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Gabriel Harper Obituary

Harper, Gabriel age 28, cherished son of Sandra (nee Michaelis) and Wendell, adored father of Dylan, loving brother of David Michaelis, Michael (Georgia) Harper, Doreen Harper-Mullins, Matthew (Beth) Harper and Sarah (Shannon) Walker, also survived by many nieces and nephews. Visitation Friday, 1 p.m. to 9 p.m., at the Damar-Kaminski Funeral Home & Crematorium, 7861 S. 88th Ave. (2 mi. West of 79th & Harlem), Justice, IL, where funeral service will be held on Saturday, at 10 a.m. Interment Fairmount-Willow Hills Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Dylan Harper Bank Account c/o First Midwest Bank, 1888 E. Lincoln Hwy., New Lenox, IL, 60451, attn: Robert Bennett appreciated. 708-496-0200 or damarkaminskifuneralhome.com

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times from Nov. 25 to Nov. 26, 2008.

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D Harper

November 22, 2025

17 years have gone by, but not one day has Gabriel left my thoughts! I love my brother till we meet again in the sky! Oh what a day!

Doreen Harper

August 8, 2025

Happy Birthday Gabe! I love and miss you! There is not a day that you are not in my thoughts. I am grateful for the 28 years that I was blessed with! When we all get to heaven what a day of rejoicing that will be!

Doreen Harper

November 19, 2024

Always in my thoughts and my heart. I was able to share memories about Gabriel this month! A lot of tears and laughter.
It is well, with my soul! It is well, it is well with my soul!

Doreen Harper

August 8, 2024

Another year time goes by without you in our lives. Our ups and downs of life. Heart breaking times and joyful moments. But my faith and trust is in the Lord. Happy Birthday Gabe Always & Forever

Doreen Harper

November 21, 2023

I miss you I love you I will see you again.

Doreen Harper

November 19, 2022

14 years and not a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts and memories. I am old now and still remember you in my arms rocking you and kissing you. I now work shoulder to shoulder with Dylan and tell him stories about you lol he definitely thinks I am crazy . He is a good young man a heart like yours and is a great son to Dez. When you died Gabe I lost a bother but also a great friend. To know you was to have a "true friend"
This life is so temporary and we will be in glory together forever. I will see you when we are called up to honor our King! Till then I will keep spreading the good news

Doreen Harper

November 22, 2021

Another year goes by but not a day that you are not in my thoughts. Love you and miss you can´t wait for our Grand Reunion

Doreen Harper

August 8, 2021

Happy Birthday in heaven! I love and miss you! Always and forever we will be together.

Gabriel and Tommy

Doreen Harper

November 22, 2020

Brother,
Another year goes by and every day I miss you more. Love you and know we will be together forever. ❤

Doreen Harper

August 8, 2020

Happy 40th Birthday in heaven!!

Doreen Harper

August 8, 2019

Happy Birthday Love and miss you!!

Doreen Harper

April 15, 2019

❤Love you forever and Ever❤

Doreen Harper

December 15, 2017

Love you!! Always and Forever

Doreen Harper

August 8, 2016

Happy birthday Gabriel love you Always and Forever.

Doreen Harper

August 8, 2015

Happy birthday brother!!
Always and forever

January 22, 2015

My brother I miss you. Not 1 day goes by I don't say your name or think about you. I love you more than ever and I wanted to tell you I love you- Matt

Doreen Harpoer

November 22, 2014

Always and Forever Gabriel. always in my heart and mind. Sister

November 3, 2014

Just thinking of you :) TT

its me travis grilli and im 18 looking for this side of my family and would love to have this part of my family in my life contact me on facebook

travis grilli

June 16, 2014

Matthew

November 22, 2013

Five years ago I lost my best friend & my brother. Not 1 day has gone by that your not in my thoughts or conversation. Every November 22 is just a reminder of how lucky I am to have you in my life- you will never be forgotten ever. Pop is there with you now and you guys are catching up on lost time! Love you brother!

Doreen Harper

November 22, 2013

Well another year has gone by and every day you are in my thoughts. I love you and can't wait to be with you. You are still soooooooooooo missed. I love you brother.

