Rhonda Feder Obituary

I found this obituary after reading the graphic novel "Dancing at the Pity Party" by Rhonda´s daughter, Tyler Feder. I obviously never knew her personally but Rhonda, you seemed like wonderful woman. Your daughter loves you and beautifully immortalized you with her book. I never met you Rhonda but I will think about you and your daughters for the rest of my life!!!

To the Hoffman and Feder families: I am shocked and deeply saddened to hear of your loss of Rhonda. Although it has been many years since my days at HPC, I remember Rhonda well. Please accept my sincere condolences and my thoughts will always be with you.
Andrew.

I was so deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and sympathies are with you now, and always.

To The Hoffman and Feders-

I am so deeply heartbroken over the loss of my Friend Rhonda. How blessed I am to have had this one of a kind Treasure to call my friend. My Love to all the Hoffmans and Feders . My time with all of you will always be cherished.

Dearest Steve, Tyler, Cody and Spencer,

Rhonda was such a Blessing to all who knew her. We are so happy that we were able to share in her life and I hope she knew how much we all loved her. Her legacy will be her 3 beautiful daughters that made her proud each day and Steve I will always remember how much fun we all had when you and Rhonda began dating and the wonderful memories as our families grew. We feel honored to have been part of those precious moments and will miss Rhonda deeply. Our girls loved sharing those times with the family and they will be forever in our hearts. Our love to all the family and may God give you all the strength to get through this most sorrowful time. Love Always, The Sain Family

Dear Maida and Jerry,
Please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of your daughter, Rhonda. Our thoughts are with you.
Rhoda & Bob Zdeblick

Dear Steve and Family,
I am so very sad to hear about the loss of your dear wife and mother. You are all in my thoughts.
With much love,
Edna

To the Entire Family,
Our hearts are broken over the loss of your loving wife, mother, and daughter (in-law).
Our thoughts and prayers
are with you.
May all the love around you ease your sorrow.

Dear Steve, Tyler, Cody and Spencer,

We are shocked and saddened to learn this very,very sad news. Please know that our hearts are with you as you face this painful time of letting go. Take good care and keep telling the stories that will keep Rhonda close to you for always.

Sending our deepest sympathies and much love,
Joanne, Steven, Shana , Becca and Adam

Dear Steve, Spencer, Tyler, and Cody,
Our thoughts and love are with you and your whole family. Your mom and wife made this world a better place, and she will always be in our hearts.
With much love,
David, Janis, Jessica, and Michael,
Your cousins in MA and CA

Dear Steve, Tyler, Cody and Spencer,
We just heard of Rhonda passing and are very sad for your loss. She was a wonderful wife and mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May her memories be a blessing to you all.

Fondly,
Ted, Tia, Alex and Pamela Lazakis-Long Grove, IL

Dear Steve, Tyler, Cody, and Spencer,

We are very sorry for the loss of your wife and mother. We pray for strength and for you to find peace during this difficult time in your lives. We know she will be greatly missed.

Love your cousins,

Jeff, Stephanie, and Caden Waugh

Dear Steve, Tyler, Cody, and Spencer

We were saddened to hear about the tragic loss of Rhonda. We remember Rhonda as your loving wife, and a wonderful mother to your daughters. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you all. If we can do anything for you, please let us know.
Love, Ken & Kathleen

To Papa Fed, Ty, Codes, and Spinny-

I am at a loss of words for this big loss in your family. Mama Feds was always a loving, smiling, and beautiful woman inside and out and I will miss her terribly. I love you all.
Love one of your 4th daughters and friends,
Lauren

Dear Steve, Tyler, Cody, and Spencer,

We are heart broken to hear of the loss of your beautiful wife and loving mother. We know there is nothing we can say or do during this most difficult time to take away the pain. Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you. We love you and will be in touch soon.

Love your cousins,
Linda and Tiffany

Words can not begin to describe the feelings Andy and I both have for your tragic loss. We will always remember Rhonda as a sweet, charming and SMILING individual with a heart of gold. May her memory be for a blessing and may God comfort you and the entire family.

