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Ryan Coder Obituary

Coder, Ryan Scott dearly beloved son of Ralph and Leslie (nee Vinge), dearest nephew of Roger (Jenny) Vinge and Marion Coder, loving cousin of Matthew and Erik Vinge, dear godfather of Anthony VonderHeide, loving friend and brother of Sigma Nu Fraternity, Chapel service Wednesday, 11 a.m., at Cumberland Chapels, 8300 W. Lawrence Ave., Norridge. Interment private. In lieu of flowers, donations to Ryan Coder Scholarship Fund, c/o Chris Cranstoun, 655 Navajo St., Round Lake Heights, IL 60073, would be appreciated. Visitation Tuesday, 3 to 9 p.m. 708-456-8300 or www.cumberlandchapels.com

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Nov. 27 to Nov. 28, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Ryan Coder

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Chris Puglise

November 30, 2005

To Ryan's family, I am so sorry for your loss. Ryan was a great guy, I am honored to say he was my friend. I will miss his smile and sense of humor. He is in God's hands now and I pray God will watch over you and guide you thru this time.



Bon Voyage Ryan! Missing you already.



Chris

Jennifer Cranstoun

November 30, 2005

Mr. and Mrs. Coder-

Your son meant so much to my family. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Love,

Jenny Cranstoun

Janet Gende

November 30, 2005

Mr and Mrs Coder,



My prayers and thoughts are with you. I worked with Ryan and he

a joy to be around, his humor and

wit was amazing. He will be missed

by all of us.

God Bless You

Mary Michaud

November 29, 2005

Mr & Mrs Coder,

Ryan was truly a unique individual with many talents and his own sense of humor. He helped me see my true potential and for that I will never for get him. I am happy to have had him for a boss. He will be deeply missed. God Bless you and yours, I will miss you Ryan!

The Rowan Family

November 29, 2005

Ryan~

We will miss all the laughs you gave us and all the times we shared together. You will always be in our hearts and memorys. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

Ray Mikus

November 29, 2005

I think I speak for all of us that have had the pleasure of knowing Ryan since high-school; Drew, Monto, Sri, James, Dale, Devesh, Raj, Annon, Anna… We’re still in disbelief and feel the utmost sympathy for your family, relatives, and friends. Our prayers and thoughts go out to you. Ryan was truly a great friend to all of us and we will certainly cherish the memories and the impact he has left on all of our lives. He has been a brother to all of us and has put a smile on all of our faces countless times. He will truly be missed by all of us…

Marty and Missy Svihra

November 29, 2005

Ralph and Leslie,

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family during this very difficult time. Although we only new Ryan for a short time, we are glad that we got to meet such a funny and free spirited man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jason Lemere

November 29, 2005

To Ryan's family and friends:



I am truly sorry for your loss. I will never forget what Ryan meant to me as a co-worker and friend. I had known Ryan for 5 years but the last 2 years he became my boss and our friendship grew with being such a funny, kindhearted friend, and just all around great guy. My church and family our praying for you in your time of loss. He will truly be missed.



Jason LeMere

Brenda Zeid

November 29, 2005

You will be missed! I thank you for all of the good times and cherished memories.

Lisa Borge

November 29, 2005

To Ryan's Family,



I am so deeply sorry for your loss.

I will never forget him or the impact he made on me. Ryan was a man of excellent character and had great sense of humor. I will miss you Ryan.



God Bless,

Lisa Borge

Heather Corwin

November 29, 2005

Coder and I met on a cruise with a bunch of great friends; I was invited because I knew one of the friends. Coder was always ready to laugh, make people laugh and enjoy his life. I am glad to have had the chance to know Coder. My deepest condolences to his family and friends as we remember and miss him.

Tara Freas

November 29, 2005

I've had the pleasure of having Ryan in my life; he truly was a man ahead of his time! I've missed him across the miles and will cherish the memories.

