Friend, Robert Nathan age 76, passed away approximately 7 p.m., Monday, May 8, 2006, after a courageous struggle with cancer diagnosed this past December 2005. He passed peacefully at home with his immediate family and wonderful hospice aides at his bedside. Robert is survived by his family, including his brother Paul Friend; his daughter Karen Friend, her husband Jacob Vinton, and her stepsons Nicholus (age 13) and Adam (age 11); and his son, Alan Friend, Alan's spouse, Anne DeLurgio, Alan's daughters, Alyssa and Shelley Friend (ages 9 and 5), and Anne's daughter Alison (age 14). A simple ceremony is planned graveside at Isaiah Israel Cemetery (6600 West Addison Street, Chicago) at 3 p.m. on Monday, May 15, followed by a reception at 1300 North Lake Shore Drive, Chicago. If you wish to send any gifts, please make a donation in memory of Robert N. Friend to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society (www.nmss.org). Bob was a vibrant man with a delightful sense of humor who loved his family and friends, and he will be greatly missed. We thank all of you for your love and support.To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Elissa Cooper
May 17, 2006
Dear Karen and Alan,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. What a great guy. My thoughts are with you.
With love, your cousin Elissa
Flora (Neugroschl) & Jerry Loeb
May 16, 2006
We have just learned of Bob's death and extend our deepest sympathies to the entire family. We grew up with Bob & Paul in Hyde Park and knew his parents as well. We met with him several years ago for the planning of the Bret Harte Grammar School reunion, and had delightful visits with him then and at the reunion activities. He was always a gentleman and a gentle man with a wry sense of humor. Again, our heartfelt condolences to you all.
LARRY GUTHMANN
May 16, 2006
DEAR KAREN & ALAN, I HAVE KNOWN YOUR FATHER SINCE 1935. MY FATHER & MOTHER WERE FRIENDS YOUR GRANDPARENTS. I ALL ALWAYS TO BE A MARVELOUS PERSONS WITH A GREAT SENSE OF HUMORS. PLEASE YOUR UNCLE PAUL MY BEST.
LARRY GUTHMANN
Mark Goldsmith
May 15, 2006
Dear Alan and Karen,
Your father, and his honesty, loyalty, and decency, will be missed. My family sends our heartfelt condolences on your loss.
Roz Pearlman
May 15, 2006
Dear Alan and Karen:
We are so sorry for your loss. Arnie and I loved and admired your Dad so greatly, he was one in a million. Our love to you both, please keep in touch. Roz and Arnie
Stewart Clarke
May 15, 2006
Dear Karen,
I opened the paper today and saw your dad's picture. My sincerest sympathy to you and your family. Though I only met him once (20 years ago in your apt on Dearborn), he was exceedingly gracious and it was clear that he cared deeply for his daughter.
Sherwin ,Sandy,Matthew, Lynda and Jon Ernst
May 15, 2006
Dear Alan and Karen,
Our memories of your Dad are many, warm and happy.
With sympathy and empathy,
The Ernst family
Avrum Goodie
May 15, 2006
My condolences to the entire Friend Family.
Alan and Karen Friend
May 12, 2006
I just wanted you all to know how touched we are to see all these nice things written about our Dad. We of course already knew he was the greatest, but it's still nice to read about it.
Dick Peterson
May 12, 2006
Dear Alan & Karen,
The loss of your father certainly will be remembered by all of his friends. He was a very close friend of mine and we talked over the phone most every week. I met him thru my wife Lovie who was a classmate of his at Grinnell College and of course continued our friendship in Scottsdale/Phoenix with annual mini-reunions. I am certainly glad that several of us had a luncheon visit with him in Scottsdale this past February. He will be missed by all who knew him.
diane cantor fishbein
May 12, 2006
Dear Alan and Karen, through my cousin Lee's marraige to Bob I and my family found, in Bob a person we loved and admired. Diane Cantor Fishbein
Marty Gerendasy
May 11, 2006
Alan--
I remember your Dad Bob very well and very fondly from the many enjoyable interactions we had during my many years in retail sales at the RadioShack store at Clark and Adams. He always had a twinkle in his eye, a smile on his lips and lots of friendly banter to offer. To put it simply, he was a nice man. And through him, I had the pleasure of meeting you.
Sincerely,
Marty Gerendasy
Trish Blicker
May 11, 2006
karen, my deepest thoughts are with you at this most diffucilt time. Our fathers have always (all ways) and will always live within us. My sincere sympathy to your family.
Charlene Karns
May 11, 2006
Dear Karen and Alan, I'm so sorry to read about the death of your father. He was such a good friend for so many years and I have good memories of our special times together.May your happy memories of him help get you through this difficult time.
Edouard + Nelly Minassian
May 11, 2006
So long FRIEND
We'll miss you.
Virginia Pope
May 11, 2006
Alan,
I was very sorry to read about your father's passing. You have my heartfelt sympathy.
Sandy Smith Levine
May 11, 2006
My condolences to Paul and the family. Memories of Bob are many and cherished.
Lorraine(Lori) Friend
May 11, 2006
At this difficult time please know that my thoughts of comfort and care are with Bob's family Karen,Alan and Paul. He was a delightful and caring man.He will truly be missed.
Marvin & Phyllis Eisenberg
May 11, 2006
We will sorely miss our outings with bob at all his restaurant "picks"..and his great and quirky sense of humor.
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