Grilli, Shirley beloved wife of the late John D. Grilli, dear mother of Jay Grilli and Debbie (Joe) Reif, devoted grandmother of Kristen and Brian Reif. Graveside service Monday, 10:30 a.m., at Westlawn Cemetery (Sec. Westlake), 7801 W. Montrose, Norridge, IL. Shirley dedicated her life to her family. We will miss her advice, cooking, direction and guidance. In lieu of flowers, remembrances to the charity of your choice would be appreciated. Info: Lloyd Mandel Levayah Funerals 847-679-3939 or 1-888-LEVAYAH. www.levayah.com.
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Robin Rosenberg
June 15, 2009
Jay,
My heartfelt condolences on the passing of your Mom. Your parents and mine were quite close when we were young children. We lived only one block away.
Robin Rosenberg
Chuck Hoffman
June 15, 2009
Jay and Debbie,
So sorry about your Mom. Although I have not seen her in a long time, I remember when we were children she was always so cheerful and caring, that is how I will always remember her.
Chuck Hoffman
Jackie Levine
June 15, 2009
Debbie, Jay, Joe, Kristin and Brian,
I am so sorry for your loss. Debbie -Remembering your mom from when we were kids to the reunion meetings at your house!! She will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
Lauren Shanahan
June 14, 2009
Debbie, Jay and Joe,
So many memories of your mom-- from buttoning up my coat as a little kid to chats with her as we grew up and had families of our own. She was truly one of a kind.
Always --lolly
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Stuart Wisel
June 14, 2009
Debbie and Jay,
Very sorry to hear about your mothers passing.
Stuart,Sally,Sameul,Eric and Joshua Wisel
Youngest son of Leon
Sharon Frazin
June 13, 2009
Dear Debbie, Jay and Joe'
I was deeply saddened to read about mom. I have only good memories of her. Please extend my condolenscences to the family.
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