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Frazier, Ssgt. Jacob Lee 24, St. Charles, loving son of Jim and Joyce Frazier, dear brother of Jessica, Kathryn, Zachary and Daniel, fiancee, Jessica Fregin, beloved grandson of Marian and Garnet Frazier and Florence and Ray Stach, fond nephew of Shirley (Rudy) Ziman, Arlene (late Wayne) Stach, Linda (Jerry) Schain, Mary (Dan) Robb and Michael (Pam) Frazier. Funeral Mass 10 a.m., Monday, at St. Patrick Crane Road Church, 6N491 Crane Rd., St. Charles. Interment Abraham Lincoln National Cemetery, Elwood, IL. Visitation 3 to 8 p.m., Sunday, at the Yurs Funeral Home, 405 E. Main St. (corner of Rt. 64 and Rt. 25), St. Charles (630-584-0060). In lieu of flowers, contributions to "Ssgt. Jacob L. Frazier Memorial Fund", c/o Bank One, 575 S. Randall Rd., St. Charles, IL 60174. Proceeds to benefit the Glenwood School of St. Charles, which provides educational opportunities for disadvantaged children. Visit Guest Book at www.suntimes.com

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on Apr. 5, 2003.

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Dallas Steinfort

June 3, 2019

Jake, you NEVER judged a ROMAD by where they were, or from, or who they supported! I've kept you alive this 16 years!! I think I was supposed to be where you were!!! And I have Greg Stone on top of it all! He was my ALO!
Jake, you're here EVERY March with Greg!!! As long as I draw breath!

Thank you, brother......

Cary Sorbo - Benjamin

March 29, 2017

Remembering the great kid that hung out with my daughters. The times he was at our house, called me "Mom" and made me laugh. How blessed we were to have known him. My love, hugs and prayers.... ♥

Tony Scott

December 2, 2016

Your son and I served in the same unit but never met (I was there 1985-1993). My wife and I visited his marked at Lincoln National Cemetery yesterday. I currently have a 24 year old son myself. I can't imagine how difficult your loss is. I pray that fond memories of your son bring you comfort always.

Susan Kupp

September 8, 2013

To the family of Jacob,we live in the same subdivision that you lived in,our sons were on the same wrestling team as yours,your daughters babysat for our sons ,our precious niece was one of the last people to be with Jacob...we all still think about care about and pray for you

March 12, 2013

In memory & honor of Jacob Frazieer. We shall eternally be grateful for him.

Anne Sulskis

May 28, 2012

Jake, tomorrow we will think of you and remember as we do so frequently, Last week, we visited the Kash's, we thought of you and remembered you.

Peggy Childers

April 3, 2012

March 29, 2012
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Jacob L. Frazier:
Always remembering Jacob. "Some gave all."

May 2, 2011

Jake, we got him!! Miss you & think of you often.

KS

Peggy Childers

March 30, 2011

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Jacob L. Frazier:
Please accept my remembrance of Jacob on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Anne Sulskis

August 20, 2010

Jake, you are never far from our thoughts. Marcus is home now and safe till he has to deploy again. Now your buddy from high school, Matt will be deploying to Afghanistan. Once again, be his guardian angel and bring him home safe. You will always be our hero and in our hearts.

Kenna

March 29, 2010

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This is a gift! We have wonderful sponsors who help with the costs, and want you know that everyone here at Project Compassion does and will always CARE.
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
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Peggy Childers

March 29, 2010

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Jacob L. Frazier:
Remembering Jacob on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Pris Geneve

March 29, 2010

today is e 7th anniversary of soldier Jacob. i never hv a chance to know him, but i feel sorry for e loved ones he left behind. may his memories never be forgotten...rip warrior

Alyson (McInerney) Malone

July 11, 2009

I just came home from my second deployment to Afghanistan. Going back there reminded me of Jacob and I still think of him often. There is a fire base there in Northern Afghanistan named in his honor now. God Bless.

