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Lilly Upchurch Obituary

Upchurch, Lilly Elizabeth 11, of Lake Forest, IL passed peacefully. She was born in Chicago and was currently attending the Kirk School in Palatine. Lilly was an angel on earth whose laugh and love of music filled the hearts of everyone she knew. Lilly was the beloved daughter of, Paul and Heather Upchurch of Lake Forest, IL; cherished sister of Charlie; adored granddaughter of Terry and Terryl Butwid of Pittsford, NY and Therese Upchurch of Bartlett, IL; loved niece of Jennifer Butwid, Maribeth (Marty) Rahe, Peggy (Joe) Foderaro, Patti (Gary) Feracota, Steven Upchurch and Doris; beloved cousin and friend to many including her loving companions, Ayda, Tad and Elmo. A special thank you to the Kirk School, especially Maggie and Cindy, Dr. Susan Roth, her driver, Zeema, Anne Dunn of District #67, therapists: Nanci, Venessa, and Julia, and all of the other care givers and friends who helped Lilly. Visitation from 4-8 p.m., Thursday, April 25 at Wenban Funeral Home, 320 Vine Avenue, Lake Forest, IL 60045. Funeral mass 10 a.m., Friday, April 26 at the Church of St. Mary, 175 East Illinois Road, Lake Forest, IL 60045. Interment at Memorial Park, Skokie, IL. Info- 847-234-0022 or www.wenbanfh.com. Contributions in Lilly's name may be made to The Kirk School, Lilly Elizabeth Upchurch Fund for Special Needs, 520 S. Plum Grove Road, Palatine, IL 60067. Please makes checks payable to "Kirk School".

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Apr. 24, 2013.

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Mary

April 27, 2013

With deepest sympathy on the loss of your loved one. A loved one lost can grieve the heart. But God is for us a refuge and strength and a God of all comfort who comforts us during difficult times. May you find the needed strength from God, family and friends. Take courage and have hope.

Gina

April 26, 2013

To the family of Lilly Upchurch, I am so sorry for the loss of your dear daughter. My deepest condolences are with you at this time.

May you find comfort in your warm memories together. We look forward to the time when the God of all comfort will actually swallow up death forever.

April 25, 2013

I came across this posting accidentally (or maybe not). My daughter Meredith passed away 12 years ago when she was 11, she also was my special angel on Earth. Unbelievably life does go on, and the wonderful people who's lives she touched will forever be blessed, until we meet again, God bless and comfort you

Christine Butcher

April 25, 2013

My name is Christine Butcher, I am Maggie's mom. I am so very sorry. You are in my prayers, and God bless you.
Christine

Natasha Williams

April 25, 2013

My prayers are with the Upchurch family and all that loved and cared for Lilly. God bless you.

Michelle

April 25, 2013

Phil will miss Lilly's smile everyday. He was her classmate and loved playing with her. My heart is broken and I'm so sorry for your loss.

Anne and Maarten van Gerven

April 25, 2013

Dear Paul and Heather and the entire Upchurch family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time!

Lisa Casey

April 25, 2013

Sincere condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Janis Sanders

April 25, 2013

My sincerest sympathy to Lilly's family, friends and school staff. I was one of Lilly's early childhood teachers and have many fond memories of her. She was a dynamo of energy and determination in one tiny bundle. I do not believe that she was ever presented with a musical toy she could not find a way to operate. If you, as the adult, could not make it work; just give it to Lilly. Her least favorite time of the school day was the short rest time. Lilly wanted more than a rest. She loved books and interacting with people. She was a sunbeam that shined on and brightened the lives of all who knew her! I was blessed to be one of those people. Heather, Paul and her beloved Charlie, I am so sorry for your loss. I grieve with you!

April 25, 2013

We don't know you, but our son is a Kirk School graduate. God bless your sweet little angel, Lilly. We are so very sorry for your loss.

Christine Butcher

April 25, 2013

My name is Christine Butcher, I am Maggie's mom. I am so very sorry. You are in my prayers, and God bless you.

Cathy & Mark Baum

April 25, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Upchurch family at this difficult time. During Lilly's short life, she faced many challenges; Heather and Paul did everything possible to meet her needs, ensuring that she was well taken care of. She also received lots of love and attention from their extended families in Chicago and Rochester, NY. We hope that Lilly's family will find comfort knowing that she is now one of God's angels and is resting in peace. With our most heartfelt and sincere condolences,

s clark

April 24, 2013

sorry for your lost

Elvia Valles

April 24, 2013

Eventhough I didn't know you and ur family, I am saddened that u passed away..may you b resting in peace now, beautiful angel. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Upchurch family..

Kerry, Marni, Derek & Taylor Foderaro

April 24, 2013

Dearest Paul, Heather, Charlie and all of Lily's extended family,

You were given a gift and a challenge and gave beautiful Lily a wonderful life. She was loved by everyone who met her.

Ellen Brenneman once wrote, "We can't know why the lily has so brief a time to bloom in the warmth of sunlight's kiss upon its face before it folds into its fragrance and bids the world good night to rest its beauty in a gentler place. But we can know that nothing that is loved is ever lost and no one who has touched a heart can really pass away because some beauty lingers on in each memory of which they've been a part.”

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time and always.

Sincerely,

Doris Edmeier

April 24, 2013

My dearest niece Lilly, I am so grateful to have had 11 years to enjoy your smile, laughter & love. My memories will live on forever of the times we have spent together. I see you running and playing with other ANGELS, your new friends. You have been embraced by many, I will see you again one day! You are in Paradise! Love Aunt Doris

Kristi Skinner

April 24, 2013

Heather,Paul and Charlie - we were so saddened to hear the news. Thinking of you all and keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Kristi and Mike Skinner

April 24, 2013

We were so saddened to hear of Lilly's passin. May your many wonderful memories of your time with her sustain you. Lauren and Jay Judson

Barrie Rappaport

April 24, 2013

My thoughts & prayers are with your family during this difficult time. I'm sure she brought many smiles to everyone at Kirk on a daily basis. (Kirk's nurse, Wendy, is my older daughter's "other mother". Michelle also has special needs)

May her memory be for a blessing.

David and Colleen Crossed

April 24, 2013

Lilly and the entire Upchurch family are in our prayers. We are grieving for your loss.

Bankston

April 24, 2013

We offer our condolences to the Upchurch family.Take comfort in God's promise that soon there will be no more sickness or death.We can look forward to living forever on a Paradise earth.

robin

April 24, 2013

God Bless this little angel

M

April 24, 2013

May your sweet baby angel rest in peace.

Jessica Shanahan

April 24, 2013

Lilly was an angel who was adored, cherished by her family. Heather was the very BEST motherv- so strong. Always an inspiration... they are the most beautiful family. Lilly is at peace, in heaven but will be so deeply missed. We love you.

Judi Gatlin

April 23, 2013

Lilly always brought a smile to our faces at school. Her love of music and feisty spirit will always be remembered. You are a special angel, Lilly, and will always remain in our hearts!

April 23, 2013

Lilly brought a smile to our faces every day at school. Her love of music and feisty spirit will always be remembered. You a truly a special angel, lilly! Judi G.

Molly Davis

April 23, 2013

Lilly was an angel. May she shine her sunshine down on her family forever. I love you Lilly.

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