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Mary Tassos

1941 - 2019

BORN

1941

DIED

2019

Mary Tassos Obituary

Tassos, Mary "Barbara" 78, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, December 9, 2019. She was born May 5, 1941, in Chicago to Frank and Virginia (Blommaert) Stetler. Barb was a loving, selfless, and compassionate person. Her love for hersurviving husband, Tom, of 58 years was endless. Tom and Barb are the true definition of soulmates. She has two children, Tom (Melanie) and Kathy (John). Five grandchildren, Shawn, Kara, Annalise, Victoria, Alex, and Nathan; two step-grandchildren, Jake and Lina. She was the oldest of eight children. Her sister, Virginia (Sis) and brother-in-law, Tom (Woz) were best friends, buddies, and partner in crime. Barb enjoyed taking care of her husband and loved him dearly. She often worked on puzzles and mastered the challenging ones we sent her way. Her greatest joy came from helping others and being the rock of our family. Words cannot express how much she will be missed. Our comfort is knowing she is in God's loving arms now and is at rest. We love you with all our hearts, to the moon and back. In state at Church of the Holy Spirit, 1451 W. Bode Road, Schaumburg on Friday, December 13, 2019, 9:30 a.m. until time of Mass at 10:30 a.m. Interment will be at River Valley Memorial Garden- West Dundee. Funeral information or online condolences, www.ahlgrimfuneral.com or 847-882-5580.



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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Dec. 11, 2019.

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Thomas Nicholl

December 22, 2019

Dear Tom, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Although our friendship Is distance we often think about you and Barb. My condolences to you and your family. I feel so sad and honored to be friends with you and Barb for some forty-five plus years. God Bless Barb. And God Bless you and your family. Tom & Joanne Nicholl.

Diane Kukla

December 13, 2019

"When one goes missing, the world seems a bit smaller"
Sending Tom & Kathy much love. Sending Tom Sr. a huge hug. Find comfort in the memories & in the fun times because your family shared many. Diane Kukla

Dave & Nancy Madison-Buell

December 13, 2019

Barb and Tom have been our next door neighbors since we moved in, in 1987. Barb always had a kind word and smile when we talked over the fence. Will miss her friendly greetings and conversations. Rest In Peace Barb.

Bill and Kathy Drennan

December 11, 2019

Such a fine lady. Barb and Tom were the first people we met on the block in July of 1976. Rest In Peace Barb

Mary La Rosa

December 10, 2019

Thank you, Barb, for including me with your family. The love you showed your family and friends was unmistakeable. You will be missed.

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