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Dolores Pender Obituary

Pender, Dolores H. (nee Paluch) Beloved wife of the late James H. Pender Sr. Loving mother of James Jr. (Liz) Pender, Timothy (Tina) Pender, Matthew (Trish) Pender, Maureen (Dan) McCafferty, Mary Margaret (Bill) Wells, Marie (Garry) Bernier, Daniel (Karen) Pender, Mary Ellen (Jerry) Grosz, Rosemary (Greg) Kirwan, Michael (Leanne) Pender, Ann Marie (Bill) Allpow, Mary Frances (Rich) Luzzo, Mary Beth (Jack) Boyle, Donna Marie (Chris) Ivers, and William (Jenni) Pender. Cherished grandmother of Christopher, Ashley, Kerry (Jon), Matthew, Katie, Ben, Anna, Kelsey, Andrew, Ian, Samantha, Rebecca, Timothy, Kristen, Christina, Allison, Ali, Hank, Daniel, Maggie, Rachel, Meghan, Abby, Matthew, Shea, Sam, Patrick, Kelly, Grace, Jack, Reagan, Elizabeth, Colin, Brigette, Sam, Lauren, Michael, Anthony, Julie, John, James, Casey, Audrey, Thomas, Caroline, Joseph, Henry, Evelyn, Sophie, Emma, and Loni (Chris). Proud great grandmother of Joseph and Aiden. Daughter of Helen Paluch Dear sister of Theresa (Duke) Bryk, Ronald (Shirley) Paluch, Thomas (Judy) Paluch, Christine (Dennis) Bulvan, James (Marilyn) Paluch Susie (Tom) Kelly, and the late Robert Paluch. Fond aunt of many nieces & nephews. Funeral Wednesday 9:30 am from Thompson & Kuenster Funeral Home, 5570 W. 95th St., Oak Lawn to Our Lady of Loretto Church for mass at 10:30 am. Interment St. Mary Cemetery. Visitation Monday from 4:00 pm until 9:00 pm and Tuesday from 2 pm until 9 pm. 708-425-0500.

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Published by Chicago Sun-Times on May 15, 2011.

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Marietta Dixon

May 10, 2012

I still miss Dolores sitting in her "assigned" place at the 8:15 Mass, and at all the funeral Masses at OLL.
Marietta Dixon

Sharon (Schroder) Burleson

May 23, 2011

Having grown up on Kolmar right down from your family, I knew your sweet mother. I am sorry for your loss. Sending my prayers to all of you

Debbie Kramer (Spakowitz)

May 22, 2011

Marie, Mary Margaret, Mary Ellen,
When I saw the story online in the Sun Times about a mother of 15 from Hometown I knew it had to be your mom. I used to work with all of you at "The Pantry" at Christ Hospital in the early 80's. I am so sorry for your loss. I remember thinking how cool it was that you all had such a big family! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

May 22, 2011

OUR MOST HEARTFELT SYMPATHY TO THE PENDER FAMILY.

TOM AND JOAN WISINSKI-PALOS PARK IL

CLASSMATE OF ST PETER AND PAUL GRADE SCHOOL

Linda-Cusick Hachigian

May 22, 2011

If you grew up in Hometown, then you knew the Penders. Sending our prayers for healing. Cindy Cusick and Linda Cusick Hachigian

Monica (Gunty) Gray

May 19, 2011

My sincere sympathies to all of the Penders and their extended families. Growing up in Hometown, if you didn't know a Pender, you had to be new to the area - - - Mr. and Mrs. Pender were icons there in all of the best ways.
Mrs. Pender was a great comfort during the time when both of my parents passed away. Saying the right thing and doing the right thing ~ which included delivering pizzas to us at the funeral home!
I'm sure they are all up in heaven looking down over all of their offspring with big, proud smiles on their faces.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of the families.
Monica (Gunty) Gray

Robert Green

May 19, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother, I grew up in hometown and know of the Pender family who did`nt who live in Homtown, your mother is in heaven getting the well deserved rest from raising such wonderful loving children, she will be missed but we all who have lost loved ones have memories that will keep us from feeling sad not having them here with us so in closing I am so very sorry about the passing of a great women

Claudia Hunter

May 19, 2011

To The Pender Family,

My deepest sympathies to you on the passing of a wonderful Mother, Grandmother and Great-Grandmother.

