Mary Murphy Obituary

God bless, you and your family, you were a great

("HI Mom Murphy") and you would always say "Hi Judy White". I'm really going to miss hearing you say that.All the times Tommy would be on the phone with you and he would say "hang on" and hand me the phone,then you'd say his Brother Danny does the same thing. I'm glad now that he did as it gave us a chance to talk and get aquainted a little more.I will miss our scrabble games and your pasta dinners. I never did win at scrabble, not with Tommy keeping score and you using made-up words from the 1930's. I used to laugh when Tommy would grab your crossword puzzle and have it almost finished by the time you realized what he was doing. It didn't take you long before you wised up and started to hide it on him! I remember calling you so upset thinking that Tommy was being mean to me and telling me thats was just his way of teasing. I got it then as I began to better understand the Murphy sense of humor..much of which he got from you.I want to thank you for Grandma Zitas cheesecake recipe..I remember you saying that you didn't give that out to just anyone. Remember how mad you got when he said mine was better? (just kidding Mom Murphy).I see a lot of you in your son. His passion for history, cemeteries, scrabble and crossword puzzles. You raised a wonderful man. He's kind, funny, hard working, and like you..he has a huge social network of friends.I could go on and on...so I will. I loved meeting Joe and Dierdre Fay and spending time with them at the cottage and at their home. I look forward to spending even more time with where we can reminisce about all the great memories we all have of you. Of course they will tease me about my Wisconsin accent while never mentioning they have even a hint of an Irish brough.Im missing you already Mom Murphy. Rest in Peace. P.S Has Chris hit you up to make spaghetti yet?

I will always remember the time when i was in the hospital with a broken hip and a really bad concussion, when i was surprised by a visit from grandma Murphy and Aunt Coleen. I was very happy to see that they would drive so far to see me. I was very grateful that my grams was there.
I love her very much and will miss her just as much.

Despite the fact that I had only the pleasure of meeting Mary a couple times, but knowing her Daughter Eileen for many years and worked with her for half of that time, I can certainly say that only a GREAT WOMAN could have brought such a warm, loving and caring human being to this world and into my life. I am sure Mary will be missed.

For the Murphy Family:
“May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead.”

While never having met you personally, I feel I know you thru the proxy of your daughter Eileen. She is as a result of your compassion a wonderful friend who I have shared many happy times with and respect to the core of my soul.

If St. Peter judges you by your actions then there will be a glorious celebration upon your arrival.

To the family:

May the lord console and sustain you as you reminisce about Mary and fill you with joy.

Mrs Murphy..I had never had the pleasure of meeting you but I did serve with you son Tom many years ago. He accompanied me on many a flight to many a place as my mechanic and after reading your obituuarie I now know why Murf (Tom) was the way he was..he would turn the most boring flight into a bundle of fun and laughs. I dont think I could even desccribe half the antics he pulled as it would not be publishable but I will give it a shot. Unbeknownst to those of us in the cockpit Murf opened the ramp at the rear of the plane and "mooned" the pilots of the plane behind us. I'm sure you can imagine the radio conversation that followed. I remember Toms work ethic, his devotion to duty, his willingness to complete any task assigned to him. And he did it all while making it fun and enjoyable for the marines around him.He surely was your son!! Murf (Tom)my thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time. May your mother Rest In Peace.

Mom
I look back in sheer amasement. I truly dont know how you kept your sanity. From fixing us after having been in fights, late night runs to the ERs,always getting us to where we needed to be..you weren't only a juggler but you juggled on a unicycle on a tight-rope with the tire on fire.
And it didnt faze you. Even as your kids grew well into adulthood and had kids and even grand kids of their own, you were still involved in every facet of their (our) daily lives. That, to me, is the epitome of being a mom..even though it drove me crazy sometimes. Rest in Peace now Mom..and like we joked years ago...you dont need to keep bail money handy anymore. I miss you already.

Dear Kathy and the entire Murphy family,
May the love of the Lord be felt in your hearts as you mourn the loss of your dear mother, Mary. It was a blessing in my life to have shared part of Mary's journey with her into her eternal life. May the joy she enriched you all with be of comfort and support to you now as you remember Mary with the love she shared so easily.

In peace,
Cheryl Felix

Well, thats great. Now who the hell am I gonna trade barbs with over political discussions? Mom,I will miss our spirited tête-à-tête that got both of our blood pumpin. The times I was right (mostly),and the times you thought you were right,(always).I will never forget the time I thought I had your number on some topic that I cant recall right now. I was so sure I had you cornered, and you had the last word as always. " Oh be quiet, you said, I am older and smarter then you anyways". I couldnt argue with you on either point ma.I will also remember your razor sharp wit that you could display at will. The night not to long ago you told me, "You are my favorite son in law Don". That made me feel 10 feet tall mom. Then I realized I was your only son in law. You were quick ma, I gotta give you that. I love you and miss you a ton. May God guide your journey now mom.

Dear Tom & Judy,
After reading about the wonderful things that were said about your mom, I now know where you get your strong bond and love for your family. She sounded like a truly remarkable person.
Please know that you are both in my thoughts & prayers.

