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Malcolm, Richard G. "Dick" age 61, of Wilmette, beloved husband of Shelly, loving father of Jeanne, Rick and Anne Malcolm, dear grandfather of Joey and Abby, brother of Marilyn Jass, uncle of Carol, Brad and Karen, son of the late Richard and Josephine Malcolm. Visitation Tuesday, 3 to 9 p.m. Funeral service Wednesday, 1 p.m., at Donnellan Family Funeral Home, 10045 Skokie Blvd., at Old Orchard Rd., Skokie. Memorials may be made to the American Cancer Society, 820 Davis St., Suite 340, Evanston, IL., 60201 or the American Heart Assoc., Dept. 77-3968, Chicago, IL., 60678-3968. Funeral information, 847-675-1990. Visit Guest Book at www.suntimes.com

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Aug. 19 to Aug. 20, 2002.

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Sandy (Kanter) Peller

September 17, 2002

Dear Shelly and Family,

We read about the passing of Dick and want to extend our deepest sympathy to all of you. It has been so many years since we've seen each other, but when we read the story we wanted you to know that we were thinking of you.

Sandy and Shelley Peller

Fran Wersells

August 27, 2002

To the Malcolm Family:



On behalf of the Regional Office of the United States Administration on Aging, I extend to you my deepest sympathy on the untimely loss of Dick. He was a strong supporter of the aging network and he will be missed terribly. I will always remember his kindness to me at all of the charity brunches I have attended over the years which support aging programs in Illinois.



Sincerely,



Fran Wersells

Region V, Chicago

Tedd Patel

August 26, 2002

To the entire Malcolm family,



my deepest prayers and feelings are with all of you. I had the pleasure of working for Dick and getting to know him in the early 1990's. While I have not stayed in touch in recent years, I always spoke very proudly and fondly of him, and admired him greatly. He was one of the kindest persons I have ever met. Having just heard the unfortunate news of his passing today, I still feel somewhat stunned. I will always fondly remember Dick.



Tedd Patel

roxanne myers

August 26, 2002

I have known Richard for many of my Blue Cross years. I was deeply saddened to hear of his passing. My prayers to the family

Frank Nicholson

August 26, 2002

Shelly, I will miss Dick as a colleague but will miss him even more as a friend who was always interested in what i was doing and would go out of his way to spend time with me. he was one of my favorite people and will be sorely missed.

My wife and I extend our deepest condolences to you and your family.

Cookie and Stu Arnold

August 25, 2002

Dear Shelly and Family

Cookie and I want to express our condolences on the passing of our long time friend. Since we spoke yesterday, our conversation brought back the memories of our time together at Navy Pier and the the development of your love and devotion to Dick. The time we spent together at that point in our lives was special. As I reflect on your loss and ours, the additional loss of other friends at a young age,we are reminded that life is delicate and we must cherish each moment and memory, since it may leave us at any time.

We hope to see you before we leave for Arizona; we will call.



Cookie and Stu

Sara Tarzon

August 22, 2002

Dear Shelly, Jeannie, Rick, and my sister Anne:



The time that we were given, the time that we were allowd to know Dick was precious to us all, extended family, friends and close family. As my sister knows there is nothing BUT close when it comes to our family and we were happy to welcome the Malcolms into our family as they did ours to their family.



We were all very lucky, we were all touched as were many many people so I noticed at both the wake and the Funeral and in this guest book. I know you will probably not get a chance to read this for a long time, if ever, but I just couldnt be eloquent enough to stand in front of all of those people at the luncheon and speak about someone so wonderful that is no longer with us. But just remember he is STILL overseeing everything just like he always did, the only thing that has changed is that we cannot see him in person. He is not untouchable, but touches each of you/us every day of our lives and will continue to touch My adorable Nephew Joey and Neice Abby. Know that I am here for anything at all...

