Milton Alter Obituary

I couldn't sleep tonight, and although I've thought of Dr. Alter many times over the years, I chose tonight to look for him on the internet. I am so sorry that this wonderful man is gone and glad that this guest book is still online so that I could say "thank you Dr. Alter" one last time. He guided us through infertility treatment, and after many years, he delivered our son. 19 mos. later, he delivered our daughter! They are 29 and 28 now, and we will always be grateful to him. Betty, Harold, Michael and Megan Crane

Like so many others here, Dr. Alter was my doctor from a very young age, for approximately 30 years. He delivered both my boys. He was a caring,compassionate man who never failed to take the time to talk with me and answer any questions I might have had. I am sorry to hear of his passing.

Dr. Alter saved my life twice. I came to him in 1975 as a young woman with undiagnosed endometriosis. He was the first doctor that really listened to me and, ultimately, made an accurate diagnosis. After two operations he was not able to save my reproductive capabilities. But he took great care of me for almost 30 years - and also did the circumcision for both of my adopted sons. . He was always supportive without being sentimental and provided complete explanations in a direct no-nonsense manner. By chance, my last appointment with him was on the day of his retirement. I noticed that he was quite dressed up and so he told me why. Otherwise, he probably would not have mentioned that it was his last day. Even in that last appointment, he was full of information on the latest studies and practical advice for me. So I got a chance to say thank you. But I’ll say it again. Thank you Dr. Alter.

I did not know know Dr. Alter but if he was anything like Aaron he must have been a remarkable man. My condolences. Kathy Albergotti

Dr. Alter, thank you for being the best doctor I could have had at a time when I really needed a good doctor. Your compassion and dedication to learning more about everything that was going on with me is what saved me. Blessings to your family. Sincerely, Kathryn Gallagher

Dr. Alter was a kind and gentle soul. I was the lucky one who had the privilege to know him for a couple of decades. My son was the last baby that he delivered before his retirement.

May God rest his soul in peace, and give his family the strength to bear this loss.

Mr & Mrs Farooq Ishaq

To My Best Friend Sari,
It was an honor and a privelege to have known your dad. I was always so proud of his accomplished career as a OBGYN as I know you were also. I'll never forget his July 4, 1982 party in Glencoe when I brought my firstborn son Paul to his house for the first outing since birth and your dad removed his umbilical cord. That thing was so stubborn it wouldn't fall off and I wasn't about to touch it!! I hope your memories of the good times will bring you comfort and support at this sad time. All the best, Sharon Klibanow

Dr. Alter was my doctor since my late teens and delivered my beautiful daughter who is now 14 yrs. old. It is funny that I haven't seen Dr. Alter for some years since I had moved away to another state. Just last night, I dreamed of him, and went on the internet and googled his name, and I was sad to hear of his passing, yet I smiled just thinking of him. He was such a part of my life; he held many secrets, comforted me during my miscarriage, and was always available no matter what. If I had any issues, he was just a phone call away, and would attend to me immediately. I loved hearing stories of his grandchildren. He was a gifted man,and touched so many lives. I am honored to have had him as my doctor, and so happy that he was such an integral part of my life for so many years. God bless you all, and Cassidy and I love you Dr. Alter. Memories of your warmth radiates through me, and I smile brightly just thinking of you.

Dr. Alter not only delivered my 3 children but also my sisters children. the youngest is 20. What a wonderful Dr. he was. Just 2 days ago we were reminiscing about having our children since our own kids are soon to be doing the same. Dr. Alter was a loving and caring man and we will always think fondly of him.

To my dearest friend Joanne, Milt's children and grandchildren, his patients and his many friends - We have lost the most dear and sweet man I have ever known. Kind, gentle, knowledgeable, willing to go 100 extra miles, I will forever be grateful to him for helping me when I needed it most and for being such a wonderful, dear friend. Joanne, Milt, her parents and I shared many happy meals together and they became my family. He wore his love for Joanne on his face all the time. I will miss you Milt.

To the Dr. Alter's family and friends,

I first saw the Dr. Alter when I was 17. He was my only doctor for almost 30 years. He held all my secrets, all my hopes, all my dreams for 3 decades with amazing compassion and concern. He delivered my own 2 children and just about every other child in my family. My own kids are in their 20s now. I brought my beautiful daughter Brittany to see meet him once before he retired (she was a teenager then) and told him "look what a wonderful job you did," and he answered me the way he always did,with humility and humor, and said, "You did all the work, I just catch." To the children, I feel I know you, Dad talked about you often, especially "the meshuggie who delivered at home." Don't think he ever quite recovered from that one! His legacy is that he will be remembered with a smile, always. Today, "the mainland is the less..."