I first heard from Maryalice many years ago,I received a letter from her to say she was comming to London and would like to meet up.She give a time and place and as soon as I saw her sitting there I knew who she was,she looked so like my mother (Katie Cobey). From that moment I felt a special bond with her.
Over the years she and her sister Susan
were such a joy to me and my brothers and sisters; we all had much fun and laughter together.
Maryalice was very single-minded in her quest to trace all her cousins in the UK and Ireland, for that we are so grateful.Getting to know her and her wonderful family enriched all our lives.
Maryalice you will be sorely missed by everyone of us.
Rest in Peace.
Our deepest condolences to all your family.

Our deepest condolences with your loss. I only met her once, she reminded me so much of my Grandmother" Marie Murphy"

My deepest condolences go out to the entire Murphy family. I only had a chance to meet a few of Mary's kids. Dear Tom and Judy, I hope you are doing well during these difficult times. Remember we love and are here for you. From your favorite russian, Margaret and Family.

My deepest condolences go out to the entire Murphy family. I only had the pleasure of meeting just a couple of Mary's children. Dear Tom and Judy, I hope you are doing well in this difficult time. We love you dearly. From your favorite russian, Margaret and family.

Dear Maryalice,
I will always remember your special smile, your caring heart, and the warm embrace that you always gave me.
Rest in peace dear Maryalice,
Love Kathleen
In lieu of flowers a donation was made to the Cancer Research Foundation

Since the day I met my new neighbor, Mary, I felt a connection. We are both Irish gals that grew up in the same neighborhood and attended the same church; however God delayed our meeting until a time in my life that I would need her most; after the death of my husband. It was then that God blessed me with a wonderful neighbor and friend in unforgettable Mary.

Mary & I have been close friends for only 7 years (much too short a time) too short a time for us to fulfill her dream of a trip to Ireland together. She loved Ireland & wanted me to experience her family, friends and culture.

Her sense of humor and quick wit will be remembered by all who knew her. We had such fun together and I have so many memories of laughter and joy. She welcomed me in to her wonderful family and I felt blessed and loved by them. I thank God for the time and privilege to be a part of her life. We had one of those treasured friendships that not everyone gets to experience.

I loved her dearly and will miss her everyday---until we meet in heaven and for eternity continue our journey. Forever friends, Lorraine Shannon

Please accept our heartfelt condolences on your loss. Mary always made us feel like family.

Eileen, I think I only met your mother once or twice--the last time at a wonderful Thanksgiving Day gathering with all or most of your family there. I was happy to have been included and to have laughed with your mother. I loved her through you because I love you. Continue to live in a steady joy! Love ya!

Dick

Grandma,

Hard to know where to start. I remember as a kid all the wonderful times I was able to spend the night over on New England (Also known as my parents escape for a night from me). Playing in the park and running around the house till all hours in the night. Throwing my toys down the laundry chute to the basement. It was like I had 2 homes growing up. The family parties you hosted there. Having all your children and grandchildren around gave me the true sense of what being a family was all about. You were the glue that held everyone together. I couldn't of asked for a more loving and tolerant grandmother. Yes, I know I wasn't always easy to deal with but you did!

Thank you for my father!!! I see all the great things you instilled in him. He is truly the best gift you have ever given to me.

I am also so happy I was able to bless you with 2 great-grandchildren. (P.S. I was first and should receive points for that). Kailey and Andrew had so many wonderful years with you in their lives. We will never forget that. You made it so special for us.

I can still remember my highschool graduation. I told you I was a lover and not a fighter. You responded, Well Michael you better learn how to fight then!!!!

You shared all the wonderful moments in our lives. That, I am truly grateful for. You will be missed.

Love always,
Michael, Kaliey and Andrew

To the family, my sincere and deepest sympathy to all of you. Your mom had a wonderful legacy and a wonderful family. There are many blessings here. She gave life to many who are making a differance in the world as GOD has planned. Eileen my friend and neighbor, I love you and I am here anytime you need to shed some tears and then we will laugh as we always do. Blessings friend and family.
Marla Anderson

Momma,
I feel you in every step I take, and In every move I make. I can't imagine life without the sound of your voice on the phone every night before we go to bed. As I said to you every night ...."Sweet Dreams Momma". I'll be watching the stars for the brightest one up there....Then I'll know you're still there.
All My Love,
Cath

Mary is at peace and though we will not be seeing her any more she is giving God hell, or at least writing letters to the editors. You all will be in our prayers. Mary was truly one of a kind and I am better for knowing her! May God bless her, and all of you! I lived in the building with her for 16 years I will miss gossiping about all the neighbors, and hearing how well all of her grandchildren are doing. Last year she wrote a wonderful letter to DePaul University for a scholarship my son needed and got.
She was one of the best neighbors I have ever had, and truly a one of a kind person.
All our love

Words are insufficient to describe the loss of this fun and funny, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend. To be forever without her wit, wisdom, criticism and unwavering support is more than I can bear today - but I am hopeful that with time I will be able to bestow some of her many gifts on my own children.

Rest in peace mom.

Eileen

Mary Alice, eternally enjoy the chorus of angels because you have so rightly earned it and, by the way, always - we will share our birthdays both on earth and in heaven!

Regrets - a few - would have liked to have spent oh so much more time on this ole' earth with you.