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Susan Barney Obituary

Barney, Susan "Susie" (nee Slavin) 61, beloved wife and best friend for 40 wonderful years of Marc; loving mother of Pamela (Eric) Greenfield and Erica (Larry) Stein; cherished grandmother of Riley, Jayden and Jake Greenfield and Brady Stein; devoted daughter of Allan (Phyllis) and the late Phyllis Slavin; dear sister of Ron (Caryl) Slavin and Larry (Lori) Slavin; treasured niece, aunt, cousin and friend of many. Chapel service Sunday 12:15 PM at Shalom Memorial Funeral Home, 1700 W. Rand Road, Arlington Heights. Interment Shalom Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to www.susiebarneyfund.com. For info, 847.255.3520 or www.shalom2.com.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Sep. 2, 2011.

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Marcia Altman

October 25, 2011

I knew Susie as a child. My mom (Bea Altman) was dear friends with Phyllis Slavin so Susie and I were childhood friends. I have fond memories of sleepovers as young kids. I now live in LA and a friend in Chicago gave this to me. I was so sorry to hear about her passing and extend my thoughts and prayers to the whole family as does my mom and sister.

Mazzy Teich <3

September 14, 2011

I will forever remember Mrs.Barney. Whenever I looked at her closely all I saw was a smiling face of someone who would do anything for the ones she loved. She inspired me to do incredible things for the the thoughts that I felt dedicated to. I hope her passing wasn't painful and she will forever be missed. My deepest thought and sorries to her family. The world lost an incredible women and may there be many more who follow in her footsteps.
With love,

Ed and Michele Murphy

September 9, 2011

Time stood still just one week ago as we lost a truly amazing person. Mrs. Barney was our daughter's second grade teacher with Mrs. Hartstein. Pure delight every day. She will missed.

September 8, 2011

We were so saddened to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathies.

Gail & Alan Gussis

abby speck

September 7, 2011

she was an amazing teacher and i remember the last hug and i gave her. her last words to me were,"Good luck at woodlawn sweetie." now im devastated by her loss. RIP <3

Miriam Torrado

September 7, 2011

I am honored to have been included in your lives during the last days of Susie's life. The love which weaves you together as a family is an incredible testament of Susie's love for each of you. Susie's love and strength will forever sustain you.

Leslie Fox

September 7, 2011

Al, Ron, Larry... and the entire family... Susie and I were neighbors on Avers and rode the school bus together and played in our backyards when we were little girls. I have so many great childhood memories of her and her brothers. Many years later Susie was the teacher of one of my daughters. She is my daughters favorite teacher of all time............ I have such wonderful memories of her and am so sad to learn of her passing. My condolences and love to her family.

Jennifer Schmidt

September 6, 2011

Both my children had Mrs. Barney and it was the very best experience ever. We are all heartbroken by her passing. Our condolences go out to all of her family.

Diane Dorman

September 6, 2011

What a wonderful woman, Mrs. Barney taught both of my boys, and we all adored her.We are so sorry to hear the sad news of her passing, she will be greatly missed.

Howard and Ricki Loar

September 6, 2011

Our Condolences for the loss of your loved one. We know that she will be deeply missed but her passion and memories will continue through her family and friends. May you know his blessings in this time of mourning.

The Blake Family

September 6, 2011

Susan Barney will live on in our memories for the love, kindness and respect she gave to her students each and every day. Her beautiful smile, twinkling eyes and sincere heart will be missed. Our deepest condolences to her family and friends for the loss of this loveliest of women.

Ella LaRiviere

September 6, 2011

Thoughts and prayers go out to your family. I helped Marc and Susie with their bathroom remodel and she was such an incredible woman, mom and grandma. Heartfelt sympathy to you all.

Jill Teich

September 6, 2011

My heart is broken hearing this news. She taught 2 of my daughters and we loved her. She was one of the most kind and caring teachers we have experienced. She brightened this world and will be missed. Our deepest condolences.

Deb Pentek

September 6, 2011

We are so sorry to hear the news about Susie. She was my daughter's 2nd grade teacher and made such a wonderful impression on her and us. She was kind and wise and was a great teacher. Our family sends you our deepest condolences. She will be missed.

Michelle Weiss

September 5, 2011

My condolences to the Slavin and Barney families. I was friends with Susie at ETHS and will always remember the good times.
Michelle Klass Weiss

Bruce Rayman

September 5, 2011

Marc -- My deepest condolences on your loss.

