Chad Lilly Obituary

Dear Chad,
I fondly remember you as the youngest member of the "Lilly boys" and the wonderful memories that you and your brothers provided for me and your mom. As I sit here today, I find that my eyes still tear up as I think of you and the special times we had in Michigan, Pennsylvania, California, and back home in Little Rock.
I am another year older and a bit closer to reuniting with you and filling you in on your mom, brothers and especially Connor. He has been a godsend for me and likely kept me from losing my mind. Sometimes when he's over, I can't help but think how his smile, looks, joking around, and constant playful nature remind me so much of you.
You left way too soon and left an empty spot that can only be filled by memories.
Love - Dad

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We continue to love and miss you every day. We were so blessed to have you as a friend.

Dear Son,
Today marks seven years that you've been gone. Seven very fast and sometimes trying years that have required a strength that I wasn't sure that I had. Feeling your presence each day has greatly benefited us all. Your family misses you very much each and every day and looks forward to seeing that smiling face of yours again.
I know that I will see you again soon and that thought is very comforting to me.
Because you were a special person, your absence has been very difficult but memories are extremely special. So, black duck, we will love you and miss you every single day until we are with you again.

Jim & Paulette,
It's hard to believe its been over a year since the loss of your amazing sweet Chad. I can still hear his laughter around the boys preparing for road trips in the van with AAU Bball. What a joyful group those guys were and how unselfish Chad was always when he was with those young men. What I loved most about Chad was the respect he had for other parents & how well he treated all of us , but always with a warm and friendly hug, not just a regular hello. Chad made you feel like you were a part of his family. Michael loved his fun sense of humor and his outlook on life - never taking things too seriously and getting upset with others. Chad had one huge heart & could see that in the way he treated others. We will always remember the wonderful impact he had on people & you should be proud as parents for raising such an amazing son. We love you both & have lifted you up in prayer and continue to ask God's divine comfort upon you as you journey through life w/o your precious son. May His peace bless you daily. Love, Lissa &
Steve Monroe

Hi, sweet Chad. Sitting here thinking of both you, and my sweet Casey. The times you all were together and laughter shared in life too. I just read your note on Casey's obit, and never dreamed I would be writing on yours one day after. But, you know what? It somehow gives me peace knowing that perhaps you are both together, looking in on those you love and trying your best, to bring peace and calm to those who grieve. Though the loss of someone such as a child, or sibling is something one never gets over, if we stop, listen to the quiet, hear a favorite song of theirs, see a beautiful sky, or witness a butterfly fluttering by, we will know our loved one is near to us. Sweet flights are what I wish to you Chad, and God's healing and comfort to your family and loved ones. Stan and Paula Graves.

Jim and Paulette-
Although it's been years since we have seen each other, we were saddened to hear of the loss of your son Chad, when Paulette called this morning. We know your loss, having lost our oldest son 14 years. While the pain of his loss gets easier, God will show his presence in the sweet memories you will always have of Chad in your hearts and minds. You are in our thoughts and prayers. With much love and friendship - Joe and Joyce Norton

Paulette and Jim -
My heart is holding you close during this very difficult time. There is no bond as great as that between a parent and child. Love lives on in memories of the heart . . . may your many treasured memories of Chad comfort you, and may God's grace grant you peace.

You all are in our prayers. Karen and Ann Palmer

Love you and miss you Chad. You were my little "monkey" nephew.

May God comfort you in this time of loss. We did not know Chad, but the pain of loosing our 21 year old and our 20 year old sons give us a common bond with you. As time passes you will be able to remember the good times you shared more often than the feeling of loss. May his friends and your friends talk of Chad and remember him always to you.

We are so sorry to hear about Chad. You are in our prayers.

The Johnson's. P

My deepest heartfelt condolences to the family and friends of Chad. Each of you are in my parayers. So many people where touched by knowing him. I'm so sorry for his loss.

Dear Jim and Family,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. God is our refuge and strength in times of sadness. Remember the smiles.

Dear Jim, Paulette, Ryan and Keith,
Our deepest sympathy to you on the passing of Chad. When someone leaves a piece of your heart goes, too. I am praying for you as you go through this time of grieving. May God bring healing as you look upon the memories of your time together with Chad.

Jim and Paulette,
Our deepest sympathy to you on the passing of Chad. Words cannot ease the pain but we are thinking of you. Good bless and all the prayer in the world to you.
Loren and Willy Berry

Dear Jim, Paulette, Ryan and Keith,
Nothing we can say will ease your pain and sorrow. But know that we are praying for you and are here for you. Chad was a wonderful nephew and we love him and cherish his memory.

