Terry W. and Wendy C. Allie Obituary

Twenty years have come and gone. 20 years worth of birthdays, holidays, weddings, and births that you both have not experienced. I tend to believe that you’re both in a better position than we are but that doesn’t mean you both aren’t missed. The older I get the uglier the world appears but when I look at my children I see hope. Your love for the youth showed and maybe I got to see a glimpse of what you two saw in crazy teenagers that weren’t even yours. My kids aren’t there yet but my eyes were opened ten years ago. I can only imagine that heaven is like that times infinity so I don’t mourn for you two as much as I used to. I talk about you guys once in awhile. I found a note signed by you both and my oldest asked about it. The fruits of your works haven’t ended nor has your memory faded. All glory is given to God as I realize how much I needed people like you two in my life when I was young. We need more people with that light.

My name is Carrie (maiden name: Kilroy) I use to attend some of the Rads & Haven meetings as a guest of Kristin Algarin, who was a member of the church. That's when I first met Mr. & Mrs. Allie. They were the nicest couple. They made me feel so welcomed. I felt very comfortable being there,since at the time I had no religion backround.I use to look foward to those meetings on Wed. or Sunday nights, I believe it was. They made me realize church can be lots of fun too. Also in high school I had a child care class with Lauren. In that class Lauren and I use to talk alot. That year I use to have to walk home alot. I remember Mrs. Allie offering me rides home more than a few times.Sometimes I would say, oh no thats ok, but she would insist on giving me a ride home. Thats the kind of person she was, very caring!!

About 3 or 5 years ago I also seen Mrs. Allie at Factory Card Outlet. She was talking to some lady. When she was done she actually came up to me and said Hi. There again ,very caring and friendly.

Recently I was just on Classmates.com when I seen Laurens name. I emailed her. I needed to send her my condolences. I was so happy to see Laurens name on classmates because the day I found out about the Allies I felt & wanted to just say sorry!

Now a days there isn't to many people out there like the Allies. Mr. & Mrs. Allie are one of a kind. I'm glad I knew them!

Also my mother was Bryan's 6th grade Lunch mom.Her name is Nancy Kilroy. She watched over his class when they ate lunch to give the teachers a break. She sends her deepest sympathy's to Bryan. She said she always liked Bryan and that he was a good kid.She also says Hi to Bryan.

Well I'm glad I just found out about this guest book. I didn't even konw about it until a couple weeks ago when my aunt passed.I wish the best for Lauren & Bryan!! ~Carrie Whitten

Today I re-read this entire guest book. It is comforting to me that people are still writing in it - but not surprising. Not a day goes by that I don't think of Terry and Wendy. Their picture and Lauren and Keith's wedding picture are on my fridge. I smile at Wendy and Terry and say to myself "Every day gets me closer to seeing them". And I look at Lauren and pray for her and Keith and Bryan, too - that's what PT and Wendy would want me to do. Yesterday, a co-worker saw their picture in my cubical and asked about them. I got to tell her about how wonderful my friends were and she, not even knowing them, got teary eyed, as I am now. I miss them- and their picture is like a glimpse of heaven to me because now there is something I can pinpoint for sure about heaven. I don't know what Jesus looks like but I know the person standing next to PT and Wendy when I get there will be Him. Until then...

Today my thoughts were very much toward Terry and Wendy. My heart ached for Loren and Bryan as this day approached. Two distinct memories came to me of Wendy and Terry. Whenever Terry and Wendy were able to attend a function of my family, I was both elated and blessed by their presence. I would call my sister ( Kathleen Schultz) and say " Guess who's gonna be there"? To which Kathleen would say " Wenda-roo .. and Terry too"? It was a term of endearment that we gave them as the team they always were. When Kathleen's son ( Danny) returned home from the Marines, Terry and Wendy accepted the invitation to be at my parents' house to celebrate with us. Danny, his wife and brother ( with his then girlfriend, now wife) and I started to play cards. Our game of choice was " Go Fish". Wendy was in the basement, with Terry, my father, and some others. I went down and informed her that she was needed to play this game. I wore a sun visor, and stated it was because I was a " card shark". Wendy played with this silliness to the hilt. When someone had to " go fish", the person was to " act out" a fishing position, but never the same way twice. Needless to say, Wendy taught us all kinds of silly ways to fish. We laughed so hard that game! Wendy looked at my cards and we decided to just " share" the cards that we had with the other. This was only allowed for Wendy and myself, and the youngin's had to follow another rule. I always loved the way I would see Wendy coming toward me and I knew that we could have the silliest of times and just laugh. I thought about Terry, and his sweetness. When I was in the hospital with meningitus, I looked a mess. Terry came to visit me, and brought with him Snickers! Oh yes! After hospital food, I thought it was manna! He had entered the room and I stirred. Seeing it was Terry, and I felt, and looked terrible, hair disheveled, I looked at him and said " Do ya think my new look will land me a boyfriend"? He just smiled and said " Ummmm .. no" Believe me, his presence was a blessing. So I wrap these memories in a warm place, and smile. Yes, God blessed all of us with Wenda-roo and Terry too. Last year these memories were hard for me. It took quite some time before I could think back and be comforted by them. Now they bring to soul and mind a spot of joy, and a thankful heart that I knew them. Thank you God for letting us know a touch of Heaven on earth