November 22, 2012

Thinking of you and your family with a heavy heart. May peace and love find them today and everyday knowing that one day they will see you again. Until then may love and God touch your brother who misses you more than ever.

Doreen Harper-Christensen

November 22, 2012

I love you

November 22, 2012

Remembering you today and thinking of your family. I hope they all have a blessed thanksgiving.

Dean

November 1, 2012

I dont have any siblings & losing you was devastating & I'm glad I have so many stories to share with family & friends till I see you again.

July 16, 2012

I see you everyday when I wake up and wish I and a very special little boy could have known what a wonderful man you were. Your brother loves you more than you could ever know.

Sister

June 30, 2012

I love you and miss you:(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((

Doreen Christensen

November 22, 2011

Today is the day, 3 years ago that Gabriel went to be with Jesus!!!!!!Amen

Doreen Christensen

August 8, 2011

Happy Birthday My Love, My Brother in my heart forever.

July 4, 2011

Happy 4th of July Brother I miss you and love you Always & Forever

March 29, 2011

Gabriel,,

I miss you so much.....Im sitting here just thinking about all the good memories we have.... I wish you were here with me... I think about you everyday and every minute.... I love you and miss you brother.... I hope your looking down and me because i still need you.......

KATHY SERRATT

November 22, 2010

I'M SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.I KNOW THE PAIN IS UNBEARABLE.WITH STRENGTH AND LOVE FROM FAMILY AND FRIENDS, IT WILL GET EASIER.

Sister Doreen

November 22, 2010

I love you always and forever Gabriel.

Thomas Ibarra

September 15, 2010

i love you gabe and i will always miss and think about you every time i pray i tell god to tell you i say hey i no u hear me tell you that but you were more then a uncle to me you and matt was like a father figure to me when i was growing up and i always wanted to do what my uncles was doing when i was little but now im grown and i am always going to keep your name high and never forget about my UNCLE but more like a father to me because that what you were!! cant wait to see you in heaven!! Im happy to get my looks from you too

Doreen Christensen

August 8, 2010

Oh how I love Jesus, I still think about Gabriel everyday,I am overcome with deep grief as if it was yesterday a great loss in my soul.But my comfort comes from The Lord Jesus Christ and my hope is in Christ I can live on this earth knowing that Jesus is King!!!!! And I am free in Christ and will be with him in heaven praising his name,Close your eyes when you think Of Gabe and picture him in your mind praising God, that is Gods plan for all of us to be with Christ in glory.

March 15, 2009

my loving brother!

March 15, 2009

Doreen Mullins

February 4, 2009

My Dear Brother
Gabriel,
Oh how I love you, every minute of my day is thinking about you. I can't wrap my mind around any of this, my pain is so deep but my love is forever. All I know is God will use this for his glory. My thankgiving is how Christ will work this all out. Let a good work be done in the name of the King Jesus Christ!!! May we all strive to do the work of the LORD, All things will work out for the glory of the Lord according to His purpose for those who love Him and the Lord knows that Gabriel loves him.

Matthew Harper

January 25, 2009

Gabriel Harper (My Brother)

Its been over 2 months and not 1 second have I forgotten about you. I want you to know that I love you so much and I cant stop thinking about you and wanting you next to me every minute.(But really if you had a choice to be next to me or God you would choose God:>)) I wake up every morning waiting to hear your voice and I wait and wait and wait. So when i dont hear it I go to all the great memories we had together and i hear that happy voice you always had when you where happy. Gabriel I know by your faith in Christ you are in Heaven. The life we had here was short but BROTHER we will have eternity together. I love you so much and I miss you. (MY PROMISE TO YOU ALWAYS WAS I WILL MAKE SURE DYLAN WILL BE TAKEN CARE OF IF SOMETHING HAPPEN TO YOU) I will keep my promise. One thing I ask you,when i greet you in heaven have that smile on your face that I remember and your nose flaring of excitement and arms open. BECAUSE I WILL BE THERE WITH YOU!