Paulette, Jim, Ryan, and Keith:

Chad was one of the best friends a person could ask for. We feel truly blessed to have had the time we got to share with him. He was like a brother to us and we will all miss him so much. My parents were very fond of him also and thought he was one of the nicest young men they have ever met. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Dear Paulette and Jimmy,

Our hearts are broken for you and your family with the loss of Chad. There are just no words to comfort you at this time. We will continue to lift you up in prayer.

Jim and Paulette:

We are so very sorry for the loss of your son, Chad. Words cannot take away your grief. But please know that our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time.

Sincerely,

Bill and Carol Kraus

I still have such fond memories of when you loaded up Chad, Michael & the other basketball players to head off to nationals! My heart is aching with the pain of your loss. He was a great young man & only God's perfect peace & comfort can guide you through this. My prayers will be daily & I'm here if you ever need to just pray with a friend. My thoughts will be with you as you say goodbye. Love you both , Lissa & Steve Monroe

I miss you so much each and every passing minute. I only had you in my life for a short time but it felt like we knew each other forever. I will never forget any moment I got to spend with you and will cherish them always. You were the sweetest man I ever knew and am so glad I was given a chance to be a part of your life. Real love is hard to find and I found that with you. My heart is yours forever. I will see you again and we can continue where we left off. I love you always.

Jim, I can recall the many times you shared stories about Chad, and your words were always filled with joy and those of a proud and loving father. I know that will continue. Heartfelt sympathy and prayer to both you and Paulette.

I have nothing but good memories of Chad. I always enjoyed spending time with him when we went to school together. I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for all of you, and I hope you find some comfort in knowing how many people have happy memories of Chad.

We are devasted to hear of your loss and lift you up with our condolences . May the love and thoughts of others lift you up at this difficult time. Big kiss.

Paulette, Jimmy and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Though I never met him, Chad sounds like he made every place he entered better and that many will miss his love and friendship. May you feel the love of our Lord as your friends and family pray for you at this time. In His love.

In loving memory of an amazing guy.

The Lilly Family,
Chad and I met roughly 9 years ago at UALR and we quickly became friends. Soon, I would find myself with Chad backpacking through Europe in 2006, strengthening our friendship even more. The next few years I had the pleasure of Chad's company fairly often and enjoyed every minute of it, whether discussing politics, sports, or just life in general. Chad always seemed to have a smile on his face. I can still hear his voice so well. I am very sorry for your families loss. May God's love comfort you all during this time.

Dear Lilly family,
I had the pleasure of working with Chad from 2009 until late 2013. He was a very hard worker, very well liked by his coworkers and his clients. He had an infectious smile and a laugh that will stick in my mind forever. He loved, and spoke often about his family. He will be sorely missed. Alan Frazier, Pine Bluff, AR

I had the pleasure of working with Chad at Schickel Cleaners and the time we spent talking was aways a great time passer on a boring day. I am so sad for your family and close friends to lose a really great guy. May you rest in peace my young friend. You and your family are in my prayers.

The Lilly Family,
My husband & I met Chad a few years ago on a cruise. We hit it off instantly & continued that friendship through the years. Chad was a great guy, an awesome friend & we will miss him. His smile and laugh was infectious. So very sorry for your loss.

The Lilly Family,
May the precious memories that you cherish and hold dear of Chad be of comfort to you until you are reunited again. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. God's Love and comfort.

Dear Paulette, I am so very sorry for your loss. There is nothing harder to experience in this life. I am praying that you feel the love and comfort of our God that knows how you feel because he lost a son also.
With sincere love to you, Marci Hall

Jim, Paulette and Family,
I am truly at a loss for words. I can't begin to imagine what you must be feeling, but my heart breaks for you. I know that you are a family of faith and will depend on God to see you through this. Lifting you up in prayers. Mickey and Sharron

Jim, Paulette and Family,
We are lifting you up in prayer. Our hearts hurt for all of you.
Jim Ed and Callie Summers

Chad and I were friends in college. I had recently reconnected with him a year ago. He always made me laugh or had a good story to share. He was a great friend to me and his loss leaves a hole in my heart.

My dearest Paulette and Jim,
Our hearts are breaking for you.
We love you.
The Tennis Team and the Mahjong Group

Paulette & Jim
I can't begin to imagine the pain in your heart but know that I have you in
my thoughts and prayers during this sad
time.

