Singer, Hortense G. philanthropist, civic activist, and longtime patron of the arts in Chicago and Rancho Mirage, California died of natural causes Sunday. She was at her Rancho Mirage home surrounded by family and friends after celebrating her birthday the previous day. Known for her vitality, straight talk, style and zest for life, she lived her last day to the fullest, including a mid-morning swim, a dinner out with friends in a smart blue suit, and a theater performance. Hortense Singer, known as Horty, was born in Chicago and had a lifelong love affair with the city. She never tired of gazing out the window of her Lake Shore Drive apartment, marveling at the wondrous skyline she saw change and grow taller and wider year after year. The annual summer air shows over Oak Street beach and the fireworks at Navy Pier left her breathless. She was a favored regular at the Drake Hotel's Club International for nearly a half a century, and proudly boasted that she was one of the first female members there in her own standing. The architecture, the people and the food of Chicago engaged her, particularly Gibson's restaurant on Rush Street. She was a lifelong member of Temple Shalom, Chicago Sinai Temple, the Standard Club and Bryn Mawr Country Club and a patron of the University of Chicago Hospital. She attended Depaul University. She knew every quadrant of the city, from North to South, from rib joints to fancy fare and regaled visitors with her stories of this ever-changing vibrant place. She had friends in many circles, including presidents, business luminaries, artists and actors, but more than anything else, she loved to spend time with her son and daughter, her five grandchildren and seven great grandchildren. She was a Century member of Tamarisk Country Club in California. In California and Chicago, she made her presence known with her generous philanthropy, her devotion to the arts, education and the enchanting parties she loved to throw for her many friends. Most recently last November, she surprised guests with a performance by her friend, renowned piano player and songwriter, Marvin Hamlisch. She and her husband, Joseph L. Stone, were founding members of the Chicago Museum of Contemporary Art and she continued her work for the museum on the board of directors throughout her life, advocating for many up-and-coming artists who would otherwise never have been recognized. In October 2007, the museum dedicated the Hortense G. Singer/ Joseph L. Stone family gallery. She also was the longest-serving trustee of the Palm Springs Art Museum. She and her then- husband, Leo Stanton Singer donated the Leo Singer Miniature Gallery. She was a member of the museum¹s President¹s Circle, and Legacy Circle and has been a Gala Patron donor for many years. She was a distinguished founder and trustee of the McCallum Theater in Palm Springs, as well as a President's Circle Member and Gala Patron donor for many years. She was a President¹s Circle and donor to the College of the Desert. She was a major donor to the Eisenhower Medical Center, and recently announced a gift to fund the nurse's station of the 24/7 unit of Eisenhower Medical Center. She was a member of the Jewish Federation of the Desert and Jewish Federation in Chicago for many years. She was preceded in death by her husbands Joseph Leonard Stone and Leo Stanton Singer and her brother, Lawrence Gates and sister, Meta Gross. She is survived by her son, William A. Stone and his wife, Mary Stone; her daughter Susan Jacobs and her husband Dr. Robert Jacobs; her granddaughter Pamela Ryan, her husband Michael Ryan and their children, Rebecca, Matthew and Emily; granddaughter Deborah Godchaux and her husband, Erik Godchaux, and their daughter Leah; grandson William A. Stone Jr., his wife, Carolyn Stone and their daughters, Taylor and Sammy; granddaughter, Joanne Pandey and her husband, Deven Pandey and their son Akash; and granddaughter Mary Shwayder. Expressions of sympathy may be made to: The Museum of Contemporary Art in Chicago, The Jewish United Fund of Chicago, the McCallum Theatre in Palm Springs or the Palm Springs Art Museum. Services will be Friday May 16, 2008, 10:30 a.m. Central Daylight Time at Chicago Sinai Congregation, 15 West Delaware Place, Chicago, IL. Entombment at Rosehill Mausoleum will follow.

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Dolly Moreno
May 17, 2008
Horty was a dear, wonderful friend.
