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Jerome Tokars Obituary

Tokars, Jerome (Jerry) Age 85, Easter Sunday, April 17, 2017, of Oak Lawn, IL. Beloved husband of Kathryn Stapleton Tokars and the late Eileen Lawler Tokars; loving father of Carey (Tim) Ferrarell, Eileen (Jack) Tumpane, Tim (Julie), Jerry (Amaal) and Annie (Bob) Kolpin; loving step-father to Kevin Kelly, Patsy Kelly, Kay (John) Denton and Robert (Eileen) Kelly; loving grandfather and great-grandfather to many beautiful ones; lifetime friend to his number one supporter, Don Mavar; preceded in death by parents, Frank and Wanda Tokars; and dear brothers Tom (Dolores) Tokars and David Tokars. Jerry attended De La Salle high school, Xavier of Ohio University, Lewis University and Southwest Missouri State University. Jerry was head basketball coach at De LaSalle High School, Richards High School, Leo High School and Moraine Valley Community College. Member of Illinois Coaches Hall of Fame and Catholic League Hall of Fame. Visitation Tuesday and Wednesday April 18-19, from 2 to 9 p.m. Funeral Thursday, April 20, 8:30 a.m., from CURLEY FUNERAL HOME, 6116 W. 111th St., Chicago Ridge, to St. Gerald Church, 9310 South 55th Court, Oak Lawn, IL. Mass of Christian Burial 9:30 a.m. Rev. Thomas J. Hurley, officiating. Interment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions to the family for a scholarship fund to be established in Jerry's memory, would be greatly appreciated. For info., 708-422-2700.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Apr. 18, 2017.

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Gary Vanek

April 22, 2017

I met Jerry only a few years ago, but he was such a kind man and always interested in what was going on in the lives of my two sons (they cut Jerry's lawn for the last 5 years). I always enjoyed chatting with Jerry and will miss seeing him. My condolences to all his family.

Carol Kosiek

April 21, 2017

Tokars family ; our sincere condolences. Our Dad was a long time colleague of Jerry while they were at De La Salle. He was a terrific
teacher, coach and mentor of young men. So many student athletes
were blessed to have their lives touched by Coach Tokars! God Bless.

Sincerely,

The Kosiek Family

Ronny Broyles

April 21, 2017

Mr. Tokars was my gym teacher at De La Salle and part of the most treasured memories in my life. Glad I got to meet him.
Ronny Broyles

Denis (Scotty) Curran D'58

April 20, 2017

Mr Tokars was hard working and deeply spiritual. He constantly prayed the Rosary honoring Mary the great Mother of Jesus. I am sure that because of his great fidelity to the Kingdom he will be enjoying the rewards that he meditated on here on earth.

April 20, 2017

I'll never forget our games at St Gall's black top basketball court. You were a great roll model.

Rest in Peace Dear Friend and "May God Bless Your Soul"


Ron Fara

April 19, 2017

Condolences to the Tokars family! We shared many great memories over the years with Jerry and his family. He will forever be in our hearts!

The P. Doria family

SHERMAN COLEMAN

April 19, 2017

My deepest condolences to the Tokars family. Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to play for you.

Sherman Coleman 72'

Chris Ryndak

April 18, 2017

Coach Tokars was my gym teacher from 1980-1982 at De La Salle. He was a great coach and a great guy. Rest in peace, coach.

John Lord

April 18, 2017

Mr. Tokars taught me Accounting, in my junior year (1962-63). His teachings instilled me with a career with Bansley & Kiener to Park Pension Fund. He is one of the men I most admire. I am truly thankful to him. My deepest sympathy to the Tokars Family.

James Joyce

April 18, 2017

Very sorry for your loss. Mr. Tokars was not only a great coach, but was a great teacher too. I was in several classes that he taught at "D" and am a better person because of it.

Carmen & Rosa Passi

April 18, 2017

Deepest Sympathy from the Passi Family...Carmen '60, Carmen '83 and Anthony '84 former fellow teacher at De La Salle!!!
May he RIP!!

jp herman

April 18, 2017

Nothing but fond memories of Mr , Tokars and thought of often through the years . Very sorry for your loss and in my prayers . J.P Herman. class of 82 DE La Salle

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Memorial Events
for Jerome Tokars

Apr

18

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Curley Funeral Home - Chicago Ridge

6116 West 111th Street, Chicago Ridge, IL 60415

Apr

19

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Curley Funeral Home - Chicago Ridge

6116 West 111th Street, Chicago Ridge, IL 60415

Apr

20

Funeral

8:30 a.m.

Curley Funeral Home - Chicago Ridge

6116 West 111th Street, Chicago Ridge, IL 60415

Apr

20

Mass of Christian Burial

9:30 a.m.

St. Gerald Church

9310 South 55th Court, Oak Lawn, IL

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6116 West 111th Street, Chicago Ridge, IL 60415

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