Mel & June Campbell

May 31, 2009

God bless your family and all our troops, and God bless and lead America. Thank you for your service and your sacrifice.

May 24, 2009

To let your family know, you are not forgotten this Memorial day

Peggy Childers

March 29, 2009

To the family of Staff Sgt. Jacob L. Frazier:
Jacob gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Paul Fivelson

March 13, 2009

While watching the HBO movie, "Taking Chance" I could only remember Jacob and in my mind, Jacob was the one being honored, which he so deeply deserved. He was a wonderful young man who I was proud to know. Thank you for your service to your country and for being one of the nicest young men I ever met.

Brian Henighan

January 20, 2009

I grew up with Jake in Medina,OH. He was definately a good friend and everytime I think of the sacrafice that he gave for this country, it brings a tear to my eye. He's lookin down on all of us and for that reason, I will always look up to him.

douglas albeck

October 21, 2008

I'm sorry for your lost and send my condolences. I'm sorry it took so long to drop you a note,but I think about the fallen and the sacrifice they made every day. Perhaps,someday,my son will tell me more about him.Again my condolences and respect.

BJ Frazier

October 13, 2008

My heart and condolences go out to your family. May God be with you and your family always. My most humble thanks for the sacrifice that your family has made for our country!! I am the mother of a Marine and I do not, at any time, take for granted our freedoms, as I know that this is the hardest part of what it takes for us to have those freedoms.
Staff Sgt Jacob Frazier is definitely a Hero in the total sense of the word!
Again God Bless You and your family wherever they may be, always

Pastor Frank Noyes

September 15, 2008

Dear family of Staff Sgt. Jacob L. Frazier,

We want to say thank you. We understand that no words can be adequate for your sorrow. We certainly do not want to intrude upon your privacy. As Americans we want you to know that we deeply appreciate the ultimate sacrifice your loved one has made for all of us. We also would like for you to be aware that with this letter comes our special concern and prayers for you. We are all safer because young men and women who love their country, and know the value of a free nation, are willing to put themselves in harms way, and lay down their lives to keep this nation free and safe for all of us.
Your sacrifice is also very great. We know that we can give little comfort; however, the knowledge that your loved one did not die in vain, but died in the service of our country, gives each of us a noble example of the value of life, and the responsibility of freedom. We hope this will bring pride and comfort to you.
We at Gethsemane Church believe that there is purpose to life. We send this letter with our deepest appreciation for the greatest of sacrifices, you and your loved one have given to this country. We know it is not enough, but please allow us to assure you that your loved one is not forgotten.


Very Sincerely

Frank G. Noyes
Frank G. Noyes (Pastor)


Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
(Jn. 15:13)

The Neal family

April 26, 2008

To the Frazier family,
Please know that just as your loved one will forever remain in your hearts and minds, his sacrifice and that of your family, will remain with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God grant you the peace that passes all understanding.

Debra Estep

March 29, 2008

To the family and friends of Jacob. Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers today.

May God and His Angels surround you and bring you comfort.

Be Not Afraid

"You shall cross the barren desert
But you shall not die of thirst
You shall wander far in safety
Though you do not know the way.

You shall speak your words in foreign lands
And all will understand
You shall see the face of God and live."

Be not afraid
I go before you always
Come follow Me
And I shall give you rest.

xo xo
Deb
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
http://remembering-the-fallen.blogspot.com/

Holly Salinas (Olmstead)

March 21, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Frazier, Jessica, Katherine, Zachary and Daniel,
I am so, so sorry about Jacob's death. I'm an old friend of Jessica's, from our Medina days. I was looking for her on the internet on a whim and found Jacob's obituary. Jessica, you will always hold a special place in my heart. To know the sadness you and your family have gone through pains me deeply. I love you and I'm praying for you.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

November 13, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Frazier family in the loss of Jacob. I did not know Jacob, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jacob it has been over 4 years since you were taken. Please know that you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

November 12, 2007

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt Frazier!