On August 7 my son Jim and his wife Samantha celebrated their first wedding anniversary. Terry and Wendy had attended their wedding and reception. Terry said the prayer for the meal as only Terry could. My husband and I recently watched the video of the wedding and reception again. Somehow it felt comforting to see Terry so alive on the tape. It felt like he was standing right in front of me. I remember that he had been asked if he was going to dance that evening. He said that he would dance when he got to Heaven. Recently, I was listening to a Christian radio station and the song " I Can Only Imagine" came on. I always think of Terry when the part about dancing for Jesus comes on. I can only imagine Terry dancing before our Savior. Somehow, I also imagine that Wendy had to take the lead and they are dancing and singing throughout eternity. How awesome it must be!

Lauren and Bryan,



I wanted to say this at the visitation, but I just couldn't find the words. I can still remember many of my R.A.D.S. sessions. I had so much fun being with your parents and the other kids. Your mom was one of the most comforting persons I have ever met. She really knew how to make a outsider feel welcome. I can honestly say that your father played a major role in my current faith. He is the reason that I can cope with tragedies like this and the reason I no longer fear my own passing. I will never forget them or what they did for me.



I pray that the two of you can find comfort in each other, friends, family, and in the faith that your parents taught and shared.

Lauren and Bryan,

Your both in my thoughts and prayers as Mothers Day was here and Fathers Day approaches. My heart is heavy with saddness for you both.



May God Bless you both.

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As most of you,I have had daily opportunities to remember my friends - I thought about Terry on Ground Hog Day and laughed - He always made a big deal about it- and today is Pazcki Day and Terry and Wendy would go to the Polish Bakery and stand in line just so they could deliver a tasty treat to us. Once they were even on the front page of the Sun Times pictured waiting in line for pazcki's. I posted that picture in the church office window for all to see. I remember PT and Wendy most during worship at church - I feel so close to them when I am singing, knowing that they are singing praises, too. Sunday's sermon reminded me that when Jesus comes back, the dead in Christ will rise first and will come back with Him to get the rest of us - it makes me want to see Jesus come thru those clouds even more. If you're reading this, you understand and you miss PT and Wendy, too. God comfort and keep us all - until that joyous day He returns.

Today is Christmas Day and I was just feeling very down about Terry and Wendy not being here to celebrate. Then it dawned on me! They are celebrating Christmas with the King of Kings. What an awesome thought! This is their first Christmas in the very presence of their Lord and Savior. We who are left behind on this earth have not ever really celebrated Christmas yet. I am still praying for Lauren and Bryan. It must be very hard for them on this day. I also know that Pastor Terry would have celebrated his birthday on January 2. He is in Heaven celebrating forever. Eternity is so hard for us to fathom. Each moment in Heaven is a celebration. I can only imagine how it must be to be in the presence of Jesus Christ forever. I am looking foreward to the day that I too will be there. In the meantime I have to do what Jesus wants me to do on earth. I will cherish every moment of every day with my loved ones. Live each day on earth as if it were your last day. However, remember that this is not our home. As believers in Christ our true home is with Him for eternity. Praise the Lord for His Salvation. I love you Terry and Wendy. See you later.

Lauren & Bryan,



You are both in my thoughts and prayers daily. I can't stop thinking about what you must be feeling. I know its hard. I also know that your mom & dad are with you through it all. In your hearts, their spirit will live forever. Stay strong and know that you are both loved very much.

It was a privilege to call Terry my pastor, counselor and friend. The Christian music coming from my radio evokes memories of Wendy singing praises to the Lord and leading the worship team.



Terry and Wendy modeled a Christ-like existence not only on Sunday but also during each day that the Lord gave them breath.



I am happy to report that the church that Terry founded (with the diligent support of Wendy) is alive and well. Faith Ministries Community Church (FMCC) was founded on prayer and the belief that the body of Christ should be a living entity, offering worship, ministries, discipleship and education. We are striving to make the church relevant in our community.



As FMCC attempts to fill the void left by our loss, we now realize the great effort that it will take to even begin filling the shoes of these loved ones.



The Book of Matthew states that Christ is going to come in his Father's glory and will reward each person according to what he has done. The Lord said that He goes to prepare a place for us in His heavenly kingdom.



If the rewards include mansions in Glory, then I can't wait to hang out at the Allie's.

