Scott Lewis Obituary

Dear Pam

I was so very sorry to learn of the loss of your son. My DEEPEST sympathy to you, your husband and your 3 lovely daughters. I feel like I know all of you, even your Mom & Dad.

I will pray for God to give you all the strength for what He puts us through and what HE pulls us through. And HE will.

Love and prayers

Corinne Gawlik

Pam and Roger,

In planning the memorial service, I had the pleasure of immersing myself in old pictures and movies. Your house, the house you ‘built’, the children you loved, the moments you created for your family unit are precious. Your home was happy, full of life, and overflowing with love. Scott was given the love and room to grow and flourish, to try just about any new thing he could, and to be proud of himself --and all that he accomplished at such a young age. You are the quintessential perfect parents; and I mean that with all my heart and soul. We have always tried to model our parenting after you both….happiness, caring, holding high expectations, and most of all loving our children. Scott was born in love and he died in love….I am so proud of the road you traveled with Scott and honored to have been such a big part of that journey—thank you for that.

Lindsey, Ashley, and Michelle,

Oh my girls…my ‘guurles’….your big brother, he loved you so much. Lindsey, the constant poking back and forth all came from love—he wanted to be near you, all the time…he loved having you in his life…you were his connection to the outside world so many times and I thank you for that. You are the perfect sister, and in many ways, the perfect soul---bursting with light, happiness, and love. I’m proud to be your aunt and I love you so much. Ashley, you ‘jinky’ little Ash, your big brother loved you so much---you could see the pride in his face even when he was young when talking about your successes…he wanted to protect you from the world—and he would orbit around you and your sisters, in awe I think, of the life you lead. I love you. My Michelle…when you were born Scott was determined to make sure you were his…he was So protective over you, more than the other two (sorry girls)….you were his favorite back then. He would carry you around and entertain you just like he did for my girls. You were so special to him and he loved you so much. Stay strong and know that I love you with all my heart.

Our little Page Family unit will never be the same without our Scott…we are all struggling with how to move on each day, but if we can learn from Scott, we will live the best life we can and fight the hard battles as he did each day. Don’t worry Scott, we know you did not comprehend the hole you left behind, and we will live as happy as we can in your honor. I love you my most precious Scott.

My thoughts and prayers are with both the Page and Lewis families, especially my dear Pam. Thank you so much for sharing this website. It's obvious that Scott was dearly loved. He was one cool kid. With Much Love, Chris (Fogarty) Lannum

Rest In Peace.

Scott - I go to bed every night and wake up every morning wishing you were still here with us. I am sorry that I wasn't there when you made those last few calls. I want to pick up the phone and call you.....I want to have another conversation with you but know that won't happen until our life forces meet again someday in a better place. I hope you're at peace now inside and the pain is all gone. I will look to the skies and think of you each and every day for the rest of my entire life. You were the greatest little brother and best friend that I could have ever had....thanks for being so great to me and everybody else for your whole life! We will miss you now and forever!!!!!
Love,
Uncle Nick

I remember the many special times that Katie and I babysat Scott, and Lindsey, Ashley, and Michelle. Sometimes we would babysit for a night, sometimes a week. One special memory I have is when Scott was 8 or 9, and I was getting all of the kids off to school and daycare in the morning, I had it in the back of my mind that I wanted to spend the day with him because we had been having such a great time. So, I moved a little slowly in making sure Scott got out the door to his bus on time and so he missed it…then, he said “Uncle Dave, I can catch the bus at the next stop a few doors down”, I said “no, it’s too late…what are we gonna do together today?” And we spent the whole day together…he was that much fun to be with…it was a terrific day.

Scott was more than just my nephew, in some ways he was like a son to me and also a friend…we had a lot of common interests…everything from cartoons (including even drawing them, he could draw a terrific Snoopy, better than me…he was a very gifted artist), to playing Nintendo (which he coached me on many times), to enjoying BBQ pizza (which I taught him how to make at home…and he was damn good at it). He also loved Vegas, just like me, as we saw on his 1st trip there for Nick’s bachelor party…a memory I will always treasure. He loved the annual Dells trip, and the times we shared there, like the go-karts from last weekend, and he especially loved the campfires…he made us a terrific one last week…he boasted that it was far superior to my teepee method…and I must agree. There were so many things we loved together and so many good times we shared…times that I will forever hold dear to my heart.