Bruce Rayman

September 4, 2011

Susie and I taught and car pooled together for years. During those many hours I learned to appreciate her sincerity, wisdom, and kindness. She was a special friend. Rose Wolf, HP, IL

Beverly Nelson

September 4, 2011

Susie's kindness and caring spirit were a gift to all of us who knew her. Praying that God's loving presence will surround you with peace and comfort at this very difficult time.

Michael J. Berger

September 4, 2011

I read about Susie in the paper this morning and was very sad. Susie and I were dear friends in our childhood. She was a very special person and I have a heavy heart writing this. My condolences to Marc and the family.

wendy and jeff roth

September 4, 2011

our sweet susie... you will be most fondly remembered and bitterly missed by your honeymoon friends. it seemed like yesterday we met on our way to mexico. As a couple you and mark were on a perpetual honeymoon of life. we are thinking of the barneys and share in the loss of a beautiful friend who had the most love in her spirit.

Dianne Lockridge

September 4, 2011

Though saddened by this loss for family and friends, I am heartened by fond memories of Susie as she worked with members of her school community. The respect she gave to others was reciprocated by those to her. Students, parents, and staff will remember this lady of grace.

Susie Brontman

September 4, 2011

Dear Marc, Pam, and Erica,
My heart is filled with tremendous sadness on Susie's passing. Going back nearly 42 years when she welcomed me as a "little sister" and since that time as friend and colleague I have cherished our times together. She was a warm-hearted, caring woman who also possessed charm and class, wit and wonder, and made the world a better place for all who were by her. She will be deeply missed.
My sincere condolences to you and your families.

Iris Shapiro

September 4, 2011

It was my pleasure and honor to have known Susie. She was a wonderful person and teacher. We had many good times working together at Kildeer School. She truly will be missed.

September 4, 2011

Extending our heartfelt condolences to all on the loss of a wonderful woman. Susie will be greatly missed. May the God of all comfort give you the strength to cope during this difficult time. (2 Cor. 1:3,4)

Jessica Liefer

September 3, 2011

To the Barney/Slavin/Greenfield Families:
I am so sorry for your loss. What an amazing woman Susie was, and her memory will forever live on.

Sherry and Jay Smith

September 3, 2011

Our daughter Jessica was lucky to have Susie as a teacher for two years in a row when Susie and Judy Hartstein co-taught at Prairie. Susie was a wonderful teacher and person. May her memory be a blessing to her family and friends

September 3, 2011

Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you at this sad time.Susie was a wonderful teacher and my kids loved her.
She will be missed.
Sindy and Marty MARKS

Judy and Mark Gerstein

September 3, 2011

Our hearts go out to all of you at this sad time. We will always remember Susie's warmth, welcoming spirit and the fun we had performing in the SDT skits together.

September 3, 2011

I worked with Susie for many years, and it was always a pleasure to be with her. Susie was a wonderful teacher who had such a positive attitude towards everything and everyone. She was a very brave woman. I will miss her. Warmly, Alice Gershon

September 3, 2011

The kids who were lucky enough to have Mrs. Barney as their teacher carry with them her wisdom, passion and humor. They are the lucky ones.

She will be sorely missed,

The Cowens (Jay, Lauren and especially Avery and Eric.)

September 3, 2011

Our deepest condolences to all of you! May her memory live on in your hearts. Fondly, The McAskill/Handmaker family

September 3, 2011

susie smile was always welcoming and warming ...
susie was a fighter through and through ...
we are saddened ...
... her spirit and love of family are in our thoughts.

janet and ed wollock

Judy and Howie Miller

September 3, 2011

Dear Marc,Pamela and Erica,
Friends are like balloons, you need to tie them to your heart or they will forever float away, Susie had always been tied to our heart and we followed her brave fight, we prayed for all of you. As we fight the fight for a cure,we will always think of you. We are grateful for all of the memories you provided during good times. Our hearts go out to you and we pray that you can find some peace.

Adrienne Sohn-Helfand

September 3, 2011

I was so saddend to hear about Susie. She was a link to my past... an ETHS girl. I will ALWAYS remember her beautiful smile.

Jasmine

September 3, 2011

Sorry for the loss of Susan. She was a loving person and will be missed. May the God of Abraham bring forth those promised blessings, and free us from these diffucult times. Again deepest sympathy.