Your Sister/ Sister in law

Sara

Don Kauke

August 21, 2002

Dear Shelly and family,

I was stunned to read an e-mail this evening from a friend in Chicago telling me of Dick's passing. Dick was always bigger than life, vibrant, caring about others, witty, and deeply loving. I tell you what you already know. But, he was the first and best professional friend I have ever had. My first company call as a "young" consultant was to his company and he never let me forget it. He never wanted to have someone visit his town without taking care of them...and he took very good care! My mind is flooded with fond memories of wonderful times with you both. I am so glad that I have the memories. I hope that in time those memories give you all the peace that you deserve and that he would want for you.

Love, Don and Nancy Kauke

Martha Hernandez

August 21, 2002

I worked with Mr. Malcolm for almost three years, and he always had a cheerful thing to tell me. I will always remember him.

Our prayers are with all your family at this tome of grief.



Martha Hernandez and Family

jerry kerbis

August 21, 2002

dearest shelly,i just got an email this afternoon from lynn holtzman.my heart hurts.i tried making contact with you and dickie before i left 8 years ago to fla. and left a message a year after that to say that i was coming into town and maybe we could get the "guys"together .i never got a response.i figured he was upset with me for some reason.not wanting to be pushy,i left it alone.i'm sorry i did not try again.whatever the problem is or was,i'll always love our days we had in albany park together,and nobody will ever tell me different. those were truely the best days of our lives.so you & marilyn will always have my heart and love. reading the obit. i also found out about mrs.malcolm.again my heart hurts. goodbye and good luck.always remember,you've got a life long friend here in so. fla.just call ,i'll be there jerry

Peter F. Headley

August 21, 2002

My sympathies to you and your family in your time of bereavement.



President of AMA Insurance Agency, Inc.

Lynne Holzman

August 21, 2002

Dear Shelly & family:



I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy, and know that all my memories of our youth were very special, especially Hollywood Roller Rink.



My sincere sympathy to your entire

family.



Fondly,



Lynne Holzman

Amy Renzulli

August 21, 2002

Dear Shelly, Jeanne and Rick,



Both Bob and I were very saddened to hear that Dick was ill and passed away. He was truly a kind and caring person. The closeness and love that is shared by your family is very apparent to anyone who has shared time with you all together. Dick was always supportive and encouraging to Bob, who has epecially felt the loss of his friend. Dick's legacy will live through all of you as you pass on to your children and grandhchildren his love and unique sense of humor.



Sincerely, Amy Renzulli and Bob Miller

Sonja Leonard

August 21, 2002

May God be with you during your time of sorrow. GOD BLESS!!!!

Karen Eitel

August 21, 2002

Shelly,

As I read over all these wonderful caring messages to you regarding Dick, even though my heart breaks for you and your family, I could just picture Dick going over all of them with a red pen to correct the spelling and grammar errors.

Yes?

Such a great loss!, to you, to us and to the world in general. Life is not fair. But we knew that didn't we?

Love,

Karen

Karen Eitel

August 21, 2002

Dear Shelly and family,



I worked for Dick while he was based at the Hallmark office in Aurora until I had a brain aneurism

and then a heart attack. I just cannot comprehend the shock of your husband going so fast, and I'm still hanging around. I keep saying God just isn't ready for me.

It makes me think I should be doing something special with my life, but Lord knows Dick was doing a lot of special things with his life and God took him anyway. Where is the fair part. Shelly, I know you're a strong person and will make it through this. Not the same maybe, but you will make it. Those grandkids alone should help you thru. I just wanted to say how very much I liked your husband and it's seldom to find someone with the same whacked out sense of humor as my own (and yours). My very best wishes and prayers are offered you and I am so so sorry you're having to endure this. I'm retired now so please call anytime you'd like to talk or cry or come for dinner or go to a movie and have dinner 630 355-6012.



Love,

Karen (Eitel)

Larry and Helen Hough

August 20, 2002

The Malcolm Family,

I think it is very important to express our true sorrow for your loss. I am sure you have been told what a wonderful man Dick was by everyone. The truth is he was a very special gift that we all shared.He was more than a good man or husband or father he was an individual that most people do not have in there life...ever. I thank God that Richard came our way if only for a too short of a time. He made a difference with his love of people and being a wonderful friend. Richard is gone but I am sure he will still be there when we need help.God bless you.

