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Michael Ellefson Obituary

Ellefson, Michael 57, of Arlington Heights, formerly of Park Ridge, beloved husband of Eileen (nee Sullivan) Ellefson, loving father of Matt (Mary), Cate (Scott) Loughrige, Brian and Carolyn Ellefson, proud papa of Bridget and Molly, fond brother of Sue (Paul) Sublewski, Jane Muth, John (Kathy) Ellefson, Mary Beth (Tom) Weltzer, Matt (Laura) Ellefson, Chris (Andrea) Tavella, and Julie (Joe) Ellefson-Kuehn, uncle to many nieces and nephews. Visitation 3:00 to 9:00 p.m., Thursday, at the Glueckert Funeral Home, Ltd., 1520 N. Arlington Heights Rd., (4 blocks south of Palatine Rd.), Arlington Heights. Prayers 8:45 a.m., Friday, at the funeral home to Our Lady of the Wayside Church, 440 S. Mitchell Ave. for Mass at 9:30 a.m. Interment All Saints Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-1905 appreciated. Information www.GlueckertFH.com 847-253-0168

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Mar. 11 to Mar. 12, 2009.

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Mary Carroll

March 22, 2026

Mike was one of a large group of boys who lived in the two blocks of Odell and Octavia in Edison Park in the´50s and `60s. The large group of friends all went to St. Juliana grade school. With the postwar baby boom raging, there were 50-60 kids
in each classroom. A new pastor came in when these boys started first grade, Monsignor Kilbride, and he decided that the classes should be segregated by gender. So that meant that the boys´ clique were together all day; then they would run home to change clothes and then they would "hang out together" until moms called them for dinner, and in summer they were together on their bikes until the street lights came on. They were quite a gang, and my brother
Brian Carroll was right in the middle of it. He was definitely a class clown. Brian passed away two months ago. We grieve him still. But I can only imagine this group playing softball in Heaven and just "hangin´ out." Brian is still doing his Three Stooges imitations.

Mary Carroll

May 16, 2009

Dear Eileen and all the Ellefsons,
This note of prayers and sympathy comes from an old Edison Park-Odell family, the Carrolls, who lived at 7215. That class of boys (12 in our 2 block area)were inseparable, whether it was after school or in those big classes of 60 boys at St. Julianas. (how did Sr. Remy make it?) I remember Mike as sweet and kind and quiet,(compared to my brother Brian). I found the notice just by accident. I was wondering if Sue or Jane could contact me at [email protected]. I last saw your Mom when I accidentally ran into their lunch crowd going to McCarthy's. Again, and Eileen, back to St. Julianas, he was a wonderful guy there, he only got in trouble if he happened to be too close to my brother Brian! What a loss for you and your family. I am praying that the Lord will take you through this very hard time.
Mary Carroll

Mary Holbrook-Korthauer

April 13, 2009

Julie and your family,
I'm so sorry about the loss of your brother. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Tracie Drouin

March 23, 2009

Eileen & Family, I was very sadden to hear about Mike. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I worked with Mike at FO for the last 2.5 years and talked with him often. He always made me laugh. He was such an asset to the organization and he will be deeply missed.

Acushnet Company Tax Department

Jan, Karen and Drew

March 13, 2009

Eileen, Matt, Laura, and Family,
We are saddened to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Tavella Andrea

March 13, 2009

In questo momento di dolore, Vi siamo vicini per la Vostra perdita. Sentite condoglianze dalla Famiglia Tavella. (Roma- Italy)

Beth Stave ( Rice)

March 13, 2009

Mike was a great friend to my whole family. We have so many years of fond memories. I was blessed to have Mike as my Godfather & when he was such a young man(the same year he graduated from NDHS 1970 ). I am so sad to hear of his passing. Mike's entire family is in my thoughts and prayers.

March 12, 2009

Matt, we are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking about you and your family. The Kochs

March 12, 2009

Dear Eileen, Matt, and Family,

John, Andy and I were so sorry to learn about your family's loss. May God hold you and keep you in the days ahead.

The Graham Family

March 12, 2009

Eileen and family,we are so sorry to hear about Mike, our deepest condolences. Karen and Joe Vanourek

March 12, 2009

Uncle Mike,

You were the an amazing role model for our family. Your bravery, kindness and gentle soul will always be remembered. We love you and will miss you. We promise to take good care of Aunt Eileen and your children. May you rest in Peace and give Grams a kiss from us.