Terry and I were best friends in High School. We used to hang out every day after school. Rarely was the day when we did not wait for each other and walk part way home, or get something to eat together. What a great guy, I know we both helped each other get through some tough times when we were younger. I will always remember his quiet demeanor and willingness to help others. Like a lot of friends we grew apart after High School, me going away to college and Terry staying home, both of us going our separate ways. We stayed in contact for awhile, but eventually we both lost complete touch. Just this spring I contacted him for the first time in over 20 years and we traded several e-mails. It was great to hear that he was doing wo well and was doing something that made him happy and fulfilled, we all don't get that opportunity, it couldn't have happened to a better person. I recently came across the newspaper article about their tragic accident, I was stunned and deeply saddened. Lauren and Bryan, my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you. Both your mom and dad will be missed greatly.

Ours were the days of sandboxes and swings

We pledged our unity with friendship rings



We were so young when we became best of friends,

We were just 5, with our lives ahead, and so many bends



Those were the days that we laughed and we played

Together, we were happy, and time was a daze



As time went on, we built a great bond

Of the moments we spent together, the memories so fond



The years went by, as they always do

But you and I, we remained a staunch two



Through all the fun and sadness of our young lives

We stood together, as great friends do through happiness and strife



And then the day came when we drifted apart

We married and went on our own ways, for the love of our hearts



Now I have learned that you have been taken away

And am so sorry that we had not stayed………close





Wendy was my BEST childhood friend. We attended classes together from Kindergarten through High School. We attended the same church as children, were confirmed together, promoted the youth group together at Messiah Lutheran Church , celebrated our High School “proms” together, and also shared in the sadness of the loss of our parents together.



I was so incredibly sad to hear of my great friends passing. I did not hear of the tragedyuntil last Thursday from my brother, who was a very good a friend of Wendy’s brother Lee when they were teenager’s, who was also a close friend of our family’s. Unfortunately, as time has its way and we move apart, we loose connections with the friends of our youth that we continue to think about and love.



I never had the pleasure of meeting any of Wendy’s friends after I married and moved out of state. And, unfortunately, Wendy and I never kept in touch after my Mother passed away 21 years ago. I am sorry to say that it was my great loss to not have kept connections with her.



Wendy and “Bud,” (that is the name that I knew Terry by), I know that God’s glorious light shines upon both of you, and that you are rejoicing with him in the happiness of his kingdom. And I know that I will again, in God’s kingdom, meet again with my childhood friend again.



Dearest Lauren and Bryan,



I am so sorry for the loss of you wonderful parents. You’re Mom and I were so close when we were kids. All the stupid stuff that we did together, you cannot imagine…….



I’m sure that neither of you know of me as it was so long ago, as your mother and I were childhood friends. Yet, I feel that I know you both so well. Your mother was there for me when my mother had cancer and helped me out so greatly when she babysat for my son Erik, who I believe is the same age as Lauren (24). Bryan, I have a son who has the same name as you and spelled just the same way. I mourn for both of you in the loss of your parents and wish that I had been a part all of your lives after I moved away.



If there is anything that I can do for you, please call me or contact me at:



Charmian Ramirez (Bill)

4563 Deerfield Dr.

Antioch, Ca. 94531

925-706-7287

email : [email protected]

I have been wanting to write something since this happened. I am still at a loss for words and am also still in such shock.



I will always be honored that Pastor Terry married Fred and I. Ours was the first wedding he ever did and you would never have been able to tell. I received compliments on how nice my wedding service was.

I am so thankful to Pastor Terry for performing my wedding and will never ever forget what a wonderful and humble man he was. I will also be thankful to Wendy for setting up everything the morning of my wedding day and making everything look so nice and helping out at the rehearsal. She was also a wonderful person who always had a smile on her face and would do anything for you.

Pastor Terry & Wendy meant so much to me and I will miss them so very much.

Lauren & Bryan- I am here for you whenever you need something or someone to talk to. Fred will also be available if you need a "Handy Man".

You are in my thoughts and prayers every single day.

Love, Candie.

I was thinking a lot about everything that happened and there are so many memories that keep coming to my mind.I wanted to say something that may not make sense to any of you but it does to me. Wendy used to always give me rides home. I am turning nineteen this month and I still don't have my own car. Times have been rough and I can not find a job that would fit into my school schedule. I used to get frustrated and wonder why God was not providing me this job that I have been looking for and now I know why he hasn't. God has provided me with the money that i needed in order to start school but I wanted more. Now I know why he has not provided me this job. School has been a lot of hard work for me and I need to grieve.

I remember Mrs. Allie and I sitting in the car talking about what I wanted to do with my life. We would literally sit in my driveway for about twenty minutes and just talk. I would tell her about my frustrations and dreams in that car. It was like an escape from the real world. She would tell me that she was thinking about me during the day/week and was praying for me. She knew my frustrations and fears. We would discuss them and pray together in that car. One of the last things that she had said to me was, "You'll do fine in college. I know that you are going to make it as a nurse." I was telling her about how I wasn't adjusting to the college life and she kept telling me that statement.In that car, she would always encourage me to work hard and not give up. That car has a lot of meaning to me even though it is gone. But I wanted to share with you all that the car has served its purpose with Wendy. Not only would she give me rides to and from places, she would talk to me. Whenever I see a car just like that one on the road, i think about all the times that God has given to me. God blessed me with Wendy. (and Terry)That car was also a blessing, too. Lauren and Bryan may not see it like that but I sure hope that they understand that it truly was to me.It not only transported people place to place but it carried conversations that touched my heart.

