Search by Name

Search by Name

John Private Obituary

Private, John A. age 57, passed away December 7th, 2008. Beloved husband of Paulette (nee Paczkowski), father of Jennifer, son of the late John and the late Joan, brother of Susan (Tom) Malchiodi, loving brother-in-law, uncle, and great-uncle. Visitation Thursday, December, 11th from 4:00 to 9:00 p.m. at Olson Burke/Sullivan Funeral and Cremation Center, 6467-77 N. Northwest Highway (1 block north of Devon), Chicago. Funeral Mass Friday, December 12th at 11:00 a.m. at St. Monica Parish, 5136 N. Nottingham, Chicago, interment private. Info 773-774-3333

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Dec. 10, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for John Private

Not sure what to say?





Marge Jacobazzi-DeWolfe

May 29, 2009

I went to high school with John (Kelvyn Park - class of '69) and after connecting again at a reunion had been in contact for a while. I just found out about this from another high school friend. We are so sad to hear this. John was such a nice person and I am so sorry for the pain his family is feeling.
God-speed John.

Debbie Shulman

December 26, 2008

Dear family, please accept my condolences on the loss of John. I also worked with him years ago at Zebra. He was a wonderful man. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Debbie Shulman

Beth Harker

December 15, 2008

Hi Jennifer and John's other family members,

I'm also a technical writer at Zebra Technologies and used to work with John. As my fellow co-workers have mentioned, we have all been praying for him for the better part of the year. I know how hard it is to lose a parent; and I offer you my deepest sympathy on the loss of your father.

I know that John's birthday would have been Dec. 30th or so, which I'm sure will be especially difficult this year. But, I bring it up to share a fun memory. Every year on his birthday, he'd bring in sliders for his b-day treat at work. I'll always remember the twinkle of mischief and humor he'd get in his eyes when he carried in all of the White Castle sacks for everyone. He was a great guy and we all will miss him very much.

My Dad and I 1991 at my Elementary School Graduation.

December 12, 2008

Helen Kawa

December 12, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Donna Jones

December 12, 2008

My heart goes out to Jennifer and the rest of John's family. I haven't cried this much over a death since my own father died in 1992.

John was a great guy, and he'll be missed by the people who he used to work with in the TechPubs group at Zebra. My desk was next to his for a couple/few years, and we car pooled together when gas prices started getting high. We've had him in our prayers for some time now, knowing that he wasn't doing well.

I'm going to hold onto the mental picture that I have of John at the last Zebra prom he attended, when he was dressed to the nines in a very nice suit (gray I believe) that really set off his coloring. He made quite a dashing picture that evening! I'm really going to miss him.

Carla Martinek

December 12, 2008

John -

Although it's been a while since I've seen you, you have been in my thoughts and prayers. Rest peacefully my friend. You will be missed.

JoAnn Cardona

December 11, 2008

Although we are unable to be there with you in person, we are with you in our prayers and thoughts. May John rest in peace, in the love of our Lord Jesus.
All of us send our deepest sympathy, and love.

Grace Smith & Family

December 11, 2008

We are praying for your family. John was a very good person and we appreciated him being there at our time of need. May God keep you strong during these difficult times.
Grace Smith & family.

Kathleen Smith

December 11, 2008

Your family is in my heart and prayers during this difficult time. John and I had recently emailed and I feel very blessed to have had that conversation with him, we don't always get that opportunity... I will pray for you all, as I know this has been a difficult time for you.
Kathy

Liz White-Lowrey

December 10, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you face yet another loss in your family. May the comfort of peace and kindness surround all of you in ways you never imagined. In Prayer-Liz White-Lowrey and Family

Diane Woodard

December 10, 2008

Jennifer, No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. Your father was a good man.

Bill and Lois White

December 10, 2008

May the love and prayers of friends and family carry you through the loss of John who was husband, father and brother. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. With heartfelt sympathy,

Joanne Phelps

December 10, 2008

May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face. And the rain fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
Thoughts and prayers

Stella Johnson

December 10, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Elaine Hathaway

December 10, 2008

Our prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family in your time of need.May god bless you and watch over you always.

Showing 1 - 16 of 16 results

Make a Donation
in John Private's name

Memorial Events
for John Private

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support John's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor John Private's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more