Love, The Konopiots Family

Rick Tosch

March 12, 2009

Very sorry to hear of your loss. Mr. Ellefson was a great man and influential in so many of our lives as kids. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Carol Dallmeyer

March 12, 2009

Eileen, Ken and I were so sorry to hear of your terrible loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time. We are thinking and praying for you.

Mary Delaney Scherle

March 12, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Tony Kozole

March 12, 2009

My heartfelt sympathy and condolence to the Ellefson family for your loss. In all aspects, Michael was truly a 'Don'.

Donna Serafin

March 12, 2009

Dear Eileen and Family:

I was one of the secretaries in the BNSF Tax Department who worked for Mike. It was a privilege and honor to work for him all those years. He was always kind, patient and a role model boss. I am very sorry. My God bless and keep all of you in his care. Sincerely, Donna Serafin (Pytko)

March 12, 2009

Eileen,my deepest sympathy for you and your family. You will always be in my prayers. Carl Favaro

Mary Healy

March 12, 2009

The gentle giant-kind, loving, good father, husband, son, brother& cousin! That's the Mike we knew & loved! The world was certainly a better place with Mike in it! God Bless Eileen & kids. We love you. Mary, Joe, Christian & Francesca

Pat Sage

March 12, 2009

Eileen and Family - we are so sorry about Mike. Know that you and all your family members will be in our prayers daily.

Scott Nodolf

March 12, 2009

My deepest sympothy to you Matt, along with the rest of the Ellefson family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dave & Nancy Miller

March 12, 2009

Eileen and family
Mike was the best. Always helpful and there to lend a hand. Our deepest sympathy for your loss.

March 12, 2009

Mike - I will always remember you as the quiet, gentle soul of the Ellefson family, as well as a wonderful husband and father.
May you rest in peace,

Sue Sullivan

John Fitzgerald

March 12, 2009

To Eileen & All the Ellefsons:

Please know that you are in my heart as you remember, and celebrate, a life well lived.

Fitz

March 11, 2009

Eileen and family, I am so sad to hear the news. Mike was a great guy and I have the fondest memories of all you Ellefsons. You were the best neighbors anyone could ever ask for. Your always in my thoughts and will now be in my prayers. Mary Magee

Bruce Donash

March 11, 2009

Eileen, my deepest sympathy and sorrow at Mike's passing. All of my memories of Mike and you are good ones and will always be close to my heart.

Ron Puszynski

March 11, 2009

Scholar, athlete, gentleman. This is how I remember Mike from our Notre Dame High School years.

My condolences on your loss.

Sue Fullman

March 11, 2009

Eileen and family

We were so sorry to hear the news about Mike. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sharon Cerve

March 11, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

March 11, 2009

To Eileen and family,
We are saddened by Mike's death and hope you are able to find peace and solace in the memories. He lives on in your hearts and your lives every day.
Ron and Peggy Bjelopetrovich

March 11, 2009

Eileen, Bob and I are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Just remember all the good times, Mike would of wanted it that way. He was one hell of a guy.

Bob and Terry Kearns

Joseph Martorano

March 11, 2009

Deepest sympathy to the entire Ellefson family, and to Mike, "godspeed" you were a great classmate at NDHS, Class of 1970.

Katie O'Grady

March 11, 2009

To the Ellefson Family. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ron Paja

March 11, 2009

I remember Mike from Notre Dame HS ('70). He was a good guy, liked by all. I am very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with your family at this time of sorrow and I will ask the Holy Spirit to give you strength and comfort during this difficult time. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Carrie Dailey

March 11, 2009

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You our in our thoughts and prayers.

Jon Cole

March 11, 2009

I am very sad to hear about Mike's death and I'm sorry that I won't be able to express my condolences in person. I'll be keeping all of you in my thoughts during this difficult time.

Eileen

March 11, 2009

Mike...The Love of my life, and the heart and the soul of our whole family.
You will never be gone because your legacy will live forever in all of us. I'll see you later my darling.

Julie & Lou Nistler

March 11, 2009

You are in our thoughts always.

March 11, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

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