Dear Lauren & Bryan,

When through one man or woman a little more love and goodness, a little more light and truth come into the world - then that man's or woman's life has had meaning. We were all well loved by Wendy & Terry. The goodness that poured from their hearts cannot be shared in mere words. But the truth they lived and shared can, their lives, every single aspect of their daily lives spoke God's love.



Terry & Wendy -

You are not forgotten, friends, nor will you ever be, As long as life and memory last, We will remember you. We miss you now, your sweet tender embrace. As time goes by we'll miss you more. Your loving smiles, your gentle face, No one can or will fill your vacant place.



Lauren & Bryan -

Know that your parents are so very proud of you. I am in awe of how amazingly you comforted so many who came to comfort you. You carry the Allie name proudly. We love you both and we are here for you always.

Linda Russell, Faith Ministries

Lauren and Bryan,

Our hearts go out to you both. Your Mom and Dad were terrific people. Your Mom kept our children safe and happy after school for many years, they said it was always so much fun to be in your home. I remember picking them up after work and never leaving right away because I enjoyed talking to your Mom so much. Our hearts go out to you both, if you need anything please call. You are in my prayers.

Randy, Jeanne, Matthew,Michelle Juras

We are saddened by the loss of Terry and Wendy, but rejoice in the Lord that one day we will seem them again with Christ in Eternity.



Lauren and Bryan, our prayers are with you over the coming months as you work through this difficult time in your lives.



For Faith Ministries, we are in prayer for all of you as well.



With love and prayers,

The Turcottes ~ Jeff, Michele, Simeon & Carolyn ~ Mission Aviation Fellowship

Dear Lauren and Bryan,

Your parents were two people that we respected and love greatly. PT and Wendy both LOVE the LORD sooo much that it was obvious in their daily walk with Him and displayed in their marriage and parenting.



I cannot help but remembering the message on September 12 - Heaven, Worth It All... The way that Pastor Terry described it from the Bible with all the facts and mesurements, how excited he made me feel about going to see our Heavenly Father one day. well both Pastor Terry and Wendy are there now Enjoying it All with their Savior. I am so excited for them but of course feeling such a loss. You both are in my consistant prayers and thoughts.

Love Because of Jesus!

Sue and John

John and Danielle Doyle

This week I spent sorting twenty years of memories. I wanted so much to list my favorite stories of them two.



My favorite memory of Wendy ss a recent one. On FMCC's one year anniversary. I was nine months pregnant and jumping in the dino jump. She said,"Boy if you could fit that tummy in there I should be able to." She came in with me, Lauren, and Camille. Wendy was so full of life and happy. So many people have commented on her smile, if you saw that smile on that day. She was amazingly happy.



Terry was a bit harder to figure out a favorite story. Oddly enough I don't have a fun memory, rather a loving one. He took out us kids with out a dad every father's day to get ice cream. I always felt so left out on father's day. I had no one to celebrate it with like so many others. He took us out with his family and made us feel important to him. He understood how much we longed for a relationship with our dads, so Terry gave what he could to us, love, understanding, companionship, he even watched out for us like we were also apart of his family.

Thank you Bryan and Lauren for letting your family be so much a part of ours.

Alexandra

Lauren, and Bryan,

The service on Saturday, was a true picture of the life of your kind, and generous parents.

They were as great of friends to us, as they were parents to you. Although, we all share your sorrow for such a tremendous loss in our lives, We feel honored to have known them, and are richer for having them cross our paths.

We will pray for you two fine people. Remember, you are their legacy.

God Bless You Both.

Lauren and Bryan I am at a loss for the right words to say. I want you to know that I am praying for you and your extended family. My love and sympathy go out to you. May our dear Lord comfort you and wrap you both in His love and give you strength through this very difficult time. As many people have said - your parents were very special people. They both had unselfish servants hearts and definately impacted my life in many ways. I think of how your parents were always thinking of ways to help the needy and people who needed a touch from the Lord. They truly cared about others and did something about it never wanting any of the glory, but wanting all of the praise and glory to go to their precious Savior and Lord, Jesus Christ. When they went to be with the Lord I thought of the picture I've seen of an artists rendition of Jesus welcoming home one of his children into heaven. Jesus has His eyes closed and is tightly hugging His beloved child who He loves so very much. And I can just picture that - that is what happened when your parents came into Jesus presence. And I listened to the song "We shall behold Him" with some of the words saying that we shall behold Him face to face in all of His glory and be FOREVER rejoicing with Him! I pray that it will be a comfort to you Lauren and Bryan that your parents are now rejoicing in the very presence of Jesus, and that we who have trused Jesus as our Savior and Lord will be joining them to be with our Lord and brothers and sisters in Christ forever. I will never forget your parents Terry and Wendy Allie and I pray to have a humble unselfish servants heart like they both had. They left a great and wonderful legacy. I loved them and I love you too. Sincerely in Jesus love, June Junko

