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Thomas Sillman Obituary

Sillman, Thomas David born June 6, 1940 in Bridgeport and died December 28, 2009. Survived by his wife Donna (nee Thorne); loving father of Deby and Robert (Tina); grandfather of Steffanie and Matthew Key and Harley Sillman; great-grandfather of Maverick; beloved brother of Marlene (Gene) Pointkowski, Robert, Christine (Donald) Sembach. Preceded in death by father Elmer Sillman and mother Joan (Ernest) Chauncy. He will be missed by many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. Member of V.F.W. Bridgeport Post #5079. Visitation Wednesday 3-9:00 pm and Thursday 8-9:30 am followed by Funeral service 10:00 am at Pomierski & Son F.H., 1059 W. 32nd St. Please omit flowers. 773-927-6424.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Dec. 29, 2009.

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January 12, 2010

Donna,Debbie and bob,
I am sorry for your loss,your father was bigger than life!!
I will keep your family in my prayers
Cathy Cahue(Wojtonik).

January 9, 2010

Donna and Family,
Sorry for your loss. I'll always remember the good times we had with the group.
Janet Glazewski

Nancy Sliwinski-Peksa

January 6, 2010

Debbie and Bob, I was very sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. Although I haven't seen him in quite a few years, I always remember him as a very nice gentleman. I'll keep your family in my prayers.

Glenn Mirabile

January 3, 2010

Deby,

I am very sorry for your loss. Your father was a very nice and funny man. I am sure he will be missed. It was nice to have known him.

Glenn Mirabile

Melissa Staranowicz

January 1, 2010

To the Sillman Family,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Tommy. I have never met anyone who could make me laugh like Tommy could. I will miss his humor, family gatherings will never be the same. There will never be anyone that can fill his shoes. They may be able to try them on, but they will never fill them.

Much Love to you all,
Kevin, Missy, Bryan, Brianna and Kyle

Diane Kalec

December 31, 2009

Hi guys, Tommy was one of a kind, Doug and I were talking and remembering all the stuff that he and Doug and Jimmy Brady did.
We are so sorry and hope that all will be well in the future
Diane and Doug Kalec

December 30, 2009

Donna,Debbi,Bobby and kids,What a great loss to all of us. Tommy crossed the space between the ages. He truly was one of a kind,a special character.
There are only a few times in life you could be blessed to know somebody like Tommy. yeah Tom, I said Blessed. He will be sorely missed.
I love you all,Patty Brown

Joe Iacullo

December 30, 2009

Donna, Deb and Bob - I'm sorry to hear of the loss of Tom. He was a wonderful man and always fun to be around.

December 30, 2009

Donna, Deby, Bobby, Tina and family: Our hearts break for you all. Tommy was "one of a kind" and he will be sorely missed.

Love ya's,
Julie and Marc

Dennis and Carmie kamradt

December 30, 2009

Our whole family is sadden by the loss of Tom,what a wonderful,funny and crazy guy he was.Tom was loved by all that knew him,especially our family.No one could bring you to tears-of laughter,as he did.Now the tears will come when we say-see you later my friend.

Dennis and Carmie Kamradt

December 30, 2009

Our whole family is sadden by the loss of Tom,what a wonderful,funny and crazy guy he was.Tom was loved by all that knew him,especially our family.No one could bring you to tears-of laughter,as he did.Now the tears will come when we say and toast-see you later my friend.

Kasper Family

December 29, 2009

Donna, Deby, Bobby and all the family.
We am so sorry for your loss, he will be greatly missed. Everyone loved Tommy, he always had you laughing. We have so many fun memories of great times spent together and we will cherish every one. I know we teased alot but it was all in good fun...he was a good man. It does not seem real that he will no longer be here with us, he has been a part of our lives for so long and has made such a lasting impression on us. Keith will never forget how he started calling him " Keith Keith with the stinky feet...or the bubble gum on his shirt from Tiffany.... or him calling Mick the "Mickster..it is those many fond memories of him that we will hold dear to our hearts.. I hope time will heal the hurt for all of you..just know we loved him and will miss him so much.
Geri, Mick, Keith & Tiffany

Meagan Hassan

December 29, 2009

My heart goes out to everyone at this terrible time. I cant imagine how hard this has to be during this time of year. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all during this difficult time. Love, Meagan Hassan

Rita Lewis

December 29, 2009

Dear Donna, I was so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I pray that God will give you and your family the comfort and peace that only He can to get thru this very difficult time. I am sure that your fond memories while painful will keep you going. My children and I will have the memories of his wonderful sense of humor and the ability to be the life of the party. I wish that I could be there to show my support and give you a great big hug. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you a great big hug. Love Rita (DeFrancisco) Lewis.

arlene annerino

December 29, 2009

Deb, Bob , Tina, and all the kids, I'm so sorry that Dad passed... he was a great guy, and a great grandfather, he will be miss more then anyone can imagine....I'm here if ya just need to talk cry , or anything, like a few cocktails,, (haha),, anything guys... Love ya all.. Auntie Ar and Uncle Paul...

arlene annerino

December 29, 2009

First I want to tell you, Donna, my special sister, I love ya and I'm so sorry you have to go through this terrible loss and pain...And Paul and I are here for ya, whenever, whatever, ok,, please do not hesitate to ask...He was in my life almost since birth, that's a long time, and I loved him like a brother, even if he was a brother-in-law...Its gonna be so hard looking over next door and not seeing him, but I still can imagine him there,so Don, he will always be in my heart and my prayers, along with U so the pain can ease up...Love ya sister... Ar and Paul..

Peter Maher

December 29, 2009

May the light of the lord shine upon him, My condolence to all the family at their time of need

Tony Caputa

December 29, 2009

Deb I am so sorry for your loss, I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

(Keep your dad in your heart and he will be with you for ever)

December 29, 2009

We were so deeply sad and sorry to hear of your loss. Tom will be greatly missed but the memories he gave us all will always be cherished. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of his family! Love Dolly and Dawn Twombly

Fr. Dan Brandt

December 29, 2009

Heartfelt and prayerful condolences from the people of Nativity of Our Lord Parish. Tom will be remembered at all Masses here this weekend. May his family and friends know the healing touch of Jesus Christ during this difficult time.

Linda Cowdrey

December 29, 2009

Our hearts are heavy. Our loss is so deep. To us, Tom was a good friend who was there for us when we needed him. He was a legend. May he be sitting next to Big Ed and Ma Mary--- As I have always been proud to be Mary's daughter, I am proud to have all the Sillmans as our friends. To all the family and friends...you are in our thoughts and prayers...Linda and Gary Cowdrey

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