What a wonderful doctor and such bedside manner. From the minute I became his patient I felt so comfortable. I felt he was my friend. He remembered me even though luckily I only saw him once a year for almost 28 years. I was very sad when he first said he was going to retire. He stayed a little longer. I didn't know what I would do without him. It is not the same going to my new doctor although she worked with Dr. Alter when she first started out. Thank you Dr. Alter for your time and kind words.
Deborah Klayman Gramm

We were deeply saddened to hear of Dr. Alter's passing. Dr. Alter was a wonderful man, as well as a superior doctor. He delivered our 2 daughters, as well as our niece and nephew. I lived quite far from Skokie Valley Hospital (where I delivered) but there was no question about having Dr. Alter do these deliveries. He had our trust and I wouldn't have anyone else. When people asked about good OB's to go to, everyone referred them to Dr. Alter. We will truly miss him. Our most sincere sympathies to his family and all that knew him.

Two sisters, two patients of Dr. Alter send their condolences to his wife and family. His love for his wife, his pride in his children and how he adored his grandchildren was appaent when we discussed our families. He was a wonderful doctor and a caring compassionate person. We shall miss him.

Our deepest sympathy, may his memory be eternal.

Sincerely,
Niki Marks and Angela Karafotias

I will forever remember Dr. Alter for his warmth and kind heart. I was in the hospital for two weeks before my baby was born and two weeks after. His reassurance and "real" compassion were always felt by my entire family. My deepest sympathy on the loss of this wonderful human being. Joni Gimbel

Sari and family, I was so saddened to hear about your loss. I have great memories of the fun we had at your house and the wonderful friendship we shared as kids. My deepest sympathy to all of you. Marcey Berman (chicago)

I'd like to extend my sympathies to Dr. Alter's family. He was my Gyne for many years at North Suburban Clinic in Skokie. In fact, he was one of the founding doctors of the Clinic, which some people may not be aware of. He was a kind and compassionate man and a very caring doctor.

To the family of Dr Alter
We were so sorry to read of the death of your loved one. Dr Alter delivered both our sons(Christian 4/14/59 and Andrew 6/2/60). He was an excellent doctor. Please accept our sincere sympathy on your loss.
Rosemary and Karl Zorn

Sari,
My condolences to you and your family. May time heal the hurt but not erase the memories.

My deepest sympathy.I met Dr. Alter in 1967 and from there he delivered both my sons and took care many problems I had, he always found the time to talk and listen to you, he was my only Dr. I stayed until he retired. God Bless your family.

Dear Joanne and Children;

We were very sorry to hear of your loss, please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Our deepest Sympathy,
Alan Taxman, Michelle Mufson, and Philip Taxman

Dr Alter delivered both of my daughters. He will always be remembered as he also used his knowledge on infertility and that was how I conceived. He was very compasionate and I never used another doctor. If I had a cold or whatever it was him who I would call. He was a dear man and a wonderful doctor.

Dear Joanne -

My deepest sympathy in the passing of your beloved husband. Unfortunately, I did not have the pleasure of knowing him. May all your fine memories that you have - give you strength during these times.

Please remember there are many people that care about you.

With sincere and deepest sympathy,
Joyce J. Ginsburg

Doctor Alter was my doctor and my friend... greeting 3 of my sons into this world! He was caring, compassionate and truly a wonderful human being. This world has lost a great man, mind and doctor! My condolences to his family~ whom he cherished!

Joanne: I am so saddened by Milt's passing and your bereavement.
I was sorry, too, to learn that your dad had passed away. I must thank you and Milt and your parents for so many wonderful and pleasant evenings at dinner with your beautiful family. You were blessed with a wonderful mom and dad and a warm and kind husband. I will always remember the nice times we had together and how you and your family invited me for the holidays when I was new here from New York. I always felt that I was part of your family. Your dad's jokes and funny stories were memorable. I am still repeating them--or the few I can recall. He had so many of them. I never remember him telling the same joke twice in over 35 years.
Please know that we are dear friends and that I will comfort you in your loss.

Dear Aaron, Sari & Josh.
Sorry to hear of the passing of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

My deepest sympathies to Dr Alter's family. He was my OB/GYN and delivered my son, as well as tried to help me have another baby. He was a great MD and I really enjoyed being his patient.

Dr. Alter was not only my ob-gyn who delivered both of my children (1994 and 1997) but delivered ME! He was the warmest, gentlest doctor who always kept up to date on the newest medical innovations in woman's healthcare. He will be greatly missed and thought of often. Our deepest sympathies to his wife and family. Elisa Zusman and Jean Shlofrock

Dear Joanne and Family,

I am so sorry to hear of Milt's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers now and in the coming days.

With love to you -
Tom and Millie Fowler

Dr. Alter was my ob for over 25 years & such a loving, compassionate
person, he delivered our son Daniel on Sept 9, 1973. He really loved
his profession & loved babies so much, he really devoted hiself with his whole heart. He will be greatly missed but always remembered
in so many peoples hearts. God Bless you!!!
Harold & Pat Kaepplinger Skokie- New Smyrna Beach Fla

Milt was the kindest,and most compassionate person. Always interested in the health and welfare of his family, friends, and patients.He was a relatively quiet man, but his actions spoke volumes. His friendship meant a lot to us.
We shall certainly miss our
wonderful friend and always feel privileged to have been part of his life.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Joanne,
We are so sorry for your loss.
Dr Alter was such a warm, kind man. We will always think of
him at the Passover table. With regards, Allen and Sharon Lefkovitz