Don & Betts Jackson

August 20, 2002

Shelly, Don and I are so greived at the lost of such a wonderful person as Dick. He was such a fine man and always kept us laughing. We first met you in Dick in Toronto at one of John Harrison's parties and enjoyed the evening with y ou all so much. I am so glad that Dick received the DMA Executive of the Year award. He so deserved it. We will miss him and our industry will miss him. Our hoearts, thoughts and prayers are with y ou and y our family. Betts and Don Jackson

Anna L Willis, Commissioner

August 20, 2002

To the Malcolm Family:



The Chicago Department on Aging was very sorry to hear of the passing of Richard. He was deeply committed to improving the quality of life for Senior Citizens in Chicago.



Many programs provided for seniors were made possible through Richard's generous contribution.



Our thoughts and paryers are with you and the family.



Commissioner Anna L. Willis



The Chicago Department on Aging's Employees

DELORES CROFT

August 20, 2002

I was very sorry to hear of the passing of Dick Malcolm. My prayers are with the family. The LifeTimes readers will miss him.

Warren Hunter

August 20, 2002

Dear Malcolm Family:



I was acquainted with Dick for over 15 years through our association in BCBS. He was a fine man who was very well regarded in in the industry. He will be missed by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of loss.



Warren Hunter, CEO

DMW

Wayne, PA

charlotte medor

August 20, 2002

Malcolm Family

My deepest sympathy on your passing of your loved one.Our prayers are with you and your family during this time of grief.He will truly be missed at work. I always enjoy his

speeches he gave us at work, he always had kind words and would ask how are doing today. That made us feel good, that he cared how we felt. He will be truly missed. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Martha Alvarez

August 20, 2002

Dear Malcolm family,

I wish I had the eloquence to express my heartfelt sympathy. I can only say that Mr. Malcolm will truly be missed and that I will keep him and your family in my prayers. May God's love comfort you and give you strength at this most difficult time.

Kristen Gauri

August 20, 2002

I feel very honoured to have met and known Dick. He was a person who made you feel instantly welcome into his and his family's life.



Rick is one of my husband Andre's dearest friends and he is a true testament to his father's character. Dick leaves behind a legacy so strong that he will certainly continue to touch our lives and remain in our hearts forever.



Shelly, Jeanne, Rick, Anne, Joey and Abbey, and all of those who are reeling from this tremendous loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Peter Cordoza

August 20, 2002

To the Malcolm Family,

Among the Greeks, Pappouli is a term of endearment given to the most respected, wise and compassionate of the elders. I will miss you Pappouli.



My prayers are with all your family at this time of grief.

LORETTA ALPERN

August 20, 2002

DEAR SHELLY:



THIS WAS A SHOCK. ISAW RICHARD NOT SO LONG AGO WHEN WE LIST JO.



GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY

Ron and Mary Jane

August 19, 2002

Shelly: Please accept our condolences on the passing of Dick. Unfortunately, Mary Jane "MJ" and I will be unable to attend to attend the services. Our thoughts and and love are with you and your family. God Bless. Ron and Mary Jane "MJ" Timm

Bill and Debi Jones

August 19, 2002

Dear Shelly, Debi and I are very saddened to hear of Dick's passing. As we go through life we all try to make a difference; leave our mark on the world. Although now gone, and much too quickly, Dick's mark on this world through his family, friends, and work will be felt for generations. He truly made a difference in the lives he touched. And there are many fond memories to carry forward. We still laugh about our dessert outing with you and Dick in Monterey Bay.

I feel privileged to have known Dick and proud to say he was my friend and mentor. He will be deeply missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

Nirka Gomez

August 19, 2002

Malcolm Family,



I saw Mr. Malcolm last Thursday as he was leaving for the day. He told me he was leaving because he was not feeling well. I said good night and told him I hoped he would feel better. I'm glad I was able to say good night to him that day. Today I realize it was good bye.



My prayers are with you and your loved ones during this time of grief and sorrow. We are all a better people for knowing him.



God bless you always,



Nirka Gomez and family

Paul and Eileen Lacny

August 19, 2002

Dear Shelley, Eileen and I want to express our sincere condolences to you and your family. Dick was a wonderful man and I enjoyed working with him very much over the years. We will keep him and you in our prayers. God bless you and your family.