CHAD WAS A PERSON WITH A PERSONALITY NO ONE WOULD FORGET. I HAD PLEASURE WORKING LAST 4 YEARS WITH HIM AND HIS BROTHER KIETH AS WELL. I CAN NOT SAY A BAD THING ABOUT THEM THEY BOTH GREAT CHRISTIAN PEOPLE. CHAD WILL BE MISSED BY HIS CO WORKERS AND FRIENDS. GOD HAS CHAD AND WE SHALL SEE HIM AGAIN SOME DAY. KEEP SPIRITUAL LOVE AND PEACE IN GOD AND SEEK AFTER GOD AND WE SHALL BE REUNIONED ONCE AGAIN. YOU WILL BE MISSED DEARLY CHAD. YOUR BUDDY DARREN.

My heart is broken for your family,I can only let you know I will pray for strength and peace to be sent to you. Love, Jody Crain

This is such sad and shocking knews. So sorry for your loss.
Just saw him a few weeks ago. What a loss to this world.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Love,
Martie Glover

Ryan and family, so sad to hear of your loss. I wil km always remember that big smile and big heart he had to share with everyone he knew. Chad will surely be missed by all that knew him.

My love, deepest sympathy and prayers for you in the loss of your son, Chad.

May the peace and love of God sustain you through your sorrow.

Paulette and Family: My heart sank this morning when I read that you had lost your son. Such a handsome fellow.
While I've never had a child, I understand that there's no pain like that of losing one. I can't even think of any words that would be of comfort to you. But I hope it helps to hear from those who know and love you. My most heartfelt love and sympathy go out to you at this time.
Love, Linda Neyland

Jim and Paulette, so very sorry to hear of the death of your son. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

My deepest sympathy and sincere condolences to you and your family in your loss. May God comfort you and give you strength during this time.

My little brother - I cant even think of what to say here. So much is going through my mind. I really wanted to tell you that I love you more than anything. Losing you was like losing my brother and best friend all in one day. Please save some of the weights for me in heaven bc when I see you again we are gonna get a good workout in and talk about everything just like we did here on earth. People used to tell me that you were proud of me, yet in all honesty Chad I was the one who was proud of you. Me and Ryan will miss you more than I can say here.
Love you always

So Very Sorry for your loss. My the LORD be with you Paulette through this difficult time.

Dear Paulette and Jimmy,
It is hard to find words of comfort to offer over the loss of your son, Chad. Parents just aren't supposed to have to do this. I am so sorry and my heart goes out to you and your family.

Monday March 03, 2014
Rays of Sunshine beam down on his face as he is embraced and loved by all in Heaven. My love and thoughts are with you.

Alice and I are so sorry for your loss. We know this is a very difficult time for you and your family. Our prayers go out to you during this very sad time.

We are so sorry to hear of your loss , our prayers are for all of family

Dear Paulette, as a mom of 2 children, born just before and just after Chad, I cannot imagine the pain you are experiencing. But I am thankful for the hope I read in these comments and know you are trusting the Only One worthy of our Trust and Hope. May the Lord provide comfort extraordinarily.

Jimmy and Paulette, I am so sorry about the loss of your son. I cannot imagine your pain and am praying for you both and the family.

Our dearest baby boy,
You were more precious and special than you ever knew. The love than we have for you can not be expressed in words. The pain we feel is indescribable and known only to those who have suffered the same. We will love and cherish you forever and keep you in our hearts. God will give us strength until we see You again.
Mom and Dad

I miss you more than words sweet cousin! Me and you had a special bond that will live on through all the memories we shared. I am so heartbroken. I pray for peace for the whole family. Even though we will miss you terribly we know that you are home with our Father. I can't wait to see you again. I love you very so much!!!

You are so amazing!!! You could always light up the room when you walked in. Your smile was so contagious!!! You knew exactly what to say when I had a bad day or when I just needed some lifting up. Your faith in God was so strong and brought you through some tough times!! I will always hold a spot in my heart for you!! The bond we had will never be forgotten. I will see you again. I look forward to seeing that handsome face. I love you Chad Lilly.

We miss you Chad. Rest in love until we see you again.

The souls of the righteous are in the hand of God, and no torment shall touch them.They seemed, in the view of the foolish, to be dead; and their passing away was thought an affliction and their going forth from us, utter destruction.But they are in peace. For if to others, indeed, they seem punished,yet is their hope full of immortality; chastised a little, they shall be greatly blessed, because God tried them and found them worthy of himself. As gold in the furnace, he proved them,and as sacrificial offerings he took them to himself. Those who trust in him shall understand truth, and the faithful shall abide with him in love: because grace and mercy are with his holy ones, and his care is with the elect.

Wisdom 3:1-6.9