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John Dwyer Obituary

Dwyer Sr., John B.

John B. Dwyer Sr., 91, died of a brief illness on Monday February 12 at MacNeal Hospital, Berwyn, IL, surrounded by family.

Born Christmas Day 1932 in Chicago to the late Marguerite (nee Maher) and Martin "Matt" Dwyer, John was the fourth of seven children, all preceding him in death (David, Jay, William, Barbara, Thomas and Mary Virginia). John Dwyer was the beloved husband of Mary Lou (nee Kurtz) for almost 20 years and the late Kathleen A. (nee Arado) for 46 years. Loving father to Stephen, Mark and John Jr.; stepfather to Julie (Steve) Forbes, Erik Lind (Irene Glazer), Jon Lind (Molly Rose Elkins-Ryan); doting grandfather to Neil, Kathleen, Kyan Dwyer and Joshua Chavez; step-grandfather to Alicia, Tyler and Micah. Cherished Uncle to many beloved nieces and nephews.

A U.S. Army veteran, John, or "Biff" as he was affectionately known to close friends, was a long-time resident of Oak Park and later Forest Park. Graduate of Fenwick High School (Oak Park) in 1949, John starred as an offensive lineman on the Friars football team, and later earned an academic/athletic scholarship to the University of San Francisco, starring for the 1951 Dons football team, which went untied and undefeated that season. John returned home and finished his academic career at Loyola University (Chicago).

John was an activist on the frontline supporting the Oak Park Fair Housing Ordinance of 1968, and a member of the Village of Oak Park Community Relations Committee. During the late 1960's and early 70's, he worked with like-minded realtors to fight redlining and successfully integrate the Village of Oak Park.

Spending more than 30 years in organized labor with the Service Employees International Union (SEIU) at Local 66 (later merged with SEIU's Chicago Local 25), John began his career as a business agent, and advanced through the ranks before retiring in 1996 as executive vice president. With Local 66 representing thousands of Chicago elevator operators, John often quipped that his job had its "ups and downs."

A voracious reader and avid golfer who also loved a game of billiards, bocce ball and poker, John lived a faith-filled life serving others in ministries such as Housing Forward, Ascension Ministers of Care, Loyola Minister of Communion, and Extending The Word. John could often be seen shuttling from one Oak Park home or Forest Park rehabilitation facility to another, ministering to the sick, dispensing communion and reading scripture.

John was a proud charter member of the legendary "Bombers" men's group on Chicago's West Side, which started as a softball team and morphed into a long-time family-oriented social group that hosted unforgettable annual parties.

Friends and family will gather at Ascension Parish, 808 S. East Ave., Oak Park, at 9:30 am Saturday February 24, where a memorial service will follow at 10:30. Burial is private. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Housing Forward or St Peters in the Loop. Arrangements entrusted to Conboy-Westchester Funeral Home. For info 708-F-U-N-E-R-A-L.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Feb. 18, 2024.

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Thomas Windham

February 12, 2026

I really didn´t get to know John well but what little time I did see and learn about him told me that he was honorable and lived a life of meaning.

Jim Workman

March 7, 2024

So very sad to hear of John's passing. My father was Jim "Chick" Workman and my Dad and John were friends since they were kids growing up on the west side. They played football together at Fenwick and were in each others wedding, John and Kay came up to Michigan in 1982 to be at our wedding but the Bombers were there to see my parents and each other. One night before my Dad passed in 1983, John , my Dad and my grandfather stayed up to nearly the next morning telling me of stories of Dad and John in their teen years. He was a great guy and will certainly be missed.

Margot Sullivan

February 24, 2024

My very best condolences to you Mary Lou on February 17,2024. Remembering you both in my prayers. Margot Sullivan

Jeff Loehrke

February 23, 2024

John Dwyer was an extraordinary person and gift to this world. I met John through the amazing Jados family and both have treated me like family since day one. I could be more grateful. When I first really connected with John I was in the middle of helping to organize a workers Union here in Chicago and John was so encouraging, he would ask for updates when I saw him, he was just always so supportive. John was a lot like my grandma, when he´d talk to you it was as if you were the only person in the world. John dedicated his life to serving others and at the end of the day that´s really the only life worth living. My favorite phrase of John´s is "if it´s going to be, it takes you and me". The world needs more John Dwyer's, and one of the beautiful things about someone starting their next journey is realizing their impact and starting to live a little more like that person did. Infinite love and gratitude to John Dwyer and Family.

Jerry & Cathy Masterson

February 20, 2024

John was a terrific fella. Got to know him through many activities at Ascension over the years. He had a very spiritual side to him and was always ready to lend a helping hand. He led a full life that touched many people, all for the better.

Nancy Greco

February 20, 2024

So sorry to learn of his passing. He was always friendly and optimistic and had a smile on his face. I will miss seeing that.

Kathleen Hancock Short

February 19, 2024

In loving memory of Uncle John Dwyer, a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Tom LeClair

February 19, 2024

Gracious, kind, funny, knowledgeable, a true Catholic, happy, engaging, street smart and not a bad athlete. This would describe my friend, John Dwyer. A man´s man! A mensch! Someone who I am truly going to miss. My condolences to his lovely bride. They were made for each other. Rest in Peace John.

Fr. Bob Hutmacher, ofm

February 19, 2024

May God reward John with eternal joy at the Banquet, and fill your whole family with grace and peace. Now you can talk with Clare & Francis - and a few thousand others in heaven!

Thomas Windham

February 19, 2024

John's was a life well lived; one that will truly be missed. Sending condolences with hope, peace and love to all family and loved ones.

May Dougherty

February 18, 2024

John brought me Holy Communion;
He would call and say 'Jesus and
John are coming'
It was an honor to have known
John . RIP May Dougherty

George Anderson

February 18, 2024

John was a great guy. May the Angels and Saints lead his soul to Heaven.

Gina Millette

February 18, 2024

John became the untitled Patriarch of our very large close-knit family, ministering to all of our needs as he saw them in his casual, nonchalant way. We were double first cousins. Our mothers were sisters and our fathers were brothers, and we grew up one big family, celebrating achievements, holidays and special occasions, and sharing our grief on the loss of close family and friends. We will all miss him dearly until we "see him down the road!

My deepest condolences to all of his family, especially Mary Lou, Steve, Mark and John. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary Jo D’Onofrio White

February 17, 2024

To the family of John Dwyer: as the eldest of Bob & Rita D’Onofrio’s 11 kids, we send our condolences to your entire family. Raised on 800 So Wesley, we all have great memories of your family. Your Dad was a faithful friend to my parents throughout their life & the last Bomber to visit & bring Communion to them! What a guy! He was wonderful. Our love to you all.
Mary Jo D’Onofrio White

From the Staff of Conboy's Westchester Funeral Home

February 16, 2024

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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9:30 a.m.

Ascension Parish

808 S. East Ave., Oak Park, IL

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Memorial service

10:30 a.m.

Ascension Parish

808 S. East Ave., Oak Park, IL

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