MICKEY ARIELI

September 3, 2011

TO OUR LOVING FAMILY-LITERALLY THE SLAVINS ARE AN INTEGRAL PART OF OUR FAMILY WE ARE SO SADDENED BY YOUR LOSS AND OURS OF SUSIE
SHE WAS OUR SYMBOL OF COURAGE AND THE WILL TO LIVE
SHE HAS BEEN IN THE PRAYERS OF MY CHILDREN AND MYSELF IN JERUSALEM HER NAME HAD ECHOED OFF THE WESTERN WALL AND THE FACT THAT SHE DEFIED ALL THE ODDS MUST SAY SOMETHING
BE STRENGTHENED BY HER MEMORY AND LEGACY
LOVE YOU ALL
THE ARIELI FAMILY IN JERUSALEM
MICKEY MELODY GILAD MIRIAM HALELLI SHIRA TAMARI ELAI RANANNA ASAFI RACHELI EITANI DAVID SHLOMO YAELI AND ARIEL

Sara Olshansky

September 2, 2011

Susie was my daughter Jessie's pre-school teacher at the JCC about 24 years ago and she was the sweetest and always remembered us when we would see her. Our heartfelt condolences to the Barney Family.

Lee & Robin Eisenberg

September 2, 2011

Al, Phyllis, Ron, Caryl and your entire family:
We are so sorry for your loss. The Slavins have always been like family to us and you are in our hearts always. You have always been there for us and we hope our prayers will help comfort you at this difficult time.

Cheri Silver

September 2, 2011

Ron and Caryl, very sorry to hear of Susie's passing- I remember her from when she used to come to your cousin, Janet's birthday parties. She was too young to die. It is very hard to lose a sibling. Too many shared memories make it like losing a piece of yourself.

Stephanie Novak

September 2, 2011

To the Barney/Slavin family -
My deepest condolences for your loss. Teaching 2nd grade with Susie at Prairie will forever be a favorite memory.

September 2, 2011

please accept our deepest condolences to all of you at this most difficult time. there are no words. she will be missed.
larry and linda goland

Jill Kovin Braverman

September 2, 2011

Please accept my sincere condolences.
I will always remember Susie with fond memories of us dancing and singing "Bye Bye Birdie" as teenagers.. .and I will always picture her smiling.

Steve, Leslie and Brendon Blue

September 2, 2011

I am so sad to hear about my cousin Susie. I wish I could be there with you all. She was a sweet lady with a contageous happy smile. We love you all and I will always have great memories growing up with her and the Slavin family.

September 2, 2011

My deepest condolences to the Barney and Slavin Families.
SusIe will be remembered for the beautiful, warm and loving person she was to all who knew her.
My love and thoughts are with all of you as you go through this sad and lonely time.

Tiina Blue, Myrtle Beach, SC

Bonnie Stein & Family

September 2, 2011

To all,
Susie will be remembered as a kind, warm, wonderful women and fabulous Mom. We hope your wonderful memories will help you through this difficult time.

Tracey Zimmerman Ratner

September 2, 2011

Dear Barney and Slavin Families,
I will always remember "Mrs. Barney" as a wonderful, smiling, happy, sweet person. My deepest condolences to all of you on your loss. I am keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers.

joyce ratner

September 2, 2011

To Susie's family, my deepest condolences. I will always remember with fondness how she loved singing the song "Sisters" when we were all growing up together in Skokie. She always had the sweetest smile, that emanated from her sweet soul. Love, your cousin, Joyce Ratner

Gary & Karen Kipnis

September 2, 2011

Al, Marc, Pam, Erica, Ron, Larry and our entire Family,
Our heartfelt condolences to all of you in our loss of Susie. We are all so so sad, and will forever miss her strong, warm, caring, nurturing and smiling presence in our lives. She truly fought courageously. Sorry we are unable to be there with you at this most difficult time.
Love to all,
Gary, Karen, Joshua & Amanda, Jonathan, Zachary, and Emily Kipnis

Iris Baer

September 2, 2011

We've lost a wonderful person today. Much too young. My sincere condolences to you and your family

Arlene and Sandy Moses

September 2, 2011

Susie was a wonderful friend and teacher. She will be missed by so many.

Lee and jill Burstein

September 2, 2011

Please accept our sincere condolences on Susie's passing. We cannot Imagine the grief you must feel.

Howard Bresnik

September 2, 2011

Yet, again...
"There are no words..."
To the Barney family and friends,
From Howard Bresnik, in sympathy and support-
and from Eve Bresnik, in spirit.

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