Jesse Grygorfan Obituary

Dear Liping, I am so sorry for the loss of Jesse. I worked at Orfila Vineyards and I was always elated to see you both. Jesse was high on life and his kindness and intelligence was infectious. I wish you well. Susan Gottschalk

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. Dr J was the smartest, coolest, and friendliest doctor I have ever met. To overcome such odds to excel in life (as he did), is a huge source of empowerment. Him and his wife (Liping),are the nicest and most gracious people. I love them both dearly. I send a heartfelt note of thanks on the anniversary of this wonderful human being. Thank you Dr and Liping Grygorfan.

He was a huge help in my life. I'll miss him dearly. There are no words to express how grateful I am for all the help he gave me. A one-of-a-kind. I'll always love and miss him.❤ R.I.P.

03/10/2020
My tribute to my beloved husband:
Dr. Jesse-my husband, my soul mate and my very best friend, I have been blessed by his love since we first met in a sunny afternoon in San Diego. 5 years later in the year of 2002, we were married. One special way of our communication was simply smiling. We smiled at each other in the morning. We smiled at each other when we were leaving our home to work. We smiled at each other when we discovered something new, and we smiled at each other when we conquered the impossible.
Jesse's favorite quote: I cannot wait for tomorrow, I get better by the day. For over 17 years of our married life together, my husband never went out one day without his wedding ring. He told me: I feel naked without my ring. Jesse has been told by many of his colleagues, friends, and even strangers that he was the best dressed doctor, the most insightful and understanding doctor. Patients often said that what took other doctors hours and hours, and got resolved by Dr. Jesse with a snap of the finger.
Jesse was always cheerful, humorous and inspiring, no matter where we were: hospitals, independent living facilities, nursing homes, concern halls, restaurants, racetracks and anywhere we went. People welcomed him with open hearts and open arms. He left his indelible imprint on everyone with his charming presence in this world he loved so much.
Jesse lived and loved with passion. His quote: Serendipity smiles upon two lucky people, a journey begins, commitment is the anchor and love is the compass. Life with Jesse was so much joy. I am blessed by his love and he brought out the best in me. I love him with all my heart and all my soul.


Mrs. Liping Grygorfan

To Liping and Friends of Dr. Jesse Grygorfan

I am glad you have gathered today to celebrate the life of our good friend. I regret that I am unable to be with you and Liping because of the present health concerns we are going through together.
I am a retired Superior Court Judge in San Diego County. Some 20 years ago, I was privileged to preside over a lawsuit brought by Dr. Jesse under the American Disabilities Act. He was represented by Attorney Daryl Mazzarella. I was able to secure a fair settlement for him.
Some years later, I was at the off-track wagering facility in Del Mar where I spotted Jesse and Liping. I learned that he had an interest in the horse races similar to mine. In a short time, we formed sort of a partnership to wager on the races. The way the partnership worked was I would take a percent of his tickets and he would take a similar percent in my tickets. Shortly thereafter, my other racetrack partner (horse player), a retired cardiologist, Dr. Selvyn Bleifer, joined our partnership. For the next 20 years, we continued our gambling interest both at the off-track facility and at Del Mar Race Track, where we were all members of the Turf Club.
Dr. Jesse would come to the Turf Club well-dressed in coat and tie. He and Liping would sit together and have a fine meal, usually with a bottle of wine.


Dr. Jesse and Liping had many friends at the Turf Club who would always come and visit. His table for two was usually very crowded at times.
I can tell you that this Summer, he and Liping will be sorely missed by his friends, the waiters and Matred (Jimmy).
You probably all wonder, Well, did these guys ever win at the races? The answer is yes and sometimes it would be a big win (Dr. Jesse's ticket). I remember a couple of years ago, Dr. Jesse won a pick 5 for $36,000. You should know that Dr. Jesse was also a good sport (win or lose) and always a true gentleman.
I gave him the nickname of Tiger because he was always a fighter, even with his physical and health problems.
I hope today you will all raise a glass and toast a true fighter.
God bless Dr. Jesse. Rest in Peace.


Judge Herbert B. Hoffman

03/10/2020
My tribute to my beloved husband:
Dr. Jesse-my husband, my soul mate and my very best friend, I have been blessed by his love since we first met in a sunny afternoon in San Diego. 5 years later in the year of 2002, we were married. One special way of our communication was simply smiling. We smiled at each other in the morning. We smiled at each other when we were leaving our home to work. We smiled at each other when we discovered something new, and we smiled at each other when we conquered the impossible.
Jesse's favorite quote: I cannot wait for tomorrow, I get better by the day. For over 17 years of our married life together, my husband never went out one day without his wedding ring. He told me: I feel naked without my ring. Jesse has been told by many of his colleagues, friends, and even strangers that he was the best dressed doctor, the most insightful and understanding doctor. Patients often said that what took other doctors hours and hours, and got resolved by Dr. Jesse with a snap of the finger.
Jesse was always cheerful, humorous and inspiring, no matter where we were: hospitals, independent living facilities, nursing homes, concern halls, restaurants, racetracks and anywhere we went. People welcomed him with open hearts and open arms. He left his indelible imprint on everyone with his charming presence in this world he loved so much.
Jesse lived and loved with passion. His quote: Serendipity smiles upon two lucky people, a journey begins, commitment is the anchor and love is the compass. Life with Jesse was so much joy. I am blessed by his love and he brought out the best in me. I love him with all my heart and all my soul.


Mrs. Liping Grygorfan

Jesse was one a kind. Intelligent, witty, etc., very smart and was like a human almanac. He will be missed.

Conrad Wyszomirski

Jesse was more than a friend he was a mentor. He taught me to take the words I cant out of my vocabulary. He inspired me to continue my education. Jesse was a brilliant man that sparked the minds of everyone that had the chance to meet him. Jesse will be missed.