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Darren VanPuymbrouck
April 4, 2025
I will always remember Tracey for her good humor, her strength, her dignity and her honor. She was in remains an incredible person.
Darren VanPuymbrouck
April 1, 2019
Even after the passage of time Tracey lives on as a vibrant beautiful woman with such a wonderful view of the world and someone who always brought joy and happiness to everyone around her. Im hoping that Peter and the children find comfort and strength from Traceys Beauty, grace, and love of life. Youre all in our thoughts. Darren
Dave Konys
January 3, 2017
OMG! It's going on two years since Tracey's passing and I'm simply in disbelief, as I have just now been notified. Tracey was one of those people that could brighten any day....her smile and sense of humor were infectious. Tracey was a beautiful, engaging young lady. A remarkable person. I am in shock she has passed, and simply wish her family my heartfelt thoughts.
Marsha Pritchard
October 5, 2015
Tracey and I were psychology majors at Skidmore and we graduated class of '82. I remember Tracey as a kind and gracious young woman with a quiet faith and determination. I am very sorry to hear of her passing.
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Darren VanPuymbrouck
August 22, 2015
I just learned of Tracey's death and I could not believe that such a wonderful, amazing woman was taken from her family so early. I am a fellow lawyer who knew Tracey well many years ago and thought of her foundry. Peter, I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts are with you and your children.
May 27, 2015
Such shocking news. My heart goes out to her family. I was a roommate of Tracey's at Skidmore. I have such fond memories of her. Her piano, her prelaw schedule...May her bright smile and memories always be a part of you.
Lori Banner Kupferberg
May 21, 2015
I have fond memories of Tracey. I remember talking to her in the Dining Hall at Skidmore. My condolences to the family.
Debbie Sanders-Rehr
May 21, 2015
I have such vivid memories of Tracey at Skidmore and once visiting in Ohio. Tracey was the loveliest person with the warmest smile and biggest heart. I know that she will be missed by her family and friends and everyone who knew her.
Kim Hirt
May 18, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I knew Tracey from our days at Skidmire College. She was a lively spirit who had a gift of seeing the "light" in every dark situation. The Good Lord has His arms wrapped around you at this time and forever. We will all miss her
Jane Sulich
May 13, 2015
I was a roommate of Tracey's at Skidmore College many moons ago. I can't stop thinking of her after hearing of this. What comes to mind when I think of Tracey is her ever present smile! She always showed her beautiful pearly whites. I want to extend my deepest sympathies to all of you. I understand the tremendous and inexplicable pain you are all faced with since I lost my husband recently. I hope you will find the strength and resilience to carry on. My blessings are with you.
May 12, 2015
Peter, Andrew and Michael,
I just learned of Tracey's passing and and am heart broken but I want to let you know your Mom was a very old and dear friend to me who's friendship I will always treasure. I was so fortunate to have her in my life and I loved meeting you boys when you were quite young and you invited me out for pancakes after church when I visited Chicago! Your Mom was VERY popular at Skidmore and she had many friends of all types. She was always kind to everyone and had a big smile and a big heart. I will miss her. The Skidmore community will also miss Tracey.
My deepest sympathies,
Dana Paul Farnan
Boston, MA
May 7, 2015
Dear Peter, Andrew and Michael - I knew Tracey from our years on opposite sides at the Daley Center. Every 6 months or every year when I would see her, we would catch up about our families. The youngest of our 2 boys was 2 years older than Tracey's oldest son, and our 2 boys also were 2 years apart. She loved talking about her family, and we would compare notes on the growth of our kids, and the funny (and at times infuriating) things the boys would do. She will be so missed by her professional colleagues and friends. But she will always be with you, as I am sure a great mom and wife. My deepest sympathies. David Sternberg of Sachs Earnest & Associates, Ltd.
Shari Shelmadine
April 29, 2015
I just learned of Tracey's passing and am devastated. Tracey was one of the kindest attorneys I've ever known. Her smile lit up the room. The world will miss her.
-Shari Shelmadine
Ann Breen-Greco
April 27, 2015
Michael and Andrew, I met you at the McFetridge Ice Skating Rink. You were there with your mother and I was there with my daughter. I enjoyed watching her skate because I did not know about her background as a competitive ice skater. I am sorry she will not be with you through the coming years and I hope for you and your father that the wonderful memories of her will help to ease the pain of loss.
Christina Franz
April 26, 2015
Dear Peter, Andrew and Michael,
I am so very sorry to learn of your wife and mother's death. You are very much in my thoughts.
Kindest regards,
James Dimeas
April 19, 2015
I just heard the news and am heartbroken. My thoughts and prays to her husband, children and family. She will be missed.
Cindy Van Ryn
April 13, 2015
Tracey & I were roommates for a couple of years early in our respective careers. We were as different as could be, but she was a fun & supportive roommate. I am so sad to hear of her passing & am thinking of & praying for her family.
Bernadette Freeman
April 13, 2015
Condolences to the family for the loss of a beautiful and intelligent daughter, sister, wife, and mother. Tracey will be missed.
