
We are sorry that we cannot travel for the service on Saturday. We have been stunned and saddened by the news of Dave's death, and will miss the conversations that we enjoyed when Dave came over to work or check on the property across the street from our house on Orton Court. Our hearts go out to all, but especially to Dave S. In our hearts, you will always be "The Daves."

We hold you in our thoughts and prayers,
Lucy and Jim from Madison, WI

Aaron Warren

December 27, 2007

We will all miss Dave deeply. His jovial manner and warm heart could always light up a room. Those of us to have known Dave are better people as a result. He will live on in our memories forever.

Evelyn Orange

December 27, 2007

What a terrible tragedy to lose such a wonderful man. Dave will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

Dianne Howard

December 27, 2007

Dear David's Family.....
I did not know David but I am a fellow Forest Park Resident and I grieve for the loss of "one of our own". How tragic and sad!! Please accept my deepest sympathies...I pray that God embraces David's soul & spirit and that He send Angels to your side to guide you along the pathway of bereavement into understanding and enlightenment.
Blessings to you all in your time of sorrow.

Marion Flynn

December 27, 2007

We are devastated at Dave's passing, Dave. Know that we are holding you and all the extended family members in prayer. He was a great and loving and fun spirit.

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