Alfano, Anthony J. U.S. Marine Veteran. Beloved husband and best friend for 50 years of the late Betty A. (nee Mortenson), loving dad of Sandra Farej, and Joe (Karen) Alfano, proud grandpa of Michael, Tina, Alyssa, and special "Pops" of Brenda, dear brother of Theresa (the late Steve) Stephan, the late Josephine (the late Jerry) Stopka, Benny (the late Dolores) and Marie Alfano, fond uncle, brother-in-law and friend of many. Member of Teamsters Local #705. Memorial Mass Thursday, March 6, 2008, 10 a.m., at St. Elizabeth Seton Church, 9300 West 167th Street, Orland Hills. Private interment Abraham Lincoln National Cemetery. Zimmerman & Sandeman Directors, Info., 708-460-7500.

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6 Entries
Dina Krska
May 20, 2008
Sandy, Joey ....I was so surprised to hear that your Mom and Dad passed away. As a small child growing up and as your neighbor on Parkside your parents were the nicest people and always felt like family to us. They had the joy of watching us grow up, and attended all our family gatherings /special occassions. It is a shame that time passed by and we did not keep in touch as often.
They are together again...My mom is enjoying their company once again.
Take Care and Thinking of You
Richie Stephan
March 6, 2008
OK, my Godfather Uncle Tony, I remember you when you came home a hero from the Korean War from the US Marine Corp. I think I was about 4 or 5 years old. You found that pretty girl Betty (My Auntie Betty) and married her and had 2 beautiful children, Sandy & Joey and lived in the big city making all of our lives more valuable for knowing you. The movie godfather, had nothing on my Godfather. My heart comes from California today to Chicago to be with my cousins, brothers, sisters and my mother Theresa (Tony's elder sister). May I kiss your ring my dear Godfather?
Excuse me while I kiss the sky again, Auntie Betty, Uncle Benny, Auntie Dolores, my Father Steve (Albert/Sonny), JoJo, Allen, Auntie Josie, Uncle Jerry, and all of the cousins and ancestors grandmas and grandpas from Sicily and Chicago who have gone before him will see him at the eternal party in heaven. My heart goes out to Chicago from California today when the service for My Uncle Tony goes down. Sandy & Joe and your family are all in my thoughts and I wish you all hope and comfort in the near future as you mourn this Missed Man.
21 gun salute to you Uncle T. I will remember you forever, for eternity.
Love,
Your GodSon..........Richie
March 5, 2008
Dear Sandy, Joe and Karen,
Our most sincere condolences from Monika, myself and all your cousins. I know we've talked since last week but I want to say again that your mom and dad were wonderful people and after some of the sadness goes away...look for and remember all the good times and cherish the memories! Smile when you feel like crying....I think they would prefer that! May God send Blessings your way! Love, your cousin, Davey
Janet & Mike Murphy
March 3, 2008
Sandra - Joe & Karen
I am so sorry to hear about Tony.I am sure that Betty is happy to have Tony with her so that she can take care of him as she did for 50 years of her loving life. Again our hearts goes out to your family.
Lots of Love
Jim & Lynn Markmann
March 3, 2008
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our hearts go out to you. Let us know if you need anything.
Chris Bonnes
March 2, 2008
Karen and Joe,
Please accept our sincerest condolences on the loss of your father. I know it has been a tough year. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ron and Chris Bonnes
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