April 12, 2015
Peter, Michael and Andrew,
Vika said it best:"she was such a nice lady". Tracey was complex....always helping others, a fierce litigator, a competitive ice skater, a devoted wife and mother. She met the biggest challenge of her life head on and used her strength to go on the most positive of attitudes. She was always proper and, as Vika said, always a nice lady. She was a dear friend and will be missed. We send our prayers. With love, Lainie and Vika
April 11, 2015
Tracey was a wonderful daughter. She was so kind & humble & at the same time very gifted & blessed.I can still hear her playing Beethoven's "Pathetique"Sonata.I loved Tracey so & will miss her joyful spirit to the end of my days.
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Michael
April 10, 2015
Ms. Stokes was an amazing person and I was blessed to know her. She will be truly missed. My prayers are with the boys and her family.
Colleen Murphy
April 10, 2015
I am so sad to hear of your loss. Tracey was a beautiful woman inside and out. She was such a pleasure to work with and always had a smile on her beautiful face. God bless her and your family.
Michael Kolovos
April 9, 2015
To Mr. Finocchiaro, Andrew, and Michael,
I am truly sorry for your loss. Ms. Stokes was an amazing person full of life and love. I am so blessed to have known her. You all will be in my prayers.
April 9, 2015
Dear Peter, Andrew & Michael, Our heartfelt condolences. You all are blessed with a beautiful wife / mom. Her influence, her spirit and her legacy lives on in all of you; such a divine gift. We pray for the repose of Tracy's soul. Love, Marty and Jackie Pacione (Holy Rosary Church)
Bob Nicolin
April 9, 2015
Pete, I am so sorry for your loss, my prayers will be with you and your family. Take care.
Tony Ancona
April 9, 2015
Very sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences to your family.
Bob Walsh
April 9, 2015
A great lawyer and a better person. God Bless her and all of you.
Jacke
April 8, 2015
so sorry for your loss, I too just lost my fiancee of over 20 year's from a massive heart attack, he was 51, God Bless you and keep your family strong, it's just not fair
Gary Klages
April 8, 2015
Tracey was a great lawyer and a woman of class and integrity. My condolences to her family. I am sure our lord has much higher duties for Tracey in heaven.
T-O Sena
April 8, 2015
Pete, I have no words. So sorry for your loss.
April 8, 2015
I am truly sorry to hear about Tracey's passing. She was a dear and respected member of the legal community and will be missed. Sincerely, Frank J. Andreou
Jacquie and Doug Amacher
April 8, 2015
Tracey had a gift for making e person feel special-always a smile, a warm, friendly greeting, so much positive energy. Peter, Michael, and Andrew, we are so very saddened for your great loss and our hearts and prayers are with you. All our love, the Amacher Family
Wanda Underwood
April 8, 2015
We were so sorry to hear of Tracey's passing. Such a gracious and lovely person. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Barbara Raffaldini
April 8, 2015
Pete I was very saddened to hear about Tracey. My heartfelt condolences to you and your sons. Tracey was a smart, gracious and beautiful woman, on the inside and outside. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Anne Marie Joseph-Irey
April 8, 2015
Peter, Andrew, and Michael, I am so sorry to hear about Tracey's passing. She was such an incredible and passionate woman, and her love for each of you was undeniable. I still have the most beautiful letter from her that I will treasure always. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
April 7, 2015
Recibe our condolences and all our prayers.
Rodrigo and Emilio Soto
St. Ignatius students
Chicago, Il
Shoshan Reddington
April 7, 2015
Tracey was a beautiful woman and wonderful friend. We shall miss her smiling face.
April 7, 2015
My heartfelt condolences to the family of Tracey. May God bring you comfort in the wonderful memories that will live forever in your hearts for the time you shared with Tracey. God is near when our hearts are broken and He has provided His Word to comfort us in our times of distress. Always remember this. ROMANS 15:4
Sincerely, Lee
Jim & Clare Roche
April 7, 2015
We are deeply sorry for your loss Pete and will keep your loving family in our prayers.
April 7, 2015
She was a lovely lady and carried herself with grace. So sad for her husband and boys. Theresa Wybrow-Albano and Michael Albano
April 7, 2015
Pete and boys, Our hearts are broken at the tremendous loss to your family. There are no words other than we grieve for you and know you are surrounded by love and family that will help you through this journey. Love from your cousins in North Carolina, Robyn, Steve, Ian and Devin.
Julie & Greg Dingens
April 7, 2015
Pete, We are deeply saddened to hear the news of Tracy's passing. Her smile would light up any room and will forever be in our memories. Our hearts are heavy and we will have you and the boys in our thoughts and prayers. The Dingens Family
April 7, 2015
Peter, Andrew and Michael,
I was so sorry to hear of Tracy's passing. May God bless you with peace and hope.
Debbie Kozak

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Alberta Catalano
April 7, 2015
Dear Lord grant Tracey eternal rest and may your light shine on her forever; please send your spirit to console her husband Peter and her sons Andrew and Michael all those who loved her and will mourn her absence. Amen.
John Kelly
April 7, 2015
A truly beautiful human being in so many respects. Tracey was a gifted and accomplished lawyer but I sense her greatest accomplishments were as a mother,wife,family member and friend to many. My deepest condolences to all.
David and Patti Benjamin
April 7, 2015
Pete and the boys. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
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