October 18, 2007

Hello:
You do not know me but I left a tribute for your family member at an earlier date. The reason for my note is to let you know of a group of people who are willing to do portraits of fallen soldiers in wood free of charge. If your family is interested you can visit their website at [email protected]. I became aware of this site when I tried to do something special for my son's best friend's mother (my son's best friend was KIA 7/6/07, he was 18). Some of you may have already had this done but for those who did not and would like to, please contact them they are wonderful people.

God bless you and I am so sorry for your loss. Your HERO will never be forgotten.

Althea Barrett, Proud mother of a Soldier - currently stationed in Germany.

Sue Rozycki

August 22, 2007

Jacob was among the many true American heroes we have lost in all conflicts. Even though I did not know Jacob, I feel a certain closeness, since I stitched a counted cross-stitch piece for his family in the Remember Our Heroes project. Sadly, I have do not have an address for his next of kin. If anytone has this information and can email it to me, it would be most appreciated, so I can get the piece to its rightful owners. Thank you.

August 3, 2007

If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guest book for the rest of my life, but I promised Le Ron A. Wilson (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

July 5, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt Frazier and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

MGK

March 24, 2007

I was freinds with Jacob when we were children in Medina, OHIO. God bless him, and may god bless his family with life..........

Alyson McInerney

December 22, 2006

I came across Jacob Frazier's guest book as I have other friends who have died in combat with similar books. Jacob touched my life and I still think of him often. God Bless

J. Kosby

December 10, 2006

I did not know Staff Sgt. Frazier, however I came across this page, and would like to offer my solomn thankyou to him and a prayer for all those who knew him.

Amy Vala

September 29, 2006

hello all from the near past. I used to sit next to Jake in history and a couple other classes in our sophomore year. In history class we both had the same pair of hiking boots on from wal mart and relished in the fact that they were so cool. Sifting back and forth with some notes he asked me to homecoming and I had to say no even though i wanted to go - my boyfriend was in another state at the time. He always had a smile and even though I have not seen him since those days behind desks..my heart goes out to his family for their incredible and undescribeable loss. My brother had also left this plain in 2001 at the age of 26. I imagine they are hanging out together for they had similar spirits. May you all be fortunate in each day you are reminded of him and how you learned to appreciate life just a little more with his sacrifice for us all. Love to all that knew him and may you all hold a little special place in his heart. As he does in mine. Amy Vala

Garnet Jenkins

September 28, 2006

In remembrance of Staff Sgt. Jacob L. Frazier, may he rest in the Loving Care of God and know that he is a True American hero, that shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
I Pray that God's Grace and Comfort will continue to be with the Frazier family.
There will never be enough ways,
to humbly thank these Heroes,
for their Supreme Sacrifice,
my brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.

" What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose,
for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us"
~ Helen Keller ~

May your memories of Jacob, live in your heart always.
I am so sorry for your loss.

B E

May 30, 2006

I received a challenge coin this weekend in D.C. that has a note in memory of Ssgt. Jacob L. Frazier on it. I just wanted to let it be known that his sacrifice is not forgotten and my thoughts are with any of his family that reads this. The military has not forgotten him and his support to the SF forces is remembered.

joanne wiersema

May 12, 2006

gone but not forgotten,i didnt personally know jake but i was at his funeral with s.manfre. everyday you remain in our thoughts and prays god bless you and all the troops....god speed

Jack Frazier

January 12, 2006

Part of the Frazier Clan from Southern Missouri in Carter County.

Sonia and Scott Lange

October 28, 2005

We are still thinking about you everyday. We miss you!

Beth Rosenberg

August 3, 2005

You don't know me. I grew up in IL.. Elk Grove Village area. I am married to a TSgt in the AF. He thankgod has not had to deploy. He is a COMSEC manager. I have been married for only 3 yrs this Dec and the military is a fairly new animal to me. We spoke and decided we wanted to get the MIA/KIA bracelets to honor the ultimate sacrifice these men and women make for our freedoms. I received mine today and it has Jacobs name on it. I feel honored to wear it and will wear it with pride. I am reading everything I can to educate myself on this young man. My oldest is 18 just a few yrs younger than Jacob. God Bless this family and God Bless Jacob. THANKYOU..