I am still so deeply saddened by this tremendous loss. Pastor Terry and Wendy were two people I looked forward to seeing each and every time Dan and I came home. We would come home to visit family and they were included in that anticipation. I loved hearing Pastor Terry talk of sports and family and I loved getting those warm hugs from Wendy. They were there at every family gathering as long as I can remember. I will be forever touched by their kindness and love for God and for everyone. I will be forever indebted to them for all of their prayers. What an example they were in just the way they lived!

Lauren and Bryan: If Dan and I can do anything for you, we will. I will constantly pray for you both to have the courage to live on in the honor of your parents' memory. Please know I loved your parents so much and I will miss them so much more.

Nancy and I are off balance because we leaned on your parents so many times for support and friendship. God's comfort has sustained us as we sort out His purpose in this loss. God's word says it best in Romans 8:18For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory that is to be revealed to us. We Love you Brian and Lauren. Call us anytime!

Bryan and Lauren i am very sorry for your loss, i cant imagine what you are feeling right now but you are in my prayers. Pastor Terry and Mrs. Allie were such a big part of my life. When i was in sparks the one thing i could not wait for was to be in Jr. High so i could be in Escape with Pastor Terry. He taught us so well and is the reason i am the christian i am. He had his way of keeping our attention and having fun with us and with him it never got old. We had a mystery dinner, we went to a great haunted house, we had a lesson outside in cardboard boxes and got 75 cents to go to freshline and buy the best food we could to teach us about being grateful for what we have. And Mrs. Allie had her sunday school classes in the kitchen and i always remember Jen England getting in trouble for being too talkative or crazy and would sometimes get me and Sarah Stuck in trouble, but she also taught us so much. They are great people and will never be forgotten. They helped me so much, and played a major part in my walk with God. I love you two so much and i know you are in a better place. Thank you for everything you have done for me!

Dear Lauren and Bryan,

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I wish I had more than words to offer. Your parents were incredible people. They touched so many lives with God's love-it was an honor to know them. I will keep you in my prayers.

Kathy

So many wonderful words of love have been spoken of Terry & Wendy. For me they were people who cared for everyone they had the opportunity to meet. They effected untold numbers of people in their community.



As my pastor and friend I feel a deep sense of loss yet I rejoice in the FACT that Terry and Wendy are in Heavenly Glory. No more pain and sadness for them.



I have been told that over 1,200 people went through the receiving line at the wake. Also, the funeral service at Chapel Hill Garden South was second in size only to the Willis family. They are the ones who lost six of their children in a tragic auto accident on I-294.



Bryan & Lauren ... you are loved by your church family at FMCC. We will continue to uplift you in prayer and petition God to give you comfort. We do this for your extended family as well. Having lost one of my children I know that the pain will never completely go away but may God ease your pain over time. We love you! We will always remember Terry & Wendy.

Where do I begin? I’m not one for flowery words, but here goes…

Lauren and Bryan, your parents have been involved in my life and my family’s life since the late 1980’s. They were the best people anyone could have met. Mr. and Mrs. A. have greatly impacted my life. My only regret is the fact that I never have said it outright. Terry and Wendy were full of devotion to God. That was all they needed to put up with the riff raff my brothers and I gave them. I will never forget the teachings, advice, and real heartfelt devotion they had given to our lives. Wendy was always so kind and loving. Terry was full of dry humor topped off with love. I am forever humbled and grateful for love and kindness they had. They constantly prayed for me when I left for the Marine Corps. I will never forget the day I had to do push-ups for what seemed like forever when Terry sent a postcard that said something like, “I hope you are having fun with your nice drill-instructors.” They continued to pray for me as a Sergeant in Afghanistan. Terry was also part of the most important day of my life: my wedding. I remember saying to Sara, “Terry will be the one who marries us. I would have it no other way.” I will always have the pictures and memories of him presiding. I owe so much to those two. I could go on forever, but I need to conclude with a final thought.

How do I thank two of some of the most important people of my life? I have recently discovered how:

Remember them through how I live my every day life. Never forget how important Jesus was in their life, and their influence will remain.

Terry and Wendy, I love you two guys. I will miss you dearly. Thank you so much for influencing my life. You will always be remembered.

We are sorry to hear about your loss. I did not know of the Allie Family until Saturday when a elderly couple came into my store for an urgent eyewear repair. They told me they were visiting from California and why they were in town and were relatives of the Allies.

I then had came here online, and after reading - learned about what kind of wonderful people the Allies were and how many lives they touched.

Our condolences and sympathy to your family at this time of sadness.