She helped me in many ways in my career and I am what I am thanks to her. It will be impossible to forget her.
Dolly Moreno Sao Paulo Brazil
Donna & Cargill MacMillan
May 16, 2008
Hortense Singer~
Stars of Stars! We will always see you shining in the night.
Your dear friends,
Melissa Kenly
May 16, 2008
Aunt Horty's vivacious spirit, love of life...and fun...and colorful stories will truly be missed. She was an exceptional woman who taught me about loving and living life to the fullest no matter how old you are. She will be missed dearly.
Love,
Melissa Kenly
(Freddy's daughter)
Karen & Tony Barone
May 15, 2008
We the artists have lost a great patron. Hortense enriched all of R lives with her generosity. Her enthusiasm was energizing & her smile was electrifying. Her passing has created an immense void - R sincerest sympathy 2 her loving family.
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Mary Silver
May 15, 2008
Dear Horty:
You were truly the Grande Dame of the desert. A beautiful presence every time we met at any occasion. Your smiling face will be greatly missed. It was a pleasure to know you.
Mary Silver
simons .lucet sharon /francois
May 15, 2008
Dear Hortense,
You will always be close to us, your smile,
your generosity to everyone was incroyable,
tu vas nous manquer , ton sourir ,ta chaleur sera toujour pres de nous.
we love you.
Sharon & francois
Paul Nebenzahl
May 15, 2008
Horty:
It was my great pleasure to be your guest in California, on the golf course at Tamarisk, and to hear your stories of the Marx Brothers chatting over the hedge...you were a gracious host and a true patron of the arts. I send my condolences to your extended family and dear friends, and will always remember your hospitality and friendship.
Rest in peace.

P.J. Nachman (Nephew)
P.J. Nachman
May 14, 2008
You were loved and cherished by all who were fortunate enough to be part of your wonderful life, Horty. I will fondly remember our conversations over lunch at the club, getting your valued read on my prospective mates, and your spirit and enthusiasm for life, love and family. Always, P.J.
Don & Jeannette Reuben
May 14, 2008
We were deeply shocked and grief stricken at Horty's sudden death. She had all the virtues; she was truly a lady in every sense of the word. She loved life and lived it to the fullest. She touched many deeply and in so many ways. She will truly be missed.
Our profound sympathy to her family who she spoke of often and loved dearly.
Taylor Stone
May 14, 2008
We will always love you Nana!
Love, Taylor (10) & Sammy (8) Stone
Ann & Bob Byfield
May 14, 2008
We are deeply saddend by the passing of dear Hortense. She was a
wonderful lady and will be missed very much.
She knew the Byfield family from the
Ambassador/Sherman Hotels
and Aunt Margaret for many years.
Our condolences to her family.
We have all lost a great lady.
Ann & Bob Byfield
Glenda Pence
May 14, 2008
I was Dr. Joseph Kirsner's secretary for five years. I knew Mrs. Singer quite well. I am sure she will be greatly missed.
Max Harry Weil, MD
May 14, 2008
My condolences and respectful regards to the Stone and Jacobs families on the death of Hortie who was a remarkably vibrant, inspiring, and generous lady.
Tony Nachman
May 14, 2008
From golf cart rides as a toddler to walking down the isle at my wedding, Aunt Horty is deeply missed and fondly remembered.
Our heartfelt thoughts are with everyone at this time.
With love,
Tony, Mydung and Sophie Nachman
(Fred Nachman's son)
Emmett Peck
May 14, 2008
It was Hortie that introduced my wife Nancy to me 18 years ago and I am forever grateful.
Michael Braudy
May 14, 2008
Dear Gates and Singer Families,
I extend my condolences for your loss and your sorrow over cousin Horty's passing. I knew her my whole life and knew her as a gentle sole and a kind spirit. She was always very colorful and vibrant. I wish you all the best.
Regards,
Michael
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