David Minet Obituary

Missing you, Cousin

Remembering you cousin. All the fun times as kids. Until we meet again... In loving memory.
Cousin Arlene

Hi Dave,

I have so many pictures of you, donna, & the girls on my wall that i look at them and i just don't want it to be true. If i see you, your still here. I don't know why god chooses to take someone with so much left to do. I know your with Uncle Pete, and he still had things left to do. You are too young to be gone. I look at your picture and I remember how close Sheba came to being killed when she bit you. Thanks for forgiving her. I'm grateful. I missed you at Christmas. That was the time I was sure to see you. It was a very empty holiday without you. Since our conversation at the hospital, I listen to your words in my head and I think, how brave you are. I am in awe of you. You faced god's challenge with such courage and class. I will always miss you, David Minet. You are now one of the souls I hold in my heart. So until we meet again, Peace be with you. I pray for Donna to stay strong. And if you could, give her your shoulder when things get tough for her. Walk with her, let her feel your with her. I know it would comfort her. God Bless You. It was a pleasure to have you in my life.

With all my love,

Aunt Ruthie

Dave, I was with you when you passed, thats something i will never forget.You were a close cousin and now your gone. This is very sad.I lost my sister so i know how Linda feels, i will help here get through this rough time, i promise you Dave.I love you and will miss you forever. Your cousin Debbie

To Dave:

My Brother, My Friend

When we were kids we used to fight

Then times we'd play and hug each other tight

Playing games together we had so much fun

Until mom would say lights out we knew the day was done

As we got older our hands we would lend

To each other, you became not only a brother but a great friend

We stood by each other thru good times and bad

There was no reason to ever be sad

Staying out late, mom and dad by the phone

Dad would say "I cant wait til you have kids of your own"!

We both got married and beautiful kids that we had

We dont want them to turn out bad..but hey if they do we'll ship them to dad..that'll make him mad

As the years went by everyhing was cool

Until you got sick and we didn't know what to do

The doctors said "this is so rare we dont have a clue"

On the weakest day of your life you kept on fighting and fighting

Even trying to get out of bed and I never thought I would love to hear you say to me "Get out of here" and hit me in the head

That was the last time we saw each other

As Donna stood by your side so did mother

I'm glad I had the chance to kiss you and say my final good-bye

You were the greatest brother and that is no lie

God took you to heaven, no more pain and misery

That the cancer had given you so now you are free

God will bring us all together someday, but for now

I love you abd I miss you that's all I can say!

Good Bye Dave

I Love You will all my heart

Your sister Linka

I didn't get a chance to know Dave well. I started working where he did only last year, and by that time he had already moved to another building. We met for staff meetings and a couple times at the bar after work. I could tell from the start though that Dave was one of the good guys, always there to help and such a nice person. It is said that the good die young, and in this case it is true. As I read through all the other comments posted here, I knew I was right about Dave. I wish I had a chance to get to know you better. You were well loved, my friend, and I will miss you.

We wish to add our condolences from all of us to the Minet family. Many years ago I seen a new baby come into my Auntie Alice and Uncle Jimmys life. I remember walking down the block from my grandmas to visit with them and see Dave. I am sorry also that we were unable to attend but some day would love to share memorys of Dave with his family.

Dave, many people go through life not realizing what a true and devoted friend really is. For over 21 years I was fortunate enough to not only consider you my best friend, but I considered you my brother. I will always remember all those times people would ask if we were brothers and you would answer, using the Three Stooges line, “ sure we are, my mother and his mother were mothers”. Your sense of humor and warm personality made everyone around you feel comfortable and at ease.

They say when someone passes it leaves a void in a persons heart. As you once told me not long ago, ”we sure shared a lot of good times together”. I will use all those memories to fill this void. The Sunday Bears games, when you made your famous Flaming Hot Chili, the 4th of July, the legacy you left at Ready Metal, and all the Cub games we went to or watched. I can honestly say I am a better person for knowing you. You will always be in my heart.

I love you buddy.

When I think about Dave, I will always remember his hearty laugh. He seemed to love being around people, and when he did he always seemed to have a good time. I'll always remember how he loved to barbecue, watch football and baseball games, play volleyball, and yes, who could forget his famous chili. His chili will never be duplicated.

It's so hard to believe he is gone. At times, when I feel sad, I try to remember all the good times or a funny little story, and I can't help but smile. Dave took along with him many memories, but he also left with us many memories which we will keep close in our hearts. Our family has truly lost a great friend. Rest In Peace Dave, we will miss you.

I’ve known Dave all my life and I’ve always known what a great guy he was, but in the past week I have learned how well loved he truly was.

I have herd so many great stories about Dave in the last couple of days. I think everyone that knew Dave has at least one great memory of him. I kept hearing stories about how no matter how many times you’d call him for help at work he was always there to help you out. Everyone also kept saying that he had such a great sense of humor. One story that was mentioned a few times was the time he shrank wrapped Jim’s car on April Fools Day.

I know he used to always have fun coming over and watching the Bears games in the winter (when he’d cook his awesome chili and crackers) or BBQing in the summer for the Cubs games.

He missed (and was missed) this 4th of July when we weren’t able to have the “typical” 4th of July day. Instead, though, we tried to remember all the fun times we had, like playing volleyball in the pool. Dave and I, usually accompanied by Heather, would try to beat the other team, and Dave would do his, always funny, comparison to the volleyball scene in the “Meet the Parents” movie.

The last thing everyone always knows about Dave is how much he loved his girls. They will always hold him close to their hearts, just as I know everyone else will.



You will always be rememebered Dave.

My Dearest Dave,



I got up today, and I cried for you. I dressed our children today and I cried for you. With every breath I take, I cry for you. I know our Lord will give me the strength to face each day, but in my dreams it will be you to wipe my tears away. Through the good and bad times, we found our way back to each others arms. Now you're gone and I'm alone. You took a part of me with you, and left a part of you behind and I will always cherish the memories that are mine.



Thank you for all the love and laughter that you had given us and until we meet again, please know that we love you and will miss you.



Forever yours,



Donna

My heart extends the deepest sympathy and prayers to the family and friends of Dave. I first met Dave on August 28, 2002, my first day of work. It can be difficult to be the "new guy" in a new environment. Given Dave's good nature, he quickly took me under his wing, showed me the ropes and made me feel comfortable. We became good friends enjoying many great moments and laughs together. After his position moved to the other building, he would call and say, "Hi William, I have a question for you." Anytime I heard my given name, I knew it was Dave. I very much appreciated his unique style. I will miss you, my good friend! I am a better person for knowning you and will cherish the fond memories.



Best to all and God bless.

Dear Alice, Jim and Linda,



My condolences to you and your family on the death of Dave. I remember him when he and Linda were little. He will always be with you in spirit.



I am sorry I was unable to attend the wake or funeral.



God Bless You All!



Mary St. John and Margaret Dryling (Pats sister and mother)

Dear David,

I have such fond memories of us as children, playing in my basement with my brother and your sister. You were the best cousin anyone could ask for. I will miss you dearly. Love always. You are with Uncle Domininc, Denise, Maryjo, and Teresa now, peace to you.

Love,

your cousin Arlene