January 24, 2009

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James

January 24, 2009

I was hopin it would be ok to sign in more than once on this guest-book. I think it would be nice to make it as a little diary about our feelings as the time goes by. I just needed to express a few feelings i've had in the past 2 months. I'm sure we all share the same feeling of emptiness. I have to say that my life definently has a void that is very hard to fill. It's not my intention to fill this void with things that are not sincere,being that was the type of man Gabriel was. But i firmly believe now that it will never be filled. I'm constantly reminded of the good times we all shared together. I also think of the ways i could have made things in our lives different. I struggle with the fact that I had an influence on people and I never used it in a positive way. For that I apoligize. Some may not understand these things i speak of,but others will. But i do know that Gabriel left a huge impact on my life and he knows what that was. Again some may not know what i speak of,but you will. So for now i'm gonna go but know this, you are a part a my heart FOREVER.

January 23, 2009

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January 23, 2009

Gabe we All love you and miss you!

January 23, 2009

Sarah Walker

January 22, 2009

Gabe,
I just wanted to tell you how much I miss you and how much I love you! It has been very hard with you not being here. And my heart has been empty since you left. My life has been turn upside down since you left us here. And we try to go on, which that I know you would want us to do. But, it is not easy. Dylan will never forget what a great father he had,cause we all will make sure of that. Dylan will know how much you loved him. And that he was your best friend. And how much you did for him. He will be the man that you would want him to be. Gabe I love you and I miss you everyday.

Love your sister,
Sarah

Christine Fox

January 12, 2009

Hi Gabe,
I hope this is ok to do...
I just wanted to stop in and tell you that I'm missing you :(. I think of you every day, but today I can't think of anything else! I know we didn't spend every weekend together, or talk all the time, but you were honestly one of my only true friends! I know that you already know that, but I wanted to say it. I am so thankful that we were able to spend that one last night together. I had a really good time that night, laughing, crying, talking, joking...And thank you for listening to me and comforting me that night.
Jenah talks about you all the time, and still refers to you as Gaby Baby which I think is so cute. Well...I'm gonna go for now. I love you and I miss you...XoX.

Gabriel Harper

December 29, 2008

My name is also Gabriel Harper 27. I'm sorry to hear for his loss my friends couldn't believe what they heard I had about a dozen calls asking me if I was okay. I wish his family and friends well

Cindy Schander

December 9, 2008

I'm sorry I never had the chance to meet Gabe, but I heard so much about him from Yvette, and through her I can see what a very special person he was. I know Yvette cared a great deal for Gabe and my heart aches for the loss she is experiencing. I will keep them both in my prayers as well as the whole family.

please follow

November 30, 2008

Please remember the good times everyone had with Gabe! He loved everyone and please remember that Gabe had a personal relationship with the lord and that he is in a way better place than this place called earth which is hell. Love all

stacey oconnell

November 30, 2008

god bless to you and your family. so sorry about your loss

JUST ANOTHER ONE OF THE GOOD TIMES!

JIMMY FOX

November 30, 2008

THERE WERE SO MANY WORDS LEFT UNSPOKEN.BUT THE BOND BETWEEN US REMAINS UNBROKEN.

YOU SHOWED ME THINGS YOU'LL NEVER KNOW,AND SHOWED ME THE LIGHT THAT WILL ALWAYS GLOW.

YOU ALWAYS KNEW HOW TO MAKE US FEEL,THAT THE LOVE IN YOUR HEART WAS SO FOR REAL.

THERE WAS NEVER A TIME THAT COMES TO MIND,YOU THOUGHT OF YOURSELF AND LEFT US BEHIND.

WILL TEACH TO YOUR SON THE MAN YOU WERE,BUT WE'LL NEVER REPLACE YOU AND THATS FOR SURE.

I WISH THERE WAS SOMETHING THAT I COULD DO, TO MAKE THIS MOMENT ALL BUT TRUE.

BUT I KNOW IN MY HEART I'LL SEE YOU AGAIN,AND AS FAR AS OUR FRIENDSHIP THIS IS NOT THE END.