Lauren and Bryan,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your parents were such special people. When I first came to Oak Lawn Bible years ago they were the first ones to welcome me and make me feel like I really belonged. I will never forget sunday school with your mother and RADS with your father. I am so happy to have met them and been part of a church family with them. You and your family will be in my heart and my prayers.

Bryan and Family,

Our deepest condolences go out to you and your family and you will be in our hearts and prayers.

For many years my father split the world along denominational lines. There were the Catholics and there were all others. Things were different with Wendy and Terry. I spoke to my father on Friday about the loss of Wendy and Terry. My father repeatedly voiced his grief over the loss of two "beautiful, wonderful people."



My dad recalled Wendy cutting his hair while he was in Christ Hospital during and extended illness. He also warmly recalled the "Avon Man," Terry, who made Avon deliveries to my mom for Wendy.



I suppose that the tags must fly off on the way up.



Wendy and Terry were guests in my parents' and sisters' homes on a number of occasions. He was pastor to my mother and my sister and her family.



I am affected only tangentially by the loss of Terry and Wendy. My mother, sisters, and sister's family have lost their friend and shepherd and I ache for their loss.



I see the fruits of Terry and Wendy's labor in the lives of my sister's children. When I see that, I know what they have lost. I look to my own family and see where my commitment to living a Christ-centered life must get stronger.



Lauren and Bryan, I send my deepest sympathies on your great loss. Your parents were amazing people serving an amazing God who will see you through your grief.

I just returned from the funeral this afternoon. It didn't really hit me until I walked up to the church to see 2 herses to carry the bodies of Terry and Wendy. I don't know Terry and Wendy all my life, but part of my Christian life, the good part has been because I met and got to know them. To be sure they were special people to me. Pastor Terry with his humor and humble loving heart. He baptized me 4 years ago and I am forever grateful. He married my daughter Sara to Dan Schultz, a great big thank you. And Wendy, her smile and warm hug was always there, the true joy of the Lord shown through her. Thank you God for letting them pass through my life. To Lauren and Bryan, God bless you both, and remember I will be praying for you.

I cannot accurately express my grief upon hearing of the news of Terry and Wendy. Through the years I was blessed with the privilege of watching “Buddy” grow as a young man, as a Christian, and finally into the fine man of God he became. The lives of Terry and Wendy were a testament of faith and courage; one that we can all learn from. Their departure is a great loss to those of the Family of God, who have been left behind to continue the work.



Roxanne, Mary Glenn, Lauren, Bryan, and all the rest of their family, and friends, please know that our hearts and prayers are with all of you on this very sad, sad day. Please be encouraged with the knowledge that Terry and Wendy are now home with The Lord. Some day soon, we will all be together again.

Lauren & Bryan:

I'm very sorry for your loss, and I will have you and your family in my prayers.

My mind is taken back a few years to a production that Oak Lawn Bible Church put on. I can't remember the title of it or even the main plot, but one scene in particular stands out in my mind. Pastor Terry is sitting and he's in heaven. He's talking about how awesome it is and how he had just gotten back from a morning ice skating. He said how he could never really even skate well and now he's doing crazy flippy things. I think about that moment and have to smile a bit, because he could be doing that right now, for real. All I can think right now is God is awesome.



I don't think there would be enough space for me to write all my favorite memories. I remember being in grade school and waiting for that georgous day that I entered Jr. High so the two best things could happen. I could be in RADS, and in Mrs. Allie's sunday school class. I learned more about life and about God in that youth kitchen on Sunday morning with Mrs. Allie than I did up until that moment. She was a mentor, a teacher, a friend, and a gift from God.



Oh youth group, who can forget playing floor hockey with plastic candy canes or making sculptures our of chewed bubble gum? Dare to Share and the Missions Trip to North Dakota are two memories that shaped my life as a Christian. Rake and run, shovelling snow, having RADS outside in cardboard boxes, geez, the list goes on and on.



Pastor Terry encouraged us to grow as Christians and step into leadership. He allowed us to run youth services and got us involved with the community. He did VBS every year and put up with us calling him Larry the Cucumber for months. He was truely a man of God.

Now he is a man with God.



When I get to heaven, one of my first stops will be at their mansion so I can thank them. Because without their help, I may have not made it there myself.

Terry and Wendy Beloved brethren,

you were steadfast, unmovable,

always abounding in the work of the Lord,

…your labor was not in vain in the Lord.

Bryan & Lauren,

I pray God's love and comfort will cradle your hearts and minds. Your parents were a rare couple that impacted the lives of so many. Many are thanking the Lord for knowing them; many have come to Christ because of them. They left you a wonderful legacy. We all grieve their early departure.