I hope that Scott is blissfully happy now and at peace wherever he is. Life dealt him an unfair hand with his illness, so I hope that now he can finally be free to be his true self, and find joy and serenity for all time, because he deserves it.

Scott has been an important part of my life since the day he was born, and I am lucky to have had him in so much of my life, and I am sad for all of the times I would’ve had with him, that now will never be. He brought me, Katie, and Amanda and Emily so very much love, and laughter, and happiness…I love Scott more than I can ever say and he will be missed more than words can ever express.

Scott - you are in the magic of life now - all your pain of the physical
life is beyond you now, and all of your strengths need to be you're only concern. You are where you can say hello to GOD, and that is a beautiful place. Scott I am sure we will meet again, and until then I pray you a great spiritual existence. - Mike

A song from Scott to all of Us....."Keep Him in Your Heart for Awhile!"

Shadows are falling and I'm running out of breath
Keep me in your heart for awhile
If I leave you it doesn't mean I love you any less
...Keep me in your heart for awhile
When you get up in the morning and you see that crazy sun
Keep me in your heart for awhile
There's a train leaving nightly called when all is said and done
Keep me in your heart for awhile
Sha-la-la-la-la-la-la-li-li-lo
Keep me in your heart for awhile
Sha-la-la-la-la-la-la-li-li-lo
Keep me in your heart for awhile
Sometimes when you're doing simple things around the house
Maybe you'll think of me and smile
You know I'm tied to you like the buttons on your blouse
Keep me in your heart for awhile
Hold me in your thoughts,
Take me to your dreams,
Touch me as I fall into view
When the winter comes, keep the fires lit
And I will be right next to you
Engine driver's headed north to Pleasant Stream
Keep me in your heart for awhile
These wheels keep turning, but they're running out of steam
Keep me in your heart for awhile
Sha-la-la-la-la-la-la-li-li-lo
Keep me in your heart for awhile
Sha-la-la-la-la-la-la-li-li-lo
Keep me in your heart for awhile
Keep me in your heart for awhile

We will miss you now and forever Scott!!!!!

"Grandpa's Thoughts About Scott"
(by Grandpa—Ron Page)

I truly loved being with him,

From a smiling little baby,

To a happy playful little boy,

who loved playing Nintendo, and board games, and most sports.

I loved watching him progress from a little boy,

though his teens, and then adulthood.

He always treated Grandma and I with all the love and passion a boy could show.

And then as a young adult, he showed an interest in plumbing, mechanical work, cars, etc.

He was great with his hands, and had amazing skills.

I loved having him as my apprentice:
He was anxious to help, and to learn.

I'll miss him every day of my life.

Love forever,

Grandpa

I am truly sorry for your loss. Scott had a tremendous way of making people feel at ease. He will live on in my memories as a kind and gentle soul. Look to all of the pictures he was in, and that smile will shine on. He was my friend.

You are all in my toughts and prayers. Keep sharing your memories anytime and all the time so that he may live on in your hearts forever. My deepest sympathy and respect-Kim McCloskey

"Poem for Scott"
(By Aunt Barb)

Scott, if you could see me now
I’m sure that you would see
The laughs and tears that we all share
As we recall all the fond memories

Scott, if you could hear me now
I’m sure that you would hear
Talks of Yogi Bear and Christmas past
And everything we all hold so dear.

Scott, if I could touch you now
I know what I would do
I would cherish that hug I always got
And tell you how much I loved you.

Scott, if I had one last chance
To say one final goodbye
I would let you know how proud you made us
Cause our memories will never die.

Scott, I have always felt honored to be your Godmother
From the day you were born with that little Buddha belly
Till the day God decided to take you home. And even
Though it wasn’t long enough, I will cherish the memories
And miss you dearly.

Scott, you will live in our hearts forever.

"Reflections on Scott"
(By Grandma—Rose Page)

Scott was the first one to call me “Grandma”

But he was just like a son to me

He always listened to me

When I had my stroke, he told me, “Don’t cry, Grandma. You can talk”

He helped me practice my sentences and speech, and came over and listened to me

He understood everything I said

He could understand me, and I loved that about him

He was very close to me

He loved his Grandma & Grandpa, and he was like a younger brother to Nick

He loved going to concerts, and coming over & visiting, and spending time with Nick

He loved his cousins, and everybody loved Scott

My heart hurts: I cannot believe he is gone, I keep hoping maybe it’s not true

He was smart, he knew everything about the computer

I was glad to have him around me, and he like to spend time here:

He slept in Nicky’s bed when he was little, and stayed here many times over the years, he even lived with us for a while in high school and started going to Hersey before the family moved to Prospect Heights, around the corner; I miss that

I love you, Scott: you are always in my thoughts and in my heart

He would have been 25 this month, it’s not right that he’s gone

I know that he would tell me: “Don’t cry, Grandma. Don’t be sad. It’s okay”

I remember when he was small to when he was grown, and all along the way

I enjoyed every moment we had with him, and I only wish we had more

He is in my thoughts and prayers, along with Pam, Roger, Lindsey, Ashley & Michelle

Pam, Roger, Lindsey, Ashley, and Michelle~ There are no words....no words to describe the hole in my heart, the silence in the room, the missing light....the longing for the door to open and all the sorrow go away....to wake up from this nightmare....
We'll get through this together and live the way Scott would want, happy...healthy...full of love.
I love you all so much and want the power to take your pain away and put the pieces back together again...
Katie

Roger,Pam and family,
Our sincere sympathy on the loss of Scott. Our grandkids had a wonderful time with him at the 4th of July picnic at Harp and Mona's. Remember the "good" times you had with him.
Larry and Becky Oleson
Arkdale, WI

Dear Pam,Roger and girls, we heard of your loss from our dear friends Bob and Linda Cramer. We are so sorry for your loss of your son Scott. We too have experienced the loss of a nephew. Words cannot express how sorry we are but want you to know that we will keep your in our prayers. God bless you

Dear Pam and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. We found out too late to attend the wake. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Gary and Barbara Edelstein
Samantha and Zachary

You do not know me, but I know the pain of losing your own child. I too buried my 24-year old son. My prayers are with you, may God give you strength and may your son rest easy with Him in heaven

Ron, Rose and family. We are so sorry to hear about Scott. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family during this difficult time.

rReading about his life has touched me. We deal with similar struggles, We are visiting family in area. We are living in Phoenix.May you seek the Lord and He give you peace at this time, C&S Collins

To the Lewis family.....what a beautiful angel heaven has acquired, he will be there for you whenever you need him.
Scott will be missed here on earth every single day....Sherry & Rick Stark (Schaumburg)

Dear Pam, Roger, Lindsey, Michelle and Ashley, May knowing others grieve with you bring you some comfort. May God hold you in his arms and bring you peace. I'm sure Scott has that peace now.
Love,
Terrie

Ron and family, we are deeply saddened by the loss of your grandchild. Please accept our condolances. The Hall Family, Ron, Audree, Cory and Jake

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Pam and family, I am so sorry to hear about your boy, Scott. He is your angel now, you know by name. My sincerest prayers go to you and him....your cousin Vonnie & family

Roger, Pam and family: We're deeply saddened for your loss. Our prayers are with you all at this difficult time. We love you!

Thoughts and prayers for the entire Page family... May God give you all strength to hold on to eachother and keep pushing forward. Its been a difficult journey for you all and we pray for your family to receive the healing and love you need.

May Scotty rest in peace. A beautiful, skilled, generous to all kid.
- Jim, Judy, Bethany, and James Snyder -

Pam, Roger, Lindsey, Ashley, and Michelle: We are so sorry. You are in our thoughts and our prayers. Love, Priscilla and Brian

I was so sorry to hear of Scott's death.I knew him just a short time but he impressed me with his friendliness, politeness and sensitivity. He was such fun to visit with. May God keep you in the difficult days ahead. This, too, shall pass.

Roger, Pam, Lindsey, Ashley and Michelle,
You know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry about all of us losing Scott. We are here for you - just let us know if we can help out in any way.
Lots of Love,

Pam and Roger, my deepest sympathies. May your son rest in peace.
Warmly, Marge from Heritage Tennis Club

Pam ,Roger, Lindsey, Ashley and Michelle ,Mike and I are so very sorry for you're loss, we love you and we will always be there for you ,
Mike and Loes.

Scott you will always be in my heart and thoughts. growing up with you and your family was the bomb. So many memories that will never be forgotten.Pam,Roger,Michelle,Ashley and Linsday your in my thoughts
-Sophia

Pam and family

My heart goes out to all of you at this time. His Memories will always be yours to treasure. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Judy Mackey

my dearest cousin, I will never say good-bye because I will never forget.. I love you scotty, more than words could ever say, XO. Keep me in your heart, I will think of you everyday,

WE miss you so much Scott...RIP
Aunt Katie and Uncle Dave, Amanda and Emily