Rebecca Hogan Obituary

Dear Becky & Marty – I just learned of your Mother’s demise and I would have made every effort to attend her funeral to salute her for leading a life of superlatives. She was one of a kind; a truly an exceptional woman, a genuine Lady. There wasn’t anything she couldn’t handle and she was tested and she passed with honors. It is not surprising she had such a lengthy life span; she was a long way from being ordinary.

Reba Hogan was a beautiful, brilliant and loving mother with a wonderful personality and a laugh that sounded like the detonation of a large bomb.

She was one of a kind and she will be missed.

Warm Regards – Tom Magner

I regret that I could not attend her services due to my own health issues.

I have spent the last 41 years being called Mart and/or Marty by Reba and/or Becky and have not regretted a moment of it, in part because of the many years we spent together earlier in my life and because, in spite of my absence, I have always admired Mart.

I will never forget how she used to fall asleep with the off-air TV static blaring and then shriek at the top of her lungs the moment I would turn it off. Nor will I forget the Gordon's, the Yacht Club, 210, or her exclaiming "You're mine I tell you-Mine, Mine, Mine."

Back at ya baby--see you in the next life.

Jerry Jr.

I met Reba Hogan when I visited her and brought her Holy
Communion at the Admiral. She was a very interesting lady and I
always looked forward to our visits. Unfortunately, I was not able to visit as much when she
moved from there. Enjoyed reading a little of her life. My
sympathy to the family

I met Reba last year. I was very impressed with her from the beginning. Her extraordinary sense of style was apparent each time I saw her. From her makeup to her clothes, accessorized with jewelry and the occasional sunglasses, Reba had a unique panache. Even her name was interesting. "Reba" seemed to fit her much more than "Rebecca" or "Becky".

Although I didn't know her well, I can tell by reading these entries that her looks matched her true spirit: outgoing, expressive and fun.

My condolences to her family. I pray that God will comfort you as you remember a very remarkable lady.

Reba was larger than life. She was "the" Queen of Chicago. From her magnificent silver coiffure to her ivory pantsuits (replete with NFL shoulder pads), she exuded elegance at every turn, as every doorman on the near northside would certainly attest. Her wry sense of humor and frank demeanor made her unique -- you never had to ask what she thought of your outfit, your hair, or virtually anything else. She was a world traveler, a witty raconteur, and oftentimes, a cackling maniac. I will never forget sneaking out of apartment 13D at 210 East Pearson and waiting until the last second to shut the elevator door on her shrieking face, as I rocketed down to the lobby to take her on a madcap Big Wheel chase around the building. I will never forget frantically searching her bedroom for Becca's front tooth, only to find it push its way back out of her gums months later. I will never forget dining with her at the vaunted Yacht Club and hearing the cannons bellow. I will never forget staying with her enroute to grad school in D.C., running into a former Stanford roommate at the Cubby Bear in Wrigleyville, and, after too vigorous of a reunion celebration, having Reba nurse me back to life before I could continue east. I will never forget our epic journey down the Missouri and Ohio rivers on the "lavish" Delta Queen -- Jerry caroused, Reba collapsed upon me in the dark of night while climbing down from the top bunk, inventing new profanity, and I have simply not stopped sweating since (no matter how far north I continue to migrate). And, I will never, ever forget my inimitable Grammie, for compared to her, everyone else on this planet is merely a participant in a janitors' convention. I love you and miss you, you cackling maniac. Heaven is lucky to have you... Love, Frank

I truly loved Reba especially as she warmly welcomed me into the family. I fondly remember my first trip to Chicago to meet her. We had such a great time shopping, having dinner, taking in a movie. I will miss her. Her legacy and passion for life lives on in Frank, Trinity and Pierce. We will be at the services in spirit!

I was one of the extras with Reba on the Jack and Mike set. One day I found myself with Reba having to do a wardrobe change. As extras not much budget was spent on our comfort or privacy. As we got down to our skivies I nervously joked that I'd show her mine if she showed me hers. Reba laughed and I felt 100% more comfortable.

Marty and Rae, sorry to hear of your loss. I remember speaking with Reba at Steve's home. She was quite a character and will be missed.

Dear Marty and Becky ~

I am so sorry to hear this news. She was one of the most special people I have ever known. Always loved hearing about the latest dinner with Veronica, Mary and Jane. They had such fun. Now they're together again and will be having dinner at the International Room of Heaven!

Dear Marty and Becky,
So sorry to hear Mom's best friend passed away monday. I'm in Florida so I won't be able to attend, but she is in my prays. I'm sure they will be having a drink together up their.

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.