I had the pleasure of volunteering with Dolores at Christ Hospital. She was so proud of her family, and told me many stories about all of you. I also remember seeing her with your Dad at Veli's Kofy Kup in Oak Lawn. It seems like everyone ate at Veli's at one time or another.

I can picture Dolores up in heaven smiling and saying "I am SO proud of my kids". What a wonderfully loving family you are.

Dolores touched so many lives, and the number of people who attended her wake was a testament to that fact.

May all of the wonderful memories that you have of her help you during these difficult days.

Claudia Hunter

Lisa (D'Amore) Durcan

May 18, 2011

Rosemary, Mary Beth, Donna Marie, Bill and all the Penders,

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. No bond is as special as that between grandparent and grandchild. My deepest condolences are with all of you.

Colleen Ruane

May 18, 2011

Mary Margaret, and all of the Penders,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy on the recent passing of your mom. I'm sure she is watching over all of you now in heaven, how comforting to know you all have your own personal Angel.

May 18, 2011

Dear Jr. et all-
Sorry to hear about the death of your Mother. What a full life she lived and what a blessing all of you were to her. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
Julie Orlet-Schoen

Rick and Allison Bernier

May 18, 2011

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Valerie Hall

May 17, 2011

I didn't know Delores very well. I did know that if I wanted to know what was happening (or supposed to be) at OLL, she would know. Kind of like a guardian angel. I had a great deal of respect for her and the things that she did for the parish. To Matt and Tom, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find solace knowing she is in God's loving arms.

Mary & Tom Hart

May 17, 2011

To Bill and the entire Pender Family -
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Kathleen Porreca

May 17, 2011

Dear Anna, We are so sorry for the loss of your grandma. You know she is so proud of your graduation. Love, Kassie and Dave.

Tom Wnekiewicz

May 17, 2011

Timmy, Mikey and the Pender Family. I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Michael Cepek

May 17, 2011

To Mike and the Pender Family, we are so sorry for your loss, your mother was a very kind and friendly person that everyone knew, our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Michael Cepek and Family

Laura and Cardiac Rehab

May 17, 2011

Dear Maureen and the entire Pendar family, Delores was a lovely women who brought a special spark to our department lifting the spirits of the staff and fellow patients.She(her stories & pearls of wisdom) will be missed

Mary Campbell

May 17, 2011

You will be missed Mrs Pender

Cheryl Sutkowski

May 17, 2011

Thoughts and prayers are with all that knew Mrs. Pender. She was such a great person and OLL will never be the same. May you find peace knowing that she is now with Mr. Pender and she is no longer suffering. xoxo

Imelda Paraiso

May 17, 2011

Mary Fran and Pender family, I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you all! May GOD BLESS YOU and your family in this time of sorrow. NO MORE TEARS, NO MORE PAIN, NO MORE SORROW; she's with our Lord God now and forever in heaven for eternal life!

Bob Mitchell

May 17, 2011

Donna Marie & Family, I am sorry to read the loss of your Mom. I remember working at the Bank with you and hearing your family stories. Hold your memories close and continue to live her legacy.
In our prayers.
Bob Mitchell & Family

Joe,Michelle,Christina and Joey Ticzkus

May 16, 2011

To the entire Pender family - I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. My thoughts & prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. Mrs Pender was a wonderful women always kind to my family.

John Pender

May 16, 2011

She was a very great grandma! I miss her very much :( But at least her suffering is done and she will have everlasting life with God and Jesus. Also after ten years she will finally she my grandpa. I love you grandma!

May 16, 2011

My condolences to the entire family on the loss of a wonderful lady. She will be greatly missed. May the God of all comfort give you the strength to cope during this time of grief. (1 Peter 5:7)

Patricia Jepsen

May 16, 2011

To the Penders and Paluchs. Our deepest sympathy on the loss of Dolores. She was a great lady and will be truly missed but the memories will never go away. God Bless.

Pat, Tom Jepsen and Family

Anthony Cappetta

May 16, 2011

May your soul rest in peace Mrs. Pender. I wish all family my deepest condolences.