I was so sad to read about Rhonda's passing.
Heartfelt condolences to all in your family.

Dear Steve and family, We all share your deep sorrow at the passing of Rhonda. We shall miss her. Her courage, dignity and wonderful attributes will always be foremost in our thoughts. You are certainly in our prayers and our hearts as you begin the road to continuing on in life with the fondest of memories of a dear wife, mother and friend to so many. We only hope we may be of some comfort along this road. With Love and deepest sympathy, your cousins Al, Robin and family

Our deepest sympathy to Jerry and Maida and Marcia, Art and Francine. Rhonda will always be remembered for her sweet smile and caring soul. We know what a terrible loss this is for you and her husband and children. May God bring peace to you all.

Dear Family,
Our hearts are with you today and always. We love you and hope the memories of such a loving mother and wife will be a comfort to you. Rhonda will be missed and always remembered in our hearts.

You are in our hearts and in our prayers...
All our love
Cousin Susan & Anthony

Dear Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Rhonda. Please do not hesitate to call me. I love you all, and my heart and prayers go out to you. Do not hesitate to call me, if there is anything I can do, please let me know.
Love you all,

Our thoughts are with you

Dear Steve, Tyler, Cody, and Spencer,

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your wonderful wife and mother. We have many happy memories of our families together - especially Tyler and Stephanie (QOTC and POTC) from JCC nursery school, Me and My Dad, (including our adult-only annual dinners!) and the wonderful parties we had at your house. Rhonda was always a fabulous hostess, and was so proud of her husband and all of her girls. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories be a blessing.

Love,
Beth & Alan Nudelman

Dear Steve, Rhonda darling daughters, Jerry, Maida, Marcia(Alan),Art, and Fran-
I know Rhonda will be missed tremendously, my family will always remember Rhonda for her kind sincere words and warm and loving smile. She was truly one-of-kind. The Peden family has been praying for her peace. Take comfort in knowing that all of you will remain in our thoughts and prayers. We love you.

Dear Steve & Family,
We are heartbroken to hear of Rhonda's passing. Our thoughts, and prayers are with you in this most difficult of times. May her memory be a blessing to you all.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.We were so sorry to hear about Rhonda!

Lisa and Stuart Drucker

Dear Steve, Tyler, Cody and Spencer,

My condolences to you and your family.
I was shocked to hear about Rhonda's passing. I enjoyed playing Mah Jongg with her on Tuesday nights and having the JCC teacher appreciation luncheons at your farm. She will be missed.

To the Hoffmans: So sorry to hear about Rhonda. May her loving ways be an inspiration to everyone! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Alan and Jeanette Zemsky

Our hearts and thoughts are with you at this unfortunate time. All our love.
Joyce & Mayer Zandberg

Dear Steve, Tyler, Cody and Spencer,
Please accept our deepest sympathies on your loss. We all have lovely memories of Rhonda. Her smile and laugh could brighten any room! Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Gary, Pamela, Christina & Mackenzie
O'Connell

Hi Steve:
I was very sorry to hear about the loss of Rhonda. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Edye and Randy Sylvan

Feder and Hoffman Families - What a tragic loss for all. I will always remember Rhonda's warm, inviting smile and sparkling brown eyes at the family functions. She was a class act and will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers go out to you as you heal your torn hearts. Love, Cousin Lisa Zandberg Moss

To our much loved family...
May Rhonda's memory be remembered for a blessing.
A BIG WARM HUG!!
Deborah & Mitchell

Steve and family,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your lovely wife and soulmate. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

No words can accurately & completely convey my sympathy for your loss.My memories of Rhonda as we grew up, as well as as adults are happy, lively, always with a huge smile on her face.I know life's not fair, but this is about as unfair as I can imagine it gets! My thoughts & prayers are with all of you.

With great sadness & a heavy heart,
Robin (Young) Sanders