Mrs. Beth Rosenberg

David Beem

July 31, 2005

To the family of SSgt frazier. I am so sorry for your great loss, although he is in gods hands he will be missed. I was in the same job in the Air Force and I know what kind of a man it takes to be a ROMAD. Although never meeting Jacob his loss to me is that of loosing a brother. God Bless you all.

Jennifer Zywiciel

July 7, 2005

Jake, There is not one day that goes by that I don't think of you. I think of the funny things you'd say, the wonderful things you'd do for people, and the huge heart you had, but most of all I think of what you really did for "us." (Meaning, the people of the USA)

Everytime I start to miss Doug when he's gone , I think of you and I remember what he's fighting for. Thank you Jake, and please keep watch over Doug until he returns home.

LENORE

May 26, 2005

I ACCIDENTALLY CAME ACCROSS JACOB'S OBITUARY, BUT THOUGHT I WOULD SEND MY CONDOLENCES. I CAN ONLY IMAGINE THE PAIN YOU ARE FEELING AS I HAVE JUST LOST MY MOTHER AND MY FATHER IS TERMINALLY ILL. I HAVE A 16 YEAR OLD SON AND PERHAPS YOUR SACRIFICE WILL MAKE IT POSSIBLE THAT I WILL NOT HAVE TO FEEL THE SAME PAIN OF LOSING A SON. I WILL KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS. GOD BLESS.......

Franciska Blankenfeld

May 26, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with SSgt Frazier's family during this Memorial Day. I will forever be grateful to him for preserving & securing the ideals of our great nation. God Bless.



CMSgt Franciska Blankenfeld

USAF

Eric Goff

March 8, 2005

It has been nearly two years now, and I still think of Jake almost every day. We shared many good times, both in Burlington and Bloomington, and he is responsible for bringing me together with the woman I am marrying. I can only hope that I am able to see him again someday to thank him.

Adam Vaughan

March 1, 2005

Jacob, you were my closest friend in Basic and I am deeply saddened by you leaving us. You are truly the hero that we all wish to be. Miss you man.

"First In"

Cary B

March 30, 2004

A year later my heart is still heavy. Jake was friends with my daughter Jessica S., had been to our house for meals, hung out, etc. He was a great kid and turned into a wonderful man. We are all proud of him and thankful for his efforts.

Taylor Huellemeier

May 25, 2003

I am so sorry for your loss. I am a former graduate from Burlington and my heart is with you all in this time of need. Stay strong and God bless. Jake will always be in my prayers.

Gail Joyce

April 8, 2003

We regret that we never got to meet Jacob. Through circumstances beyond anyone's control, we lost touch with our niece, Jessica Fregin. It has been only recent that we once again have been in contact. We were deeply saddened when we received the news. Our deepest sympathy to your family.

Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.



Gail Joyce (Jessica's Aunt)

Alberta Trojanowski (Grandmother)

Victoria Villaflor

April 7, 2003

I am saddened to hear of your family's loss. I did not know SSG Frazier but my brother Dean Meucci II is a pilot in the Peoria Air National Guard and currently in the middle east. Your son, brother, fiance was an honerable man who made the ultimate sacrifice for this great country. He did not die in vain. If it were not for those unselfish and patriotic American's like SSG Frazier we would not be able to have the freedom and safety we all take for granted. I appreciate all that SSG Frazier did for our country. I hope that your entire family can remember all the good in Jason's life to guide you through this difficult time. Please extend my deepest condolences to your entire family and know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grieving.

Richard Price

April 7, 2003

Jim and Joyce,



I grieve for your loss. I'm so sorry we haven't seen each other over the past years. Give my regards and condolences to your mom and dad. My son Garry who is 20 is enlisting in the Navy and hopes to be a Marine chaplain. My parents and all of potluck would have been so proud of Jacob. We all grieve for you. Jacob died protecting not only us now but our way of life for succeeding generations. God Bless the whole Frazier clan.