Jan, Art, Olivia, Luke and Zachary

Sometimes it is hard to tell when somebody has a life-changing impact on a young person until it is too late. Pastor Terry and Wendy had to put up with so much of me when I was young that at a close glance, that impact can easily go unnoticed. But that was their way of doing things--leading by example and letting the results come as God lets them. Ever since I was a 4 year old Cubbie, when I met Mr. Allie, through the times he would attend sporting events of mine, and through the time I was married less than 2 months ago, it's so hard to believe that such an influence on my life is gone. I asked Pastor Terry to say the blessing at my wedding to acknowledge all that he and Mrs. Allie have done for me and to show them the results of their hard work in me, and I can't begin to imagine how much they have done for everyone else they have encountered. Bryan and Lauren, you will think back on how much God blessed you to have such wonderful people for parents. For as much grief you and I feel, they must be feeling at least that much joy while being at the hand of God. I sincerely await the day when the Lord allows me to tell them in person how much they have done for me (although I'm sure that now they know). May God bless you as much as he has blessed your parents.

Bryan and Lauren,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. I had lived across the street from you and your parents for years. All I can remember is how warm and kind they both were. The first thing that comes to my mind when thinking of Mr. and Mrs. Allie is our cross-country meets. They were always at our cross country meets cheering us on and supporting us all the way, even after Bryan graduated they still came to support the team and always brought a cooler full of gatorade with them. That meant the world to all of us on the team. They were great people with big hearts and they will be missed greatly. They will never be forgotten. Now they can look down on both of you from up above and help you through this tragic time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lauren and Bryan I'm very sorry for your loss, I am just one of many that Terry and Wendy had an impact on. They have done so much for Alexandra and I and words can not express how much we love them.They will be in our hearts forever.

I have only known Pastor Terry and Wendy for a short time. But in their presence they made you feel and know you were loved. The warmth and love they had for Jesus, spilt over into your hearts.

How can I even begin to express the sadness I feel for the loss of Bryan and Lauren for their mom and dad, FMCC for our lost of a pastor, a confodont, a friend, a mentor, and many other things they were to so many of us. When I think of Terry and Wendy, the Ray Bolz song comes to mind, "Thank you". "

Thank you for giving to the Lord, I am a life that's been changed, thank you for giving to the Lord I am so glad you gave."

So many have been touched by their lives and their ministry. Terry always made the teens feel like they were special and never made them feel guilty for their wrong doings. I know, I was one of the trouble makers ten years ago.



And Wendy, was a woman who always loved us. I remember in 8th grade, she had a wonderful idea to have a lockin and have us girls cook 1000 cookies and give them to a charity. Well, It was hot and we wanted to have more fun, so she stayed in the kitchen all night baking cookies. She didn't complain, she did the job and was happy that we were having a good time.



I love them, Terry and Wendy met me as a young child, watched me grow into an adolescent, aloud my mistakes and like God the Father, they always forgave me and their love never changed for me. When I was faced with a teen pregnancy, Terry was very loving and comforted me in that difficult time. He counciled me and I grew up into the mom I am today. Most of all, their love for God, each other, and us was a testimony that led me back to the Lord.





They were wonderful people who fulfilled their purpose. How awesome it must be for them to be in heaven with each other. I am so happy for their beginning into eternity. As happy and in love as we knew them on earth is nothing compared to the happiness and love they are feeling in heaven. We should rejoice in the fact that a brother and a sister in Christ made it before us. Take comfort in knowing that just as the Lord accepted Wendy and Terry in heaven, He is also holding our hearts in our time of sorrow.

MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES.GOD BLESS.

A few years back when Pastor Terry decided to start in the ministry, I was unsure what that meant for the kids of the youth group at the time i was about to graduate and move on from. It didnt take me long to see that what was brought to the group was warmth, caring, friendship, a never ending loyalty to the kids in the group. I think that was one of the best things to happen for those kids. Wendy was a welcome role model for the young girls. Everyone knew either could be turned to for anything at any time. I saw Lauren and Brian grow up in the ways of their parents, strong and steadfast. I am grieved by their loss, and hope lauren and brian can see through their pain and know how much their parents were loved. Pastor Terry told me once that things dont make sense, but trying to understand something that doesnt make sense is easier to understand when you let Go and Let God. I didnt understand that for quite some time, but when i finally did understand that i was glad someone had the insight to see something i was blind to. Insight like that is just an example of how wise terry really was. I will forever remember them in my heart . Lauren and Brian, my heart is with you both. Your mom dad meant alot to me and i know they will always be proud of you.

Dear Lauren & Bryan,

Our hearts and prayers go out to you in these tragic times. We did not know your parents very well, we had only met a few times, but the few times were wonderful! They were very sweet and caring people. Our son had gone to a few teen meetings with your dad and really looked up to him. Just know that they have touched many hearts and lives in their short time here on earth, but now are safe in the arms of God!!

Sincerely,



The Hartell Family

Terry and Wendy were two of the greatest people I have ever had the priviledge to know. Terry's gentle manner and Wendy's smile. Noone could smile like Wendy. I was always glad to see them. They brightened my day and left a warm glow when we parted. We joked, we spoke about serious things. They were more than special to me. Lauren and Bryan, please know that if there is anything that you need, and I am able to provide it, I will. Your parents loved God first, each other, and you two are the apple of their eyes. They loved you dearly.