Jim, Jeannine, Jimmy and Tommy Small

May 16, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Gutchewsky Family

May 16, 2011

What a sweet, sweet lady. Hometown & OLL will not be the same without her!

May 16, 2011

Rosemary,
In this time of sorrow may our Lord bless you and your family with peace and comfort of his love. With deepest sympathy.
Frieda D'Amore

Mark,Kerry,Kyle and Sarah Dunleavy

May 16, 2011

So sorry to the whole Pender family for the loss of your mom,grandma,aunt and sister.She was loved by all.

Danielle Alberts

May 16, 2011

To the Pender Family- Sorry for your loss. Your mother was a sweet, sincere lady who will be truly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.

Ryan and Danielle Alberts

Jim and Denise Wienand

May 16, 2011

Though we never met you, to have a son like Mike we know that you must have been a great mom and person.We know your sons and daughters are also as kind and full of love as you. You leave this world a better place because of them. Rest in peace Mrs.Pender.

May 16, 2011

She will be greatly missed here at Our Lady of Loretto' At the May crowning yeaterday, we sang Immaculate Mary and the second line tells us where Dolores is now- "You reign now in heaven with Jesus our King."

Jessica Maier

May 16, 2011

I feel special to have met your mother, her smile will last forever, in my thoughts and prayers.

May 16, 2011

To the Pender Family - your mother was an unfogettable person and will be truly missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Kevin and Linda McSweeney, Palos Heights, IL

May 15, 2011

RON and SHIRLEY,
Sorry for your recent loss. Just know that Dolores i now in the hands of her God and a peace.
Helen Durant

May 15, 2011

Ron and Shirley,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss.
Bob and Lois

Kim Nilles

May 15, 2011

To Bill and the Pender Family, I lost my mother last year, so I know you are going through a very difficult time, and I just want to say that I am so sorry for your loss.
Kim Nilles (Malloy) and Family

Dee Sidock Fish

May 15, 2011

So sorry to hear about the loss of your lovely mother. My deepest condolences to you at this difficult time.

David Helmer

May 15, 2011

To Tim and the entire Pender Family. I am sorry for your loss. It is neverr easy to say goodbye. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!
David, Dawn and Jessica Helmer

Dan Dewan

May 15, 2011

Mo, Mags and Marie, so sorry to hear about your mother our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Father Bill, Dan, Tim and Mary Kay

Maureen McGrath

May 15, 2011

So sorry for the loss of your mom. You are in my thoughts & prayers during this difficult time.

Jim Paluch

May 15, 2011

To the Pender Family, we will miss Delores incredibly. Words cannot express the impact that she made while here on earth, she was a devoted mother and grandmother, and a beloved sister. We love you, and will keep you and your family in our prayers.

- Jim and Marilynn Paluch

We love you and miss you, Aunt Delores.
- Michelle, Kristen, Carolyn, Paul

Gail Plocharczyk

May 15, 2011

Your family is in our prayers!

Scott Plocharczyk

May 15, 2011

To Ann Marie and the entire Pender family I offer me and my family's sympathies on the passing of your mom. We had many chats way back when. She was a good lady.

May 15, 2011

For the Pender family, know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers in the loss of your Mom. Thoughts of your Mom and Dad will always bring a smile to our face. Jim & Julie Flynn, Gilbert AZ>

John and Judy Dunk and Family

May 15, 2011

Such a blessed family. Remembering your Mom for all of the devoted years she put into the Religious Education Program at OLL. You have our deepest sympathies on your loss.

Terry & Tina Kirkeeng

May 15, 2011

Mrs. Pender will always have a special place in our hearts. She was our "guardian angel" for Matt, Terry & I. She always made it better, not matter what the situation.
We will miss you Mrs. Pender.
God Bless you and all your family.

With our Love- Terry, Tina & Matt

May 15, 2011

Dan Pender. I remember you from Budget. I am sorry for your loss. Wendy Gerrick-Andrews

Chuck and Sue Lee

May 15, 2011

So sorry for your loss. Delores was one of the "specials" at Our Lady of Loretto Church. She will be missed. We will keep your family in our prayers. Chuck and Susan Lee (OLL parish).

H Gesell

May 15, 2011

Dear Jim & Liz and family - I'm sorry about your loss. Your family is in my prayers.

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