Sue Toenies

November 28, 2005

Dear Leslie & Ralph:

The hardest thing a parent will ever endure is what you're going through right now. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this most difficult time. With deepest sympathy.

Brian Huntington

November 28, 2005

My thoughts are with everyone who had the pleasure of knowing Ryan. You will be missed, but not forgotten.

Kimberly Nix

November 28, 2005

Aunt Leslie and Uncle Ralph,



I am thinking of you guys everyday. Stay strong.



Love,

Kim

Melissa Orzol

November 28, 2005

To the Family and many friends my deepest sympathies go out to you. Ryan was a special person who will be missed but not forgotten. I will always remember Ryan as a kind hearted boss and a helper.

Larry Maher

November 28, 2005

I only spoke with Ryan a few times, but it was always a pleasure. He was always caring which reflects on how he was brought up and loved. My heart goes out to everyone he touched.

Jim Cooper

November 28, 2005

Mr & Mrs. Coder,

I am an acquaintance of Ryan's by way of Matt Lomabardi and Chris Cranston. I am deeply sorry for your loss and want you to know you are in my prayers.

Joyce Franklin

November 28, 2005

Ryan was a great boss! He always went out of his way to make my life easier at work. He was always fair and had a great sense of humor. He will definitely me missed!

David Souza

November 28, 2005

Ryan -



You have always been my strength, my mentor, my sensei. You will always be my brother and I will miss you very dearly. I love you and I will never forget you.



~David

Wendy Babel

November 28, 2005

Your beautiful memories will give us strength. You will be missed.

Michael Alving

November 28, 2005

To The Coder Family,



I would like to let you know that Ryan will be missed. Ryan has touched the lives of so many people and created bonds that will assure his memory will live on.

As a graduate of Eastern Illinois University and a brother of Sigma Nu Fraternity we shared a similar path. I knew Ryan as a very intelligent and unique individual that was respected by those of us who were fortunate enough to know him.

Shannon Aykroid

November 28, 2005

To Ryan's family

May God heal you all in your time of sorrow. My heart goes out to you!

Ryan, - I know you be looking down on me saying..another cigarette break??!! I'll miss "your" sense of humor! God Bless you and keep you.

Stephanie Banks

November 28, 2005

To the family and friends you are in my thoughts and pray's, you have my deepest sympathy.

anna bobba

November 27, 2005

Mr and Mrs Coder,



Ryan was like a brother to me and the boys ( Sri, Manto, James, Ray, Druva, Dale). He always had ability to make me laugh. He was loved and will be missed. Our deepest sympathies from the Bobba family.

Jim Maher

November 27, 2005

I'll always remember that Ryan was uncommonly kind, bright and happy. It was a pleasure to have spent time with him, and a privilege to have known him. Rest in peace, my friend.

Anthony VonderHeide

November 27, 2005

Dear Uncle Ryan,

I miss you. I love you. I am sorry that you are gone. I wish you were here.

Love you very much,

Anthony



P.S. Do you know where the party is at? :>

Paula VonderHeide

November 27, 2005

Aunt Leslie and Uncle Ralph,

We still can't believe that this has happened. Ryan has always been like a brother to us and will always have a special place in our hearts. We will always cherish the wonderful memories that we have of "Fry Guy".

Love,

Keith, Paula, Anthony and Natalie VonderHeide

Patti Vonder Heide

November 27, 2005

Thinking of you with the deepest of sympathy.

Cristina and Jeff Gonzalez

November 27, 2005

Aunt Leslie & Uncle Ralph,

Words can not express how much we our sorry. We love Ryan so much. He will be missed but never forgotten.

Ryan, thanks for being a big brother to me always. I love you and miss you. You will always be in my heart.

Love always,

Cristina, Jeff, & Isabella

Lisa Bernardi

November 27, 2005

Wish you were here! We love you very much!

The Staff of Cumberland Chapels

November 27, 2005

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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