I HAVE TO GO NOW IM STARTING TO CRY,DONT LAUGH AT ME WHILE I SAY GOOD BYE.

GABRIEL,
YOU MENT MORE TO ME THEN ANYONE WILL EVER KNOW AND ITS REALLY A SHAME I DIDNT TELL YOU ENOUGH. YOU WILL REMAIN A PART OF ME UNTIL THE DAY YOU GREET ME IN HEAVEN.
LOVE TILL THEN,
JIMMY FOX

Teri Fenili

November 30, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Christine Fox

November 29, 2008

Gabe, I will miss you every day of the rest of my life. I am so thankful for the times I was able to share with you. Mr. & Mrs. Harper, Sarah, Matt, Mike, Doreen and most of all Dylan, I will keep you in my prayers. May God give you the strength to get through this difficult time. I love you all.
I LOVE YOU GABRIEL!!!!!

Jenah Fox

November 29, 2008

I'm gonna miss you and we had lots of fun times together and I miss you and I miss you and I miss you.

trishelle milinkovic

November 28, 2008

Matt,
I know how strong you and Gabes bond was. There are lots and lots of wonderful memories that the two of you have shared. I am so sorry that you are going through this. You have my deepest sympathy and may god bless you and your family.

Nick Bargas

November 28, 2008

My condolences go out to his family and close friends. I am friends with Jimmy & Michelle Fox, I had the pleasure of meeting Gabe a few times. God bless everybody in this sad time.

Adam Chase

November 27, 2008

I love ya Gabe. You may be gone but you will never be forgotten. You were my little bro i never had. Sandy, Wendell, Matt, Michael, Sara, Doreen and most important Dylan, my heart is with you and i love you guys. R.I.P. Gabe. See ya soon.

EDWARD LAWLER

November 26, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jaime Murillo

November 26, 2008

Matt,
My condolences go out to you and your family through this difficult time. Be strong and may God bless you and your entire family.

Courtney Vaughn

November 26, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jennifer Bakalar - MDS

November 25, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Sally Cronk

November 25, 2008

Beth and Matt,
We are so sorry about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Love, The Cronks (Jay and Sally)

Richie Klepczaarek

November 25, 2008

My condolences to the Harper family.
Rest in Peace my friend,you will be missed by many

Sheri Overfelt

November 25, 2008

My heart, my sympathy, and my condolences go out to you.

Shawn O'Marrah

November 25, 2008

My deepest sympathy goes to the Harper family. Not only did we lose a loving brother but also a great friend. Gabe would do everything and anything to help those he cared about. In the words of Gabe and may my words go beyond the sky and meet his ears in heaven,"I love you like a brother," and you will always be missed and remembered in the hearts of those you touched. Rest In Peace brother I love you.

Rebecca O'Marrah

November 25, 2008

My deepest sympathy goes out to all of Gabriel's family. I know my husband, Patrick, cared for him like a brother. I can't imagine what you are going through, and even though we can not be there to pay our respects, you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Jessica Roman

November 25, 2008

Please accept my deepest and heartfelt condolence at this most challenging time. May the love of family and friends comfort you. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. With my deepest sympathy and may Gabe rest in peace.

Dean & Keri Van Kuren

November 25, 2008

We are deeply saddened by the loss of our dear friend Gabe, he will be missed.. Are thoughts and prayers go out to all his family..

Jo Anna Novak

November 25, 2008

DYLAN,
I am sorry about your loss. I'm sure you're too young to understand all that's going on right now, but just remember you are loved. And live your life to make gramma and daddy proud by being the best you can be. You are in my thaughts and prayers. Love Always, Big Jo

Joanne (Kulis) Borner

November 25, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. I did not know Gabriel, but I too lost my son this year and I can relate with your heartbreak. If I can be of any help to you or you need someone to talk with, please don't hesitate. May your memories be of some comfort and may God bless you.

Patrick O'Marrah

November 25, 2008

Gabe was like family to me. It hurts he is gone, he will be missed and always remembered.

Perkins Stanley

November 25, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Burns Ed & Bernie

November 25, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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