Collen, Benjamin Jacob age 19, beloved son of John Collen and Lauren Collen (Jen Belfield), dear brother of Joshua, Sarah, and Joel, nephew of Deborah Cohn and Marilyn Smulyan, cousin of Matthew Cohn, grandson of the late Sheldon and Ann Collen, and J. Louis and Mildred Smulyan. Student at Illinois Institute of Technology. Member of Army R.O.T.C. Funeral service Tuesday, November 25, 2008 at 10:00 a.m. at the Piser Chapel, 9200 N. Skokie Blvd. (at Church St.), Skokie, IL. Interment Memorial Park Cemetery. Memorials to the Greater Chicago Food Depository, or Sickle Cell Disease Assn, 231 E. Baltimore St., Suite 800, Baltimore, Maryland 21202. For information, Piser Funeral Service, 847-679-4740.

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Linda Sawyer
December 1, 2008
Lauren,
I just heard of your son's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this incredibly difficult time. Please take comfort in all the wonderful memories you have.
Clara Sheffer
November 27, 2008
Dear Lauren,
Your loss has touched all who have known you and your family. Please know you have much support and many reserves in this uncharted territory where you are now journeying. Please let me know if I can help you in any way.
Joel, Nettie, Pam, and Howard Katzenberg
November 26, 2008
We are so sorry to learn of your loss. Words cannot describe our feelings.
David Newby
November 26, 2008
John,
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved son. Please know that our family is praying for yours.
Steve & Pam Foerch
November 26, 2008
Our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family during this most difficult time.
Frances Waxman
November 25, 2008
John, Lauren - My mind and heart were with you this morning even though my body was not. I know you are strong enough to keep going and get through this terrible time. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of loss and grief. May your good memories of Ben bring you some comfort.
All my love,
Cousin Francie
Frances Waxman
November 25, 2008
John, Lauren - My mind and heart were with you this morning even though my body was not. I know you are strong enough to keep going and get through this terrible time. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of terrible loss and grief. I hope your good memories of Ben can bring you some comfort.
All my love,
Cousin Francie
MARY MOORE
November 25, 2008
MY HEART HURTS AND WE HAVE NEVER MET. I CANNOT IMAGINE WHAT YOU MUST BE GOING THROUGH.
Norman Crandus
November 25, 2008
Our condolences to you on you loss.
Yvonne Glab/Mlynarczyk
November 25, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief. Know that you are not alone in your grieving.
Laura Barringer
November 25, 2008
Dear Lauren and Joel,
I am sorry to hear about your painful loss. I have many wonderful memories of having you in my first grade class, Joel, and I am so sad for you. I will pray for you, and I wish you God's comfort and peace.
Frances Durkin
November 25, 2008
Lauren and Family, I do not know you or Ben, but as a north suburban library 'sister' of yours, I want you to know how saddened I am by your loss. My heart goes out to you all. You and your son will be in my prayers, and please know that God will help your through this terrible grief.
Judy Salmsonson
November 25, 2008
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. Sarah- please come over for a hug anytime.
Chuck Wall
November 25, 2008
John,
I was very saddened to hear about the loss you and your family have suffered. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during these very difficult times. God bless you!
Donna Hedrich
November 25, 2008
Lauren and family. There are no words that can comfort you at this terrible time. But know that others are thinking of you and your family during this time. Know that you are in our hearts and prayers. Think of all the beautiful memories that you have of your son and smile since these are the times that we will treausre in our hearts forever. No one can ever take away from these precious moments.
Mickey & Josée Andalman
November 25, 2008
Our heartfelt condolences.
Bruce de'Medici
November 24, 2008
John, Rita and I are saddened by your family's loss of your treasured son. Our prayers are with you.
Carol Kennel Aymar
November 24, 2008
I am so sorry to learn of B.J.'s death - I remember him fondly as a Junior Kindergarten student who loved to share his ideas and work with various art materials.
Rachel Beckman
November 24, 2008
My heart goes out to you and you your family in this time of grief. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family now, and always.
Anne Govostis
November 24, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your son Ben. I remember meeting him when Sarah was in my First Grade class so many years ago.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Jacqueline Feare
November 24, 2008
I was deeply saddened to learn of Ben's passing. My heartfelt sympathy to you. May the comfort of friends and family be your strength now and in the days ahead.
naomi landes
November 24, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Hillel, Leanne and Xin Italie
November 24, 2008
Our hearts go out to all of you in your darkest hour. We're all so saddened by the loss of Ben. Our deepest condolences.
daniel tietzer
November 24, 2008
We are so sorry to learn of your loss. We all remember Benjamin fondly and are sending you love today.
Fondly, Daniel Tietzer, Marti Goldzwig, Greg Tietzer, and Glenne Tietzer
The Wellwerts family
November 24, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. May God give you the understanding of it all someday. Until then, remember that God will get you thru this with all the strength you need.
Jeri Walker
November 24, 2008
John,
I was deeply saddened by the news of Benjamin's passing. Please know that you are all in my prayers.
Catherine D'Amico
November 24, 2008
I'm so sorry, your son was a very nice young man. Your family will be in my prayers.
Athens Moreno
November 24, 2008
I am deeply saddened by the news. I pray that your son's memory and spirit will be forever loved and cherished by all.
Harry & Shawn Novak
November 24, 2008
John and Lauren,
Our deepest sympathies go out to you in this time of terrible loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you strength in your time of need.
Sheri Seldon
November 24, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family, I didn't know him personally. God will give you the strength you need. I will keep John,Lauren,Joshua Sarah, Joel & family in my prayers.
Shelley Sutherland
November 24, 2008
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this incredibly difficult time. Please take good care. Shelley
Cathy Herman
November 24, 2008
John, I can not imagine how hard this must be, please know my thoughts are with you at this time of deep sadness. Cathy
Alice Belgrade
November 24, 2008
I want to express my deepest sympathy to John and Lauren. My heart goes out to you both. There are no words to describe the pain we all feel for you. If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to call upon me.
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