When I think about Mr. and Mrs. Allie, I remember Gatorade after every cross country meet, crazy skits on Sunday nights at OLBC, and that look Mrs. Allie used to give us when Aaron and I did something stupid, which was most of the time. Even after Bryan graduated Pastor Terry would still come to our cross country meets, basketball games, swim meets, and volleyball tournaments. We always knew that we could stop by the Allie's house and be greeted by Mrs. Allie's smile. No matter how crazy, stupid, or immature the action, Mrs. Allie would still just smile, laugh, and shake her head. I think we meant a lot to them, but I don't think think they could ever know how much they meant to us. I will remember them forever.

Lauren and Bryan Also

Can't tell you how bad we feel. Hang in there, when God closes a door he always opens a window. Known you guys for a pretty long time now, your parents were wonderful people and have touched so many. So many people will be better for knowing them. He must have needed them pretty bad to have taken them so soon. Take care of your grandma's and grandpa's - they need you as much as you need them. Know all are thoughts and prayers are with you.

The world is indeed a sadder place since the Father took his two servants, two of the best people I have ever known. I fear that they never knew the true impact they had on myself, as well as many others. But the world is fleeting, and the gift of God's salvation is eternal. Pastor Terry and Wendy, though we shall miss you dearly, you shall be rembered and your work shall live on as a testament to your true faiths. May we all be reunited one day in the presence of God.

While we feel so incredibly broken hearted, we also feel so incredibly blessed for knowing Terry and Wendy. They touched our hearts in immeasurable ways. Thank you heavenly Father for sharing them with us. Bryan and Lauren, our hearts go out to you and we are lifting you up in prayer. We are so incredibly sorry.

Lauren & Bryan:



My family and I would like to extend our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family at this sad time. Your mom and dad were truly special people. May the Lord comfort you. We will keep you in our prayers.



Ben, Debbie, Kyle & Jenna Thiesen

Bryan and Family,

Im so sorry to here about your parents. Our love and support go out to you and your family.

Our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to the family. Words cannot express the pain we feel for you. If we can be there for you in any way, please let us know. We love you all.

Dear Lauren, Bryan and Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. If there is anything we can do, we are just across the street and want to help in anyway. We will miss Terry and Wendy, they were such nice neighbors. Our prayers are with all of you.

I have been crying since I heard about this. I can only imagine how it is for Lauren and Bryan. I am praying for them. Terry was my pastor at FMCC and youth pastor to my children for many years. He coached baseball and basketball as well. I will miss him so much. His humble sense of humor was endearing to everyone. It will never be the same for me when I go to church. Wendy was the most loving person one could ever meet. I am so glad that I had tea with her just two weeks prior to their going home together to be with their LORD and SAVIOR,JESUS CHRIST. I know that God has a plan for this. People will come to know Christ. Terry and Wendy would definitely be happy knowing that. And they do know it now. They are happy beyond all earthly measure. 2Corinthians5:6-8

One last thing - I promised PT...

"Gone to the Church Triumphant"

I have known the Allies all of my life. They were the best people that I have ever ran into. Pastor Terry was my youth pastor and I am/was a part of Faith Ministries Community Church. Wendy was a Sunday School teacher for the 7-8th grade girls and I remember her classes. These two put their all into their work. I will never forget going to workcamps with them. They knew when it was time to be serious but they also knew when to have fun. Snicker bars are very nutritional by the way. I will truly miss them and my heart goes out to Lauren and Bryan. They are like family to me. It is a comfort to know that these two went together to meet the Lord though. Their marriage was wonderful and nobody could ever see them without each other. They were a great inspiration to my family and I. They made an impact in my life and I shall never forget them. I love the entire Allie family and I will be praying for those who are still here.

Through my broken-hearted tears I can picture PT and Wendy running hand in hand to meet our Jesus! I can hear Him saying "Well done". One day we will all be reunited - and we will worship together big time! Until then, may God's love and comfort be with everyone who knew and loved Terry and Wendy.

Our prayers are with your family. Pastor Terry and Wendy touched me, my wife and our small children in a Godly way....and we will always remember the goodness they showed.

Dear Lauren and Bryan and Family, May God comfort You and Your Family in your time of need. Caroline,Nicole, Theresa and Marie Kruchten

Dear Family,

Your in our thoughts and each thought is a prayer that God will give you the strength to carry on.



Our sincere condolences,The Farris Family

Our Deepest Condolences.We were privileged and honored to meet Wendy at our son's funeral.Without hesitation she sang our son's favorite song (Amazing Grace) with Chris Popp.I close my eyes and can see Kevin returning,Wendy's kindness.He's singing to Wendy&Terry,In our Lords presence!There will be an empty place in the hearts of many whose lives were touched by your mother and father.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Dan&Patti Kaminski

My deepest sympathy and condolences. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.