Rick(y)

J

April 7, 2003

I regret that I never got the chance to meet Jacob Frazier. I am a member of his unit in Peoria, IL. Though we never met, through the eyes of all who loved and knew him, I also feel a sense of loss. He made the ultimate sacrifice for the sake of liberty and freedom. Godspeed, SSG Jacob Frazier.

Dave & Jennie (Quiggle) Schmidt

April 6, 2003

Sorry for your loss. Jake will be missed by all who knew him.

Our prayers are with you and your family.

George & Judy Mortimer

April 6, 2003

Joyce and Jim,

Our hearts are broken for you both.

We remember vividly Jacob's winning

smile and quick wit. We would, of

course, wish he could have been with

you for years to come, but God has

taken him home. Jacob knows now what we can only imagine about God and heaven. What a joyous reunion

awaits you both dear friends. But please know that we share your sorrow. Please convey our deepest

sympathy to Jessica, Kathryn, Daniel

and Zachary.

Love, George and Judy

Bree Bartell

April 6, 2003

I wish to extend my deepest sympathy to the Frazier family. Although I only know him through the media coverage, I am extremely touched by his ultimate sacrifice. Thank you Jacob for following your heart and making our country a safer place. My gratitude pales to your courage. God Bless you and your family.

Mike and Beverly Quiggle

April 6, 2003

Our hearts go out to you in the time of your great loss. May God be with you.

Diane Mitchell

April 6, 2003

Our sympathies to the Frazier family. Our daughter attends college with Zach and Dan. Ever since we were notified of Jacob's death, you have all been in our thoughts and prayers. You can hold your memories close to your heart and be proud of a son who was protecting our freedom. God bless you all.

The Mitchell Family

Paul Reedy

April 5, 2003

Jake was a fine young man. Doing what he wanted to do. Ridding the world of evil people. He will be greatly missed. God Bless his family and the men and women who are fighting for our Freedom

Sgt. Doug Zywiciel

April 5, 2003

To Jake:I will always cherish the talks.....about SK, how we hated drill weekend, and how much we love our families, and of course our girls. But most of all I will miss the "HERO" you have forever become. I always saw it in your eyes. Jake ,thank you!

Peter and Linda Cirzan

April 5, 2003

We are so saddened by your loss. You have our deepest sympathy.

stephanie

April 5, 2003

i remember jake from high school he was a year younger than me. i have a brother in the military so hearing this really hit close to home. i offer my deepest condolences to you and your family. and i will continue to pray each and every day for jake and the rest of the boys serving our country.

Dennis Liss

April 4, 2003

I did not know you or your son Jake

but I wish to express my condolences

for his loss and I would thank him for the ultimate sacrifice he made to keep us all secure in this great country. Thank You Again

Keri

April 4, 2003

I am so sorry for your loss. Jake will be missed by many.

Kelly

April 4, 2003

My heart goes out to your family. Thank you to your son for making the ultimate sacrafice for his Country. May God bless your family and his memory.

Kathy Buckley

April 4, 2003

I too have lost a son 5 months ago; not to War but I can say I know your pain; time and family will help you heal; God bless your family for you have suffered the ultimate sacrifice; your son did not die in vain. May he rest in peace.

Kristal

April 4, 2003

I give my deepest condolences to the Frazier family.

Anne Sulskis

April 4, 2003

Our deepest sympathies on your loss of Jake. Jake was a hero in our books and died protecting our freedom! The boys will always remember him and the fun times they had when he babysat for them. God Bless You and Jake!

Katie

April 4, 2003

My condolences to your family. His bravery and sacrifice were not in vain.

April 4, 2003

May God Bless You and Your Family.

Rob Bohanek

April 4, 2003

Thank you for your service to our country. Thank you for protecting us. May God bless you and your family.

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