Paul and Eileen Lacny

Donna Bania

August 19, 2002

So very sorry to hear about Dick's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of sorrow.

Karen Athans

August 19, 2002

Shelly, Jeanne & Richard,



My deepest sympathy to all of you at the passing of Dick. He was a unique individual who brought a smile to all of us who knew him. His gift to the world was his wonderful wit and his genuine concern for his fellow man. He will be missed dearly.



You are all in my thoughts and prayers.



Lovingly,



Karen Athans

Scherrye' Horton

August 19, 2002

To the Richard G. Malcolm Family

I was shocked and sadden when I heard the news of your loss at work today. Please accept my deepest condolences. He will truly be missed.

Rich & Jan Schleier

August 19, 2002

We are so very sorry to hear about your loss. Words so often fall short of expressing what's in your heart. Please know that we will be praying for you and the healing that will come. We consider it a priviledge to have known him. Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Mary Deskovich

August 19, 2002

to the Richard Malcolm Family,



If any one man's life has left the world a better place than it was before, it was Dick's. From his witty intelligence to his humorous wisdom, he impacted so many coworkers at one time or another.

I am grateful to have known Dick and to have worked with him. Rest assured that he had brightened many lives throughout his career.

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.



Mary Deskovich

Brian, Ellen and Jack Glassman

August 19, 2002

Dear Malcolms,



We were shocked and saddened to hear of Richard's passing. Please allow us to extend our sincere condolences. Our thoughts are with you.



Brian, Ellen and Jack Glassman

Laura Michalski

August 19, 2002

Dear Shelly and Family:

I was deeply shocked when I heard the news today at work. I had the pleasure of working in the same department with Dick when I started in 1997. Several years ago, I filled in as his assistant for a while. He was truly a nice guy, and fun to work with. He will be missed.

Lori King

August 19, 2002

I knew Dick Malcolm through Blue Cross and he was a friend of my boss's, Don Schroeder, who just passed away June 10, 2002. He would call the office to check on him when he was ill and try to keep us all cheerful. I hope they are both at peace.

Joe Pakovits

August 19, 2002

My sincere condolences. It was a real shock. Dick will be sorely missed.

Jesse and Zora Bankston

August 19, 2002

The Richard Malcolm Family,



We are deeply sadden to learn of the passing of Richard. Our prayers are with you and may God give each of you the strength to carry on in the manner that Dick would want. A special prayer for you Shelly. And Rick, be strong and carry the banner for the Richard Malcolm legacy.



God bless .



Jesse and Zora Bankston

Gary Mugnolo

August 19, 2002

Shelley, Jeannie & Rick,



I was devastated to hear about your (our) loss as is my Dad (Uncle Andy), who has been here with me for the past 3 weeks. Although scheduled to fly back home to Texas tomorrow (Tues.) afternoon, my Dad has been struggling with what to do. He feels a need to be there.



Due to the fact that he is not yet over the pneumonia that he had at Aunt Jo's funeral in April -- he is still coughing & is always out of breathe -- both Andrea and I have advised him to stick with his scheduled flight home. He does send his heartfelt sympathies for your sudden loss.



I must take Dad to the airport in Grand Rapids tomorrow and am trying to work out a way to get in myself. In the meantime, my prayers and thoughts are with you all. It was too soon for Dick to leave us.



Your loving cousin,



Gary

Abe Barkin

August 19, 2002

Dear Malcolms,

My family's thoughts and prayers are with you always. We were fortunate to have had the pleasure of Dick's friendship and love over the years. He will always remain close to us through the many pleasant moments that we all shared.

All our love,

Abe, Jean, Brad, Mike and Leslie

Carl Ricciardelli

August 19, 2002

Dear Shel

I've lost a father, mother, and sister but no loss has affected me as the loss of Dick. I felt as close to him as I have to any man, and to you as I have to anyone not a member of my family.

I will always treasure my experiences with Dick, and Kimberly and I will always be available for you.

All our love,

Carl & Kimberly

PS: Think about visiting us this Fall! We'd love to have you here.

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